₦airaland Forum

time heals a broken heart... don't stay indoor regretting... start socialising more..meet people,hang out with friends..that guy that has been sending you "hi hi hi" and you have been ignoring,reply him and see if he his fun...that's how you get over someone you love
And most especially while doing all this...don't stalk your ex

smartsexy:

#Attitude
#Bliv

How old are you Kid ??
Before some of you here come to paste their tantrums, you lots should tell us your age first..
All I can see is a minor with esteem issues..


Am not a kid am 30yrs and she is 22 yrs
i was thinking about proposing to her on her birthday thats december 27th

a girl at 22 years is still in her hoeing phase my guy...she still one explore so relationship gets boring to her easily.
my advice for you is to leave her alone,don't call or text her..don't even try to beg her kos it will only do worse kos her mind is made up
I can see you truely love her but you have to kill that love for her and move on with your life
This is why the redpoll is being preached around..not to teach you to hate women but to understand them and their ways.from the night you saw her with a guy you should have just kept quiet and move on with your life..
Quote me when I tell you she will try to come back to you in the future (I can't ascertain when but don't let it matter to you) when all the bad guys are done taking turns on her and dump her,then she will remember the only guy who really loved her but then you have moved on..
it seems to be you have low self esteem so please work on your confidence and develop that abundance mindset as better girl full everywhere...
its ain't easy but forget her and move on with your life..when she turns 35 with no husband and being a baby mama..she will ask "where have all the good men gone?"
Read the REDPILL thread in the romance section and be freed.
I repeat this on and on
INVEST IN YOURSELF AND NOT WOMEN.

the moment a girl notices that you need her,she doesn't need you anymore.

hmmmm....I have been reading all the redpill rules and I came to realise that women are too much work and troubles.
I saw a YouTube comments that says that
"you can love and care for a woman but never show her you love or care for her"
I was like WTF!!...why will I love her and not show her..so I have to use reverse psychology just to get and keep a woman all the time...its just like walking on egg shells as a little mistep can tarnish everything we have built up.
-so if I care for her I am weak
-if I tell her I love her I am weak
-if I give her attention I am neeedy and weak
-if I send her money I am weak
-if I do what she wants I am weak
but she values and chases the guy that does nothing for her..
The dating game in this generation is too much work abeg
my guys...the only advice I have for you is to put love aside and build your life so that your family and children can benefit from it in the future...be concerned about building a future for yourself and your future kids and forget this women who only want to use you to play games...
when you attain that wealth and status in the future,the women will rush you
someone once said "life is a race for men,while the women wait at the end of a finish line to Bleep the winners".
a woman can leave you any day but your success you have suffered for will never leave you.
yes we are social creatures and we also desire attention from the opposite sex.But that doesn't mean you should make a woman your only focus in life.
stay on your goals and free all this relationship issues abeg.
There was a day I had a quarrel with my girlfriend about money,I was feeling bad but then my dad called me and told me he has been having leg pains bkos he walks to work everyday and didn't have Much money on him..tears came out of my eyes that day and i went to borrow money just to send to him...that was the day I knew I had other things to focus on in my life.
focus on a woman and see her leave you for another then you will be broken...
I always say this and I repeat again
INVEST IN YOURSELF AND NOT WOMEN

so bkos you don Bleep many girls makes you an Alpha....

Dalil8:
Saw this on Twitter

Take note of the words; Son and not Daughter,

Mother but not Father. Girlfriend, not Boyfriend.

And you'll see the agenda of most females.

She subtly passed a message, only few would understand.


That's why i laugh so hard at guys worshipping their mothers, neglecting their fathers.

You buy cars, houses for your mom but you neglect your dad's.

Time will tell.

Any man who loves his mother more than his father is purely a simp
I love my parents the same and give them equal treatment..
Yes my mum gave birth and nurtured me,but my father made a lot of sacrifices for me(he sold his only car just to pay my first year school fees)
I see men always choosing their mum over their dad and I just believe the feminists agenda is really taking over the World.
if you love your mum more than your dad then you will value pussy over your friends and that will be the start of your downfall..
i Love and cherish my parents equally

pansophist:
When I reminisced about my simping days, I feel an acid burning through the fabric of my soul, with no cure in sight. With everything that I know now, the pain of the past has been a drive to make sure it never repeats itself again, and a motivator used to teach the upcoming ones not to make the same mistake. I seek consolation on the fact that I learnt from it. The harder you simp, the bigger the rage you'll feel. It's part of life.

#RandomThoughts

we have all simped before in our lifes...we all thought love was like it was in the movies or story books but we were damn wrong

Evolutionlove:
I'do punish those Hoes a lot by doing this and It really make them feel less of themselves......

I just started using the method and I noticed it too..giving them the silent treatment anytime the misbehave makes them come back to their senses..bkos by ignoring them you send a clear message that you can leave them anytime and you also have options

I have been following this thread since the page 1..I really must thank the guy who shared third stories about how girls broke them and all that.
The truth is we've all simped in our lives whether we accept it or not.its not our fault but how we were brought up.
when we were young,we were always rewarded for nice behaviours and punished for bad behaviours so as we grew up,we thought the world would definitely reward us for being nice but that isn't the case atal.
I see all this redpill rules and constitutions but I think they are too much for someone to always remember when dealing with women.
I would advice everyone to just live your life and forget about this women kos all they have to bring in your life is drama and issues..seriously
I was going through Darius video on YouTube and i saw a comment which said
"a girl should bonlye the cherry on your cake(your life).if you focus more on the cherry,then you would have no cake to put it on"
so focus on your life kos its short and do the things that make you happy and when you are happy,women will want to share that happiness with you.
Also never be scared to move on with your life when a woman misbehaves.never be part of her drama..just ignore them..its kills themwhen they are starved of attention.. stay busy fellas
INVEST IN YOURSELF AND NOT WOMEN

please don't confuse an alpha male to a redpiller

To my little knowledge, I can give you few characteristics of an alpha

-an alpha is one who is confident with who he is
-an alpha is one who set goals for himself and chase it.
-an alpha respects people and as such he is respected
-an alpha looks to stand out from the crowd
-an alpha knows there is more to life than women,that's why women respects him a lot(so he is already redpilled).
-an alpha set boundaries in his relationship with others
-an alpha doesn't look to belittle any man(eg by calling him a simp).He instead offer advice
-and lastly,an alpha never refers to him as an "An ALPHA".

I can't say that am a alpha but I realise that people respect me(maybe bkos I give them that respect too) and I am always chosen to lead when am among a group of people.even guys far taller and bigger than me look up to me as I issue instructions and they obey without complain.people come around me alot and try to be friends with me. and I easily get popular if I reside in an area for a while maybe bkos am very social.

nevertheless I careless about being called that bkos am chasing better things in life than being given the ash tag " ALPHA".

Firstandonly:
am yet to hear of a woman complaining on how masturbating have destroy her life or how she can't enjoy sex because of it and how masturbating makes her loose her confidence in public. it's that the bad affect of masturbating doesn't affect women?

bkos they don't have sperm...your semen is life and when you waste it,you testosterone level decreases which makes you look or feel less masculine..