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I don't even have to ask who, your recent activities shows you are long overdue. Do the needful.

Giving back to the world that gave you. This is the way it should be.

20 yrs ago while women were still dressing less seductive?


You don't have to go to strip club now to find flirty women sef. Someone should help me tell the guy to tame the demon, if not, he is going back...

E don happen I don tell am Youths don burst dem! Many more packages full ground �

Tell them!
They think sey na to just collect 10 million, run off and share. Nigerians, I mean the people's assembly will have to revisit the case of the whereabout of those donations made. Imagine the Hushppupi's of our generation walking freely, men and women without conscience! I spit on you...

Ka ọ dịkwa ka a na eme!
Ihe mma bụ na o ji ihe nwata welie aka ya elu, ọ bụrụ mmadụ ga agwa ya wedata aka ma ọfụba ya ụfọ...

Otua ka ọha m na ọnụ!

I swear I'm writing application to join this Igbo people. Make i for follow for next year better turn ups... Igbo kwenu!

I swear I'm writing application to join this Igbo people. Make i for follow for next year better turn ups... Igbo kwenu!

So one cannot just make a perfect plan of his life here again in Nigeria?
God you see wetin dis people the do? You sef know its not fair oh! Ngwanụ Bịa Para Tụlee! I don talk my own.

Where did Nigerians get it wrong? Are these the words of a supposed father figure? Wait oh, this man never take these things happening seriously!



Is this the long awaited speech or should we expect another?

Supermugu:
.. Lets just change it from

ENDSARS .......

TO

ENDNIGERIA

Supermugu:
.. Lets just change it from

ENDSARS .......

TO

ENDNIGERIA

I swear! Make we for just end this thing once and for all.

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marwanafrica:
Ough!!! You ve won my heart with this reply, you have manners to be sincere

marwanafrica:
Ough!!! You ve won my heart with this reply, you have manners to be sincere

iRepNaija1:
OP, please don't pursue this. You're not even in a relationship with him and you two are already arguing, regardless of who is right or wrong. That's red flag number one. Red flag number two is that he wants you to come to his house only after a few days of talking. That's concerning because a) you should be meeting someone you don't know well in a public place, b) he should want to meet you in a public place for a meet-up or date, or c) he just wants sex. If you just want sex, then cool. But since you've declined his first offer, I don't think that's what you're going for. The third red flag is that he insulted you. From what you said, you told him, "I don't care." Is that an insult? To me, it's not because you did not criticize his person or his family. (Remember, critique the action, not the person). Could your response have been said in a better way? Maybe but you were straightforward. If he's willing to do this and you two have just started talking, imagine what could happen if you were dating or in a serious relationship.

He's just trying to test your limits to see how much B.S. he can get away with and how much B.S. you can tolerate. At 22, you're an adult but you're also much younger than him and he's seeing if he can take advantage of your possible lack of experience in dating. The fact that you're on NL may indicate to me you're still interested in him despite these red flags because if you weren't, I know you would've not continued talking with him.

I think you should really let this man go. It just sounds like wahala. You're young and there will be so many other men. When a man likes you and wants to spend time with you, you won't have to question it, you won't be on NL asking for advice from strangers. He will treat you like royalty and handle you like glass. You will never have to second-guess his feelings for you or his motives. Good luck.

iRepNaija1:
OP, please don't pursue this. You're not even in a relationship with him and you two are already arguing, regardless of who is right or wrong. That's red flag number one. Red flag number two is that he wants you to come to his house only after a few days of talking. That's concerning because a) you should be meeting someone you don't know well in a public place, b) he should [b]want to meet you in a public place for a meet-up or date, or c) he just wants sex. If you just want sex, then cool. But since you've declined his first offer, I don't think that's what you're going for. The third red flag is that he insulted you. From what you said, you told him, "I don't care." Is that an insult? To me, it's not because you did not criticize his person or his family. (Remember, critique the action, not the person). Could your response have been said in a better way? Maybe but you were straightforward. If he's willing to do this and you two have just started talking, imagine what could happen if you were dating or in a serious relationship.

He's just trying to test your limits to see how much B.S. he can get away with and how much B.S. you can tolerate. At 22, you're an adult but you're also much younger than him and he's seeing if he can take advantage of your possible lack of experience in dating. The fact that you're on NL may indicate to me you're still interested in him despite these red flags because if you weren't, I know you would've not continued talking with him.

I think you should really let this man go. It just sounds like wahala. You're young and there will be so many other men. When a man likes you and wants to spend time with you, you won't have to question it, you won't be on NL asking for advice from strangers. He will treat you like royalty and handle you like glass. You will never have to second-guess his feelings for you or his motives. Good luck.

[/b][quote author=iRepNaija1 post=95149602]OP, please don't pursue this. You're not even in a relationship with him and you two are already arguing, regardless of who is right or wrong. That's red flag number one. Red flag number two is that he wants you to come to his house only after a few days of talking. That's concerning because a) you should be meeting someone you don't know well in a public place, b) he should want to meet you in a public place for a meet-up or date, or c) he just wants sex. If you just want sex, then cool. But since you've declined his first offer, I don't think that's what you're going for. The third red flag is that he insulted you. From what you said, you told him, "I don't care." Is that an insult? To me, it's not because you did not criticize his person or his family. (Remember, critique the action, not the person). Could your response have been said in a better way? Maybe but you were straightforward. If he's willing to do this and you two have just started talking, imagine what could happen if you were dating or in a serious relationship.

He's just trying to test your limits to see how much B.S. he can get away with and how much B.S. you can tolerate. At 22, you're an adult but you're also much younger than him and he's seeing if he can take advantage of your possible lack of experience in dating. The fact that you're on NL may indicate to me you're still interested in him despite these red flags because if you weren't, I know you would've not continued talking with him.

I think you should really let this man go. It just sounds like wahala. You're young and there will be so many other men. When a man likes you and wants to spend time with you, you won't have to question it, you won't be on NL asking for advice from strangers. He will treat you like royalty and handle you like glass. You will never have to second-guess his feelings for you or his motives. Good luck. [see as my guy commot better time analyze this issue, na your fellow man bizness you wan cast like this]