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Romance › Re: ... Why Ladies Can't Settle With A Broke Guy by Ask4Info(op): 11:12pm On Mar 04, 2017

babyfaceafrica:
what is there to rread in a one-sided write up meant to demean guys and praise ladies.. To each his own

No one is demeaning anyone. We are only stating the obvious truth here as it relates to today's average Nigerian male.

Romance › Re: ... Why Ladies Can't Settle With A Broke Guy by Ask4Info(op): 11:09pm On Mar 04, 2017

TosinDru:
A lot of good points and also several fallacious remarks.
I actually hate when somebody says millennials are lazy (I might state my reasons later), and what category of guys are you talking about?. Cos I don't see them around.

The Yahoo boys, Ponzi lovers, gamblers, lay about guys all fall under the above category. They are all around you but you possibly overlook them because of their cars, gadgets, clothes...

Romance › Re: ... Why Ladies Can't Settle With A Broke Guy by Ask4Info(op): 11:06pm On Mar 04, 2017

ipobarecriminals:
wic female are more dedicated? Those one that use 40 minutes to use crayons/watercolor pant their face in toilet? or those one that runs b4 5pm/come late to work @ 8.30AM come write 7,12AM and on 2nd day write close @ 6.48pm?

LOOOL!!! you are just being sarcastic.

Romance › Re: ... Why Ladies Can't Settle With A Broke Guy by Ask4Info(op): 11:04pm On Mar 04, 2017

obiorathesubtle:
In conclusion..

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Men are on average, more ambitious than women..[/s]

Of course.. And we do it to attract them..

Go back and reread the write up. Only this time READ IT CAREFULLY AND DON'T RUSH.

Romance › Re: ... Why Ladies Can't Settle With A Broke Guy by Ask4Info(op): 11:03pm On Mar 04, 2017

babyfaceafrica:
Too many generalizations..females are more dedicated,females are more trustworthy,females are more this and that than men.....no source,no stats ?...every gender has both the good and bad Ines equally...don't come here praising one over the other...with these cheats all over the social media!!!.....if you like marry dangote,if you like marry yahoo boy,if you like marry okada rider..all that matters is happiness and there are poor people that are happy!!

I doubt you read the writeup "withinn" lines.Anyway you are entitled to your opinion. Cheers!

Romance › ... Why Ladies Can't Settle With A Broke Guy by Ask4Info(op): 10:51pm On Mar 04, 2017*

Whenever i see on social media the way guys rain insults on ladies especially those who bluntly say they can't settle with a broke guy, or those who insist on marrying a well to do guy, or even see unmarried ladies in their 30s and 40s, i can't just help but marvel at the caliber of insults reigned on the female gender.

Now, before you misunderstand me, i am not advocating for young or mature ladies to be gold diggers or too selective, but really, why should a lady who earns LEGALLY building a career or skill over the years suddenly settle for someone who is not only currently broke but without no determination to improve his current status.

My career path has taken me far and wide and as someone who has been privileged to source for brains and manpower for small, medium and multinational companies i will layout some extremely bitter but true facts of statistics gotten over the years from direct surveys:

* Most Human Resource Executives WANT more females to feel the vacant jobs they have than their male counterparts due to the following reasons:

i) Female are more dedicated and tend to stay longer than their male counterparts in an organization.

ii) Females on the average are more trustworthy than males.

iii) Females tend to build on a specific career path over very long time than a men who are usually motivated by money and tend to change careers over the years.

iv) Females are usually more satisfied with a salary range over time than males who usually determined for increase in salaries within short period of time.

Now the above was basically to point out a few points why we have more working class ladies than men (on satistics of employed individuals across certain counteries. Nigeria included).

If we now go to the Blue collar job, the above will almost likely be the same. Most people tend to prefer to patronize females than males because of issues such: Delay in delivery, Lies, Bullying, Poor Customer Service amongst many others.

If we now go to the social lifestyle; We now have more irresponsible young men now than in other generation ever. We now have the laziest of men living today than ever.

Never has there been a time when 8 out of 10 guys wake up each day and all their activities of the day, week and month circles around Gambling, Drinking, Chasing Women and Having sex randomly and moving aimlessly around with any purpose.

We now have more guys thinking it is 100% Okay to sit at home all day long while their girfriend(s ) and wife(ves) go out there under the rain and sun to make a living for the home.

Never have there been a time when a guy feels comfortable getting up from bed around 12noon, stroll down to the betting shop down the road, order for a few shot of paraga or bottle of beer, stroll down to go gist away with his fellow jobless friends, and then go back home around 11pm. He expects to get home to meet pounded yam and egusi stock with bush meat wating on the table to welcome him.

So many men now have stooped so low to stealing from their girlfriend or wife only to spend same money on another woman and his jobless friends.

Before you abuse Linda Ikeji, Genevieve or Rota Dominic of being single at their age; please ask yourself a very honest question, are you responsible enough for such women.

Yes! You might not be as rich ad your wife (i.e. Folorunsho Alakija and her husband) but what are you bringing to the table in terms of advice, emotional, mental and physical support, financial management, domestic assistance and many more.

It is not okay to just have a B.Sc and feels the world owes you a job. First degree is now going extint. Further your education, learn a skill, be responsible, watch less TV and READ MORE BOOK.

It is so pathetic are most men are just mere sper*m donors and nothing more. They will be the worst mistake to make a role model.

Women are not saints we know. But most men have decided to be followers instead of leaders due to their laziness and wrong orientation.

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Crime › Re: Abia State Univerisity Student Beheaded In Imo (Photos) by Ask4Info: 10:00pm On Mar 04, 2017

Barmmyshoes:
Hmmmm. Make them take their time find something reasonable doing that will earn them legit money, na man dem go dey follow up and down.

Rest in Peace pretty lady. To all the remaining ladies, find something tangible doing that will make you self independent. As for me, I am a FEMALE SHOEMAKER.

Check my signature for your stylish and quality footwears.

Keep it up. Nothing ever beats seeing a hardworking and focused young lady.

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Politics › Re: Yakubu Gowon Not Dead! by Ask4Info: 9:28pm On Mar 04, 2017

I INSIST THAT SOCIAL MEDIA BILL MUST BE PASSED INTO LAW BY THE SENATE. ENOUGH OF ALL THESE RUBBISH THAT EVERY TOM, TERRY AND TONY WANT TO BE A BLOGGER OVER NIGHT.

IF PEOPLE START TO KNOW THERE IS CONSEQUENCES FOR WHATEVER THEY PUT ONLINE, WE WILL STOP SEEING RUBBISH ON OUR CYBERSPACE.

Family › Re: How Do You Feel When Someone Replies Your Plenty Chat Messages with a 'K' Only. by Ask4Info: 9:21pm On Mar 02, 2017

CplusJason:
I really don't know how Mhisbliss1 feel about it.

Grow up son. People like you keep getting the "K" treatment because you act too desperate and needy to get a girl's attention. Why the bolded?

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Family › Re: How Do You Feel When Someone Replies Your Plenty Chat Messages with a 'K' Only. by Ask4Info: 9:19pm On Mar 02, 2017

Even Papa wey borm me DEM NO BORN AM WELL MAKE I WRITE EPISTLE MAKE HE REPLY WITH 'OKAY'!.

Except if okay is the reply deserved to me message. I.e. Passing across a description, suggestion or advice.

You see, the problem with most people is that THEY NEVER HAD VALUE TO PEOPLE'S LIVES so people treat them however they deem fit.

God is my witness, people don't choose me to be their friend. I do the choosing.

If we meet or dicuss, within the first 30mins, i would try to have added value to your life, either by advice, suggestion, compliment or humour, so there's absolutely no way you wouldn't want our conversation to continue.

Ignore my call or message three straight times and it will become history of ever knowing you.

You can call it Strict or Petty, i call it Principul.

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Health › Re: Port-Harcourt Lady Infects Man With HIV & Blocks Him On Facebook (Photos) by Ask4Info: 1:14pm On Mar 01, 2017*

Christianity Etc › Re: Happy Ash Wednesday by Ask4Info: 4:57am On Mar 01, 2017

Christians are the most Hipocritical Creatures on Eart.

Lent : They will give excuse why it isn't compulsory to fast.

Fast : They will come up with excuses to best suit their time. 12noon, 3pm, 6pm. Some will even say you are allowed to drink water or eat fruit inbetween.

Dressing: You are allowed to dress anyhow, i.e. expose you cleavage and thighs, wear weavon and eye lashes, piercing and tattoos. "Afterall Jesus has wiped away our sins".

Sex:Premarital sex is now very much permitted. Even pastors no longer preach against it.

Catholic Remains the True Christianity.

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Webmasters › Re: Kemi Filani Set To Wed. Pre-wedding Photos Released by Ask4Info: 9:31pm On Feb 28, 2017

softwerk:
All female bloggers are getting married while our Aunty Linda Ikeji is still searching for Mr Right even at the age of 42

When eligible bachelor's like Seun and Lalasticlala full ground?!

Hmmm, well sha it's none of my business

When did Marriage translate to happiness and fulfillment in life?

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Politics › Re: Update Required: What Does It Take To Register A Political Party? by Ask4Info: 10:40pm On Feb 25, 2017

Olaide1295:
Thanks for re-raising this issue. It's been on my mind so I'll make my position quickly.
The modalities to build a party strong enough to compete with the present ones will be tough and the Most important thing is the TIME we devote to it(Not money).
The present ~~theives~~ leaders are full time politicians so I won't be easy taking them on.
I however think its achievable.

I have ideas on how we can kickstart a political revolution but Its not too safe posting them on a public forum like this.

I totally understand. Pleaae mention me to remind me by Wednesday. We need to act fast.

Politics › Re: Update Required: What Does It Take To Register A Political Party? by Ask4Info: 9:15pm On Feb 25, 2017

mcameo:
I came across a recent post with the above topic, "What Does It Take To Register A Political Party?" i was excited to read posts from individuals comments, but unfortunately the posts ran dry, would the people who contributed to the original post, take a serious stand in actualizing suggestions they put forward and let us get something done. Also can Ask4Info, Olaide1295 and anyone serious wishing to contribute, come forward. My email is mcameo@mail.com on how we can proceed. Thanks i would appreciate serious and mature individual / comments.

https://www.nairaland.com/3525233/what-does-it-take-register.

Please Mod, glad if you can post this on FP on the political forum. Thanks.

Working on a few things. Really determined in doing this but my hands are quite full at the moment.

Islam › Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ask4Info: 11:33pm On Feb 24, 2017

Baseema:
yes I'm sorry I quote it.

It is okay! Thanks.

You are yet to flash.

Islam › Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ask4Info: 11:32pm On Feb 24, 2017

Baseema:
Kwara, ilorin.

I would prefer you drop yours.

can you delete the number from the last quote of mine you made?

Islam › Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ask4Info: 11:30pm On Feb 24, 2017

Baseema:
Kwara, ilorin.

I would prefer you drop yours.

Have you gotten it?

Islam › Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ask4Info: 11:27pm On Feb 24, 2017

Baseema:
Kwara, ilorin.

I would prefer you drop yours.

Please just flash this number now.

Islam › Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ask4Info: 11:19pm On Feb 24, 2017

Baseema:
I'm not really based in the north like that.

BTW, I can't drop my contact on this public forum just like that.

Where are you truly based? i mean after Nysc? can you drop it quote my and immediately i get it you delete it.

Islam › Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ask4Info: 11:17pm On Feb 24, 2017*

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Islam › Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ask4Info: 11:02pm On Feb 24, 2017

Baseema:
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I am still waiting for your response.

Islam › Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ask4Info: 6:54pm On Feb 24, 2017

Baseema:
currently serving in Minna, Niger state.

So you are baically based in the North right? Can i have your contact number?

Islam › Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ask4Info: 3:49pm On Feb 24, 2017

Baseema:
I don't even know why

Where are based?

Family › Re: As A Family Man, Am I A Miser, Greedy Or Trying To Be Financially Smart? by Ask4Info: 7:56pm On Feb 23, 2017

worlexy:
Op didn't mention anything like distance to work. The last time I checked, houses on the same street don't cost same amount to rent, a newly built house constructed with modern building materials will cost more than a relatively old building on the same street. So he can get a less expensive house in the same vicinity

....and i believe you know it doesn't cost peanuts to renovate a dilapidated struction. Wiring, plumbing, carpentery, bricklaying and others. Well, we all can believe or take actions as we will.

But most times, pounds wise penny foolish is disasterous in the long run.

Safe.

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Family › Re: As A Family Man, Am I A Miser, Greedy Or Trying To Be Financially Smart? by Ask4Info: 6:51pm On Feb 23, 2017

akaglue:
Hello OP, as a personal finance coach, I always advice my clients not to do more than 2mths salary on rent. From ur write up, ur monthly salary is 50k. Ideally, ur annual rent should not be more than 100-120k. If you single with no financial responsibility, then 150k is ok.

www.akaglue.com

Financial Coach indeed.

So he should move further inward town for a cheaper house which he will automatically pay more for transport which will shoot his expenses further upward, have a more stressful life, lesser time with family and less secure neighborhood.

Everyone sure has a say on nairaland.

I can just imagine the type of accomodation he is paying for N150,000 then you all want to make things worse for the poor man.

Encourage him to increase his income rather than take steps which will decrease his life span in the name of saving.

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Family › Re: As A Family Man, Am I A Miser, Greedy Or Trying To Be Financially Smart? by Ask4Info: 6:44pm On Feb 23, 2017

Desdola:
Get a loan and build a housr

Build house in Ogun or Abeokuta and spend N300,000 on transportation to work annually bah?

It amases me how every average man thinks owning a house automatically solves your financial burden. Please make una try get financial knowledge biko.

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Family › Re: As A Family Man, Am I A Miser, Greedy Or Trying To Be Financially Smart? by Ask4Info: 6:39pm On Feb 23, 2017

bukatyne:

100k rent on 600k salary is still high.

How about child care, school fees, feeding, clothing, entertainment, helping relatives, savings, investment etc?

Does your wife work? If no, you both need to strategize.

You for say make e go live inside BASKET or dey sleep inside Danfo.

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Family › Re: As A Family Man, Am I A Miser, Greedy Or Trying To Be Financially Smart? by Ask4Info: 6:35pm On Feb 23, 2017

Oyind17:
Coming from a family man

Women are in trouble

How much is your Dad's salary? and how much is your house rent anually?

Family › Re: As A Family Man, Am I A Miser, Greedy Or Trying To Be Financially Smart? by Ask4Info: 6:26pm On Feb 23, 2017*

The first question i will ask is : How far is your work place from your house and how much do you spend on transportation monthly and anually?

You see the solution isn't always about renting a very cheap house but rather, how accesible is your house to your everyday locations, how secured is where we stay and how well you derive comfort and peace of mind.

I hear people work on the island only to be living in deep inside Agege or Ewekoro all in the name of renting a cheap house. They leave home as early as 4:30am and don't get home until 11:45pm. Abeg if them slump and die shey na still witches for their village we go still blame?

Frugality and Extravagance is Relative.

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Business › Re: Naira Firms On Black Market After Central Bank Action - BDC Traders by Ask4Info: 10:56pm On Feb 22, 2017

asodane:
You were cheated bro, I just got mine 517 per dollar

Oga, i will swear with anything that you are lying. N517? for dollar or pound. You guys should stop trying to politicise everything. What location and how much did you change?

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