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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 8:44am On Feb 17
PinkNature:
This is the direction I'm driving towards. Since the inception of this thread, we've directly or indirectly channelled all our energy and time towards women. (Which was great)

But times are changing, I don't know about some of the members here, but having all TRP knowledge, without applying it in real life, is a plain waste of knowledge.

Some people here, will forever remain below the ladder simply because they're;

Overweight, skinny, bad dress sense, dead broke, inability to hold sensible conversations, body odour, shy, inability to last more than 30 seconds in bed, inability to adapt to working environment etc.

Why is all our energy channeled towards women? How many women can you date and Bleep in a year?

Bleep!!! Since COVID till date, all we've been on is just women, women, and women.

Grow some damn balls.. they're other things to achieve in life than just women.


Your name was coined from a woman. pink nature. Pink pvssy🙂. Pink is feminine. Dey play.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 4:51pm On Feb 10
Ubunja, emancipating men from pvssy slavery. How many likes for ubunja?🙂.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 12:31pm On Feb 10
"Impregnating women will have other women hanging around you. They won't come with the express intention of getting themselves pregnant too or to offer you sex. More a case of them just finding themselves subconsciously drawn to you. That's the wombs doing their thing. And one thing will lead to another, (as it always does) and the women, women who should have known better, will find themselves pregnant for a man that has impregnated half a dozen girls in the area. The psychological of these women just got overridden by the biological."


Ubunja, ma pa mi now🙂. No lies detected.


Ubunja, emancipating men from pvssy slavery🙂.

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Romance / Re: Why Do Women Throw Bra At Male Celebrities? by ashewoboy(m): 7:38am On Dec 16, 2023
Lalasticlala.
Celebrities / Re: Men Can Stay 5 Years Without Sex But Women Cannot Even Stay Up To 2 Months by ashewoboy(m): 7:35am On Dec 16, 2023
Whether in relationship or not. Women are having sex. Most men not in relationship are not having sex.
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 3:10pm On Dec 13, 2023
chenny360:
Nothing anybody want talk here today wey our grandfather in this forum never talk before.... Nothing is new afresh here ..

But as for me.. I'm just putting out my day to day experiences and ordeals in the hands of women to cement the fact that the teaching of our fathers in this forum is not in vain and in futile.,


Everyday I keep encountering the tendencies to simp,but unfortunately I'm saved unless I want to Give willingly..

You see this one just from Blue Moon appear from nowhere...


How old is she?

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Romance / Re: Share Hidden Secrets Of Life On This Thread. by ashewoboy(m): 4:37pm On Dec 12, 2023
Lalasticlala.
Romance / Re: Have I Been Meeting The Wrong Ladies Or Is It A Nigerian Thing by ashewoboy(m): 9:08pm On Dec 11, 2023
CaveAdullam:
All (Nigerian) men have experienced this phenomenon. Except those that are strictly introverted or haven't requested a date.

There are plenty of factors underlying the unresponsiveness of women. Factors can emanate from you or them.

1. Women are more open and emotional to men closer to them. Proximity is how you get the better side of women + become aware of their dark sides.

Before a woman can travel from point A to point B to see you through a long distance you must have first created that emotional attachment.

But why do women travel long distances to meet strangers?

This is based on economies. They do it because of money. A prostitute can't become emotionally attached to her client. If there exists any, it is a facade. By the way, prostitutes have men they love genuinely + freely fvck them.

The evolutionary background: women by nature are weak. They need strong men to provide for them and protect them. A stranger can't be trustworthy. Only men in their community will they submit to because they've known over time.

Sex to women is more of security than pleasure. Sex for men is more of pleasures and ego - the boast of a harem.

So prostitutes are because of the money. Because if there is an availability of men to pay their bills and fulfill all their sincere and nonsensical fantasies, prostitution will be non-existent.

Therefore, in rich and developed nations, women engaged in romance for the sake of romance, love, and emotional attachment.
While in poor and underdeveloped nations women leverage romance to upgrade their socio-economic status and creep out of poverty and deprivation.

2. She might be in a relationship.

3. She's in a tarrying bad mood. And can't willingly share with you because you are a stranger. With time she may. But as a man, you'll become impatient because by nature you're not programmed to wait and beg for sex. You just want to hit and move to the next.

4. She doesn't like you. Every woman has a man they like or fantasize about. If you are not up to that standard they will ignore you.

5. Appearance. Your looks may not be ranked as acceptable. Using that metric, they set you aside and wouldn't want you to bother them.

6. Absence of flamboyance at first meet.

Women are emotional. So they can easily be cajoled by the presence of flashiness. This again is due to their desire for security. That's why celebrities can score many women + have multiple baby mamas at will.

If you don't express or show flamboyance women won't take you seriously.

Only well-trained women who are self-conscious and disciplined follow a man due to his ambitions, character, and intelligence. These women are the outliers.

7. It's a mind game. Women don't want to appear cheap. So they'll play the delayed and boring game till they know if you are genuine or not. They don't want to feel cheap.

8. Other men are on the radar. Some of these men are 10 times better than you. Some of these men you are 10 times better than.

This trooping of men of all ages and categories is the pleasure of all women. Some of the men are making bidding you can't or haven't. They fill her with hopes and promises. Her DM and privacy are a cluster of men persuading her into a romantic relationship.

Don't expect her to leave them for you easily. You are not the first. And more are behind you.

9. They want a long stream of persuasions and promises before they accept your proposal. Until you do this they will continue to remain boring.

From the above factors, the only one you have control over is your appearance. So, before you step out look good, smell nice, and talk well. Be happy and jovial. Be humorous and social. Whether they accept or reject you becomes none of your business. Just do your part.

Getting women is a game of numbers. The more you step out and interact, the more women you'll encounter and get hooked by a number of them.

Meanwhile, as a man, you must go for a woman who likes you genuinely. These women you don't need to cajole or convince. They just like you + want to be in love with you. They will make you wish and pray for an eternal romantic relationship.

Have you seen secondary and university lovers? That's what I'm talking about. Genuine love.

Thanks.

It's secondary school lovers. That university girl is probably a jambite🙂. By the time she enters 200 level to 400 level, she becomes a bad girl. It's only in secondary school that a girl will love you genuinely
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 8:53am On Dec 03, 2023
Rizzputin:



Alright, so let's make a few things abundantly clear. (If it's not already.)

She's fĂšcking that guy. But not just him, a host of other guys are probably digging her out too. Ranging from guys in her area to her classmates etc.

Few weeks back a guy was stuck in a similar situation as you. So he came here to post his story. We had a few back and forth on what his next steps should be. And after he followed everything I told him, he fĂšcked her in less than month.

You should do the same. I read where said you didn't want to fĂšck her anymore. That's a bad idea.

Try to get your dĂŹck inside her for the reference experience. No point investing all that time plus 10k only for you to back out. You learn nothing from doing that. Plus, you're more likely to make the same mistake again.

Anyways, I'll zoom in on your situation the same way I do with other guys. And we'll divide this post into two so we can do that: "what you did wrong" and "your next moves "

Let's jump in….


----What you did wrong.

● First off, you may not realize it but the girl likes you. In fact, she has thought of fùcking you.

The problem is her desire to manipulate you and take your money is FAR greater than her desire to fĂšck you. That's why she placed you in the bf zone.

If you were a hook up material like I advocate guys become, her desire to fĂšck you would be ENORMOUSLY higher.

You asked someone if good girls exist. That shows you're clearly suffering from the Passion Paradox. There's no such thing as a good girl.

Every girl can be bad or good depending on the man and situation she's in. Any girl can, and will manipulate you if you give her enough room to.

Becoming a hook up material greatly reduces your chances of being manipulated. And increases her urge to fĂšck you higher than the eiffel tower.
In fact, she'll rather manipulate other guys so she can please and fĂšck you.

One of the ways you could have displayed hook up material qualities was to fĂšck her within the first few times she came to your house.

Ideally, within the first 3 weeks. By wasting time, you made her see you as an option for manipulation.

Now, you're not in a very bad spot. There's still a good chance of turning things around at this point. Assuming you haven't gone back to simping like most people do

You see, if the thought of fĂšcking you hasn't crossed her mind, she wouldn't ask you to date her. No girl picks a total loser to be her bf.

And that's where your opportunity to let your hook up self shine through lives.

She knows sex could potentially happen in the relationship but she's willing to risk it to get all the money she can from you.

But it's a good thing it hasn't happened

●Another terrible thing you did besides wasting time is telling her to choose between you and another guy.

Write this down on a piece of paper: Until your dĂŹck or fingers has been firmly lodged in her pĂšssy and mouth at least 3 times, her sex/love life is none of your business.

If she doesn't bring it up, ignore it. The only exception is if she has a bf that could potentially shoot or stab you and we won't here you from again lol. Asides that, it's not your business

In fact, she should be th one trying to poke nose in your love life. Or begging you to choose her over other girls in your life.

You're giving the guy an unnecessary advantage by acting insecure. Just do your thing. If she wants to date you, she'll be the one asking for a relationship.

Keep an eye out for my post on the right way to get a girlfriend.

●Also, telling her you love her. Or you want to date is another bad idea.

Especially if it happens before you fĂšck her. She should be the one voicing it. Or hinting at it.

Well, it's a good thing you've realized your mistakes.

Most simps will still be living in delusions. Thinking the more they spend things will turn around. Which it never does.


----Your next moves

Now it's time for the fun part. Getting your John Thomas between those legs of hers.


● To kick things off, check if it's been up to a week between the last time you texted her and you reading this post.

Meaning, you've been ignoring her. If it is, you can prompt her to hit you up by posting something naughty and funny on your status.

When she does, vibe with her normally. Just be chill. Don't act butt hurt or desperate.

The goal is to get her to come over to your place.

Where you'd introduce her to the new you.

● Once she's over, don't ask about any guys. Ever. Especially that guy currently blowing her back.

If she brings him or any other guy just calmly smirk and say "wetin concern me"

Then change topic or go back to what you were discussing.

You want to give her the impression that she's almost got you but not yet. It will drive her crazy.

I can't list all the ways you'd display your hook up material qualities. But doing the things above should put you in a better spot.

Stay away from lovey dovey bs. And just have it in mind to put your dĂŹck inside her.

However, don't act desperate or needy about it. Maintain a chill, laidback vibe throughout. Resist any urge to spend on her or give her money. Even if she asks. In fact, especially if she asks.


At your skill level, I doubt if you'd knack her first time she comes over. Though if you did, kudos to you

But don't worry about it tho. You should do it by the third time she comes over after you've followed everything you just read

Now that I'm writing this, I just realized there seems to be huge list of guys who would like to fĂšck a girl that seems to just be running away or friendzoned them. Might write a book or post on that.

Anyways, less of boyfriend mindset. And more of hook up material vibe and mindset.

I see you pounding that àss. And if you're Iike me that loves to torment other men… you can make her cancel plans with other guys just for you or have her suck your dick before she goes to kiss them (girls have crazy fantasies)

Yes, I know I'm evil (sometimes) But such is life.


You are giving ubunja vibes🙂. Sex first🙂.

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Romance / Re: Would You Leave A 250,000 In A Private Company For A FG Job of 100 thousand? by ashewoboy(m): 7:22am On Nov 11, 2023
BigIyanga:

If you want to grow… you dont need it.
I have met young FG govt workers in Abj/Lagos who dont know how to use computer.. Uni graduates witj Zero MS office skills


Shey them dey collect big salary or not?
Romance / Re: Would You Leave A 250,000 In A Private Company For A FG Job of 100 thousand? by ashewoboy(m): 6:50am On Nov 11, 2023
Lalasticlala. Let's go to home page.
Travel / Re: Categories Of Nigerians Who Shouldn't JAPA Abroad (especially UK) by ashewoboy(m): 6:49am On Nov 11, 2023
ednut1:
your phone no get google


Rude much. Tell me more about them from your own experience.
Travel / Re: Categories Of Nigerians Who Shouldn't JAPA Abroad (especially UK) by ashewoboy(m): 6:14am On Nov 10, 2023
ednut1:
Remove senior chartered account. KPMG, PWC, EY,BDO, and the other audit firms are filled with Nigerian accountants who were hired directly from Nigeria. People wey dey collect 400 to 600k monthly in Nigerian audit firms enter Uk to collect 46k to 65k pounds per year. Which starting all over be that

You are earning well but you dont have peace of mind, your company or business is suffering from trial and error govt policies, health care is shitty. Why do you think they wont japa


Just knowing about BDO. Tell me more about them.
Romance / Re: Why Do Women Throw Bra At Male Celebrities? by ashewoboy(m): 5:19pm On Nov 09, 2023
You guys should stop.

Ladies only now. Comment.
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Romance / Re: Why Do Women Throw Bra At Male Celebrities? by ashewoboy(m): 7:58am On Nov 09, 2023
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Lalasticlala. Let's go to home page.
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Romance / Why Do Women Throw Bra At Male Celebrities? by ashewoboy(m): 5:42am On Nov 09, 2023
When women throw bra at male celebrities, what is the aim? There is a trending video of a male celebrity that a woman threw bra at him while he was on stage.


Women,why do you throw bra at male celebrities? What's your aim?
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 8:56pm On Nov 05, 2023
1nigeriamyfoot:



100% on point based on personal experience


Share your experience. Let us learn.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 12:01am On Nov 04, 2023
heartofcity12:
See simps and women coming after me coz I only said marrying a virgin is ideal.. It’s an offense for a man to have standards but they all want a rich man and detest broke guys for a long term.. #trp

The sisterhood🙂. Ubunja. What did do?🙂.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 4:40am On Nov 03, 2023
Zabiboy:
My short story so far

2018
√Broke
√Non Redpill
√Still in Uni
√Wasnt exercising
√No skill

2019
√Begging for crumbs on NL smiley
√Heard about the R.P
√Joined reddit R.P community, read R.P books, had a strong desire to know better
√ Finished "The Manipulated Man"
√Stop taking sugar. ( i dont smoke or drink alcohol, if not i would have stopped here too).

2020
√ Started Learning new skills
√ started exercising
√ Mindset improving, things getting better
√ Finished the Manipulated Man two more times
√ Read more books
√ Had a $20k goal by 2025. ( for family stuffs and japa)

2021
√Rounded up Uni ( corona added more nonths )
√Skills generating some funds
√ consitent exercise
√ Kept improving myself generally
√ moved out of parents house

2022
√ $20k goal surpassed.
√ Kept improving and learning

2023
√ moved back to parents house for some months ( cos i already knew i was leaving the country)
√ Finally told my fam i'm leaving, gave them a token and left
√ Left the country

If i can do it, anybody can


Show me the way.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 4:09am On Nov 03, 2023
PureFace1:
by The Unknown Don

A few days ago I turned 40 and tonight I was just thinking about past relationships... the things that went right, the things that went wrong, and the outright disasters.

A little background. I'm a reasonably well-off, college-educated white male, 6'0" in good shape. I've been married once for 5 years, divorced for 3. I went through my AFC (wussy) phase in my late teens, but I was fortunate enough to snap out of it by the time I was 20. From then on it was smooth sailing.

I've been reading many of the articles and message threads here. I agree with quite a bit, but I think there are some areas that need a little fleshing out and amplification. So I'd like to share some of my observations in no particular order:

1) No matter how good-looking a woman is, she will always become boring (particularly sexually) with time. The boredom accelerates if the relationship becomes domestic (living together, marriage, etc.).

2) Men remain in boring relationships out of sentimentality or financial convenience... but rarely fear.

3) Over the long run, the periods that men are without a partner and frustrated are generally happier than being stuck in a relationship which has lost its luster.

4) Women generally do the selecting in the earliest phases of a relationship. Once a woman has committed herself emotionally, the balance of power shifts to the man (assuming he has some degree of self-confidence).

5) Contrary to the myth that "looks don't matter" to women, physical attraction may be the primary and key deciding factor for a woman. However, it is difficult to determine just what will be physically attractive to any particular female. Even though men also value looks, they are far more willing to initially compromise on looks in the pursuit of sex.

6) If a woman is initially physically attracted to a man, there is very little he can do wrong on a first date.

7) If a woman is not initially physically attracted to a man, there is very little he can do right on a first date.

cool Always pay attention to a woman's actions. If she says she likes you but will not respond to kissing or touching, then she doesn't like you. Move on immediately.

9) Just like there are many men who are simply assholes, the same goes for women. If a woman is rude or inconsiderate in the first few dates, move on immediately -- it will not get better with time.

10) Any strange psychological problems, drug problems or baggage... move on immediately -- it will not get better with time.

11) All women have the same body parts. Don't obsess over one particular female based on appearance. It's a waste of life.

12) The vast majority of men get rejected much more often than they seal the deal. If you are rejected you are simply shooting par. Relax.

13) Above all, women crave attention. Women want to date rock stars not because they find the man himself exciting, but because they find the thought of sharing the limelight exciting. Ask any young girl what she wants to be. Top answers: model, actress, singer.

14) The sad truth is that we can only truly know ourselves. A wonderful woman you marry today and trust completely may change radically over the course of time to become your most vicious enemy. There is absolutely no way to predict this or stop this from happening. It is, ultimately, a matter of chance.

15) There are far more available women out there than you think.

16) Humans are generally not very good at monogamy. Most men in long-term relationships cheat to varying degrees, and a great number of women do as well. It's simply a matter of biology. If you discover that your significant other had an affair, the best course of action may sometimes be to take the high road and let it go.

17) Never, never, never be afraid to approach a female. To reiterate: they all have the same body parts, and they are all composed of Carbon, Hydrogen, Oxygen, Nitrogen, and trace elements. There isn't a single woman on Earth who is "above" you, no matter what her affectations and social pretenses.

18) Women tend to be far more pragmatic about relationships than men.

19) Unconditional love is a nice sentiment, but does not generally apply to male/female relationships. It does however, almost always apply to female/child, and to a slightly lesser extent, male/child relationships.

20) Never become financially entangled with a female. If you decide to marry, do not even think of doing so without a prenuptial agreement. This is common practice in Europe, however there is still a social stigma attached to these agreements in the U.S.

21) Sex is generally overrated. The amount of effort expended in obtaining it vs. the payoff is absurd.

22) If a woman in a relationship begins to lose interest, it is usually impossible to regain it. The feelings you are having of confusion and fear mean something... trust your gut and move on immediately.

23) After breakups, men usually tend to forget about the sexual boredom and once again find their past girlfriends exciting.

24) If a woman has not gained some form of emotional stability by the time she is her mid-twenties, then it is too late. Move on immediately.

25) Avoid women with a large number of pets or women who pay unusual amounts of attention to their pets.

26) Most first-time marriages fail. Consider that if you decide to get married, there is better than a coin-flip chance that you will be divorced. If any other civil contract had as high a failure rate, Congress would outlaw it. The world has changed dramatically in the last three or four decades and many people have postponed marriage until much later in life, or simply never get married.

27) If you do decide to get married, remember that it IS a contract - one that you can't get out of without a great deal of expense and pain. Never be sentimental about marriage. Love is only one piece of the pie. You may love a woman terribly, but you may also be unable to deal with her in everyday affairs and money matters.

28) Avoid women with addictions, particularly the big three: nicotine, alcohol, and born-again Christianity.

29) Never avoid discussing something that bothers you out of fear of losing the relationship. Most relationships will - sooner or later - be lost anyway. It's better to stand up for yourself early on.

30) Always keep the ego in check. If a woman you are approaching for the first time is rude or obnoxious, simply go away. Tossing an insult or scathingly witty comment back simply demonstrates that your self-confidence is far lower than hers. Always, always, always take the higher road. This doesn't mean be a pushover, it means you bend with the wind (kind of a Zen thing). The best way to disarm an obnoxious female is to treat her with courtesy and respect.

31) There is an inverse relationship between self-confidence and concern with what others think of you.

32) Self-confident men desire sex, but don't dwell on it.

33) Most reasonable, normal women will make it clear if they are attracted to you or not very early on. Period. If you have difficulty reading a woman's motives, or find yourself dwelling on what she meant by something she said, or you can't seem to pin down a date, then move on immediately.

Hope this helps.

https://www.sosuave.com/articles/25years.htm


The number 27 😯😯😯😯. Truth.

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Romance / Re: What A Typical Nigerian Man Goes Through During Talking Stage by ashewoboy(m): 6:27pm On Oct 22, 2023
Lalasticlala.
Romance / Re: Share Hidden Secrets Of Life On This Thread. by ashewoboy(m): 6:26pm On Oct 22, 2023
Lalasticlala. Let's go there.
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 6:54am On Oct 22, 2023
Karlifate:
Harsh Truths Men Need to Hear:

1. Nobody is ever coming to save you.

2. You are not special, not in the slightest.
You must prove yourself like everybody else.

3. To become a better version of yourself:
You have to kill the old version of yourself.

4. You cannot afford to be undisciplined.
Doing things only when you "feel like it" will only lead to failure.

5. You need to stop being a pussy.
On your deathbed, you won't regret all the risks you took. You'll regret not taking enough.

6. Girls will still cheat on you, even if you do everything for them.

7. Chasing pleasure will always lead to misery.

8. The longer you stay lazy, the longer your mom will have to work.

9. Your parents won't be here forever. Make them proud and retire them.

10. Men who can't provide value are worthless to society.



📖::: Masculine Elite


Number six😯🙂.

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Romance / Re: Men With Pure Intention Still Want Sex. by ashewoboy(m): 3:03pm On Oct 14, 2023
Stephen2324:
Men with pure intention still want sex.
Women with clear intentions still need money.
If we’re being honest


No lies detected.

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