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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Astrid4(m): 4:06pm On Nov 28, 2021
Am a lil bit worried about this snow ohh cry

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Astrid4(m):
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Havertz10:
generational curse won us the champions league


I will hype him till the day I lose rational certainty of his potential, until then grin nothing you will say about havertz can change my mind grin
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Won us champions league huh as if he was the only that played the match grin grin you must have forgotten the sweet pass mount gave him...the crazy way Werner use his run to confuse the defender...the goal was a collective effort not an individual brilliance.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Astrid4(m): 10:44am On Nov 28, 2021
Havertz10:
obviously an agenda at this point

Havertz is 22, it's his 2nd season in England, you want him to become a goat automatically because he is touted to posses such abilities

Havertz has 3 goals in 7 games

Those are numbers indicate failure cheesy even your stats sheet, shows mount as the worst player but agenda wouldn't allow you to see it

when Mark Henry goes for 7 games with nothing to show for it, you don't say anything, considering the fact that one is 28 and cost 98m with no resale value cheesy

Tuchel keeps delaying lukaku's return cheesy he wouldn't start him against United, he knows what we all know, we bought a dunce that gesticulates more that he contributes, small dragging and he has deleted his Twitter account cheesy

I still prefer havertz as a 10, I like him as false 9 but something in me knows that the player I know he can become will be right at home playing 10.
You're so shameless
So you still get mouth to hype that your generational curse you call talent.

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m): 10:23am On Nov 25, 2021
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Iyaebe:
I'll start taking you all serious when you start preaching to yourselves to shun sex since it involves women else I keep laughing at your deceitful selves. Simp simp simp yen yen yen all the time,there's no man that won't simp one way or the other before he can get any lady to go down with him,you'll be surprised outside here how your Almighty ubunja simp before a lady he wishes to get down with.I'll advise you all to see a shrink because you need it,stop deceiving yourselves and be in tune with reality. They even have that delusional thing they call MGTOW whereas MGTOW=EDTB(Erection Drawing Them Back).
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Astrid4(m): 7:41pm On Nov 24, 2021
Ibime:
Story for the Gods

Juventus was in their own half all game, no pressure on Jorginho and no direct opponent in midfield.

His only role today was receiving the ball in 10 yards of space everytime and giving it to the closest man.

Even Skimpledawg could have played that role tonight

At no time was he involved in forcing players to commit, removing players from the game or within 5 yards of any Juventus player, like James, Rudiger, Chalobah, Chilwell, Kante and RLC were doing all night

With all that space and no pressure, he should have been dropping multiple passes over the top like Pirlo.

Man did nothing. All those points are simply for pass completion to the next man 5 yards away from him. That's how those sites score games.
#saynotomkpurummiri

Romance › Re: I Might Kill Myself Tonight 2Am ( I had a rethink) by Astrid4(m): 9:14am On Nov 22, 2021
Chevrolet076:
The werey still dey alive.... He say he want die. Lol.. cruise chaser
Suicide nah your mate cheesy grin grin

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m):
Lightway:
Level 4 is a lie

You're a liar
I know despite the fact we have many wise and intelligent fellow here...we also have the dumb one too who are not open minded and always quick to discredit. It is sad for someone claiming MGTOWer does not know the concept of what he practices grin

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Going_Their_Own_Way

You can learn more on www.mgtow.com grin

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m):
Lightway:
Level 4 is a lie

You're a liar
Believe whatever you want to believe

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m): 4:04pm On Nov 19, 2021
Straw Red Pill
This is when RP theories become caricatures of themselves. "Bitter friendzoned
neckbeard MGTOW" or "Sociopath Patrick Bateman Dark Triad alpha bro" Now,
normally I'd quote GoT "Lions, sheep, etc." but we need to avoid doing this to
ourselves regardless of what outsiders think. The RP community is small, and we
seem to only want to divide ourselves further over which sexual strategy is the
"best." Personally, I think this is fucking dumb. The career players call the guys
who want a girlfriend "still beta," while the MGTOW call the players "slaves to
pussy." Its all bullshit and it needs to stop. Your strategy is your own to decide, and
that doesn't make it objectively better than any of the others
. Here in TRP our
community is built of ALL THREE sexual strategies. If you don't want to support
all three then head on over to the Roosh, MMSL, or MGTOW forums so you can
join in on the masturbatory nonsense.
RPS also had a good point about Alpha and Beta. Guys, listen, they aren't
binary, they are spectrums, and all of us have both.
"Occasionally I see conversations regarding "real alpha" comparing two users
in a similar context to:
"You're not a real alpha. A real alpha does this.."
I am a real alpha.. I do this!"
"This board has been invaded by betas!"
Just wanted to make a note that this is basically stupid and for bleeps sake drop
that shit.
Stop labelling each other alphas and betas, they're terms we use to classify
particular behaviors and help demonstrate good versus bad behavior. Nobody is
intrinsically an "alpha," some people just have more alpha traits than others. Stick
to constructive criticism and drop the stupid out-alpha talk. It's not seddit folks, this
conversation has become a caricature of itself.
If somebody is making stupid mistakes, correct them, but don't get into a stupid
fight about who's alpha and who isn't.
Furthermore, of course there are people with beta tendencies here. How the
Bleep do you expect them to learn?
And a note to people who are new here or have overwhelmingly beta traits and
don't get it: lurk a bit. Pay special attention to Endorsed Contributors. If you keep
giving terrible advice when you don't know jack shit, I might just make a new user
flair: Continuous Blue Balls or something."

culled from Reddit
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m): 4:01pm On Nov 19, 2021
-Plate spinning

Otherwise known as a "Soft Harem" and a personal favorite of mine. This is
basically "dating" multiple women at once without commitment.
Most of us here
will tell you flat out that honesty is the best policy. Let the women know you are
not available for exclusivity now, or at any point in the future. TRP does not
condone cheating or lying to women. If you tell a woman you're exclusive and then
Bleep around on her I have no problem calling you a Nitwits. Don't do that, it
creates feminists and other terrible types of women.
Start at "Plate Theory" and work your way up. This is a gold mine for how to
spin up your own Soft Harem. You'll have to master game and have your frame
locked up real tight because this is trial by fire. Always entertaining, rather
exhausting, but if you play it just right you can find short and sometimes long term
happiness.


-Girlfriend game(Tonnyray's geng)

Not exactly something we're known for, but I think there is enough demand that
it is relevant. Women worth giving your commitment to are rare. So rare in fact we
call them Unicorns, and you can consider this TRP on hard mode. Maintaining attraction and frame for one night isn't that hard once you've had some success and
internalized game. Maintaining it throughout the course of a long term relationship
is another beast altogether. This is content we haven't discussed much in the past so
we are looking to the community to drive it. If it is something you're interested in
start making theory posts. Mate selection, maintaining frame, Captain/First Mate
dynamics, etc. We aim to be the premiere hub for all things RP related, and
ignoring relationships because they aren't "True RP" is ignorant. Which leads us
into the next section
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m): 3:57pm On Nov 19, 2021
I think many of us are already leaving the redpill to the blue pill world and also noticed the fact...we have finding it hard to manage the heterogeneousity of redpill, but before I give my opinion I will like to go back to basic of redpill.

What is The Red Pill?
A loose and highly debated collection of frameworks that describe sexual
dynamics between men and women. In short, it is purely information. What each
person decides to do with this information is up to them. Remember, sexual
strategy is amoral. You decide what you want to do and how you want to go about ,doing it. You are responsible for your overall happiness, and all consequences of
your actions. We're here to provide and discuss the framework.


All as a redpiller we are all the same cos our basic term of being here is to study the Dynamics of the relationship between man and woman but what separate us is our sexual strategy we have the MGTOW (Martinez gang), plate spinning and girlfriend.

What is a sexual strategy?

Simply put, it is being honest with yourself about what you want from the
opposite sex and putting together a realistic plan to go after it. For our purposes
this is broken down into three main groups: MGTOW, Plate spinning, and
Girlfriend game
.

-MGTOW


• Level 1: Situational awareness. This level includes men who are aware of
the realities that face them in society, and yet deem the risks acceptable to
have a go at playing the game


• Level 2: Rejection of long-term relationships. Man who rejects all form of
long-term personal relationships with women, including but not limited to
marriage, cohabitation of any sort which might be classified as common-law
marriage, picking up for a single mother's children, or any action which
might be used in court to turn him into her legal indentured servant


• Level 3: Rejection of short-term relationships. Man who rejects all form of
personal relationships with women, including dating, one-night stands,
friendships, etc. Any contact with unfamiliar women is kept strictly
professional and at a minimum
...

• Level 4: Economic disengagement. Man who refuses to produce more than
is strictly necessary for his individual survival. He will limit actions that are
punished by taxation without jeopardizing his way of life and acceptable
standard of living


Obviously Level 1 is great, and something we here at TRP agree with, but everything after that is debatable. Level 2 does not include relationships, which are
a valid sexual strategy, and Level 3 does not include Plates, also a valid sexual
strategy. If you can find happiness within this framework, knock yourself out, but
the meat of TRP will be focusing on Plates/Girlfriend game. Being the pragmatic
bunch we are at TRP I honestly want to thank all of you MGTOW out there
. By
opting out of dating and society altogether you help drive down the value of pussy
by no longer validating women
, and you're less competition for those of us who
pursue one of the other two strategies. Blaze a trail, gentlemen.
Politics › Re: The Deplorable State Of Roads In Aba, Abia State (Pictures) by Astrid4(m): 7:05am On Nov 19, 2021
Igboid:
Your IGR is meaningless.
Pure meaningless if you still dependent on Crude oil at the end of the day, what's the point?
Your Government decides to overtax you, mine decides to not overtax so that I could profit more from my business and train my children.
And you are out dancing over your over taxation by your Government?
Do you have better infrastructures than SE?
Aba is not even the capital of Abia state and is by all means better than Oshogbo.
That we in SE are good at attacking our governors and leaders as well as exposing the poor roads in our states, does not mean that Yorubaland have better leaders, better roads and other infrastructures.
It's just a difference in cultural behavior.
In Igboland we don't respect anyone who is not doing well out of just age or rank consideration.
That's not same with Yoruba land.

This is Aba:https://www.nairaland.com/6300302/few-pictures-all-aba-great

But we are not interested in the good parts, we would rather show the bad ones to keep the bad Leaders on their toes.
In Yorubaland, the bad roads are hidden, while the good ones are shared just so that bad leaders can be worshipped and image of "sufferstication" can be created.

We are virtually different people in looks, behavior and everything else.
This is rubbish absolute rubbish all the states in Nigeria except from Lagos is dependent on crude oil...in this era of absolute dependent on crude oil state needs to generate more IGR incase crude price falls they will be able to sustain themselves for a state of small population density like osun to be creating more IGR than all SE state despite the level of commercialization going on in those then it a huge shame... Ordinary ife has better infrastructure than umaahi not to talk of osogbo...if I should start digging picture of ultra modern schools, roads in osun state am sure you will mesmerized despite all these am still biggest critics of the governor cos he needs to do more.
Politics › Re: The Deplorable State Of Roads In Aba, Abia State (Pictures) by Astrid4(m): 12:28am On Nov 19, 2021
Igboid:
Normal Yoruba empty talks.
This same Osun that was hyped to have IGP five times those of entire SE, yet declared bankrupt once crude oil prices went down?
Nyamiri with their delusions
When crude price went down the whole country was on recession why would osun be an exemption, for a state with no crude oil it a shame on all south east state that such is generating more IGR than imo, ebonyi,abia,enugu and anambra.
Politics › Re: The Deplorable State Of Roads In Aba, Abia State (Pictures) by Astrid4(m): 9:07pm On Nov 18, 2021
Abagworo:
Look at a suburb of Aba in Osisioma LGA and tell me how many suburbs of Oshogbo, Ife or Ilesha that is this built up with highrises. There is problem in maintaining densely populated area like Lagos or Southeast than places with room to play with.
Agreed with no reservations
But for a state with low population like osun generating more revenue than all south eastern should tell you alot.
Politics › Re: The Deplorable State Of Roads In Aba, Abia State (Pictures) by Astrid4(m):
rainlover:
Do you know?
Most states in Nigeria are just there to complete numbers, lol!
Abia, Osun, Ondo, Bayelsa...
You're saying rubbish I don't know about other state...but apart from Lagos and ibadan...osun has the best road in the south west and better road than all of the south eastern state... despite all this the governors is still constructing a flyover as we speak...am not a politician nor a tribalist but the roads aregbe( interior minister) constructed in osun in 8 years no south eastern state can construct it in 16 years just for the records let me not talk about schools
In the latest IGR chart released, osun state generated more IGR than the whole south eastern state...just for the record

Romance › Re: What Exactly Do Ladies Want? by Astrid4(m): 6:54pm On Nov 17, 2021
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Politics › Re: Orji Uzor Kalu's Posters For Presidency Shared By Arewa Group In South-East by Astrid4(m): 11:26am On Nov 17, 2021
caracas:
Yes Tinubu will if the elections remain the same way it has been....
My comment said if the elections are Free n fair any one the Igbos support in lag would win,we have the population n spread....
grin grin
It obvious you have not been to Lagos State
Elections in Lagos have never been determined by the igbos grin grin most of them don't even have PVC and those that have PVC votes in Nwewi and Nsukka...Lagos State election is purely determined by the Yorubas...stop making it sound like igbos are indigenous to Lagos grin as far as Lagos State is concerned Igbo are non consequential politically. This is just the political reality grin
Politics › Re: Orji Uzor Kalu's Posters For Presidency Shared By Arewa Group In South-East by Astrid4(m): 7:21am On Nov 17, 2021
caracas:
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If Kalu contests n the elections are free n fair he will win Lagos
And any one who wins Lagos would most likely win the south west....
I come in peace ......
Which Lagos grin grin
Shey the one in anambra or enugu grin grin
Jagaban will clear everything in Lagos...he won't lose even a single pooling booth that's the reality even before the election starts...if tinubu contest he has 4 south west in his bags already, am not a fan of tinubu nor his foe this is just a political reality you igbos needs to calm down..your high sense of grandiose will lead to more failure for you.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m): 6:28pm On Nov 16, 2021
Stay woke kings

Politics › Re: Orji Uzor Kalu's Posters For Presidency Shared By Arewa Group In South-East by Astrid4(m): 10:21am On Nov 16, 2021
Igbo presidency is not visible I love the fact they're preparing for 2039 grin grin
Kalu can't win a LG in South West talkless of North grin

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m): 1:56am On Nov 15, 2021
stay toxic stay Taliban

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m): 1:55am On Nov 15, 2021
Stay focused

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Astrid4(m): 2:23pm On Nov 14, 2021
andrewbaba44:
You no Dey watch afcon self ?
With all these their cassava/rice field grin grin
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m): 1:13pm On Nov 14, 2021
Stay woke kings cool

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m): 12:53pm On Nov 14, 2021
Stay rational always

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m): 12:52pm On Nov 14, 2021
Meedon:
Stop posting pictures. Do you seek the girl's consent first before dropping their pictures here like atomic bomb?



Make we deh civil abeg. Happy sweet Sunday all you guys.
Make we dey try ignore some of the lowlifes wey dey here.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m): 12:50pm On Nov 14, 2021
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Iyaebe:
Most of you redpillers are pretenders, you don't practice what you preach here in reality.
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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m): 8:07am On Nov 14, 2021
Qasak:
After the girl must have fu$ked different dicks. Travelled to different countries on all expense paid trip by men. When market finally fall press am she go find man way she go deceive with that we all have history it’s in the past take me as I am crap!!! Lol my dear who you behuh
My brothers pls let’s hustle, invest, buy lands, properties and make the best use of our working age. We men age gracefully that’s where we win. I personally have chosen to stay of the market for now focusing on my self development.
@ d bolded She wants you to ignore her past so she can devour your future
Family › Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Astrid4(m): 10:29am On Nov 13, 2021
shaybebaby:
Perhaps a maid/ nanny so she can work outside the home too or the necessary tech to make the work at home easier ( picking up after 6 people ain't going to be easy)?

I mean, you wouldn't turn up for work and not expect to be given the tools to help you do your job properly. Also if you were given excessive workload, with time you would expect compensation commensurate to that workload.

Ever considered that the reason WHY she couldn't hold on to those jobs was because of the demands within the home? What if start times at work is the same as when the kids start school, how could she be in two places at the same time?

When the kids are ill, who stays to look after them? Would that not affect her attendance and performance at work?

Just this week, my son had to stay off from school because his teacher had covid. Did this impact his dad's work? No. His life went on as normal.

But I am lucky, I work from home so I could still work. But in addition to that, had to cook during the workday, provide snacks and homeschool all whilst working. But many don't have that luxury so pray tell, doesn't that put them in a position where they have to sacrifice one for the other?

Do men EVER have to make that choice? My job or my kids?

So tell me, how would you balance that if you were the OP?
@ d bolded madam men has always had a choice to make between their family and job
The basic and the most primary function of a MAN is FINANCIAL SECURITY
The moment I stop providing for my family then I don't deserve to be called an husband or a father that's every man will work his ass out to provide for his family

You see I agree with some of your views
But you see OP has always lacked a FRAME in the beginning of her life, thus facing this woes...her biggest achievement is marriage which shouldn't be so
At the age of 23 you are just at your prime full of ambition this should be a time you need to lay out plans for a prosperous career not turn yourself to a reproduction factory or a liability...she didn't need a man in her life at that time she needed a job.
Man exploit women in relationship because women are shy to talk about what they want in relationship...a man is never emotional in marriage he is purely transactional your husband didn't marry you because he loves you No!!! (love/emotion come secondary for men ) He married you primarily because of what you can offer to him and values you can add to his life, and if you as a woman don't have a frame he will end up getting all he wants and you end up with nothing...thus the woes the woman in question is facing currently...the man had all he wanted with this woman having nothing cos she was shy to create a frame in the relationship and is this man wickedhuh The answer is no!!! he is purely Machiavellian
You women needs to speaking up start telling what you wants what your dreams are both of your should have a frame and work in that frame. Simple as ABC this is never a quantum physics.
Family › Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Astrid4(m): 8:40am On Nov 13, 2021
DrFunmisticGlow:
you don't want to understand and lack empathy, so there's no point with you
Let's keep emotions out of these...let be logical
This is logical problem, creation of empathy and unnecessary emotional tantrum won't solve this.
This is a one sided story she never gave us the reason why her husband chased her out of the house she blamed her husband for her misfortune there is never a place in this article where her husband told her not to work...she has a degree she could go to the street and get a job. What this woman need is a JOB not a MAN this would even upgrade her SMV and even find a better husband. What I don't understand is should we give her a Grammy award for taking care of her own kids and husband...in what has she appreciated her husband who has been through thin and thick to ensure financial security in his home... Aunty it not easy to make money this woman could even keep a 4 month job yet complaining she is not appreciated for her role is Bullock and absolutely rubbish
Equal responsibility=Equal task
I can be bringing the whole money for the sustenance of the family and you're gonna tell me to assist you in home chores...then for fvck sake what you're gonna do.
This is a Lamentation of an irresponsible woman and if this is a story of most Africa woman including obembet mother then no apologetic feeling that most Africa women are irresponsible.
Family › Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Astrid4(m): 8:18am On Nov 13, 2021
TuFab:
How dare you accuse her of lying?
It's either you're the woman's wicked husband or you're a yabaleft runaway, because you obviously have a mental problem to just invalidate someone's life story without knowing anything about them.
Stop all this emotional bullshits
How on hell will you validate someone's story without knowing the person...do you know the man?, The kind of jobs he does he might be a banker for fvck sake and do you think it is easy to make money legitly go and ask your dad he will explain better or perhaps when you start making you will understand.
This man did the primary duty of a REAL MAN and that is financial security and he was able to provide for a liability who couldn't keep 4 month job and for fvck sake even a maid you pay 25k a month will do a better job without grumbling...have this woman ever appreciated her husband... Do you think it easy to be a head of a family ( the smallest unit of the society) where I get blamed for the silliest sh!t or is it because men don't talk too...Go home and ask your dad he will explain better to you.
Family › Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Astrid4(m): 9:07pm On Nov 12, 2021
Mummiesgirls4:
Thank you God bless you
Don't let her decieve you...you are not a good woman...you don't even deserve a good man you're nothing but a decietful hoe
Nonsense!!

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