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I was asked this question recently by an opposite sex, I paused for like some minute before answering the question truthfully.. Just don't like the way she is too respectful to me, she hardly call me my name and the age differences isn't more than a year...matured views only

Perfection

Who told you baba Adeboye doesn't have a successor yet? he may not like him to be public mentioned now,God works in mysterious ways, that man is a wise man ooooooh @op

@ mutuwa.. The world is a global world that's why, but must you follow the global world,that's the question I have for the single Ladies?

The issue of marriage is an important one which many people value greatly. For the woman, it is sometimes seen as important because of parental pressure. There is the usual perception that most ladies who remain unmarried till they are well over 30 are no longer ‘wife material’ and their chances of remaining single for life increase. As a result of the stigma society bequeaths them, there is the tendency for single women to become desperate. However, sometimes, ladies also play a part in discouraging the finding of a significant other. Below are some of the possible reasons:

Selectiveness

The modern day lady is more selective than what obtains in olden times. This is because parents no longer retain exclusive rights in giving them out in marriage. For this, they reject a lot of suitors for various reasons, including men being below their standards, physical appearance, financial status, age, religion, tribe, etc. It is okay to be selective but a lady can increase her chances by being less selective.

Career lifestyle

Most men tend to prefer women who work less and have time for the home. A woman needs to slow down on work and have time for other things that would ensure a successful marriage.

Social media distraction

Nowadays, some ladies are too busy texting and chatting with their smart phones and hardly have enough time to focus on getting the right partner. Also, some ladies see celebrities and the euphoria of what they present as their lifestyle and prefer to use that as a yardstick for their lives. With this attitude, it becomes difficult to cope with the reality and this may further delay a woman in terms of finding the right partner.

Spending too much time with strangers

No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always buzzing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance he gets.

Not financially supportive

A lady should be willing to think and work towards equipping herself in order to add value to the marriage. Adding value to marriage isn’t necessarily by contributing money or giving expensive gifts. Other ways include giving good counsel, being your spouse’s best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and not being a liability.

Poor packaging

In the attempt to look appealing, a lady has to take care not to come across as appalling. Dressing style determines who gets attracted to one most times. If one dresses high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted, and if you dress provocatively, only randy men will be interested. There is a line between decent and excess. Too much may be a turn off for some eligible bachelors

All this People wey dey give us heart blood pressure in NFA, God go give dem too HBP... When are we going to be serious for ones even Jonathan too they act as he is serious with development in nigeria?

Got same mail... But how do you do the video exam online?

I didn't go because I dunno like the work description..it will be marketing things too I guess

The Nations Cup is just few months ahead,and hoping to see Nigerians make it to Morocco with the new improvement I saw against Sudanese Team.. My guesses is that we only take things serious when we are close to been edging out of been Qualifying from the football Festival, Do you see Keshi still deserving been the National team Coach with the new improvement against Sudanese or should he be sacked to make way for a Foreign Coach in this period?

I love UNAAB Library, it is a masterpiece

If Emenaike, Onazi and Enyeama are off the team, I don't see us going to the Nations Cup... Keshi is been not mature the way he treat this player... He should be more interested in how to bring out the best Mikel Obi..

@irishcream.. Hangout to me mean we should see each other first..

The location part of it, you must be a gidi babe because I don't like travelling oooOooo on this our nigerian roads..let me check ur profile now

@irishcream... Will like to court you but don't really know you now dat why I said we should hang out.

@irishcream,, I will like to hang out with you on but itbomb look more serious than me..

@irishcream,lolz, you are so funny, I dunno like saying that am a good guy but itbomb looks to be more serious in you,..

@irishcream...ask yourself this question, Do u see yourself getting married in d next two years Maximum and hope you have a source of income too.. There are many good guys on nairaland who are husband material and no guy want to court a Liability

Thanks ITBOMB for dat answer

@krall, Imagine a 14yrs old gal telling me she has a boyfriend and you called that Dating, if she is your sister what will you do?.. Bt in courting you are 75percnt sure you will marry her and only people ready to get married courts

Why are guys so interested in Dating to Courting? Even most of my mates at work will tell me they prefer dating on silly excuses that both of them should know each other for three years and above.. Please need mature views

250k for fresh graduate in naija now?? Na only by the Grace of God even if you av got first class or upper..Even I know a bro that earns 200k as a contract staff in an oil company but he waited 2 years investing in profession exam only and praying alot."Only a real risk test the quality of a belief"....C.S. Lewis.....Our God is still alive..That was the year 2010 oooo ...

Even God is a Jealous God, So it is necessary in love also

I always wonder how many years will it take this construction firm handling the Expansion of Ikorodu Road, in my little guess,they keep shifting the date they are to finish the work....but even the work they are doing has become a death trap to many citizens living in that axis and mostly outsiders.. I want use this medium to ask the business owners,workers that stays within the environment to enlighten us on the menace we face each day of the week when moving out to our different work?

I am planning to do something better like this for a cute single nairaland babe also...

The guy must be intelligent to have taken them to court..

Today interview menh na only God fit help oooo,the woman looks tough afta the essay written

Pls what are d question for the interview? I did mine test on 17/09/2014 wednesdy and got a call and a mail for an interview tomorw,,

You have been successful in the 1st stage of the IDISCO graduate recruitment test. A formal interview is scheduled for 22/09/14 by 10 am.Check your email...pls anybody who got a success mail also, I am a science grdt not an Engineering grdt n also did my test on 17/09

I have friends that are short and they are doing fine in there career and Lifestyle, why should a short guy be so rubbish like this? Remember a short guy in nigerian might be the tallest in china/japan

What is the test like because mine is 17th sept by 9am @ Lekki.. Mail me through ds askakeem@gmail.com..

You are invited for the IDISCO 2014 aptitude test@12,Landbridge Av(Behind FO filling Statn Lekki bustop,Lagos
@9 am, 17/09/14
Info:www.dis-recruit.com/info... Don't knw much abt them

Thanks op for that piece, I usually do it at work whenever am working Morning shift and am looking @ doing it and selling it to schools by next month by God grace