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LillyVal:
Most women are subjected to pressure to get married as quickly as possible due to the popular idea in our society that women have expiry dates. I don't agree with this view.

Marriage is not the purpose of our existence. Marriage is over hyped. You need more than marriage to live a meaningful life. While marriage is a very good thing, it is not the only thing in life. So no woman should abandon her ambition and future because of marriage.

There is no difference between a man and woman. If men don't expire then women don't expire too. A woman should plan to acquire relevant skills that will make her independent and comfortable so that she will be able to enjoy life.

Young women should have a strong focus on building capacity that will help them to survive the rigors of life in future.

A woman cannot expire while alive. A woman that has no future ambition or any relevant skill has already expired no matter how young she is. There are many young girls whose brains have been wired to focus on getting married to the extent that they are now like zombies. They make no effort towards self improvement or future ambitions. Marriage is meant to be a complement and not a foundation.

If as a woman your only worry is getting married and you are going around churches and ministries or taking any desperate measures so as to get married, just get it into your head that you are already expired.

I believe that every woman has a destined husband and that everything will happen in the appointed time. So there is no need to rush.

Sit down and create a purpose for your life and work hard at achieving your ambition. Things have changed. Many women are the pillars of their family. Most of your friends who are married will not tell you how they are the ones footing the bills. If those women were not well prepared for life's challenges and had rushed into marriage just like that, they would have ended up frying akara and hawking pure water on the street.

Don't let anyone make you feel depressed just because of marriage. Marriage is good but without adequate preparation it can be a very difficult experience.

So while waiting for Mr. Right keep working on yourself and achieve the best you can be. You are limitless and wonderfully created.

serosa:
Your mum tooo right

Easybela:
1.If you haven't met women who doesn't demand even a dime from men,then you need to upgrade the type of women you flow with.
2.If you haven't seen a situation where women set their men up,then you need to borrow sense.
3.If you haven't seen situations where wives are financially the "head",then you must be blind.
Your topic is nice,anybody that must pull another up,must be standing first, I believe that,but insulting women generally because 1or 2 failed you shows you are a still a kid,it doesn't cost much to grow up and " borrow " sense.

nairalandposter:
He or she needs to be banned please, people can't be using their hard earned data to be viewing hate speeches on a general interest forum.



Key word here is general interest, there are places specifically for his type of hatred, he can go there.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
SHUT UP!!! Men are supposed to be providers, women are helpers. If you no get money, DRINK SNIPER!!! I don't know why broke men always get salty when a real man steps up to his responsibility and spoils a woman with money and gifts. I NEVER SEE rich men whining on the internet about how women love money, they are always happy to show off how they are real men by spending on a girl. In your next life, ask God not to make you an unfortunate, angry broke piece of trash! POVERTY kee you there.

Biglittlelois:
How? How was my comment rubbish? I shouldn't tell you the obvious truth abi, yeye.

Biglittlelois:
I find it weird seeing people flaunting their "boyfriend" cos when it doesn't work out and you move on to the next person, and the next and so on, people will count scores, call you loose and all manner of bad names lol.

HRHQueenPhil:
dont take it P Mr Man, only a woman wld understand!

HRHQueenPhil:
then that's a sign that am possessed..no money can make me marry him! Do u know d meaning of marriage? Divorce is no no

Naso una dy talk

HRHQueenPhil:
my love, ur man may not be good looking but u like him, wen u now use him as ur status or display his pics on Facebook,the comments and calls from ur friends asking if he charmed u can make u think of the relationship again!

pocohantas:
That is the question a man would have asked. But women will always be women- making a full grown man look like some helpless victim.

generationz:
All these useless wives that will carry Hubby on their heads like gala


If your husband wasn't enjoying the videos and pics , why didn't he block the girl?

Adaibeku:
Nna


Stop calling her ugly x,you dont know who you will marry at the longrun

LilMissFavvy:
You wrote to support the men, only for it to backfire. Be wiser next time.

pocohantas:
Go back to Romance section. It is not by forrce to comment.

What is insensitive and stupid about this thread? Are you okay?

LillyVal:
Dear ladies,
Hate me or Change for Good but let me advice you fro good.
A man will never marry a girl that bleeps like a porn star, smokes like a dragon, drinks all kinds of alcohol and Pierce everywhere pierce able, Who wants to take a girl that customized her body with tattoos, can't do without heavy make up and dresses like a bitch,
Home Cooking skills - zero,
Laundry game - novice
Traditional etiquette - poor,
Home management - terrible.
Just to wash plate, you'll complaining, washing your own clothes na war , noodles is your best food and you always hate environmental.
Shey you want to hear the bitter truth, guys will tell you to keep it up, keep slaying. He will take you to shoprite, justrite, tantalizer, Mr Biggs, cinema, and everywhere you want to go .
Shebi you can do Snapchat and carry flower on your head. Every time "nails on fleek", "eyebrows on fleek", " pepper dem nonsense" your future will still pepper you .

Too much atarodo sauce and chivita juice Continue, he will keep encouraging you and dating you, he will hangout with you and have fun with you but at the end of the day, he will leave y'all and go and look a very decent Girl and marry. He won't even care if she's from the village sef. So far she can perform all wiffy duties and make him comfortable and happy �.
By then where will you be? What will you do with your life? Better slay with your sense and let your thinking be on fleek.
A word is enough for the wise .

Michellekabod2:
Before joining NL, I asked about the sections and I was told that romance section has the daftest and most bigoted people on the forum. And that is not far from the truth. Always a war between males and females,look what people have reduced themselves to,shaming other genders ....like are people alright? It's not how to improve yourself or have a lovely relationship but how to compete with another gender....guys do this alot,ladies do this alot too.
Guys calling gals olosho or hoes, ladies calling guys broke ass...
The funny thing is that those against feminism are applauding redpill.
AstroG is yet to disclose why issues he has/had with ladies that he devotes his life to shamming them and sees any opportunity to create a gender-war against them.


Do ignore the tout amatarasha, don't drag yourself into the mud with her

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Please ignore that op,he is a big mistake of a man.