ATMC:
Lmao!@5


"I love you" rarely come out of my mouth. Maybe because of shyness or I really haven't "LOVED" #dunno

Jadekitana:
I never say "I love you too" simply because of this lack of trust issues. Imagine a guy who doesn't show love on a normal day be telling me I love you on phone because he thinks i'm with another guy. Oyo for you! I'd simply reply with "thank you" and hang up. Practice it physically, don't test my love via the phone!

mukhcech:


The latter seem more likely. U probably havent loved before. Remember those to be loved includes our mothers, fathers, siblings, the prophets of God in the quran and bible, ourselves, and that special person who will spend the rest of their lives with us in this world and the hearafter.

Toks2008:
The words "I love you" seems to be used to express how we feel towards another and even if many do not really understand the deep meaning,we have come to accept that as the usual way of expressing our feelings.

Do you know that at any point in time you can use a simple mind game using those same words to know your stands with your Bae(Before any other). HOW?

Very simple.

This is not what you do always so that it does not become preemptive but can be done once in a while when your bae least expect. Could be once a month or as often as you want but the catch is that the call must be unexpected..

When you call your bae,just end your conversation with "I LOVE YOU" and observe how he or she responds.

1.If he or she replies with I LOVE YOU TOO then relax...you still have nothing to worry about.

2.If the reply is "Same here" then that person might just be shy or not really into you.

3.If the response is "I know" then begin to worry.

4.If the response is "Are you sure" then you just might need to work on your affection towards the person or the person is just being smart.

5.If the response is something like "yeah.huh huh,ok and similar responses" Abeg no waste your time with such.

The bottom-line is that this mind game works very well and can hardly be faked for a long time because there will be some places where your bae will likely never respond favorably if the feeling is not sincere.

So anytime your bae responds to the "i love you" words with any other response asides "i love you too" abeg no dull yourself...something might just be wrong somewhere.

Hope this makes sense.

Maxi112:
what abt she replying.... I LOVE U MORE

mukhcech:



I do not admire u or ur works but I respect you. Your test may or may not help a person reach a comfortable conclusion. And this is evident in the comments. As a lovelorn in those days, I personally think the test should be a two tailed test. What I mean is there should be a first phase of the 'love you' talk that involves you observing if your partner sometimes initiate the ''l love you'' statement. If ur observation is null i.e they never say ''I love you''. Then ur worries should move u to the second phase which is what ur post highlighted. If u then gets does redlight responses, then it takes u to final phase of communicating with ur partner to know how u are in their heart.

N.B I am happily married and sensibly(not madly) in love with my wife.

VanUrch:
Well I could reply with "Yea.,I love YouTube"...it sounds same..

tosyne2much:
Funny u

Toks2008:


WOW!...I will believe it she says it without hesitating at least thrice when called unexpectedly.

This game is not about the fact that people lie or tell the truth..ofcourse people lie a lot but imagine how it feels if you call your guy say during work hours and you may just make a 20secs call ending it with I love you...if a guy can respond sweetly to that at work then you know he has nothing to hide neither is he ashamed to express his love.

The botomline is that people who shy away from saying i love you usually in most cases,have something sinister up their sleeves.

Adaure4ever:
Is that so? I doubt it. What abt pretence? Anyone can fake the "I Love You Too"

xxxtedyxxx:


I swear you are a real JJC. See what too much telemundo has caused.

The only indicator that proves whether a girls likes/love you is her actions. What she does...not what she says...anyone can fake/say "I Love you".

Adaure4ever:
Is that so? I doubt it. What abt pretence? Anyone can fake the "I Love You Too"

Jadekitana:
I never say "I love you too" simply because of this lack of trust issues. Imagine a guy who doesn't show love on a normal day be telling me I love you on phone because he thinks i'm with another guy. Oyo for you! I'd simply reply with "thank you" and hang up. Practice it physically, don't test my love via the phone!

Toks2008:


Which bashing..as if i bother my head about that.

I call it online masturbation and a rhetorical mombo jumbo. Those who bash rather than discuss intelligently are not even normal human beings so i don't have to worry about Animals in human skin.

Furthermore, who i be? Buhari gets bashed,Obama gets bashed so who da hell am i not to be bashed?

Abeg leave trash for lawma and let me enjoy my passion.

Anthos:
preetty mama you just appearing and disappearing' how are you dearie ?

Adaure4ever:
5n nd u dear?

petkoffDrake:


OK!?















I love you.... Reply

Jadekitana:


I love you too

Jadekitana:
I never say "I love you too" simply because of this lack of trust issues. Imagine a guy who doesn't show love on a normal day be telling me I love you on phone because he thinks i'm with another guy. Oyo for you! I'd simply reply with "thank you" and hang up. Practice it physically, don't test my love via the phone!

Jadekitana:
I never say "I love you too" simply because of this lack of trust issues. Imagine a guy who doesn't show love on a normal day be telling me I love you on phone because he thinks i'm with another guy. Oyo for you! I'd simply reply with "thank you" and hang up. Practice it physically, don't test my love via the phone!