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BenShammer:
Is that your dream? To marry a man that would allow you to be "knacking" different men. There's no telling what was going on in the girl's mind before OP's bro noticed a change in her behavior. What if he wasn't available for het to run to because of his job or whatever?

BenShammer:
Is that your dream? To marry a man that would allow you to be "knacking" different men. There's no telling what was going on in the girl's mind before OP's bro noticed a change in her behavior. What if he wasn't available for het to run to because of his job or whatever?

BenShammer:
I know how controversial this sounds, but the fact that she cheated doesn't mean she's not the best thing that could ever happen to him. I know how it hurts knowing the girl you love more than anything in the universe was intimate with a stranger. Well the truth is everybody has urges. Society dictates that women should be virtuous and basically frigid until they get married, but the reality is that women are highly sensual creatures and sometimes their sexual urges can be overwhelming. If you get to the root of what happened, you'll likely discover that the other guy was somebody she saw/spoke to often, he probably gave her attention and showed her care. I don't know how often your brother saw/talked to her, but she might've been lonely, feeling unloved/undesirable or was probably bored and needed some excitement.
Yes, good girls are not immune to sexual urges and may give in to their desires, most times to a guy they don't have feelings for, he just happened to be at hand. I quite believe her when she said it was just sex, she just had a need he was willing to take care of. Tell your brother to make sure she cuts the other guy out of her life and address whatever may be the root cause, I.e loneliness etc.
There's no perfect good girl out there, he may leave her and end up with a street wise girl that would engage in atrocities at his back. She was feeling guilty and confessed because she has a conscience and genuinely loves your bro

stiffmeister:
1. Bambi by jidenna
2. carry on by fun
3. headlights by Eminem ft Nate reuss
4. storm in Africa by enya
5. patience by nas and Marley

Jbfranklin:
make sure I deflower all they girls in town

Jbfranklin:
make sure I deflower all they girls in town

squash47:
Lies and fake life..

Gentle034:
It's not a matter of being a National of any country! It's about being realistic! What does it change about his academics?

Supersuave2:
I didn't like HONEST at first 'cause it wasn't the usual Chainsmokers' stuff but I got to love it after paying good attention to the lyrics the 3rd time I was listening to it, it was the perfect song for the situation I was in at that time and I could perfectly relate to every damn word in the song. I like PARIS but love HONEST

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I have ALL TIME LOW, it's a great song. I'll checkout the ones with David Guetta, thanks.

Gentle034:
Is dat hair style going to affect his brain? Would it stop him from learning or passing his exams? Schools being preaching dumb morality that they themselves can't practice!!

SirKriz:
OP, I don't think you're dating a Nigerian babe. Which naija babe get time for all those things?

This your story reminds me of the movie 'Gone Girl'. Maybe this is the part II of it. Nice storyline though.

kennedith9:
Happier

Amarabae:
Judgement belongs to God, not you nor me.

Amarabae:
enough of this hypocrital statement all the time.
Nigeria came 3rd in world highest searchers of gayporn, who are the people watching this porn?
Not only gay's but some of hypocrites who will criticize gay's in the open and watch gayporn in secret,some of the criticising hypocrites are closeted gay's themselves.

I reject and hate the gay marriage nonsense proposal in Nigeria and Africa but let's not be quick judgers. Over this people.
Love the people,hate the act just as God love sinners but hate sin.

Homosexuality is a spiritual problem and they need deliverance.

gcey2k:
Enya lover's thread... Glad to be hear

Now playing LAST TIME BY MOONLIGHT...

My all time Favs include

Flora's secret
Book of days
Orinoco Flow
China Roses
Wild Child
Carribean Blue
It's in the rain
May it be (Lord of the rings)
One by one
Storms in Africa
The Long ships
The celts

Etc etc etc

I have a waterfall of her songs should you need one...

teresafaith:
And why are you always emphasizing on cook and clean.. Are you a maid??

UrennaNkoli:
So drinkers are not poisoning themselves abi? People are more lenient with drinkers and see not too much wrong in it. Same can't be said for smokers.

femidejulius:
I knew someone will say this.

It is that whether you drink poison or not, you will die, but why should you sip poison?

Let me tell you what I know about cigarettes.
There's a company in Ibadan, Oyo State called BAT which stands for British American Tobacco. Some nine years ago, some workers who are to start work with them were taken to a hospital in Lagos for medical check up. A few were dropped and others employed. There were operating different machines within the facility complex. Six months after, one of them have to change his overall as the clothes have become tattered. What was responsible? The 11 hours daily exposure to the tobacco dusts. Well, they all continue to work but all of them today no longer work there. They have either died or have developed illnesses that can barely be managed and for which they pay lots for medical bills. Not only that, these former workers in early 30s look more older than their grandfathers.

You doubt my story? Go work at British American Tobacco in Ibadan and see for yourself.

purples25:
So its After you disvirgined her that you want to dump her, and not only that, you want to Bleep her very well before you do.

If you're not selfish and wicked, why would you Bleep her crazily before you leave, if you don't want her again. Shebi u got your money back, what is the wickedness for, why not end it now.

Are you an angel yourself? You want to dump her over the issue, do you know how many chances God has given you, you can't forgive and try even a second chance.

If it is ur sister I hope you'll be happy to hear that one guy took her innocence and Is still planning to Bleep her lights out.

With this your high standard that is so high is it not a useless mentality, you want to dump a virgin that you met now, at the end of the day, you may get married to a woman that has slept with many and I swear you won't know half the things she has done in this life, more than half the girls men marry package themselves madly for the man to believe be got something good. So what's all this standard you're forming because she went wrong once and you're saying it haunts you. Cuz you flew down here from heaven so you're so shocked. Haunted my foot.


If you wanna dump her, don't come and look for excuses here to justify yourself or make yourself look good, just admit to yourself that you wanted to break her, be the first, sleep with her very well and dump her. Simple, only God will judge you.


Mehn, in fact, buru gawa. Carry your wahala and go.

Demogorgon:
You won't na..If you switch to El, you will have all the tools to survive the upside-down

Demogorgon:
Correct!!