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Voice of America (VOA) has fired or proposed the removal of 15 staff members of its Hausa Service over what the broadcast station described as “improper payments.” It was alleged that Katsina State Governor,

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Voice Of America Sacks 15 Hausa Service Staff For Receiving $5000 Cash Gift From A Nigeria Governor https://gistupafrica.com/2018/10/15/voice-of-america-sacks-15-hausa-service-staff-for-receiving-5000-cash-gift-from-a-nigeria-governor/

It is a sad fact that we can’t get all we want in a partner in just one package, making a chunk of women to choose a husband for ‘sensible’ reasons – momentarily forgetting the passion of the hot lovers they’d had in the past. Why is it that men who are studs seldom make reliable husband material? This is the cross-roads Wura found herself when her fiance, Abel recently proposed to her. As the wedding date draws near, she is troubled if she should settle for the ‘Mr. Sensible and Reliable” her fiance is. “Sex with him is ok, she said. “but it’s predictable and he’s very conservative. As a very sensual person I like talking dirty during sex. I also like adventurous sex especially romps outside the bedroom. I’ve suggested all these to Abel tactfully, but he says things like that don’t turn him on.

“As things are now, his sex drive is quite low and mine is very high. Whenever we’re in bed, I’ve tried steering him into more adventurous sex but he says, very decisively, that he’s not into it. I haven’t tried other men since we became serious but whenever I have sex with him lately, I fantasise about sex with an ex of mine which was particularly hot – as a matter of fact, this ex brought out the best in me sexually. He would give me MouthAction even in semi-public places. Now I think of him all of the time.

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Ever Regretted Getting Hitched To Mr. Available? https://gistupafrica.com/2018/10/11/ever-regretted-getting-hitched-to-mr-available/

Dear Bunmi,

I have been married for close to 30years. Eighteeen years ago, my husband and I went through a rough patch when his philandering took an alarming turn. Out of frustration, I did something I regretted by starting an affair with a man in my office. He was single then, but in a relationship with a lady he later married.

I found out later my lover had told a friend of his who is a member of my husband’s club about our affair. I’ve met my husband’s club member a couple of times and I’m scared he could inform my husband about our illicit affair. I don’t want to carry on with a marriage in jeopardy due something that happened several years ago.

Boma, by e-mail.

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Would my lover’s friend spill the beans? https://gistupafrica.com/2018/10/11/would-my-lovers-friend-spill-the-beans/

Peoples Democratic Party(PDP) member, Senator Rabi’u Musa Kwankwaso has said he would leave the party, if the leadership of the PDP in Abuja removeS any member of the Kwankwasiyya movement from the list of its aspirants.

A source within the party, is said to have confided to Daily Trust yesterday. The source reportedly said that the former Kano state governor made this threat, during a meeting held at Legacy House, Abuja.

The 2 hours meeting was said to have been attended by PDP stakeholders such as Bello Hayatu Gwarzo and Ambassador Aminu and many more.

According to the source, there is an ongoing battle between Kwankwaso and Doguwa, over the fate their members aspiring for various positions via the PDP platform.
“ “Kwankwaso told the gathering that...

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/10/11/kwankwaso-says-he-might-leave-pdp-if/

The former president, Olusegun Obasanjo, Thursday endorsed the candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, Alhaji Atiku Abubakar.

Atiku who visited the Abeokuta home of Obasanjo at around 1:07pm with the PDP chairman Uche Secondus, the senator representing Bayelsa East Ben Murray Bruce, Bishop of Catholic Diocese of Sokoto, Matthew Kukah; Islamic preacher Ahmed Gumi, Bishop Oyedepo and others was accepted, endorsed and promised to be supported by Obasanjo his former boss.

Recall that Obasanjo had in a viral video vowed not to support Atiku’s presidential bid.


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Breaking: Finally, Obasanjo endorses Atiku. https://gistupafrica.com/2018/10/11/breaking-finally-obasanjo-endorses-atiku/

If you were planning on running up on Offset and Cardi B, good luck.

Last night was the annual ceremony for the American Music Awards,crowning some of the most popular artists today. Awards were handed out and performances were aplenty during the event with many keeping their eyes on Cardi B to see if she would speak on what happened with Nicki Minaj . Cardi has indirectly discussed the shoe-throwing incident a few times, most recently admitting that their altercation came as a result of Instagram “likes.” Nicki Minaj ended up not attending the award show after many anticipated their first face-to-face meeting since the brawl. Instead, Bardi ended up racking up a few W’s, winning three awards.

Offset was also successful, accepting an award alongside Quavo for “Favorite Pop/Rock Duo.”

After the show, the couple partied it up, heading to Murano in West Hollywood as they were flanked by security guards

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Cardi B & Offset Surrounded By Bodyguards After American Music Awards https://gistupafrica.com/2018/10/11/cardi-b-offset-surrounded-by-bodyguards-after-american-music-awards/

Cell phones are great but can also create turmoil for relationships. These are the cell phone rules every couple has to follow for a healthy relationship..

Since cell phones have become a basic human need, they have caused countless suspicions, fights, and even breakups for many couples. Although it would be wonderful to not need any cell phone rules every couple has to follow, they can be necessary and truly helpful.

Snooping, glancing over your boo’s shoulder, and knowing each other’s passcodes or not can be disastrous for a relationship. A healthy relationship means having boundaries but also trusting each other.

Do you want privacy or transparency with cell phones?

Everyone wants to hold onto a bit of mystery in relationship. But, is that mystery and privacy worth a lack of honesty? Being transparent with your partner is a vital part of a healthy and honest relationship.

With 100% honesty, cell phone rules wouldn’t be necessary, but with all the ways a person can cheat and keep secrets with their cell phones, setting some rules can lead you in the right direction.

You may not want your partner to see that your most recent Google search was for ‘where to get the best deal on a Snuggie,’ but that is better than them thinking you’re cheating. If you have nothing to hide, enacting cell phone rules shouldn’t cause any problem at all.

But, if you have something to hide, like the fact that you are texting other people romantically or still have risqué photos of an ex, you may want to check your behavior. Keeping secrets, no matter how insignificant you might think they are, can doom a couple from the start.

So, having a talk with your significant other about the right cell phone rules to follow can help you avoid future fights and possible questions down the road.

Why do you need cell phone rules?

In my own opinion It would be so wonderful if your boo’s phone was ringing. You could just pick it up without wanting to glance at the Caller ID. It would be great if your partner showed you a photo on their phone, and you didn’t have the urge to swipe further. It would be superb if you didn’t wonder who they were texting.

It is human nature to be a little bit suspicious. But when a little snooping becomes obsession and paranoia, cell phone rules come in handy.

The same goes for anyone super protective of their privacy. If you are defensive when your partner asks you about who is calling or texting you, it is probably because you have something to hide. If you grab your phone out of their hand immediately, you may need more than cell phone rules.

Trust issues can be deeply rooted. But, if you have ever discovered an ex was cheating by something on their phone, having cell phone rules can help you moving forward.

Cell phone rules every couple has to follow.

Not all of these rules will work for you and your partner. And these are not rules to follow forever. But if you are truly trying to be open and honest and create a safe space in your relationship, these can help to build the foundation all healthy couples have: trust.

If you or your partner have a problem with any of these, you may want to ask yourself why. What is it that you are so afraid of? If handing your phone to your partner without double checking photos or messages worries you, these cell phone rules may not help at all because there’s a deeper issue you have to overcome.

Keep in mind these cell phone rules are only stepping stones. Once you follow these rules for a while and have earned each other’s trust, you should be able to stop enforcing these cell phone rules. Let trust guide the relationship. But to start, here are my top cell phone rules every couple has to follow.

Click on the link below to see my 15 cell phones rules every couple has to follow to build trust.
15 Cell Phone Rules Every Couple Has to Follow to Build Real Trust. https://gistupafrica.com/2018/10/03/15-cell-phone-rules-every-couple-has-to-follow-to-build-real-trust/

US rapper Cardi B surrendered to police in New York on Monday, charged with assault and reckless endangerment over an ugly brawl in a strip club that injured a female employee.

The 25-year-old star was in the Angels Strip Club in Queens on August 29 when someone in her group lobbed furniture inside the night club, causing an employee to suffer “some bruising to her legs,” police said.

The fast-rising rapper turned herself in at a Queens police station and was instructed to appear in criminal court on October 29, charged with one count of assault and two counts of reckless endangerment, police said.

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Rapper Cardi B arrested in New York, charged with assault. https://gistupafrica.com/2018/10/03/rapper-cardi-b-arrested-in-new-york-charged-with-assault/

Trophy wife, arm candy, human jewelry—whatever term you use, this particular phenomenon is one that nearly all men subscribe to.

We’ve all seen them. Whether they’re at business conventions, movie premieres, or social events, the stunning female with model looks draped seductively over the arm of a far inferior looking male specimen is something we can’t take our eyes off.

This is the legendary trophy wife; an accessory for successful men since time immemorial. Wherever there is ambition, there the trophy wife will be found. And make no mistake about it; there aren’t many of us guys who would turn down the chance to have one of our own. But why exactly is that the case?

The pros and the cons

There are many reasons why men seek the company of a trophy wife, a woman who is significantly better looking than them; a real ten-out-of-ten on the stunner scale. Yes, this can be due to the simple fact of being able to enjoy the physicality of such a beautiful woman, but there are a number of other reasons, usually linked to games of advantage and one-upping others in their immediate social circle. These are discussed in the first of the two following lists.

There are, however, downfalls associated with the trophy wife and we think it’s only fair that we should discuss these as well.

Why do men desire a trophy wife?

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/09/03/what-is-a-trophy-wife-and-why-do-all-men-desire-one/

Home2018September3South Africa’s Minister of Health Bans Use Of Doggy Style During Sex (See Reason)

South Africa’s Minister of Health Bans Use Of Doggy Style During Sex (See Reason)
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South Africa’s Minister of Health, Aaron Motsoaledi, has banned the use of doggy style during intimate sex among sexual partners or couples.

Motsoaledi, according to a South African newspaper believes that doggy style is the leading cause of cancer and stroke in both women and men.

“The most energy consuming and stressful sexual position for men is doggy; Look, I’m only giving you guys a snippet but we will be posting the results of the full research on the ministry website.” He said.

And Motsoaledi said occasional doggy style sex especially on Christmas and on Valentine’s day may not be harmful, but each night maybe suicidal.

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/09/03/south-africas-minister-of-health-bans-use-of-doggy-style-during-sex-see-reason/

Nigerian celebrity blogger, Linda Ikeji who is currently in Atlanta, United States to welcome her baby, has confirmed that her baby daddy is from Delta State.
The confirmation was made in a new post she shared on Instagram. The photo Linda Ikeji shared came with the caption;

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/09/03/linda-ikeji-my-baby-daddy-is-from-delta-state/

A MASSIVE fire has broken out in Liverpool at the Littlewood Pools building, one of the most famous landmarks in the northwestern English city.

Merseyside Fire and Rescue Service were called at approximately 7.52pm this evening.
The huge fire now covers 40 percent of the iconic art deco building and nine fire engines are currently trying to tackle the blaze.

Flames can be seen ripping through the 1930s art deco building in Edge Lane, as smokes billows into the sky.

There are currently no reports of any injuries.
Merseyside Fire and Rescue said: “An area of approximately 200m x 100m is on fire from the first floor of the building upwards.

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/09/03/breaking-massive-fire-rips-through-liverpools-littlewoods-pools-building/

Motorists plying the NPA Expressway, Ekpan, Warri, Delta State, will soon heave a sigh of relief as the indiscriminate parking of tankers and trailers on the road will soon be a thing of the past, as the state government has commenced the construction of an ultra-modern tankers and trailers park at Ekpan.

Residents of Nigercat Road, Ekpan in Uvwie LGA told Vanguard that the swam buggy of the Ministry of Transport had begun clearing work on the site of the park.

Delta State Commissioner for Transport, Mr Vincent Uduaghan, who was on ground to supervise work at the site told Said that the project, which is being executed by the state government through its Public-Private-Partnership, PPP, initiative, was dear to the state governor, Dr Ifeanyi Okowa.

https://gistupafrica.com/2018/08/30/okowa-commences-construction-of-ultra-modern-park-for-tankers-trailers/

The Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) in statement on August 27th, said ‘the reports quoting the United States President, Donald Trump, describing President Muhammadu Buhari as “lifeless” has opened our nation to international ridicule and opprobrium.’

In the statement, the opposition party said Trump’s remark underscores the result that accompanies move by incompetent leader to seek international endorsement out of inferiority complex.

“ ‘This embarrassment is a backlash a nation gets when incompetent leaders, out of inferiority complex and misgovernance, resort to jumping around the world, desperately shopping for endorsements from world leaders. ”

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/08/30/on-trump-calling-buhari-lifeless-nigerians-ask-pdp-to-take-a-sit-because-it-took-side-with-trump/

Dear Bunmi

My current boyfriend is a professional and so am I. We earn good salaries and live in a flat we both furnished towards when we’ll get married. I thought I loved him but a few weeks ago, I met a friend’s brother who was on a short visit to the country. He was wonderful and witty and our lovemaking was mind-blowing.

My problem is that I believe I’m in love with this new man who says he’s recently been separated from his wife and is in love with me too.
He has since gone back but we talk on the phone fairly regularly. I’m now having doubts about my current boyfriend but if I leave now, I will end up losing a lot of money I’d invested in the flat. Help!
From Mandy..

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/08/30/ive-invested-too-much-to-leave-him/

What has the world gotten to, this tragic incident happened in Kenya recently the woman had a disagreement with her husband and the situation quickly degenerated into a public scuffle in which the woman came out on top, see the shocking footage below:
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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/08/07/tragic-video-of-woman-brutally-beating-her-husband-in-public/

The summer transfer window is drawing to a close and managers are working hard to secure last minute deals so we’ll bring you all the latest gossip from around the globe. Today, Chelsea are linked with Liverpool target Nabil Fekir…

Chelsea are eyeing a late swoop to sign Liverpool target Nabil Fekir as Lyon prepare to cash-in on the £50m-rated attacking midfielder this summer, according to reports in France via the
Mirror.

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/08/06/from-france-chelsea-ready-to-trump-liverpool-with-late-swoop-to-sign-50m-star/

The summer transfer window is drawing to a close and managers are working hard to secure last minute deals so we’ll bring you all the latest gossip from around the globe. Today, Arsenal are closing-in on Domagoj Vida…

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/08/06/arsenal-table-25m-offer-to-sign-world-cup-star-club-ready-to-do-business/

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Being friends with your partner is a great foundation for your relationship, but what do you do when your whole relationship feels like friendship?

Feeling like your partner is your best friend is actually really healthy for your relationship. But when your relationship feels like friendship only, and no longer your lover, you may want to make some changes.

Why your relationship feels like friendship.

Once that honeymoon phase is gone and the excitement or passion take a back seat, your relationship can feel like pure friendship. The mystery and intrigue you once had has become comfort and security. There is nothing wrong with that, but keeping that spark alive takes a little more work.

You’re not platonic, so you need to actively make sure your relationship has the intimacy required of a lasting and loving couple.

What to do when your relationship feels like friendship.

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/08/06/relationship-feels-like-friendship-15-ways-to-spice-it-up/

Saying “I love you” and not hearing it back can seriously deter someone from saying “I love you” ever again. But don’t fret, I’ve got you.
“I love you” is a huge step in any relationship, and it’s mostly because we fear what the response will be. Saying “I love you” and not hearing it back feels devastating, but you can bounce back from it.

Why it’s so hard

Nobody wants to be the first person to say the L-word because you’re basically going in blindly. You may think your relationship is going well, and they must love you back, but when it comes down to it, you could be wrong! Maybe they aren’t there yet. Maybe they could never love you because you are too different. It’s safe to say that saying “I love you” is nerve-racking AF.

I was the first person to say “I love you” in my relationship, and, honestly, I cried. My girlfriend was confused about my tears, and she sort of panicked. I explained to her later that I was terrified with the idea of telling her that I loved her. It scared me because that meant she could leave me, and I would be heartbroken. I know that sounds ridiculous, but .....

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/08/04/how-to-deal-with-saying-i-love-you-and-not-hearing-it-back/

10 students of a primary school in Kenya were allegedly caught engaging in a sexual orgy and they have now been arrested by police.
The students of Dhawabu primary school in Kayole were found engaging in group sex in a house.
Police in Nairobi are investigating the incident which has now raised concerns about the deteriorating discipline in Kenyan schools.

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/08/03/video-10-primary-school-students-arrested-after-engaging-in-sex-orgy/

A pastor was beaten and humiliated in Okhokhugbo, Egor local government area of Edo state for allegedly sleeping with a married woman. According to reports, the pastor was said to have separated from his wife 3 months ago and allegedly moved into this lady’s house because her husband stays abroad.
The woman was said to have gotten pregnant and was allegedly persuaded by the pastor to abort it. The woman reportedly died in the process of having the abortion.

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/08/04/pastor-caught-and-beaten-mercilessly-for-sleeping-with-married-woman-in-benin/

Teebillz recently showed his support for Tiwa’s new single.

It is still unclear as to whether popular Nigerian musician Tiwa Savage and her estranged husband Teebillz are back together but it’s obvious both of them are still friends.
A recent example is how Teebillz took to his Instagram page to share the cover art for Tiwa Savage’s latest single Lova Lova which features Duncan Mighty.

Touched by his gesture, Tiwa took to the comment section of the post to say thank you. See their exchange below:

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/08/03/tiwa-savages-estranged-hubby-teebillz-promotes-her-new-song-she-replies/

At the beginning of a relationship, we often think this may end up being the one. If you’re feeling unsure about your relationship, follow these tips.
You know, we tend to think getting into a relationship is the hard part, but it’s not. If you really want a partner, you’ll find one with time. The hard part is actually finding someone you truly connect with, someone you can actually be with on a deeper level. So, if you’re feeling unsure about your relationship, take heed.

It’s easy to stand next to someone and hold their hand, but is this really someone you care about or just someone that you need to fill the void? This is a hard question to ask yourself, but, deep down, you already know the answer. What’s going to be hard is admitting to yourself that this person isn’t the one for you.

What to do when you’re feeling unsure about your relationship.

Click on the link below to see what to do..
https://gistupafrica.com/2018/08/03/what-to-do-when-youre-feeling-unsure-about-your-relationship/

If you break up on good or mutual terms, wanting to remain close makes sense. But is staying friends after a breakup really a good idea?
Breakups suck, especially when you still care about your ex. You do not want to part ways forever because you get along and are connected.

But is staying friends after a breakup a good idea?

It depends.

Where you friends before you started dating?
You might be wondering why this matters? But if you were not friends before you started dating you may have nothing to grasp. Cutting out the romantic feelings and staying in each other’s lives will be more difficult if you didn’t have a basis of friendship at the beginning.

It will be easier to find common ground to base a friendship on without romantic feelings if you had that before.

Do you have mutual friends?

It may be easier to reconnect as friends if you have a mutual friend group. This way you can get into a routine of seeing this person in a platonic setting. You are both more likely to feel accountable for your actions after a breakup as well.

When your friends know the situation, not only can they help make the transition easier for you, but wanting to keep the drama and jealously to a minimum for their sake may help you get along better.

Is staying friends after a breakup what you really want?

You might think, of course. This person is important to you. You don’t want to lose them. But do you stay friends because you feel guilty for something?

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/07/14/staying-friends-after-a-breakup-can-you-actually-make-it-work/

LOOKS LIKE NIGERIAN ACTRESS GENEVIEVE NNAJI has completed her #stickandstoneshomes in Abuja congratulations are in order.

https://gistupafrica.com/2018/07/10/genevieve-nnaji-shows-off-her-completed-real-estate-in-abuja/

Sometimes you come across some shocking tales on the internet and question if it is true or jokes! Can you imagine a family hiring a spare member of family to keep up with an addiction of their daughter!?? What do you think of this sort of job?

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/06/10/nigerian-family-hires-a-man-to-satisfy-their-nymphomaniac-daughter-with-monthly-salary/

An American citizen arrived Nigeria to wed his beautiful Hausa lady whom he has never met before in his life.

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/06/03/american-citizen-flies-to-nigeria-to-marry-his-hausa-wife-he-met-online-photos/

Big Brother Naija ex-housemate,Tobi Bakre has laid his hands on the highly coveted Nike Super Eagles Jersey.

The tracksuit which costs approximately N70,000 was first worn by Wizkid and Alex Iwobi.

Who looks more dapper?

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/06/03/thenikesupereaglestracksuitbattle-who-looks-more-dapper-wizkid-or-tobi-photos/

Starting a new relationship is exciting and fun, and eventually the times come to be intimate with one another; but
how long should you wait before sex?

Do you remember the movie “He’s Just Not That into You” with Jennifer Aniston? Well, that movie is amazing first of all. Secondly, this movie was
full of dating do’s and don’ts. If you want a step-by-step guide to dating, this movie is it, folks. I swear to you, they covered EVERYTHING. Yet, here I sit, writing this feature answering the question about how long should you wait before sex.

How long should you wait before sex?
We’ve been having sex for an awfully long time as a species, so what the heck, guys? Why haven’t we figured it out yet? Not to toot my own horn here, but I think I’ve mastered it. I’ve officially cracked the code to the age-old question: How long should you wait before sex?

#1 Short answer?
However long you freaking feel like. I’m not your mom. I’m not going to tell you to remain pure and “make them work for it.” No, if you want to give it up on the first date, then do it. You don’t owe anybody an explanation for how you behave with your own body.

You’re a human being and you have needs. Sometimes those needs consist of your attractive bartender that you only just met. Like I said, I’m not your mom. If that’s your plan of attack, I’ll wait around to give you a hive five afterwards. You do you, man. That’s all I’ve got to say on the subject.

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/06/03/how-long-should-you-wait-before-sex-the-q-a-to-help-you-decide/

How Lagos Pickpockets Hijacked Emmanuel Emenike’s Wedding,phones and money were stolen.

For a beautiful wedding that was meant to be strictly by invitation, it became a horror for the couple especially the bride and some celebrity guests.

The wedding ceremony between former Super Eagles star, Emmanuel Emenike and Iheoma Nnadi, which took place last weeked in Lagos was witnessed by celebrities from all walks of life.

But then, the bride had this to say on the event which she believed was poorly planned by the event planner.

Iheoma, a former Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria, took to social media shortly after the ceremony where she mentioned how some guests didn’t get drinks and certain dishes which she paid for were never served. She even said her husband’s hip flask was stolen right from the table in front of where they were seated.

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https://gistupafrica.com/2018/05/31/how-lagos-pickpockets-hijacked-emmanuel-emenikes-weddingphones-and-money-were-stolen/