And, I'm telling you your explanation for it doesn't matter sincs people will always do as they please.
And yes, my apologies for putting words in your mouth. I know you didn't call her a gold digger but men who usually give epistles like this use such term.
See you don make me weak now now. Do you know why? It's because you quickly apologize.
See even if I am a Pharaoh, my defences are always broken down with good ladies who own up to their wrong
Sixfeetbelle: The long epistle pissed me off cause it was unnecessary. You defining what being broke meant to her means nothing if that's her choice. It won't make her change her mind. So, stop giving epistles, or telling women who say such are gold diggers, or asking if they're rich.
People will always have choices no matter what.
Hey lady calm down. Did I mention that such a lady is a gold digger?
I am in no way saying a woman should not have her own choice including not getting married to a poor man.
What I said earlier is that there is a difference between being broke to being poor, which I have come to the conclusion that you yourself you don't know it because of your response to me so far.
In a nutshell a rich man can go broke but still he is rich, but behold many Nigerian girls say they won't marry such a man. Which therefore means in their quest to marry a rich man as against a poor man(they call it broke man) they might fail because they don't know the difference between broke and poor.
Sixfeetbelle: I don't know what broke means. The person that said she won't date broke men knows what her classification for broke men is. Trying to convince her otherwise is pointless, unless you want to climb her eiffel tower.
Lipscomb: Lagos — The Justice Chukwudifu Oputa Commission of inquiry probing human rights violations in the country was treated yesterday to amazing details of how the General Abdulsalami Abubakar regime allegedly pillaged the economy, siphoning several billions in both local and foreign currencies, including $40 million contributed by multinational companies for the late General Sani Abacha's self-succession bid.
Testifying before the Commission, former head of the Directorate of Military Intelligence (DMI), Brigadier-General Ibrahim Sabo (rtd.) alleged that the primary aim of seizing power by military men was to steal money. He said that immediate past Head of State, "General Abubakar manifested high propensity of looking for money and grumbled loudly any time he did not get his wish."
Kinematics: OP for your own good do not reply any tribal question, else your thread will become a field for tribal war.
Continue to keep it clean and avoid the tribalistic clowns.
good one here. Please op adhere to this advice else you will be shocked on how your thread went down on a fighting lane. I am learning about your country from the questions asked.
Eulalia: Reason I called her out with that the 10k ish. so those she's always forming levels for will know the person she is. Like seriously who does that? Any little thing, she'll say levels..." I'm not your level" duh!!!! What levels, with her kwashiorkor grammar? She's still learning in this biz. Doesn't strike me as someone who's smart hence the need to call her to order. She's soooo fake!!!!!!
I wish she could proof my doubting Thomas wrong and maybe others too.
Casalindal: It’s fine not to see me as being real... you are totally responsible to how you feel and I will not banter words trying to make you see me as real
Then proof me wrong lady? Probably thereafter we can become online buddies
Casalindal: You might still doubt it... I love how you guys keep going back and front with my gender so I’m enjoying it
look the way you do things here make you so unreal to me. Others might believe you and you may also look real to them too but me far from it. That is why I don't comment on your thread. I only read and pass. If you doubt me check your threads and mentions.
I have nothing against you, I only find you so so unreal
Lipscomb: No politician in Nigeria dead or live, richer than Abubakar Abdusalam.
I find it very hard to believe this? Why I quote you is because someone said this same thing yesterday. That man should be made to return what he stole.
But can you give me pointers to why he is the richest looter?
I don't know why people especially here on nairaland keep using these word BROKE instead of poor. Especially you girls should come out clean and say you won't marry or date a poor man than hiding behind the word broke.
Do you know that a rich man can go bankrupt(broke)? and yet he is still rich(because of assets)
Some times I just dey shake my head when people used the word broke anyhow.
For example you self I can bet you don't know the difference between broke and poor. Assuming that you know, does that mean that you won't date or marry a Wall Street investor who declares bankruptcy and he openly tells you that he is broke(and he is telling the truth)?
kalufelix: I agree with the egoistic nature of some archaic Nigerian men looking for house maids under the guise of wives.. But have you made any research to know what young girls really want.. I was shocked when i overheard my 22yr old sister while having a convo with mum referred to some guys i know as "small boys" ...maybe they are after financial stability or they just want men who are matured enough to handle their excesses.. To most of them is always about that "senior brother" or "daddy" figure... The older ladies settle with men in their age bracket cos they don't have many options by then and it's past noon already...
Some girls might say I don't want small boys me too I will say I don't want small girls.
kalufelix: I understand..I really do.. I have been there before...it's okay for the gains but it remains an anomaly my friend...
See the best is to go for a lady with the same age as yours or in the same age bracket not those young girls you are way older than. Next to it are the older ladies of marriageable age.
But in Nigeria, because of the egoistic nature of our men which to a large extent is caused by low self esteem(they hardly agree to this) and the economic situation, they go for the girl younger than them that they can control, boss around, talk to anyhow and do them as they pleased.
Let just say if I were to choose a woman between a lady in her 20's and a lady in her 30's (both virgins), I will go for the lady in her 30's as long as every other things remain constant for both of them.
I fancy matured ladies(in age and character) more than young ladies.
Flier: Not all of them goes back to it,but I think it also depends on tribe Most Igbo ladies don't go back to their past after getting married, let's say 5% goes back compared to Yoruba about 50 percent goes back to their past while South South people about 90%
Statician, where do you get this your statistics from? You don marry all the Yoruba and South South women to come to this conclusion? Some kids in this forum self SMH
manchy7531: While somewhere in Afonjaland, weed smoking is more important to his royal drunkness highness than finding ways to ameuliorate effect hunger on his poverty stricken Iwo citizens
jesu Please where is this palace located? It is majestic
Please can you post more pictures of it in and out?
GuestLog: we didn't break up officially. We lost contact for 7 years during riots in the north. while I was wishing we'd get back together and still had my mind on her, my paddy who knew how much she meant to me decided to lick lick pot first before giving me her contact.
I didn't even know they had met and sometimes he'd bring up her discussion out of no where and say " Gee, what if you found her now, will you leave your present babe?" All those kind talk. All the while he was drawing from her well.
Alright But do you care to share why the girl on your revenge mission easily fall for you?
XhosaNostra: Lying about my mother's "death" just to have time off work. Mind you, she's been gone for a very, very long time, but I still use that as an excuse because it's the only one that can make me cry convincingly & genuinely I even used it to the police this one time I needed a good excuse to avoid jail time
I was like, "I shouldn't have done that, but my mother just died" & I got away with it
GuestLog: My best friend found my ex I've lost contact with and decided to sleep with her before telling me he got in touch with her. My other closest friend had a fall out with the first friend and decided to share the secret with me. I didn't react.
Instead the next week, I travelled to Abuja and told his present girlfriend I was in town and we planned to meet (the only girl he ever loved and swore to marry). That day eh! I lashed day light out of that girl and realised why he loved her. she was really sweet. So, I stayed a week and lashed her everyday till I returned back to my state. Till date, I never told anyone what I did.
If it was your ex when he slept with her, then you are wrong. Well the thread is about the wrong you did undiscovered.
XhosaNostra: I agree fully with the last part of your post.
They're trying for real. I'm impressed with what they've done so far. I'm sure your Gov't is also going to try harder once they realize how serious this thing is.
I was thinking of trying the number below to get my own relief package, but I decided against it because there're people that really need it. I'm not feasting but it certainly hasn't reached that stage yet.
Oh this is good. Your government is really trying. I always believe that Southy is and will always be a little bit more than other African countries.
Also I like your spirit. As in having to forgo the package for others to benefit.
I feel like giving this your post many likes. Anyway take this though I am man o
XhosaNostra: I'm really like that, but I got my own shortcomings such as having a hair trigger temper & the other things I listed
We're not doing good, unfortunately. Over 50 deaths, I believe. Which I suspect is going to prolong the lockdown further. I'm so fed up with it already. Oh, how I wish for things to go back how they used to be. Currently, everything is closed. You can't order takeaways, can't drink or smoke. People have resorted to cooking homemade beer (umqombothi) & other strange concoctions
Yeap, I've been following up. This too shall pass.
But I still believe your government is handling it better compare to here.
Do you guys received any package from your government?
As for your last statement, I too believe covid19 shall pass. Only that we need to be proactive in preventing it among ourselves and those close to us, also being positive and optimistic.
XhosaNostra: No, I'm not an unfaithful person lol. I respect myself. By that I mean, I can't be sleeping with different people simultaneously like I'm an animal. I'm a one man woman, until something changes.
But I don't get angry for nothing lol. Don't do funny or suspicious shìt & there won't be anything to be angry about I really wish people were transparent, life would be so much easy. We wouldn't bother with certain emotions & people if everyone represented themselves truthfully.
I'm actually very similar to you in many ways going by your own list. I also despise liars, cheats, phonies etc. I can't stand mind games & being kept waiting either. You see those people who take hours or days to get back to you? Yeah, they drive me crazy. I can stop liking someone just for keeping me waiting or playing mind fùcking games.
If truly you are like this, then I will say I like you onlinely(whatever that means) But hey let's digress small. How is Southy dealing with this covid19? I guess you know about my own country since you here on Nairaland