What about a younger guy? Can you marry a guy that is younger than you?

Demmzy15:

Dracula had nothing to do with Crusaders, he was just a King of his kingdom. He and his brother Radu were sent to the Ottoman Empire in which he learnt the Qur'an, Hadeeth, Arabic, Persian, Turkish, Turkish War tactics, etc. His brother eventually converted to Islam and led an expedition against him.

He was supported by the pope and given financial support to defend Christendom from the Ottoman Turks.


A real violent man, brutal, but played a significant role in checkmating Ottoman progression. His achievements were heavily underrated due to the greed of his allies and his brutality.

5minsmadness:


Seconded.
Women have a way of making men push the envelope. It's not as if they aren't appreciative it's just that they'd rather not show it in your presence. In front of you they tell u you're not doing enough but behind you they are praying fervently for you. It's same in all women but in varying degrees. It's just the way the world is.

Why is it so? Do you reckon that they believe in applying pressure to ensure that the man is always on his toes? I have always wondered why they brag, hype and praise the man to their family and friends but rarely do the same to the man directly.

Tomfrench:
He plays video games like his life depends on it

Fallout 4 gets released in November.

MrsPhyno:
I mean.... polygamy is different from infidelity. Yeah it is infidelity, cause ur sleeping wit someone thats not ur spouse, but it's still different than like being a cheater. What is more disturbing, IMO is the real infidelity.... and the boldness and shamelessness with which they do it.

Neither are acceptable according to Christianity. One man, one wife...

Pidggin:

A Christian man who chaired a wedding I attended today boldly introduced his two wives before saying the opening prayer. Both wives stood up and waved to everyone with no evidence of shame visible. On further investigation, I was told they are active Christians. This cannot happen in a Catholic church, as you cannot openly be claiming two wives and still be a Catholic. Why are some churches allowing this?

Good question. The Mormons have been known to practice polygamy. I guess some other churches might also practice it.

Onegai:
How did the babies fare? The cross-over from species and the fact breast milk transfers immunity from nurser to baby, whose antibodies did the babies get? Plus, we don't recommend cow milk for babies, so what makes donkeys and goats'milk more acceptable?

The things you learn everyday...

The child was 2 years old. I guess at that age cow milk can be consumed.

Dojupyo:


I tire my sister #What are they there for?

What are girlfriends there for?

SirWere:
Er... Actually there is only one Major Scientific Topic which opposes Christianity, which is Evolution.

Big bang theory?

cococandy:


No I'm not.

Male OND holders get married everyday.
Even many of the guy without OND who are hustling in ariaria and onithsa upper iweka market are married.

Many of them marry university graduates too.

nairaland is a distorted version of reality.

If you insist but it is rare. I assume they marry ladies less educated than they are.

cococandy:


Yep.

You are one in a million. A rare breed. Unfortunately most women won't look at someone younger than them, less educated or with lower earnings.

cococandy:
You paid her tuition one session and that means you saw her through school?
Guy I salute you.

I know she should be appreciative for whatever you've done for her, but she's not obligated to marry you because of that.
I hope you also appreciate the ones she did for you while you were together.

Move on. And you will soon find someone who will love you for you. OND and all.

What's wrong with an OND anyway

Would you marry an ond holder?

So what do I get for my money?

Joavid:
You paid her tuition once. (Which I assume is cheap) and you give her some change every now and then. Ok.

Is that enough for you to say you laboured for her, you sent her to school?

Did she not give companionship in return all those 4years?
Was she not cooking, cleaning and washing for you?

Men and lies.
She's not leaving you cos you're an OND cert holder (that can still further) with a lucrative business.

She's leaving you cos you're an a$$hoole.

She is leaving him because he is an ond holder. Why didn't she leave him before she graduated and got a good job?

The man is an idiot. Never invest in any woman that is not family.

PS: washing, cleaning and banging is not equivalent to any finances invested. He could have invested in his own education if he was smart enough.

So what about if the wife is freaky and drugs the husband for some dil-do related pleasure against his will? Is that acceptable because they are married?

But we as men have to take some portion of the blame. Some of the recent topics on this board are worrying. The rape one was exceptionally discouraging.

bukatyne:
I thought feminism made women more sexually liberated aka sex is Now cheap?

Being sexually liberated has not resulted in sex being cheaper unfortunately.

PunkyVeer:


For now, no. I might change in the future, I don't know. Life is strange because I find it sometimes proves you wrong on the same things you were so sure you'll never do. Hence they say never say never.

Would you date a white person?

He may have one eye but he is still a human being. We have people with serious deformities and some with severe disabilities. Why must they be denied a chance at love?

chibwike:
Smh, tho i doubt if this story is complete or even true.

Buh if it is, then the girl really fvcked up. I mean, do people still commit suicide?.

Let's try not to let our fellow humans make us depressed ,or make us feel bad.

Once, you are doing the right things and you are in good terms with your God,then you are good to go.

Try to ignore whoever wants to make you feel sad or depressed coz they don't own your life

The girl is very young. At that age it is possible to make such mistakes. The bus conductor is an unserious pedo. Blast he just wasted that poor girls life!!!!!!!


The girl is very young. At that age it is possible to make such mistakes. The bus conductor is an unserious pedo. Blast he just wasted that poor girls life!!!!!!!


The girl is very young. At that age it is possible to make such mistakes. The bus conductor is an unserious pedo. Blast he just wasted that poor girls life!!!!!!!

Portsmouth86:
Why is this all in favor of the woman, feminism this and that yet what about Masculism? The mans right, since both men and women are supposed to be equal.

neither a woman or a man is a product, in some cultures the man has to provide items for the brides family prior to marriage, which I am sure the man is aware of, I see it as showing the prospective in-laws that the man is able to provide for their daughter, or am I wrong?

To ask for a refund, a refund for what? that is crazy you can only get a refund on something which is purchased, so those whom request a refund for a bride ...you bought your wife?

meaning of refund:
To pay back (money), typically to a customer who is not satisfied with goods or services bought.
example: "if you're not delighted with your purchase, we guarantee to refund your money in full"

Why must he show that he can take care of the wife? Why can't it be the reverse? Why can't it be collaborative? Do you know that the more educated and greater the earnings of the bride to be are, the greater the bride price.

The bride price is purely an ancient customary tradition where women are bargained off to the highest bidder and are commodities. Accept it or don't accept it, that is what it is.

Joromi1:

Seriously, I don't know why you're wailing unnecessarily. There was a constitutional adjustment on marriage in Uganda and you're here crying like a kid who lost his peppermint. I don't really understand your grievance....is it that the amendment favours the women or what? Don't u have value for them?
Even here in Nigeria, how much is bride price? No tribe or community charge above 2k, go figure. I'd have reasoned with you if u were talking about marriage rites, where a man is given a long list of items to buy because he wants to marry

2k for bride price? Where?

Also, why bother with a bride price in the first place? It indicates that women are commodities. If I have to pay to marry a woman then how can that same lady be viewed as an equal and not a commodity?

So why is Gods wrath destroying these nations? What is Gods reason for this?

It is known as wet-nursing. There is nothing wrong with it as long as the sister is hygienic and disease free.

Royver:


If you really want to know, He wanted to start over. There were also some animals that were 'not right', so to speak. These animals had to be eliminated. It was a general cleansing sort of thing.

But that's another story. And you really don't want to know.

What was wrong with those animals?

Why did God kill all the animals on Earth with the flood? Why didn't He just kill only the humans? Is there any particular reason why all the animals had to die?

How does it compare to Elder scrolls online

If Judas repented before his death then would he be granted salvation? If not then is it safe to say repentance and acceptance of Christ is not a guarantee of salvation?

delishpot:
Haha, na because him get money na. Can she scam a poor person?

It is even easier to scam a poor person.

Demmzy15:

Crusaders didn't start this way, the Crusaders were mad Men who were hungry for blood! Don't misinterpret history here, because if na that one I get you time we'll!

So how did it start?

Ifeann:


This is how the crusades started.
When frustrated and suffering Christians say enough is a enough. They decide to sink to the level of the muslim and start retaliating.

If this actually happened then it is wrong because the man was a prisoner and wasn't a threat to his life. Revenge is forbidden in Christianity.

Exactly. Retaliation in such a manner will only lead to further blood shed. The crusades were centuries long and saw enough blood on both sides.

The solution is for the moderate Muslims to stand up and force out these extremists. If they fail to do that then Islam will finally collapse. This is an existential problem for Islam.

KanwuliaJara:
Sharia dey RUSSIA?

Chechnya.