deyemia:
The Person I Intend To Marry Just Told Me This!!!


Dear Nairalanders,

I've come again to hear your views about this issue.... especially married "Egbons"

So it all started like this, My new fiancee and I just finished a sunday service and I was about going to drop her at home when one of her single friends asked if she could join us which we agreed.

On our way they started talking all wife stuffs sharing their views on a marriage and shii, then one thing led to a financial topic where my fiancee started saying she can never support a husband financially, that a man should be a man and take all responsibilities of every penny to be spent, that the reason she's working is to be able to afford all the things she wants that all the responsibilities of the household is for the husband . I acted cool at first.

Her friend was even saying that she doesnt like to be a liability that at least it should not be the man's responsibility 100% that the wife should be able to support financially, My fiancee outrightly disagreed with her saying support doesnt have to be financial from the wife, that it could be through prayers.

I couldnt keep mute anymore I had to ask her "what does it mean when people say supportive wife? " she replied she doesn't know, that she's sure it doesnt have to be financial.

At some point when the friend had already alighted, I asked what if the man is building a house and needs immediate support for just window frames, she said never!

She even said if she has money in the bank and their is no food at home, we will all drink Garri.

Now here are the facts,
-We got introduced through match making,
-there are some good things about her that is worth consideration.
-I dont think she has dated before because she obviously has no experience whats so ever when it comes to relationship behaviours. she's "efikko" kind of.
-This her ideology seems deep rooted in her upbringing and family., her mum is rich.

My Challenge is,
Should I stick around and try to change that ideology or just move on because I am sure it's a destructive ideology.

Move on.

Masterkolinks:
JAMB is so annoying..
I killed Maths completely, as in I finished it, I was expecting not less than 85, they gave me 30.
I don't know English at all, I just guessed all through, I was expecting marks like 12,13 and they gave me 32..
The most painful part, my best subject Chemistry, I was expecting not less than 95 bkos I knew everything and I also crosschecked as soon as I finished my jamb, but they gave me 18
Then Physics, I was just expecting God to lead d way, and to my surprise, they gave me 14 making a total of 94..
And pls can I still use this result to gain admission into OAU? Or should I wait till next year bkos I'm tired of staying at home. Arrghh!! Since 2004 that I've been writing jamb..
JAMB is so annoying!!!!

2004? I think it's a sign that school's not for you. But if you persist...you may make it.

Dakore Egbuson Akande, you are a very good actress and I love you.


One more thing I love that you stayed married even after admitting that it ain't easy.

You owe no being little explanation if you married for love or money. It shouldn't matter darling.

Tmaritas76:
who ask you.

E dey pain you?

Smh

I love Annie Idibia.

People of nairaland, Stop being judgemental!

He he he it has tey o
The shout out continues...

A fine sight.

I love her wedding photo...and her pose.

Oops!

Whoa!

Heeya.

mukhcech:


The latter seem more likely. U probably havent loved before. Remember those to be loved includes our mothers, fathers, siblings, the prophets of God in the quran and bible, ourselves, and that special person who will spend the rest of their lives with us in this world and the hearafter.

**cocks eye brow** Oh...Of course I have loved before; my family and friends but telling them I love them has been through my actions. #thanksforthereminder

Happy birthday.
And Amen to your prayers.

Lmao!@5


"I love you" rarely come out of my mouth. Maybe because of shyness or I really haven't "LOVED" #dunno

He don WOR WOR nowadays

Smh. Wickedness using a sick child. Pastor, u will not go free. When you need help, people will mock you.

Yemi is Trendy.

I love you like I love Colgate Toothpaste.

Fan-less Freezer

Mtscheew. #Youdondeyloosefans #Seeyouseedepression **Buy sense Mr Freeze**

What meanness? "Yellow" should be jailed for twenty years.

Mum.

It changes, it's not steady. It was my Dad few months back but presently my mum is my favourite.

Beyonce's mum looks like she gave Omo T 3 or 4 years whereas she could birth her.

#Bey'smumishotter

truth is light is ijawkid

Freeze, despite your "wanna-belong-suckttitude" you still sound frustrated any time you open your mouth. Why

Chai

mabell:


You know, some of you dont really know who men of God are. Every pastor I know is a giver, Pastror Chris is one of the greatest givers ive known. You you know how much he spend to reach the world for Jesus. Rhapsody is not for making money, He gave 10 million free copies to Nigeria last year,right now we are didtributing free bibles to millions.He is so focussed on his calling and assigment that he doesnt even recognise if critics exist. If pastor Chris knows what i am doing , he will rather commend it.

Pastor Chris gave free copies or church members contributed?

When will I see this face makeup-less?

Once you paid her bride price...kick off.

Jeez!!

Vanquay:
If one doctor doctors another doctor
Does the doctor who doctors the doctor
Doctor the doctor the way the doctor he is doctoring doctors?
Or does the doctor doctor the way
The doctor who doctors doctors?

The doctoring doctor doctors the doctor the way
The doctoring doctor wants to doctor the doctor.
Not the way the doctored doctor wants to be doctored.

That should shut them up aha

I LOOOOOVE THIS! AHA!