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Rekhina:
Funmisticqueen u be past tense and on ur own ,

We have a brand new queen and sister in the building "Queen Pettyprincess all the way from Starciry blueair ,AstroG and Jasonscolari show her love as we countdown to Doomsday !

NaijaTushboy:
Women are the most wonderful
creature I have seen on Earth,
but am yet to
understand why some men are
busy finding faults upon faults
on them!!!
lets look at them this way and tell
me if am lying.
.
(1) Women are the only creature
that can change their original
surname just for the
sake of love.
(2) They are most easiest
creature to convince.
(3)They are the only creature that
loves from the bottom of their
hearts.
(4) They are the creature that can
prefer to go to bed with an
empty stomach, just
to make sure that their children
feeds well.
(5) They are the only creature on
Earth that cries very easily, just to
expose their
inward disposition.
(6) They are always awake even
at the dead of the night just to
make sure that
their children are protected.
(7) They can even sell out their
cloths just to buy food for their
children, and also
see them smiling.
( They are always ready to
sacrifice their lives just to save
the lives of their
children.
(9) They are always in the kitchen
inhaling the smoke without
complaining, just to
prepare something for their
children and husband to eat.
(10) They are the only creature
that can abandon their biological
family and start
up a new home with a stranger.
(11) Even when they are battling
with the pains of pregnancy, yet,
they are busy
looking after their husbands and
children. e.t.c.

Lalasticlala , mynd44 , fynestboi

Pettyprincess:
Aww this is really sweet while some guys their aim to always speak down nd slut shame women forgetting they have them as mothers nd sisters.

Rekhina:
But you guys aren't fair to her either am afraid missghosted is a nightmare that has come to stay even the mods are afraid of her

CastingCrowns:
As the topic suggests.. I used to be nonchalant about wedding and marriage stuffs and couldn't care less in the recent past but nowadays I have this intense desire to marry and have beautiful babies.. I don't know if it's something that comes as one's age progresses.. Please nairalanders what do I do..? Is there anyone out there that has been bitten by this bug like me? Please do share.

Adriel3:
Ways Being in a Relationship Can Help Your Finances-Finding the right partner can transform your financial life.

If you’re thinking about marriage, you’re probably hoping you can find a partner who is not only in a good financial place, but who can also help you figure out how best to save, invest and grow your money. This isn’t always easy, especially when that may not even be the place you’re currently in. Where do you start especially when there’s so much you don’t know? There are many people out here who can guide you in making wise financial decisions concerning your money and assets.
How do you begin to find the right person to guide you in your financial decision-making? By getting to know a person. There are certain qualities that point to someone being a great asset to your relationship. These partners see the possibility in their relationship and can help you achieve certain financial goals. Here are six ways to being in a relationship can help your finances.

Shared Responsibility
You like to spend and he likes to save, or vice versa. Money and finances are topics that couples rarely want to discuss, especially when you get the credit card bill for your part of the wedding finances and your honeymoon – but it’s an essential one. As soon as you tie your names together legally, you are both bound to certain responsibilities that’ll impact your ability to buy a home, save money and more. Who pays what share of the expenses is one of the major first year problems to deal with. People tend to avoid the conversation, especially in a new marriage because it can lead to arguments. But one of the benefits of marriage is that financial partnership is formed: two incomes and shared expenses. Couples who don’t talk finances establish a bad pattern where one of them is in the dark about money.
Financial Focus
It’s important that you and your partner are on the same page, especially when it comes to your financial goals. You should be dating someone who is financially trustworthy that has a big vision for your future together. Wouldn’t it be great to know that you’re with someone who is willing to put the work in so that you are both financially secure. If you and your partner are coming together and serious about getting your finances in order, there’s so much the two of you can accomplish together.

Honesty
Honesty and integrity are important in any relationship. You and your partner’s willingness to be open with each other can make or break the relationship. Relationships are about honesty. It’s imperative that you disclose any and all debt with your partner. Too often, debt is a source of shame in a relationship. If you are honest with your partner and committed to partnership, you both have the ability to pull each other out of any debt you’ve created. It’s all a matter of perspective. Nobody wants to inherit a bunch of debt, but if you know that together, you can help each other eliminate debt so that you can have a bright future, why not come together?
Opening up to a partner can make us feel vulnerable and exposed, but it is the most important ingredient of a trusting, intimate relationship. For a relationship to be balanced, partners must be able to depend on one another and feel that they are needed and appreciated for the support they give. While vulnerability is often seen as a weakness, it’s actually a strength. On top of being vulnerable, it’s important that you’re honest with yourself about your financial weaknesses. If they know this, they may be able to help you and vice versa.
Accountability
If you’ve had issues with finances, you should seek a partner that will hold you accountable – the ones that can help you through your financial situations. These shouldn’t be people who will agree with everything you say just to make you feel better about your actions or encourage you when you’re in a tempting situation. These potential partners will be honest with you, even when you’re in the wrong or making a poor financial decision. If you’ve fallen short with a financial choice, you have to accept responsibility for what you did. These people will encourage you to be honest with yourself and help you move past it.

Better Communication
Having conversations about money will force you to communicate better with your partner. You should be openly communicating with your partner. Make sure the space is one where you both feel you are being respected and can openly express your thoughts and feelings. You should let them know whatever’s on your mind regarding yourself, your relationship and hopes and dreams for the future. You should also encourage them to do the same. It’s also important that you don’t keep secrets from each other. Keeping secrets about even the smallest things makes it easier to keep the big issues quiet too. Keeping secrets of any kind is the first step towards damaging a relationship that used to be strong.

Better Decision-Making
A good partner can help you make the right choices in your relationship. Some of the decisions you make in your relationship have the power to make or break your relationship. If you want to protect your relationship from financial breakdown, make sure you’re making choices that are in the best interest of your relationship. This means you’re consciously making the effort to better yourself and save your relationship. If you find yourself in a questionable financial decision, you have an important decision to make. Hopefully, you will make the conscious choice to stay on track and do what’s best for your relationship.
If you’re wondering if being in a relationship can help your finances, it really comes down to how you want to manage your money. While it may be intimidating to think of someone coming in to help you manage your money or spending your money on someone else, it’s valuable, especially when you have big financial goals. At this point in your life, your financial goals and options get more complicated. A financial planner can help you not only make wise financial decisions, but also save you a good amount of time.

Amatarasha:
Grammerboy u sucks

Rekhina:
Funmilayo Ayinde aka Funmisticqueen u have burnt the bridge after insulting blackivy ,Me , Amatarasha sweetbuns pple who might jeer you while you write ,
Anything you write you are on your own for now , I will tell you all babes here listen to me , Lagos traitor you made guys here see us as fools right and you wanna write against them so we clap for u Hehehehehe See your small sense, Come and write let me see !
FUNMI U BE GRADE A- TRAITOR " All the nairaland girls sees you as a man from yesterday even nairalandposter Blackivy29 and missghosted ur ghost are our choosen one

Guest007:
Simpletons like you followed unbaji, I bet you knew nothing about it before the miseducation threads

Go read a book or two... You'll be exposed to a lot

Guest007:
I'm team Red pill... I don't have issues with the movement. Let the world wake up and allow change

funmisticqueen:
It all started when a certain manipulative narcissist who I will not dignify with a name gained a cult following by some male drones on romanceland, leaving some females hot and bothered and some with their panties in a twist.

A certain not too bright female NLander then opened a thread asking for a female version of his teachings. While some ladies could not be concerned, others like missghosted (also not too bright) proceeded to make a pitiful attempt, sounding like a psychotic misandrist in the process. Her writings lacked organization, class, enriching content. her plane was set to crash from takeoff.

I won't dwell too much about the drama involving my luscious self, rehkina, amatarasha, missghosted and some male monickers recently. It's disheartening that a rabid bitch is giving ladies a bad name with her lacklustre, in THE BOX content. Anyways, i am here to give any interested lady general advice and strategy on how to make a gain a romanceland following by posting female controversial dating content. I can take on this herculean task, but my dancing card is full at the moment. Don't do this if you aren't smart or have a two digit EQ and IQ

firstly, you gotta study your rival. he didn't arrive at having so many asslickers in one day. I also know it wasn't easy for him too. You also need a basic understanding of human behavior and psychology.

secondly, you gotta plan your content, do your research and come up with a strategy. This takes time, what are your goals? what persona and writing style are you gonna adopt? Make it an interesting read.

You would also need to be highly intellectual and cerebral, cutthroat, shameless and utterly selfish by posting about controversial toxic femininity while making it classy and feminine at the same time. That's very hard to pull off especially because a lot of females are already conditioned by society to think a certain way, so goodluck on your task!!

How do you know your hard work is paying off? A lot of men will become your antagonists, all hot and bothered, they will try to shame and label you, the mods might ban you. and maybe a few testimonies will come in.

If you need help, there are words of the wise to guide you, you just need to seek answers.

May the odds ever be in your favor.

Your loving romanceland Jezebel and Maleficient,
Funmisticqueen

Amatarasha:
She calls herself jezebbel ,what did u expect

Guest007:
I wonder why we always copy men? They do something different and instead of coming up with something fresh we have to jump on their bandwagon and try to out do them...

We need threads that help women and girls better themselves rather than copying.

I don't need any miseducation personally, Lauren Hill is the only miseducation I listen to.

Rekhina:
Is either Funmisticqueen or Ubunja or martinez39 dat are behind it ,
Funmisticqueen 80% sure !
She Told me she wanna write a redpill only for her to come up with this to smear Amaratasha , She used Amatarasha to settle her beef with guys calling her derogatory names (Sellout in that blood)

Ubunja 40% sure
Even him n funmi knows tarasha is a nurse and ogbanje

Martinez39 30% sure

X no comment X

Investigator general

BlueAir:
I swear this brain storming weak me too ohaa lord have mercy.ubunja idea don run people mad

Rekhina:
After a brainstorm Yesterday ���

I came up with ideas who might be behind it , Ubunja or martinez39 might be behind it to rubbish females
But onething confuses me how Funmisticqueen is now paddy paddy with martinez39 AstroG blueair JONNYSPUTE dsame idiots that insults and disrespect ladies all to bring down her enemy Amatarasha,
So is either Ubunja is behind that missghosted or Funmisticqueen is behind it to smear Amaratasha* but I love the game cos I live to play games

Sweetbuns u called pocohantas out for negligence ,WHile I'm calling you out for insensitivity ,u talk like a weakling.Sorry for that

funmisticqueen:
MY DEAR, I am just catching fun. All this is my fault. This whole thing started when i said that amatarasha was missghosted and i had my reasons for saying so.


What's shocked me to my core was rehkina's response, we had exchanged emails about how a female miseducations was going to go about, but i sensed some form of hesitation or lower intelligence in her replies. i then ended up telling her that i couldn't write a miseducations and stated my reasons for doing so, but if she still wanted to, i knew someone who can do so.

Babe refused to reply me since then. if rehkina/amatarasha is missghosted. Then i am very disappointed.

Uslinkbetting64:
see below

funmisticqueen:
yeah right. better go and watch netflix

funmisticqueen:
if you don't caution yourself, i will expose the emails we exchanged.

tpiander:
Romance section is mostly full of wankers with no sense of direction.

Family section is filled with anti family, anti marriage rhetoric.

IamBenita:
Love is a beautiful thing and one of the most astonishing feelings but it’s beyond saying the three letter word “I Love You”.

When you love someone, your action speaks louder than your word, you would do anything and everything in your capability for them. The feeling should come naturally, you don’t need to go out of the way to show your love. Simple things matters a lot.

Here are easy and effective ways to show someone you love them
1. Remind them that they are very important in your life. Use words like, I miss you, you’re special to me. Love

2. Spoil them with your attention and presence. Love

3. Sing their favourite songs with them occasionally. Love

4. Don’t ever ignore their calls, if you are busy, leave a short message for them. Love

5. Listen to them and be on their side whenever they have a bad day.

6. Let them be themselves, it makes them feel more relaxed when they are with you.

7. Hold their hands when you are walking in public.

8. Go for a driving together.

9. Introduce them to your family and friends, it makes them feel more safe around you.

See More proven ways here > https://www.plumdynamic.com/fun-ways-to-show-someone-you-love-them/

LillyVal:
You have a serious problem.

Blackivy29:
for a WOMAN in AFRICA it does alter ones ambition. Because while a man can still work and pursue his dreams, a womans goal or purpose, instilled on her by society, is her family.
Most men want a house wife than a working lady. To cook, clean, take care of the baby e.t.c. Meaning the woman has to let go of herself completely. It a sacrifice.


As for the op sounding bitter, she's not. She's doing what the likes of u.bunja, and i.lekokonit do. Expose the truth for what it is. No ones hating on men. But that doesnt mean we wont bring their flaws to light.