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Dropme:
Hello nairalanders,

Sorry for bringing such a Story here, but I just feel like getting advises and opinions.

I'm a young single father of one.

I have been the one taking care of my son since his mother left us for a worldly adventure since 4 months ago. But ever since I took over the baton to become the childkeeper or nanny or whatever name u could call it, I have never noticed this child fart.

He uses the toilet every morning when he wakes up, but I don't know if he uses the toilet in school, but since last week he has been sent home from school because of fees, I noticed he doesn't use the toilet during those school hours, sometimes the whole day.

So, I kept pondering what could be happening, could it be normal, or maybe he farts and and I'm not aware but overreacting? But I remember his class mistress sometime last week complaining that he's looking malnutritious, and she was advising I get him multivitamins.
Though she complain also that I should try change his food from rice and meat to something else like plantain and egg and others but honestly I can't afford things like that for now.

So I ask, what could be the cause?
Is it truly malnutrition?
Or is it that I'm not always aware when he farts?
Or is there any medical explanation that could help, honestly I'm worried because something worse mustn't happen, I can't afford it.

Thanks

Mods please help with wider views, I need more opinions.

CsRockefeller:
Please I need opinions on an issue, not insults.

I'm seeking to get married soon, so I recently got into a relationship with this lady I've been talking to last year. I helped her get a job in Lagos and she came over. Her parents paid her rent and thanked me. Since I've always wanted to date her (good girl, virgin, and beautiful) I used the opportunity to ask her out since she now has a job here in Lagos.

She accepted but have me a tough time accepting because of difference in church denomination. I had to assure her that it won't be a problem when we get married, though she had always made her stand clear since we first met.

The issue now is this - yesterday she was telling me how some guy from her hometown got her number and was trying to ask for her hand in marriage and all that. She went on to tell me how he's old and can't put his words together bla! bla! bla! I began to whyne her that she's a hot cake and everyone will always want her and I fully understand that.

After all the praises I was giving her on how people live things of value like her, she sent a VN telling me stop it that she was just telling me how late marriage affects even men too and I should stop making her the subject of the discussion, that she knows what she wants and when she sees what she wants, she will go for it.

I played that part like 5 times already. We are in a relationship, why would she say that. Am I not what she wants physically? I've just been asking myself since yesterday. Throughout our friendship, I've never bothered to ask her what her ideal man is but she has said how she dated cute guys previously but couldn't move further because they lacked in character. Sincerely, I'm just an average guy physically, calm, introvert and funny.

I'm still asking myself if I am just a stop-gap plan. Been thinking of gradually leaving the relationship. We aren't even 2 months in.

Ppogbae:
Thanks for the clarification. Better than nothing I guess, right??

UncleJudax:
Single mothers also raise terrible men. A major problem for black Americans.

Ppogbae:
It's a 4 year sponsorship deal that was signed weeks ago. Air Peace is paying NFF to market their product - that being its airline.

https://guardian.ng/sport/air-peace-now-eagles-carrier-as-nff-signs-n500m-deal/

Ppogbae:
Sponsorship. Onyema is paying the NFF to patronize their airlines.

Catfishing:
Thiago Silva has been included in WhoScored's Europe's top 5 leagues Team Of The Month for September.

Thiago Silva: 7.84

@TheChelseaFC

Legend

Havertz10:
mount is a 10?

airmark:
Who are you by the way?

Havertz played RW against Everton last season, and was bundled out later in the match. Stop this RW nonsense talk.

swiz123:
Mount spurned a chance to give Lukaku an open net, instead opting for a weak shot.

Guess what, Donstan18 said "nice one Mount". Mount would retire before 25 if that guy was his PR.

Havertz10:
[s]what ibime said is rubbish

Havertz excelled coming in from the right last season, we could all agree that it was his best position

Some people say it's false 9 but I prefer to use the euros and latter stages of the champions league to judge him because he was unplayable

Preseason he played in that position and got a goal vs arsenal

Next game, he was played on the left, he got an assist but the assumption was that ziyech had to play so havertz was shifted to the left cause he was more dynamic

Against arsenal he was played on the left again, that's when i mentioned it here but tuchel reverted and played him on the right against liverpool, I thought that he played well and could have gotten a hat trick before half time self

Then tuchel started playing him on the left again and I was confused, brought it up then user09 explained that lukaku likes the right channels, I noticed that it was true and knowing how valuable he can be as an asset to our club, I knew that we either had to change formation to accommodate both him and lukaku or we sacrifice one for the other, Lukaku is promoted as the star player, would he like to be benched? He can't perform against top opposition and havertz dominates them and even bullies some small teams into submission

There have been at least 5 games that I watched were havertz could have easily scored a hat trick

Believe me, none of you is as critical of havertz as me, if I notice that he wouldn't work for us, I would deactivate this moniker and propose his sale

Nobody is above criticism, I like tuchel, was even suggesting that he is given a long deal but this season asides liverpool game, he hasn't impressed me, I expected expansive football, plenty goals and fluid play[/s]

JovialJune:
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JovialJune:
Your mother is also a Nigerian used I presume

Who doesnt appreciate a virgin, thing is, don't expect what you can't give.

JovialJune:
Dude there are non virgins that are also the bolded na, same way there are virgins that are not disciplined, can compromise, cannot stand by their words and the opposite of the yidiyada you typed, okay you as a man, as you are not a virgin, that means you are not disciplined, compromising, dont stand by yout words, is that it? These things shouldnt be debated on for real, every individual can possess any character trait, it has nothing to do with being a virgin or non virgin, it is just common sense.

obembet:
Idiot dey celebrate non tested. Come we I give u beta Bleep, u will forget your wife

milann:
You think if you sell them, you will find better replacement for them. Those players you mentioned up there will easily walk into any team given their pedigree.

popizaino:
33yrs old messi will give you what this combine leg will not give you in years.

iykmora:
Very annoying indomie player. Fraud!!!

donstan18:
Harvertz is worst than Bakayoko!!

A generational flop

chelseamann:
Havertz na scam I swear

Havertz10:
Tuchel needs to abandon his pragmatic approach and play attacking football, it's becoming boring and stale

Ibkhaleel:
I don't even know why English Language and Mathematics are made compulsory for someone who wants to read Agitation and Restructuring Engineering. There's no correlation. Just a Pass in Igg*o Language is OK.

Your duplicitous nature isn’t surprising considering you’re a Christian. Maybe it’s a mental illness.

A cynics that have no value to add in the dilemma except vituperation, and abuses, we know that is the substance you are made up of. No qualms whatsoever! you don’t expect fragrance from feces.
Wawa kawai

kraftysprouts:
Why you dey confuse yourself? What's the correlation between this and Azikiwe?

kraftysprouts:
Don't twist history, party crises in the west is what Balewa jailed Awolowo for, has nothing to do with the eastern region then.

I still prefer a united southern country... At least we can compete with South Africa

theTranscriber:
is Azikiwe that stopped the north from making their own country Yoruba?
Is Azikiwe that stopped the seccesion clause because he wanted eboe domination Yoruba?
Are the 1st coupists Yoruba?
Is ironsi that destroyed regionalism Yoruba?

When you know that you are suffering from the stupidity of your forbears
You wanted domination
You'll get better

BiafraInc:
Evil, devilish yoruba people. They caused the current problem, from their overzealous politicians to their jealous ordinary populace. The hatred against Igbos is eating them up. Let them embrace the fulanis as a way of keeping Igbos by force inside their myopic one nigeria while they pay the price by fulani occupying their lands. Foolish people.