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euniceukonu:
Am trying to fill the form from phone, but once I get to date of birth after typing it in, it will still show red x, for example I used 06/11/2016,it didn't go, I still use 6th November 2016,still didn't go through. Abeg sumone should just help me

Use 'Chrome' or 'Internet Browser' on your phone. OPERA mini can't fill the form without bouncing back. I used my native browser to fill it too.

Alhamdulilah!
Alhamdulilah!!
Alhamdulilah!!!

Camping at Umunya Camp for a good three weeks regimented life was all by God's Grace.

Serving in one of the crowded school in Onitsha, Anambra State is no play, the sacrifice of imparting to students, performing extra administrative activitiesand community development. And peacefully co-habitating with one of the best tribes in Nigeria (Igbo) was a great and second to none experience.

I give thanks to Allah for this success and breakthrough to higher grounds as I have my ' certificate of service' with no alteration or omission on it.

To God Be The Glory.

Favour Market here I come!

Thanks for this wonderful piece OP!
We pray for divine protection always.

shamecurls:
7 Children


God have mercy

When person no be rabbit

If the parents are taking care of the children and have the financial capacity to perform their parental responsibilities, what's the big deal there?

BE811APP:
Seems most jobs dis days are given if someone scarifice his/her life... Immigration job and d likes

Abi o. May God remove unemployment from our nation! AMEEN.

mavverick:
I even had a recent experience with point 3, I asked for Spanish tile, they brought BRAZILIAN TILE ! I was later told its fake and from china. When I confronted the seller that there is no such thing as Brazilian tiles (na Brazilian hair i sabi ). The guy said that only him and his brother import Brazilian tiles into the whole of Nigeria.

There are Brazilian Tiles and they are very durable, long lasting but mostly costly and hard to get (scarce).

Spanish tiles remain the best though, and some varieties of special tiles from United Arab Emirates.

ademoladeji:
1. Inna Lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un

2. Alhamdulillahi

3. Allahu Akbar

Lesson:

Death should be a daily reminder for us all. We do not know if today will be our last day in this world. Allah subhanahu wa ta`ala (exalted is He) said, “Every soul shall taste death.” Everyone’s time of death is written and only Allah (swt) alone knows when we will take our last breath.

Losing a close family member through death brings feelings of emptiness that no words can convey.

As with everything we do in this world, we should always strive to seek the reward of Allah (swt), so remember to always show kindness, especially towards those affected by the death, as it is a pain too deep for one to bear alone.

JazakAllah Khaeran OP

May Allah SWT positively reward us all both in this world and the Hereafter. Ameen

Ameen.

Jazakallah Khayran for this Reminder.

May Almighty Almighty keep you safe and increase you in all goodness. AMEEN.

SALAM ALAYKUM WARAHMOTULAH WARAHMOTULAH.

NwaNimo1:
FTC - Nothing else to say...

Praise and Thank Allah, you will be rewarded!

Subhanallah.
WalhamduliLlaah.
Walailaha illa Llaah.
Allahu Akbar.

Usman Dan Fodio (Rahimahullah).

May Almighty Allah bless his soul, grant him peace in the grave, protect his works and make him among the dwellers of Paradise.

Ameen.

Anything who talk ill about Sheikh Fodio deserves no reply, he is only being ignorant and we can only pray for such person's guidance.

Ameen.
Jazakallah Khayran.
Truly, the word of Allah is true!
Barakalahufihi @OP.

Jazakallah Khayran OP.
May Almighty Allah strengthen our Eeman and grant us Paradise. Ameen.

petengine:
The best school so far is CAE but very expensive. I recommend you go for PEA. my main reason is that; the employ their student pilots immediately after training as flight instructors. this is crucial as it will help u to build the necessary flying hours to land a flying job as a pilot. NB: while building additional hours as an instructor u also get paid at the same time. 99% of flying school pass out students after obtaining 250 hours meanwhile u need up to 500 hours to land a flying job and 1500 hours for major airlines. how then can u get the additional hours to enable you apply for jobs as a pilot? PEA answers this questions.

to answer other of ur questions u need to send me your email so I can send you a complete guide to becoming a commercial pilot. its eBook and completely free of charge.

larishekola@gmail.com

Kudos brother. God bless your efforts!

Chill.
They will pay or together with that of April (Double Allawee).
All the Best.

May Almighty Allah forgive us all and accept our repentance! Ameen.

Jazakallah Khayran for this. May Almighty Allah reward you all with goodness and paradise. Ameen.

FIRST REMINDER. Friday. 23rd day of Jumaadal Aakhir. How Important is Makkah and Madeenah  to the Muslim world? BismilLahir Rahmaanir Raheem.

Allah has made Makkah a place of resort for mankind and a place of safety and a holy sanctuary where pilgrims can gather to perform the rituals of Hajj and ‘Umrah (lesser pilgrimage) in an atmosphere of comfort and tranquility, hoping for Allah’s Reward and fearing His Punishment (Glorified be He). It is also a place where the reward for performing Salah (Prayer) and righteous deeds is multiplied.

As muslims it must be among our most important priorities to visit this country either for Hajj for all those who can afford. You can also plan Umra especially in Ramadan as a visit to gain more rewards and learn more about hajj as well. If your finance or income is good then, do not waste money travelling to any country for visit other than in Saudi Arabia to visit Makkah and Madinah with your kids etc. To visit any European country, America etc is a waste of money trust me unless for business or studies. Visit Makkah and Madeenah for a spiritual experience. Sisters should not travel alone except with their husband or adult relative or in organized group even if for Hajj.
May Allah aid us to be able to visit this blessed country. Aameen.

Please remember today is Friday and as usual perform ghusul before leaving for jumuat, clean your teeth, recite suuratul kahf, recite more salutations to the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam and go early to the masjid before the Imam comes in please. May Allah accept our acts of worship and grant us our wish only if it will be beneficial for us. Aameen.

[color=#000099][/color] "Whoever neglects three jumu'ahs in a row, (out of negligence) Allah will place a seal on his heart"

JUMU'A REMINDERS (SUNNAH)

Get Ghusul,
Do charity,
Increase Dua,
Dress up Well,
Send blessings to Prophet Muhammad ﷺ
Read Surah Al-kahf,
Cut Nails..
Perfume (for men)
Go to mosque early..
Pray 2 Sunna Raka Upon Entering mosque

Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said :

"There is an Hour on Friday that if Any muslim makes Dua in it, his Dua will definitely be accepted. .
Seek it in the last hour of Asr.."

Chuksyno:
masturbation reduces your life span by 20% but excessive fornication is worst. Best solution is keeping one's mindset away from sexual thoughts by keeping yourself busy on something useful

God Bless you for this bro., I don't know why our people keep glorifying filth and promiscuity.

What's bad is bad, no matter the large amount of people doing it!

Fornication is evil as Masturbation is evil too. Shun and get married. No one will like her daughter to be an object of fornication and sexual satisfaction.

missuniverse:
1.masturbation is an aberration

2.masturbation is war against God

3.masturbation disrupt procreation

4.masturbation is waste of sperm

perhaps fornication comprise 2,3,and 4 as the case may be, however;
masturbation is morally,socially and culturally not accepted

agree with me that some dudes get. filled with pride after making out wit some ladies,and tends to boast about it,
which guy boast to his friend after masturbating?

do you know that fornication is legal in some places?


masturbation is non ethical, its inappropriate nd highly disrespectful to oneself and others

masturbation is OBJECTIVELY wrong
fornication is not

Mention the places where fornication is legal?

agbajesaid:
I just read a post on FP concerning masturbation. I now asked myself an honest question; isn't it better to masturbate than to fornicate. Its what everyone have experienced expecially at early stage of puberty. The urge for sex increases and we are far from marriage due to age, lack of fiancee, money etc. My religion advices fasting as an alternative to fornication and masturbation but for how long? Isn't it better to masturbate than to fornicate? Asides the immorality in masturbation, is anything bad in it healthwisely and religiously? Matured opinions needed.

Your religion that Advices fasting as a sheild for you is mostly correct and valid.


Fornication is a great sin and transgressions to your Lord, don't you fear that day you will account your deeds or the day death will overtake you?

Masturbation is a great sin too. Don't you feel bad after committing these aberrations?

If your urge for sex is high, kindly get married to you fiance by meeting her dad and perfecting the Nikaah's right (Get her dad's permision, get two witnesses, give her dowry and call people for feast to to best of your ability), all these won't take you a lot of finances, it won't take you a lot to do that if you are sincere to your Lord.

If you can't fear God and get married, keep fasting as the Messenger of God Advices.

May Almighty God make it easy for you and us! Ameen.

I'm an aspiring Auditor. - Willing to learn!

CONDITIONS REQUIRED FOR INITIATING THE CONTRACT. The Eligibility Of The Couples The Bridegroom: He must be a chaste Muslim male who has attained full puberty and mental ability. It is not permissible for a non-Muslim man to be married to a Muslim woman. “And give not (your daughters) in marriage to AI- Mushrikun till they believe (in Allah Alone) and verily, a believing slave is better than a (free) Mushrik (idolater, etc.), even though he pleases you." ( Q2 [Baqarah}:221) The Bride: She should be chaste, preferably a Muslim but could be a Christian or Jew with full mental ability. She must not also be currently married to another man i.e. her womb must be free. No forbidden relationship: Both the intending husband and wife must not be related within the following forbidden marital bracket (i.e. she [or he] or she must not be one of the following to him [or her]):: mother (father), grandmother (grandfather) from both sides; daughter (son), granddaughter (grandson) and further down; sister (brother) either full or half; maternal and paternal aunt (uncle). Moreover, they must not have been breastfed by the same woman. She [or he] must also not be related to him (or her) in any of the following ways: wife of father (husband of mother) and upward in the lineage, the wife of son (the husband of daughter), the wife's mother (the husband's father) or be a daughter of his wife with whom) sexual intercourse has been enjoyed. CONDITIONS REQUIRED FOR THE VALIDITY OF THE CONTRACT The Permission of the Bride: Being one of the two main parties to the marital contract, the bride reserves the right to decide with whom she wants to spend the remaining part of her life. It is not permissible to give a woman in marriage without her knowledge and approval of it. The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ) said: "When one of you wants to give his daughter in marriage, he should take her permission." (Tabarani) This permission comes in various ways depending on the woman involved. It could be through her silence, if she is a virgin, or a verbal permission. The Prophet ( sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ) said: "Take the women's permission in regard to themselves (i.e. marriage). A non-virgin expresses herself with her tongue; and a virgin's silence is (a sufficient proof of) her acceptance. " (Ahmad) If she introduced the bridegroom in the first place as the person she would like to marry, then that suffices' as her acceptance of him. The Consent of the Wali : A woman cannot herself away in marriage. The Prophet ( sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ) said: “A marriage (contract) is not valid without a wali." (Abu Dawud) Abu Hurairah (RA) added: "For, indeed, it is an adulteress who gives herself in marriage (without her wali's consent). " (Ibn Majah) Who is a Woman's Wali?: In a normal situation, the wali of a woman is her father, if· for any reason, he cannot discharge this role, the role devolves on next closest of her mahram (grandfather, son, brother, uncle etc.) A wali must be Muslim for Allaah says: “Allaah will never grant to the unbelievers a way (of authority) over the believers." (Q4[Nisaa): 141) The next Muslim in her lineage takes over as the wali . A woman, no matter her position in the family, cannot be a wali . The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ) said: “A woman may not give another woman in marriage. " (Ibn Majah). It is not permissible for a woman to appoint a wali for herself if she does not have one. Only a constituted Muslim authority can appoint a wali for her. The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ) said: "The (Islamic) authority is the wali of the one who does not have a wali. " (Ahmad). In the absence of a Muslim authority, then the imaam of masjid may be consulted. An appointed wali 's position is not permanent, his role has ended once he discharged his obligation in the marriage contract. Witnesses: Another condition for the validity of marriage contract is the presence of two Muslim witnesses. The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ) said: “ A marriage contract is not valid without a wali and two trustworthy witnesses. " (Ahmad) The witnesses should witness and hear the entire contract's details and should, not be under any compulsion to disclose the fact of the marriage. CONDITIONS REQUIRED FOR THE SOUNDNESS OF THE CONTRACT The Mahr (Dowry): It is obligatory upon the husband to give his wife a marriage gift which is often referred to as mahr or sadaaq. Allaah says: “And give the women (upon marriage) their dowry as a free gift." (Q4[Nisaa]:4) . Even though the dowry is a significant aspect of the marriage contract, the most accurate position is that it is not a condition for its validity. A marriage can be done without specifying a mahr at the time of the contract but to be paid at a later date. The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ) said to a man: "Do you agree that I marry so-and-so woman to you ?" He replied, 'Yes.' The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ) then said to the woman, " Do you agree that I marry you to so-and-so man ?" She replied, "Yes." So he married them to each other without naming a mahr for the bride or giving her anything. When he approached death, he said: "Indeed, Allaah's Messenger (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ) gave me so- and-so in marriage but I did not then give her anything. Be my witness that I now give her as mahr my share from Khaybar." So she took it and sold it for one hundred thousand dirham." (Abu Dawud) Who takes the mahr: It is the sole right of the wife and no one can or should take it away from her. She may however remit part of it to anyone she chooses, even her husband if she desires. Kinds of Dowry: The dowry can be in money, jewelry, clothes, or other material things. It could as well be non-material such as teaching her Islaamic knowledge. It must be something that is beneficial to the woman. Amount of the dowry: The amount of the dowry should be in accordance with the husband's financial ability and with the bride's social status. This should be negotiated between the man and the woman (or her wali). There is neither an upper ceiling nor a lower ceiling for dowry, but it is recommended that the woman be easy on the man. The Prophet ( sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ) said: "The best of marriages (or dowries) are the easiest." (Abu Dawud) THE CONTRACT'S PROCEEDINGS It is recommended for whoever is conducting the marriage to begin by reciting the khutbat ul-Hajjah . The most important aspect of the marriage proceeding is the Ijab wal Qubul (offer and acceptance). The wali offers her ward in marriage to the man in words that conveys the meaning that is intended and understood accordingly by participants in the contract. The acceptance must correspond to what is being offered. If the guardian says: "I marry you to Khadijah", a response of "I accept Fatimah as my wife" would not constitute a valid contract. An exception to this is if the wali mentions a specific dowry amount and the groom responds with a higher amount. It is regarded that there is no reason for dispute since it is assumed that a higher dowry will be acceptable. The marriage must be effective immediately. If the wali says "I will marry her to you after one month", there is no marriage and the two remain unmarried. ANNOUNCING THE COMPLETION OF THE CONTRACT This is done by inviting people to walimah (feast)

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yamusa5:
Allahumma gafir lahu warham hu wa afihi wa af'anhu, wa akrim nuzulahu wagsilhu bil ma'I wal salji wal barad.

Ameen.

May Almighty Allah forgive him, grant him peace in the grave and make him among the dwellers of Paradise. Ameen.

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ﺍﻟﻠﻬُﻢَّ ﺍﻏْﻔِﺮْ ﻟَﻪُ ﻭَﺍﺭْﺣَﻤْﻪُ، ﻭَﻋَﺎﻓِﻪِ، ﻭَﺍﻋْﻒُ ﻋَﻨْﻪُ، ﻭَﺃَﻛْﺮِﻡْ ﻧُﺰُﻟَﻪُ، ﻭَﻭَﺳِّﻊْ ﻣُﺪْﺧَﻠَﻪُ،
ﻭَﺍﻏْﺴِﻠْﻪُ ﺑِﺎﻟْﻤَﺎﺀِ ﻭَﺍﻟﺜَّﻠْﺞِ ﻭَﺍﻟْﺒَﺮَﺩْ، ﻭَﻧَﻘِّﻪِ ﻣِﻦَ ﺍﻟْﺨَﻄَﺎﻳَﺎ ﻛَﻤﺎ ﻧَﻘَّﻴْﺖَ ﺍﻟﺜَّﻮْﺏُ
ﺍﻷَﺑْﻴَﺾَ ﻣِﻦَ ﺍﻟﺪَّﻧَﺲِ، ﻭَﺃَﺑْﺪِﻟْﻪُ ﺩَﺍﺭﺍً ﺧَﻴْﺮﺍً ﻣِﻦْ ﺩَﺍﺭِﻩِ، ﻭَﺃَﻫْﻼً ﺧَﻴْﺮﺍً ﻣِﻦْ ﺃَﻫْﻠِﻪِ،
ﻭَﺯَﻭْﺟﺎً ﺧَﻴْﺮﺍً ﻣِﻦْ ﺯَﻭْﺟِﻪِ، ﻭَﺃَﺩْﺧِﻠْﻪُ ﺍﻟْﺠَﻨَّﺔَ، ﻭَﺃَﻋِﺬْﻩُ ﻣِﻦْ ﻋَﺬَﺍﺏِ ﺍﻟْﻘَﺒْﺮِ ﻭَﻋَﺬَﺍﺏِ
ﺍﻟﻨَّﺎﺭ
Allah knows best!

It doest give room for people to start worshiping it, only God is worthy of worship and praise. Associating partners with God is a grievous sin!

I've been hearing about Nairaland for a long time now, I got registered some weeks back and I haven't regretted being on this forum. Though I'm still learning some crucial things on the forum.

God Bless the 'brains' behind NL!

Entrepreneurship is good but that doesn't mean that you went experience similar character from some customers or suppliers too.

Endurance is a virtue but don't take it any longer when your personal honour and dignity is being trampled upon.

I pray you get a better job soon.

Ameen.

May Almighty Allah forgive him, grant him peace in the grave and make him among the dwellers of Paradise.

Ameen.

Greene66:
Yes!

The bible never stated that we should not have sex before we get married. The Muslim book never said the same thing. Same goes with the Jewish Books (My religion precisely) and also the Hindu and Buddhist.

Of all these religion, there is no clear statement that is against premarital sex.

As such, In my opinion, premarital sex is not a crime as it's definitely not illegal neither is it a Sin!

So guys, enjoy yourselves.

P.s Adultery is a Sin and it's even illegal in some parts of U.S. I'm not sure about nigeria sha. But it should be in the north. So don't be adulterous

Have you read the Quran before making this statement? Brotherly, you shouldn't ignorantly talk about what you don't know!

Islam is against pre-marital sex, romance or other illicit acts. The only way to have sex in Islam is to get married to him or her! And the sin of pre-marital sex is 100 lashes of cane while the punishment of adultery is stoning to death (If there is up to 4 witnesses or self confession).

And Allah knows best.