Richiy: When most of the men have refused to grow up and take responsibilities. They v refused to show strength, character and charisma. They v refused to show themselves worthy of respect and emulation. Without doing these how can they possibly correct their women?

Isn't that what you women want

A man shows strength he is a domineering masochistic chauvinistic control freak.

He shows charisma and he is a goody two shoes.

What about prayer warriors praying for their enemy to die. What if the enemy dies? Should the prayer warrior and all those who joined in group prayer be arrested for murder?

These are not physical murders. They have no precedence, neither are they responsible for the deaths.

@Gboliwe

A death threat should be investigated as the person may have followed through (poisoning or other unknown means). A threat can be deemed a criminal offence as threats carry psychological trauma.

voodoo85: thousands and thousands girls died because of domestic violence and u r creating thread just know? story came out just because he is famous. if he was a cleaner, nobody knew about this case

Better late than never.

soundtruth: Are there no people in Nigeria that need help? Whats with Sierra Leone and Liberia?

Think big my man. If it becomes an epidemic it will grow to become a pandemic and Nigeria will be in the firing line. Sick people will flee to Nigeria to hide or seek medical assistance and will spread the epidemic to Nigeria. Let these Non profit faith based charities offer support. Also all those mosques supporting boko should reinvest their money into helping these countries.

What has sleep got to do with death?

Onyiibazz:

Cant really pin point any, you mind helping?

Covet a neighbours property and bear false witness.

1. He copied his friends work without permission. Stealing.

2. He passed off work he did not do as his own. Deceit.

Onyiibazz:

Can you term that immorality? Well i love that point you just made and i dont believe in the grace thing either!

He committed 2 sins right there. Can you tell me the 2? Look at the 10 commandments and tell me the 2 he broke?

musKeeto: God's grace - the new lingua used by Nigerians to feel cool after cheating or beating the system.

Rather than his religious mates to chastise him for cheating they are giving glory to God for his immorality. The morality of these Christians is intriguing. Yet I am hell bound for disbelief in God.

Spotless180: to me i would feel cheated. why would she be using toys when i am very much available.

Then join in.

Is that cheating? She should explore it to her satisfaction.

luvlyqueen:
dnt knw wat it is

Never heard of a.nal se.x?

dagentility: Taste differs you know,different strokes for different folks,the last time i checked most guys wish and dream of having a virgin as a wife.

I don't. Most guys don't care.

luvlyqueen:
oga which one is bum style

Use your imagination. Some ladies claim to be V's but do bum style. Or rather a.nal

So what about for ladies who disvirgin men?

What if the dude doesn't disvirgin her but gives it to her bum style? Will the curse still apply?

What if you and your friends were molested by male counterparts? Would you have been able to talk about it with such joy?

Molestation is wrong and is traumatic. You were unfortunately exploited due to youth. Would you pray such to happen to a sibling or one of your future children?

Maybe she should have left the married man alone. It is terrible the wife had suffered emotional torment throughout her marriage due to the girl being the lover. That is why married people should be off-limits for err... a secret rendezvous.

ayanah:

I think I can control the social media stuff my headache is d internet cause they browser through their phones or should I take the phone?

How can you manage SM? The key to that is the key to internet p0rn.

chibabe3: the husband is not comfortable with that and assuring her that the risk is very minimal... he is safe

It is a highly infectious disease. Risk or no risk he should not take the chance

Difficult situation. He should have stuck through and waited for her to recover before making a decision. How can anyone abandon someone in such a situation. The physical and mental anguish she must be going through.

Is your beef with p0rn or p0rn on the internet?

I find your tirade against p0rn disconcerting. Your lack of computer knowledge is more worrying because you have ignored 2 key things:

1. Even with reduced p0rn on the net people can still acquire p0rn. With social media p0rn can be easily distributed without conventional websites.

2. You never mentioned social media. SM is a bigger and more dangerous issue for kids. Grooming, dangerous stories/influences etc. Do you monitor your kids access to SM and if so are you certain they have no access to SM?

1 He should continue his hard work. Doctors are exposed to risks of infectious diseases all the time. It is part of the job.

2. They should discuss the relocation to a more suitable place for the family until he is done. It is a safer option for all.

That girl was confused. She might have had learning difficulties. She was brought to a podium where close to 70,000 people were watching. She said some confusing stuff and got assaulted. As she was a minor it was wrong to have been brought up to the stage, to have been asked a question she may not have understood, to not have been given a chance to clarify her answer, to have been physically assaulted.

Uk has a bad history when it comes to witch hunting. The days of King James and his notorious witch hunts have left a dark legacy. The country does not want to descend into such again.

Between pastorpreneurs and jihadists UK is becoming even more hostile to religion.

Maybe remove the pics showing her womanliness. It is not in good taste.

Men are very passionate about sports. I think that shows the depth of emotion. Men are however not as empathetic as women.

fightforchange1:

I don't think I'll be hearing from him again so..whatever.

Don't be too downhearted. These things happen. If it didn't work out then there was a good reason.

African women prefer to be in a relationship. Even the ones with bf prefer to have 2 to 3 bfs. Bonk mates mean they get to have se.x but no intrinsic benefits. No partying, wining and dining, being bought gifts, being taken on holidays. To them se.x has material attachments. If there is no material attachment then se.x loses its lustre. After all they can easily have both.

That is the problem with marrying a virgin. At some point they will want to sample other partners

MRbrownJAY: ^^^^bro, beauty should be the FIRTS thing that attracts you to someone......and as much as beauty doesnt last forever, AT LEAST you must be attracted to the person IN and OUT before beauty fades away. if you got some fugly donkey that has great character then life with be miserable for you because every time you turn around, there will be this fugly woman scaring the crap out of you (thanks to her ugliness). abeg, there is no point cutting corners on this issue, she needs to be beautiful AND with great characters etc. nobody should ever settle for less (thanks to desperation) when it comes to finding the right mate!

I disagree. What happens when your beauty becomes ugly?

fightforchange1:

No!!
he lives in Lagos,Nigeria...I should forget it.
we've yet to meet...but we've seen each other via web....

Ok. Online ldr. Long distance relationship. They have their own problems.

ideyhere:

Depends on which angle you're coming from... You ever come across an ugly person with bad character or imagine what your children will be secretly saying if you end up with the ugliest of the lot, then I'm sure you'll start appreciating beauty

Character over beauty any day. Beauty does not always last. As ppl age they lose their looks. Some struggle to maintain their beauty.