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Davido Lunches His Newly Owned Estate With A Drag Race Using His 2017 Model Range Rover Worth 80 Million And Benz GLE450 Worth 70 Million

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EasLaYECq3s

Foxie:
Married Men & Women, Please come in and advice me, I don't want to make mistakes. I've been dating him for 3 years now, though we have marriage in sight (looking at this year), though he doesn't seem ready...

There are some things I see in him that disturbs me and gives me great concerns:

1. He isn't as spiritual as I thought he was. I met him in the church and from stories he had shared with me, I felt great that I had met a man who has a connection with God, But I can't see any trace of that. He's just playing church.

2. His best friend isn't so responsible (he's a chronic womaniser, he physically abuses his gf, he smokes and as well drinks...) and I fear he's been influenced by this said best friend.

3. When I point out the things he's doing wrongly, he picks an offence and ignores me.
Take for instance, I complain how he does 'follow follow' with this his bestfriend. His friend controls him to hang out late into the night, take alcohol when he's decided he won't anymore. I don't know if I'm overreacting.

4. He doesn't read, even if he graduated with a good result. If you hand him any book that would grow him and increase his knowledge, he dumps the book. He isn't interested in reading any material or book to develop himself.

5. He doesn't plan: I get really frustrated at this, he rather wait for situations/things to come up before he [/color]acts or prepare, when such situations could have been well prepared for before time.

[color=#990000]6. He's not sensitive to my needs ( or so I think). I'm always on the look out for him, making sure he's best at whatever he does, I'm always there for him, I add more value to his life than he does to me. Little romantic gestures here and there he doesn't do. And I get tired of showing a man how to make me feel loved and put smiles on my face, whereas he doesn't show me how to love him and make him happy...

Besides all of these, he's very patient with me, he has never lost his temper even at my worst, he never lets me go for the several times I wanted out of the relationship when we have issues, he loves his family, he's humble, respectful and disciplined.

Should I be going on with getting married with a man with the above attributes?

Please chip in your advice, I'd really appreciate. Thank you.

N.B: We're not se****** active, he agreed to wait for me...

nurez305:
I invested 5million, got 31k the 31k self, the person told me that he Is not paying...

olasaad:
They can only tell us how much they make but they can't disclose the one they froze because that one is confidential

rhektor:
To think that you believed what you typed beats my heart. What a shallow thinking

olasaad:
have you read ur bible today and if I may ask how many christians reading this post have read the bible today.

youngmann:
I am a fvcktard who is looking for attention.

leofab:
Muslims and wahalla self

femi4:
All in the name of trying to rubbish most of Nigerian artist, you started like someone who knows next to nothing about Nigeria music when you said that Joel sang "AMIN"

About the song: Its a Fuji pop dancehall ( popularly called Tungba) which is similar to what Coker did in "Do Something". I should remind you that "Amin" was done by Dammy Crane and the beat was a slow tempo.

sanandreas:
Do you have a king? Take a good look and you would see that most of these kings are retired military personnel.

OoniOfIfe:
You people like calling Igbos ritualists
That's the propaganda yoruba media have carried for long time and have corrupt ya mind,
The Internet is here today, everyone can access news everywhere/anywhere TODAY WE KNOW WHO THE REAL RITUALISTS ARE.
when it comes to fraud, rape, rilead Yoruba lead and I guess they don't condemn it because it helps them alot

jennybright:
In my next generation I will marry Igbo husband because they know how to make money and eat money. They never depend on FG. Did you notice how they travelled so well this Christmas without minding recession simple because they believe in themselves. While FG are employing other tribe without salary igbos are there doing their business. Sack them all they will still standing tall. Igbo ndi oma nwada n'ekele ooo

SmellingAnus:
I am no lo her surprised then you are well informed and experienced...

judefcc:
[s]i no dey dey yahoo abeg oooo , my mother owns like 5mill inside but i worked hard to be who i am today , i stay on my own , got my car myself
make i share my story small i grew up in kaduna , my dad doesnt give us money he gives work , do this and i will pay u thats how we get pocket money from him , under Amechi govt i was in university , i was dating one of his commissioners Mr BobManuel sister she introduced me to the guy and he gave me diesel contract to be doing , for 3years na God and i made my money , police and friends too dey talk so i code , hide myself the work was stopped after he left office , today i still dey hustle life na one by one , on nairaland i choose to be who i want to be , haters can hate iphone7 na small thing wait i go do thread about somtin next week


abeg to my brothers and sisters can i settle down with 11mil after wedding , my guy say na 50mill person need , i no get house oooo , na only car and flat when i rent , wetin una think[/s]