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It's getting to the elites gradually. Maybe this time, they'll excalate this whole insecurity issue. Because non of them had been directly affected by it, they kept mute or only spoke without proper action. Now they can act.

Mercychen:
Look, let me not lie. I used to have that mentality of " only a man should work and cater for the family" because that was the kind of condition I was brought up. Where my dad didn't allow my Mom to work or do anything for years until our last born started school.

My dad was the only one shouldering all the financial responsibilities but My Mom on the other hand was always fighting to also get something doing but my dad would have none of it. Not until, we were all grown.

Now, growing up in that kinda setting conditioned my mind badly and I never saw the need for a woman to be financially independent. So I was always seeing Marriage as an escape from financial insecurities. Though one good thing my dad did to brake that jinx was, he made sure we worked after schooling. Like he'll practically take you to his friends ( he was highly connected) companies and tell the to fix you up with a job but within me, I'll be like if I marry all these nonsense will stop lol... Little did I know he was doing me a great deal of good.

Years down the line, after he retired and I was out of the house, staying on my own, i quarreled with my ex over money for Xmas hair because I was out of job then. So, later he came and we made up again. That night he said something very profound that changed my mentality for good.

He said, see, "J gurl" I want a working class woman. Immediately I got the message and we t job hunting.

Now, I didn't go job hunting to please him but because I knew at that instant that I was on my own! So I get to take full responsibility of myself.
His joy when I told him I had gotten a job. He surprised me in school that day.
The security man told me someone was at the gate to see me but I couldn't go and meet him. So he dropped a gift for me. I checked and it was a designer perf I had been dying to have for long. I just shook my head. Mehn.. so from then, I concluded all men are the same. Some may not voice out but.. they all wish their women are financially independent.

I now have this belief that, even if you're not going to support the man with it, at least you should be able to use it to take care of your personal needs and ease your own burden off him.

I'm glad my dad lead me in the way of financial freedom and my ex emphasized on it. And finally how God breath on it and took me to where I am today.

Why didn't you marry the ex?

Why is OP asking us? Since he saw it on Facebook, why didn't he ask the poster of the picture?

So sad to hear this. RIP to the dead.

Rik500k:
how is he going to share what he has in stock already, when he hasn't been given party ticket yet ? Nawa o
No be after party give ticket, ticket holders go begin campaign their ideas

What about those already communicating their ideas to the electorate through social media? If he has to wait till campaign period before he starts talking about what he wants to do, then he's on a long thing.

The fact that some politicians wait for 3½ years before telling people what their plans are for them is very bad and we all need to speak against it.

In most cases, it's the stupid effort of being seen as professional. They think calling the name Jesus is unprofessional. Some also don't call the name in order not to sound religious to the Muslims around them ---- offices, social gatherings.

To me, I believe it's part of the persecution in today's world where the mention of the name creates an awkward moment and they want to prevent that.

I don't think you understand what you just posted up there. It is common knowledge that God has no beginning and no ending because that would make him trapped in time that he created. He created time and cannot be trapped in it.

The origin of God is a mystery because it predates time and obviously beyond man's understanding. So, your inability to explain the concept of God also disproves your own existence, as it's impossible for a mortal to emanate from nothing.

Finally, atheists are mere thought-travellers who try to logically explain things that are beyond their understanding.

You want the country to give the presidency to SE aspirants who can't even communicate their ideas to the people. We've heard certain things Tinubu wants to do, what do the SE aspirants have to do?

We're watching

I think Osinbajo is Buhari's candidate. Just a thought.

Enemyofpeace:
It is called ma jo lo, mo weyin re and a o merin joba, if you know, you know

Deception...you must be a true Moluabi...

Rubbish talk. Was Ojukwu a god?

Just make sure you're capable of raising a family before you dabble into it.

Elidrisy20:
Why dey no give remi?

Good question, brotherly!

TOPCRUISE:
Chai. This is sabotage. So they were doing corner-corner business with Russia before luring Ukraine into wahale to make spirited efforts to join NATO,

How else would the Russians use the weapons sold to them and come buy more?

RoyalBoutique:
Wetin she dey model sef?

Which category of ladies clothing does she model for?

Hi many ladies are 6.7"?

I wonder o!

beautyhd:
The headline is misleading .

It sounds like Putin eliminated her

Work of Nigerian bloggers... Nairaland modes have also joined the league of bloggers posting "fantastic topics!"

Great piece.

I think Kim is playing with fire here. Do not joke with a Chicago breed! Kanye's just trying to fight for his family, for the wellbeing of his children. Kim should stop taunting him cos guyman can combust and scatter everywhere. He's got resources to do that.

You are an idiot, and that's not being harsh. After you noticed something was wrong, you still went ahead to have sex with her. God help you if it's something spiritual that's happened to you.

Kids of today think nothing more than sex. Just go to a doctor and confide in him/her.

Women were not made by God to be understood...even they don't understand themselves.

Men should always take care of themselves and look good. No job is worth sacrificing your marriage for. Men should also be romantic in anyway and create time for their families.

Lastly, having a bad spouse is worse than having a bad child. May the almighty God guide those of us still unmarried.

Why the initial show of resilience/foolishness?

Norway had to inform the Russian defence ministry about the drill. Y'all can see what's going on: how war games are being played by the west near their Russian borders. The lead propagator is thousands of miles away in North America and wouldn't let that come close to them.

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I pray no shot is fired into Russia as this would be used as premise by the Russians to attack Norway, Poland or even Moldova.

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NATO are not scared of the Russian military but the madness of Putin, roaring mother-bear waiting to pounce!

It's clear for all to see, no need coming out to admit it.

I don't believe this news, I think it's fake. How did the person know Buhari was smiling, was he with him? I don't think anyone close to Buhari would leak such a news.

GodHatesBigots:
Russia is only powerful because of Nukes which all NATO countries possess. Without Nukes, their army is garbage and you know it. Which modern army loses 10,000 men in less than 3 weeks to capture a small city ?

You're really addicted to western media!

You shouldn't have blocked her na, just let her be in her space and don't chat her up for anything. You exhibited a childish behavior by blocking her.

OP, don't you even have a ceiling fan in your house?

Comradewhy:
Below where?
Nobody asked that question,so it's likely that you framed this thing up.
We need it raw,post pictures of where she asked the question.

Na where dem go see you be dis, you sharpaly comment

AntiChristian:
You're an expert in giving excuse!

Continue! Why did God made law protecting the first wife's...? Why give people more wives when one is enough?

Remember I told you I'll let you know why God permitted the Mosaic laws for a period, which also affected the righteous people before Christ was revealed. I'll let you know when the time is right bro.

That God allowed David to have many wives and even some of his former master's wives wasn't the plan of God for him but as the tradition of the people entailed. I'll open a thread on this soon.

Coming from Fox news, anti democrats! Ofcourse, the sanctioner and the sanctioned would feel the brunt of the sanctions.

How did you come about your figures? Where's the source?