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jawalis:
How much have you spent on your sisters, niece and even mother so far? Mumu is your second name. You sent 11k to a b!tch you haven’t met because you want to fvck pusssy. Damn.
I wish I can create a female Facebook account too maybe I’ll be luck to get someone who is as gullible like you.

another scam apologist

sandraade:
I dont usually comment on things like this, but I was forced to comment by your foolishness of falling for such simple and common scams format

scam apologist

cococandy:
Let me also conclude that your best will include being the provider and hands-on care giver at the bedside.
Maybe you’ll also take her to work with you so that you can be present to clean any mess that she might make while you’re not at home.

Some things are very easy to say from a high moral ground you know but I’m happy to hear that you hope to try. That’s good.

Now keep the ‘hope’ for your theoretical situation to the side and have compassion for someone who is actually going through the situation for REAL

you have not heard of care givers before? So he can't hire a care giver while he goes to work? Why are you making life difficult for yourself all because you want to prove that had a man be in her shoes, they won't fair better? ....the truth is anybody no matter the gender might not remain faithful. It is not a gender thing at all!!!.but the ones that have the fear of God will. Most especially Jehovah's witnesses. Cos they know that ones they are married, you do carry means you don carry. Na for life no matter what happens. Except on the ground of fornication. Even if na case of domestic violence, what they can do is sepàrate and remain like that. Back to the issue, this is why it is often adviced you marry your best friend. Someone that will regard you as blood in that way, you won't be scared they will leave you in time of distress. Tho truth be told cos we are humans, there is every tendency for the healthy one to cheat

LadySarah:
Leaving because he's bedridden?Anything can happen to anyone at anytime.I'm not trying to judge you cos you've shown you are strong woman for 2 yrs already.
99% of Nigerian men will not remain. Even their wives that had CS feels useless to them ofoziekwa bedridden wife. It is then they will bundle you back to your ppl. https://www.nairaland.com/3256716/olachi-manndarin-emmanuel-dies-after

For a sexually active woman ,the lack of sex can be disturbing.

What I think you should do.
1.choose to be happy.
2.If his penis still works do the riding. If no. Have a talk with him if you can get a Love Machine or a man friend or he can explore you with his hands. Theres no shame in that. Righteous ppl should ignore my post.

3.pls don't stop believing in miracles.

I wonder where you people normally see Ur stat....99% bawo? I am not understanding

SweetCunt97:
And you just absolved the beasts of their crime. Just like saying one shouldn't make money so they don't get robbed.

you choose to pick how you understand it....of course all criminals must pay for their crimes, we will always have animals in human form hence, we should always try our possible best to avoid circumstances that can lead to unfavorable events. That is why must time you see people saying "why she dress like that, why she waka go there. Why she sleep for boy house and many more like that. Cos the victim placed herself/himself in such situation in the first place. Rapist always look for best opportunity to rape just like other criminals that is why just like you will advice someone not to reveal his banking details, females are often advice not to dress indecently late at night in secluded places..I mean no rapist will try to rape you in public, they do it in a place they think they can't be caught just like every other crimes committed

SweetCunt97:
You very very stupid for this comment. Can one imagine this nonsense! You think it's black women that's d problem now? So safau portrayed herself sexually and deserved to b raped and killed?

Guy u b potential rapist.

how about the ones that sexually portrayed themselves? What do u have to say about that.....check records, you would find out that most rape cases happened either when a lady is dressed half naked, or in a dangerous place she is not meant to be in. All in all, just has we try to protect ourselves from ritualists and kidnappers try to protect yourself from rapist too....don't do things that will put you in harm's way all because you want to prove a point that it does not matter what you wear. Dress decently and don't keep late night in dangerous places and don't put urself at the mercy of a guy....you can't trust anybody

Romanoff:
Back to back rape stories.

Some people excuse rape by manner of flimsy statements.

1. What was she wearing?

2. Why was she alone with him?

3. Why was she moving at night?

4. She just have led him on.

5. She must have been playing hard to get.

6. She also wanted it

7. She must have enjoyed it and then claimed it was rape.

Now, what do these rape apologists say when it is children who are getting raped, do the questions up there then apply?

Or in the case of this 20 year old woman that lost her life, what crime could she possibly have committed to warrant this despicable act?

quick story. Someone was at home, and robbers came to his Street and robbed his house despite the fact that he locked his doors and took every reasonable step to stay safe. Another story a man decides to leave a huge amount in his house and left his door open with the money in a very open corner of the house and went to bed. Robbers saw opportunity and he was robbed. Question: who will you sympathise with out of the two of them? Will you call the later wise or foolish? If you tell the later that why u no carry Ur money go bank why u leave Ur door open does that make you a thief or "thief apologist"? Sometimes, we need to apply common sense to things....just has we have robbers and ritualists, we have rapist. Hence we need to take extra care by not attracting such vile People....that is what those u call "rape apologist" are trying to say. They are not making excuses for rapist, but they are telling the victim where Dy faulted. If something bad happens to someone, let it be that the person tried all his or her best to prevent it from happening, not she putting herself in such danger.


That said, that girl wasnt killed by an ordinary rapist, she was either robbed and they took advantage of her and killed her or she had issue with some sort of cultist and they killed her. Raping was just an advantage they took.

Link to watch the match please

Please I need contact of a reputable farm that sells point of lay

MrConstantine:
Even God that Created me knows that I can never enter that thing.


I dey even reason say boat dey okay pass canoe but as I see this now, boat ooo, canoe, ship oo, marine ooo. I no dey enter anytin again

Anytin ontop of water. I am not interested again...


Even if I can't walk, I will Rather crawl than take a boat

even motor Dy get accident

Abeg who get better link to watch the match

Onyi22:
Audio virus

madam it's real ooo...I have a close family member working for the ex oyo governor that just died. He confirmed to me that almost all of them working under ajumobi tested positive 3weeks ago. Although he is now negative since Monday

Samiah33:
Even in saner environment you are told not to meet someone in his house but in a public place oo, countries that have cctv almost everywhere. The world is a terrible place wicked people are advancing from bad to worst

I told someone this same thing oooo....when they were shouting Nigerian men and Nigeria security. I said even the western world we Dy copy, them Dy advice ladies not to walk alone in a dark alley....does that mean Dy support rape? No matter what Dy do to a rapist, it won't change whatever mark that is left on the victim. Hence being careful as much as possible is still the best solution....you staying were they put u doesn't make u weak, it is being careful. Just has locking Ur door when leaving the house doesn't make u look stupid

blackweaver:
Please don't talk like that. Nobody deserves to be raped

no one deserves to be robbed and kidnapped to but at times, some people just use their hand to drag wahala for themselves.....they will catch the rapist, but will that changed the fact that she was taped by 3 different strangers? Let us na assume one of them get HIV and did her without protection. Will those rapist conviction cure her of the disease.... sometimes, common sense is needed.....u locking Ur door at night is not cos u feel like, but because u want to protect Ur house from criminals....if u leave Ur door wide open and u go work come back and they clear Ur property who them go blame?

dominique:
She was raped by two different men while she was stranded. She could have been stranded anywhere, that doesn't give the men the rights to take advantage of her. Anybody can get stranded anywhere, anybody that takes advantage of such person in such vulnerable situation is beyond evil and anybody that justifies such action is insane.

same way robbers and kidnappers/ritualists take advantage of stranded people....that is why she is to be blame...taking such risk to embark on such journey in the first place without informing anyone....had it been she told someone, she would not have been exposed to such dangers in the first place....1. they would have told her not to go
2.if they let her go, Dy would av kept calling her, and the 1st rapist would av known people know his whereabout and that of the girl
3. Let us assume the guy was stupid enough to take the risk of still taking her, and kicked her out, she would av been able to call home so Dy can come get her or advice her to go to d nearest police station.


You see why she has a share of the blame? She was stupid

dominique:
Na dem

So if you see a stranded girl in your street, you have the rights to take to your house and defile her because she was not properly brought up?

because he can't doesn't mean there are no rapists outside..... can u carry gun and rob someone, can u kidnap a lost child and use for ritual? Definitely ur answer will be no but that doesn't change the fact that there are dare devil people that can do that....the world isn't safe and it can never be safe hence u av to apply sense in all u do....even if something bad is to happen to u, let it be that people will have every reason to say u tried all it best to avoid evil.....who sees a burning house and walk right straight into it cause he has freedom of movement? We have right to do everything but we do them with sense

safarigirl:
I will never understand women who travel to meet men on their own turf. What kind of stupidity is that?

As a woman, you're already the weaker sex, then, you further turn the odds against you, by meeting a man on his own turf? That is like Eibar going to play Barcelona in Camp Nou; the odds are logically against you.

If you and an acquaintance must meet, women, do so on a neutral ground, or on your own turf. Stop making silly mistakes like this, especially on a continent that doesn't protect women or victims.

now this is someone that have sense....protect yourself when u know it country can't protect u.....

obyrich:
Says who?

hushpuppi

Mobalajibig:
You people are foolish and insensitive, you did not focus on the 3 people that raped her ,you're blaming the girl for trusting a man,your likes encourage rape daily

who will u blame? A man pack his money and gave a total stranger that calls himself a money doubler....even borrowed and sold his property? Since u want to be stupid, I will ask u stupid question

Mobalajibig:
Na like that them go rape your loved ones,you're a mad man

shut up....stupid fool thinking with his anus....if his love one waka mumu waka na when the love one go enter kasala...u can't be foolish and not expect a bad consequence

Mobalajibig:
So she deserves to be raped because she trusted someone, una no just get brain at all for this platform

na u no get brain...if u get brain, u go know say the girl do stupid thing. Make we forget rape. You as a person, can u just visit a stranger that u met online that you don't know anything much about? For this kind wicked world oooo...this rape issue din make me see say everyone no get sense. They have even taken rape more seriously than kidnapping and ritual killings. Just has you will blame someone that is kidnapped about why he should board a stranger car, same with this case...she is at fault take it or leave it. In fact call me a rape apologist. Shebi Una no wan get sense. Rubbish and ingredients

broswilli:
She can't continue cheating for very long because she would be caught. She should know that. Jehovah's witnesses are like detectives, once the proposal is made, the man's Jehovah witness friends will become natural detectives. Everywhere she goes it will be as if she is being followed. Every Jehovah's witness eyes will be on her and immediately she enters a suspicious place the message will get to the elders and her husband to be will definitely hear of it.

It is a thing of pride to report people you suspect in JW. So you could even be reported for talking to your female cousin if you are a man seen holding hands and strolling with your female cousin. It will surprise you how the elders will get the information within a flash. JW's sending reports about each other makes being one of them the most difficult life to live especially if you were not born in that organization. The whole environment is really toxic and you an outsider coming in would be wondering how people could live like this.

If you have a bad record in one branch, the elders will write about it and send the record to the branch you will be attending in the event of relocation so many youths tend to be moving about with bad records on their heads. You could be labelled as a rebellious person just for keeping a beard and with such a record everyone starts avoiding you.

This lady doesn't want to be a JW anymore and she is looking for a way out. She may have already been caught when the phone was ringing while at your place. A JW may be standing at your door waiting for the phone to ring so that they can confirm that she was at your place. If she is found guilty of fornicating she could be disfellowshipped. If she is disfellowshipped it means even her parents will not be allowed to speak with her, she would not be allowed to speak with her blood brothers and sisters in the religion.

She knows the consequences and she is preparing herself for it. People like this are called PIMO Physically In Mentally Out, by those that have left the organization.

funny how you mix the truth with the lies just to make your rubbish talk sweet. It was fun to read Sha even tho it was rubbish....jw don't have life again than to Dy monitor each other abi? What u should really know is that no matter how long u commit a sin, one day God will reveal u out to the organization. It doesn't necessarily have to be another member that will catch you, someone might know someone that knows this guy that is shagging her and spill the beans to a member. And if that member loves her, he will tell her to report herself.if she is truly remorseful about what she did, she will report herself if not she will keep mute and either continue her wayward lifestyle or stop. If she doesn't report, then d person that knows about this will report her alongside evidence ooo. Every other thing you wrote are wrong....and if you move to other congratulation, the elder in the Cong will write a report about you on if u are doing well or not. If you have been spoken to before about a bad way of life or a bad relationship with an opposite sex or maybe you were once accused of molesting a child, it is only logical to give the elders in that other Cong that info so has to know how to monitor the person and protect every member of that Cong. But that doesn't change how they will relate will such person, infact they will find ways to keep encouraging him to leave such reckless life and keep doing things from the Bible....and his records are in secret and not leaked to members of the Cong. It is the work of the elders to make sure things that will make such person stumble isn't in his way....for example if he is an alcoholic, they try not to entertain him with beer when he visit them in their personal house or in AA gathering and stuff like that...I have given many info than I should....just trying to tell u. That all what you wrote there are misleading.....I won't say more on how the organization operate. The one I have told u is enough

HantaVirus:
How dumb ass posts like this makes front page is appalling

It goes both ways nigga, a woman who wants to be treated as a Queen must be ready to treat her man like a King...It shouldn't be a gender biased shit

Tha Fvck

did u read the post at all

mikeycharles:
Can we also adopt the culture of punishing all these men that perpetrate evil, some girls travel to Italy and become objects of sexual perversion to men but only the girls are punished while we hear nothing about the men that actually commit these crimes.

who is this simp? This mumu? What are Dy saying what is he saying

MoodyQueen:
I can offer the same thing a man can offer.

can u offer protection? Can u fight in front of danger? Can you do odd jobs and risk taking care of small repairs in d house without an handy man? Can you impregnate yourself? Can you even change your car Tyre(let's start from there) can you carry heavy appliances in the house? Do hard chores without complaining? If you can't do all these, keep qwayet your mouth

maggilove:
Finally, I don like reach 2015, I hope I will discover comments that haven't been liked there.

Jesus..mama na u ooo...so you sat down liking comment one after the other from the beginning of the thread...I was Like who went back to 2016 post to like my comment......we gast put u for Guinness book of record

atoleybaba:
It's been 24hrs without any like pls kindly declare me winner of this awkwardly long contest...bantino

so we are still where we were

Lalasticalala do your thing

Always resist the urge to shalaye

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XiaoLi:
Thank you @amba2017,this make alot of sense especially the number 2. Please how much % do you think we should pay him on every profit made? The consultant have already advised that we run the farm as your number 3 stated,our target is to grow 140k fishes every four months this is the reason we will start with 35k then add 35k every month (we will continue to repeat this), he said with this we will have different size of fish to sell on daily basis.
N.B: since he will be the one to build the farm, should we pay him for this or must we start to pay him from profit earned when the farm start functioning?

then ur consultant isn't experience afterall...if not he will know there are times whereby fish go plenty for market and u won't sell all ur fish at d stipulated time u want to sell it, thereby affecting future plans...my brother, build ur market first before stocking big else u will run into debt... profit in fish farming isn't fully on what u stock ooo it is how u stock and management practice. Have u thought about cases whereby one batch of fish stock might have a disease and u need to dispose them. Will u stock again inside that pond without treating? My brother taste the water before diving fully into it ooo...start small, make ur first sales and grow little by little from there