Family › Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Astrid4(m): 9:02pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
IamGreen1: And destroying her own life indirectly. I can't help but anticipate many bad things that will befall her in years to come. If the man later out...she might end up losing her life...men dey para this days, I can only imagine |
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Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Astrid4(m): 10:45pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
Arabiandude: 3 actually made the list. The list includes Iheancho also and I believe so well that comes the end of this season, players like Awoniyi and maybe Ejuke will be added to this list and next season, Maduka and Onyeka might join also @ d bolded Bro Ejuke no follow for this list at all ohh. All those wingers are elite and have proven themselves over the years am tipping chuks for a spot though. |
Romance › Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Astrid4(m): 5:08pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
Bola146: May we never meet agbako people in life Hummmmmm... People should be very careful with your type of human being, as friends oo 3years and you can't still tell her You don't want to offend her or you are done with her? Koburu The same way you rise her legs, use the same method to tell her intentionally you are really hurting her seriously by still wasting her time when you could said the truth to your people since, haba!!!! It's better you tell her the truth now! If you still continue making use of her to dump her later hummmm... if she curse you it will come to pass for sure but if you tell her now, she will shout and keep quiet. Some ladies don suffer in the name of bad and crazy relationship  No curse will come to past on this poor dude abegii, he has his own reason for the breakup,the fact the woman has been giving her sex for the past 3 years doesn't mean he should be marry her, the question is the woman really committed to this dude??,abi no be you girls ??the babe will surely have a second option/fiddle if he should breakup with her then the poor gal that will move on, I will only advice him to do it fast so he won't waste more of the babe's time. There is nothing bad in this, bad relationship is better than bad marriage. Don't make it sound like OP has just committed murder or anything #insidelife |
Romance › Re: Verbal Abuse Versus Domestic Violence. by Astrid4(m): 3:51pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Shegzy8: I prefer been challenged physically. It leaves scars of the event, it might show my weakness or strength, it’s visible to everyone. It’s saddening the society has turned a deaf ear to things affecting men. words are like missiles, they are very potent. Only that they do not live any visible scar. It’s like acid, it eats one within. It torments one, gives instability. Causes depression.
And you see and hear people give them pass.
“She’s a woman, they are wired that way”
“No matter what, just walk away” FOR HOW LONG WILL I WALK AWAY FROM MY HOME?
Not everyone is emotionally strong
A woman assaults you, you are asked to walk away
A woman verbally abuses you, you are asked not to talk back and also walk away.
Unknown to everyone that such mindset and thinking has made some women rise to godlike figure thinking no man will or should touch them no matter what they do.
They attack men careless and ask what do you want to do?
Beat me na?
Some go to any length to frame you up.
We all have heard this from most Nigerian women
I will show you I’m a woman
That’s the mindset of manipulation and the man is left in the middle of nowhere cause every one will believe her.
I had a gf who cheated and lied she was forced. I saw through all those and I did what she never expected. Turned out she lied. Base on say I no like stress or anything wahala If a woman start nagging...omooor nah to carry her loads and property to the streets where she belong...I hate nagging with passion. |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Astrid4(m): 8:55pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
andrewbaba44: And you want people to use 2 epl game’s not up to 90 minutes to judge Saúl ?
Do you know the most successful foreigners in the epl are from Laliga ? Even better than many English players
People think Laliga is easy to score and succeed there ,Na cr7 and Messi incredible stats cause those thinking
You said hazard is no flop because of injuries,but the epl media are always quick to label players flop no matter the circumstance Agreed though but let's take a look a Saul niguez from a whole different perspective, Niguez played three games struggled in the first...he played real well in the caraboa game am not insinuating he is not a PL standard if well indoctrinated he will come out good but for Chelsea he is a Chelsea material.las Las nah average player. Thomas partey woes just came a little bit a surprise for me. |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Astrid4(m): 8:37pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
andrewbaba44: If I hear say hazard no be flop
Go and watch Coutinho first 6 months at Barca and come and tell me that hazard Is not a flop I can't use 6 month to judge a player who has been consistent for 7 years, hazard injury woea came the moment he joined real Madrid, he has not played 5 matches in a go for real Madrid since he joined. |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Astrid4(m): 8:31pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
andrewbaba44: When I called hazard a Laliga flop you think I didn’t remember Coutinho name ?
Coutinho is not a Laliga flop I won’t lie Hazard is not a flop yet...lets him play 7 games back to back before we can make any judgement he played well against real vallecano in their last game he could have scored sef if not for hin ogbanje teammates. |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Astrid4(m): 8:24pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
andrewbaba44: Why didn’t you let us know that Coutinho is also a top player at the epl  Well countihno played well in Liverpool but his best moment in EPL was in jurgen klopp era. Liverpool actually to his strength,klopp's gengenpressing and horizontal compactness brought the best out of him, Bayern Munich's hansi flick played gengenpressing too and brought the best out of countihno but he will continue to strive in Barca due to their unnecessary possessive game, if top coach like tuchel and klopp handle countihno then he will return to his beast mode, despite all this sef countihno has not flop in Barcelona just yet I will just rate him 5/10 nah expectations and high transfer make most Barca fans dey reason like that. |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Astrid4(m): 8:13pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
andrewbaba44: At least he didn’t get the chance at Chelsea
Can same be said of 100 million flop hazard at Laliga 
Madrid should have invested in chukwueze instead . Hazard issue is a whole different issue entirely, hazard flopped in la liga not because he is poor player, but injury played a vital role in his lost of form, dembele and countihno were top players in bundesliga but yet flopped in la liga. It is obvious Saul niguez even Thomas partey are not premier league standard. |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Astrid4(m): 8:04pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
12large1: Nigerians single handedly destroyed uzoho career trajectory. A player that was fancied at a young age and playing regularly at la liga all of a sudden ended at a backwater league all because his country men assassinated his character by accusing him of age falsification Read what you wrote again does it make sense? |
Family › Re: I’m Pregnant With Twins And The Father Doesn’t Want Them. by Astrid4(m): 10:19pm On Nov 04, 2021 |
Mercychen: God bless you for doing justice to this matter with detailed points. I couldnt have said it any better. This here was exactly my point.
See the other 17 yr old girl who was abandoned at the hospital because the father of her twin babies ran away and her family could not pay the bills. Who will now bear the cost?
Has anyone of them showing empathy behind their keypads sent her a dime till now? Thats what I'm saying. Certain things can be avoided.
It's always better to be safe than sorry. Well this will be a lessons to her and other homellyy...we are all accountable for our actions. |
Family › Re: I’m Pregnant With Twins And The Father Doesn’t Want Them. by Astrid4(m): 10:00pm On Nov 04, 2021 |
mariahAngel: If it depended on her "personal sentiments" as you say, why then did she bring it here, asking for what to do? Have you considered that there's the option of adoption if she's not ready to keep the babies? Or you don't think the babies she carrying deserve the chance to live?
As for the canceled part, na for people wey no wan get sense! And them plenty for nairaland. Aunty the babe knows what she wants if she wants the child then I see no reason for her creating a thread, it obvious she doesn't want the child, I see a mother seeking viable option of running away from her ultimate responsibility. I believe the child deserves the right to live but the bone of contention is... is the mother ready to give this children the live they deserve, children are blessing and also can be a curse if they are not given the live they deserve, it not every child that will turn out to be Justin Bieber...now, not it not about the financially aspect now it more about the mental preparation is she ready to sacrifice or gives what it take for the children to have the life they deserves, personally I think she lacks this,it obvious she is not ready for a child I see a coward running away from her responsibility. Now to the adoption...I have a lot of friends who grew in the orphanage their stories are not dope ohhh,most rich folks don't adopt thru ministry of women affairs or whatever they go straight to the orphanage...most of dudes in the orphanage are subjected to harsh and inhumane treatment, Is that what a reasonable mother will wish for her children...common this is real life with real consequences, life no be Hollywood. Las Las she go pay for her deed, there is no way she can escape. N.B I like the fact you keep it civil and logical.God bless |
Politics › Re: Osinbajo: Don’t Be Distracted By Yahoo Boys, They Will Go To Jail by Astrid4(m): 9:01pm On Nov 04, 2021 |
Iamgrey5: You mean a SAN who is the attorney general of Lagos hasn't had any job in his life before?
How about Peter Obi's 18 years old daughter that has billions of naira registered in her name in a foreign country? and don't forget he is also a professor and own a law firm here in Lagos...this ipob pigs are actually very brainless...why can't them take the message and leave the messenger |
Family › Re: I’m Pregnant With Twins And The Father Doesn’t Want Them. by Astrid4(m): 8:25pm On Nov 04, 2021 |
mariahAngel: [s]Homellyy, you are fortunate to be pregnant with not just one, but two babies! That is rare. It is a blessing too.
See, a male nairalander once shared his story on this platform. He’s been married for 9 years(as at that time) with no child, and he blamed it all on his wife. He claimed his wife once had an abortion, therefore, it made her womb “too weak” to carry a pregnancy to term( at first she kept having miscarriages, then later could no longer get pregnant). He claimed he hated his wife because according to him, it was her fault that they couldn’t have a child up to that point. And nobody could convince him that it wasn’t because of the abortion his wife had had earlier in her life.
Another nairalander, a female this time, shared her own story. She’s been married for between 7-9 years as at that time(I’m not particularly sure of the amount of years), they’ve been looking for a child, only for her husband to sly her and impregnate a widow with 3 children, then the husband was begging her to accept the children as her own, but she was bitter towards her husband for betraying her.
Why am I sharing these stories with you? Your children are your gifts that so many people would do and give anything to have.
When blessings come at a time we’re not ready for them, it is hard for us to see them as a blessing[/s]. Shey you will feed the mother and the child...you keeping giving emotionally, illogical solution to a very logical problem, if she gives birth to the child,omor am sure the price of Pampers and other babies stufs will actually force her to suicide in the long run...just yesterday my mom had to rush to her hospital for a child delivery in the quest of this,the mother had severe complications after, due to lack of blood bank around the hospital had to rush her to a private clinic and I am swearing to God the family of the woman had to pay 95k just that night,note that was after the child birth delivery being a son to a nurse I do hear of stories where mother give birth when twins is involve and due to complications can't give birth again she might be a victim of this too and some have had several abortion and yet give birth to many kids, it is obvious she is not mentally and emotionally to go through why you tryna force her to this probably cos of your personal sentiment and which it obvious you're not even ready to foot her bills...am not advocating for abortion and am not ruling it out either...depends on her personal sentiments if am to advice I will go with mercychen advice now she had to pay the price for her stupid decision in whatever ways it comes. Disclaimer; I know you're reputed for insult on NL, but biko if you cannot engage in a logical and civil argument biko just pass.  |
Politics › Re: BREAKING: IPOB Cancels Sit-at-home, Urges Anambra Residents To Vote On Saturday by Astrid4(m): 8:07pm On Nov 04, 2021 |
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Crime › Re: Omowunmi, Osun Polytechnic Student Died After Visiting Her Boyfriend (Photo) by Astrid4(m): 12:19pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
chiommy123: Now it's her fault for accepting a gift from someone? I think we should do away with this type of mentality. I was in the hospital one day when an elderly woman came for her check up, after everything she was given her bill and her children were just pushing it around them. One young guy from no where just came along for her and cleared everything. Assuming she comes back sick, the guy is now a yahoo boy? No worry Dem go soon use you  |
Crime › Re: Omowunmi, Osun Polytechnic Student Died After Visiting Her Boyfriend (Photo) by Astrid4(m): 12:18pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
debbydams: I know what you are saying..most of our ladies are walking corpse.. That shit common for ilorin especially those kwasu and lautech guys I fear them die...they just no get joy at all... no be only their girlfriend Dem dey use their mama even their fellow niggars...no be only woman suppose dey careful even niggars should be careful of their fellow dude. |
Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Alaafin Of Oyo, A Diviner And Legendary Capt. William A. Ross by Astrid4(m): 9:29pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Alaafin Of Oyo, A Diviner And Legendary Capt. William A. Ross by Astrid4(m): 9:21pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Alaafin Of Oyo, A Diviner And Legendary Capt. William A. Ross by Astrid4(m): 9:14pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
ezegenigbonine: If you are learned, you must remember this wise word (May live to fight another day; But he who is battle slain. Can never rise to fight again.”)  Ekuke freedom fighter left 2 million ndigbo to die shamelessly now the werey died in 2011...now ask yourself 'Does it worth it" I believe stupidity run in the genes of ojukwu his drug addicted son, a barber in Brixton a dropout of mass communication in Nsukka has continued from where his shameless father stopped this time around will successfully wipe out the race from the surface of the earth...cursed people Tuafiakwa  |
Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Alaafin Of Oyo, A Diviner And Legendary Capt. William A. Ross by Astrid4(m): 9:00pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
invinzible1: [s]LoL. Since you lack cognitive reasoning, the premises of my engagement with you was not on tribal argument, as someone whose parents wasted money through primary to sec school probably and probably higher education, you came out to the public to say that picture was taken in 1600, lol I really hope you are the last born of your family[/s] |
Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Alaafin Of Oyo, A Diviner And Legendary Capt. William A. Ross by Astrid4(m): 9:00pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Alaafin Of Oyo, A Diviner And Legendary Capt. William A. Ross by Astrid4(m): 8:57pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Truthvalue3: Kid, stay away from drugs. Same one your forefathers were pushing from Cambodia to Cyprus all in the guise of developer  |
Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Alaafin Of Oyo, A Diviner And Legendary Capt. William A. Ross by Astrid4(m): 8:56pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Alaafin Of Oyo, A Diviner And Legendary Capt. William A. Ross by Astrid4(m): 8:55pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Truthvalue3: These guys are deluded: This fellow astrid4 believes the second picture below was taken in 1600's. Your ancestors were eating grasses in the bush when these pictures were taken  |
Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Alaafin Of Oyo, A Diviner And Legendary Capt. William A. Ross by Astrid4(m): 8:54pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Truthvalue3: Actually, logics doesn't work like this. When you make a claim, you have to provide proof before anybody could take you seriously.
Also, I wasn't concerned about "the war", I was concerned about the obvious lie of oyo seazing a piece of land from the Fulani. That is not substantiated at all. Also when talking about a civil war, you need the two opponents to belong to the same country, whereas such is not the case with the "yoruba". Yoruba seized Jebba from Fulani when they overran their army...that is why they don't have an emir in Jebba but an Oba Don't be a misguided fool. |
Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Alaafin Of Oyo, A Diviner And Legendary Capt. William A. Ross by Astrid4(m): 8:52pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
invinzible1: You clearly speak just like your age, you thought you went to school but your mind is not emancipated. You picked something from a reputable site but you suspended your brain. Guards fully clothed in 1600, pictures on the wall in 1600... LoL when was camera invented. Like I said you lack logic and reason, if you are above 25 and you reason this way your problem is then spiritual. LoL...... How would you have known when your ancestors were in bush with apes and gorillas  Slaves calling themselves Jews  |
Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Alaafin Of Oyo, A Diviner And Legendary Capt. William A. Ross by Astrid4(m): 8:50pm On Oct 31, 2021*. Modified: 9:07pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
ezegenigbonine: Kikikiki this one pain am ooo. But agree with me that you are from descendant of cowards. Am proud ohhhh at least am not a descendant of a fool who led a civil war with bamboo tree and sticks
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Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Alaafin Of Oyo, A Diviner And Legendary Capt. William A. Ross by Astrid4(m): 8:43pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
ezegenigbonine: Afonja abi, as he cowardly allow Fulani to take over illorin This same coward overran the Fulani and took over Jebba Niger state abegiii no be juju be that  Fool!!! |
Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Alaafin Of Oyo, A Diviner And Legendary Capt. William A. Ross by Astrid4(m): 8:42pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Truthvalue3: I repeat, that Wikipedia page was written by a yoruba troll. Look for real historical documents, not pieces of garbage written by jingoistic trolls. See this mumu so Jimmy wales and Larry Sanger are Yoruba names. Go skul no dey push drugs una no go here See your miserable life Fool!!
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Politics › Re: Throwback Photo Of Alaafin Of Oyo, A Diviner And Legendary Capt. William A. Ross by Astrid4(m): 8:39pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Truthvalue3: So you are actually so deluded that you believe this picture was taken in the 1600's ? How would you know When are your ancestors are in the bush with gorillas and ape  |