How can one relocate destitute from Lagos to their states of origin? You barely know the population of Lagos? If you like, relocate Osun and other destitute back to their state of Origin, they will just return back in a matter of time. A complete waste of time and resources.
A serious governor with an excellent team will focus on how to bring constant electricity to Lagos and how to bring back companies that have left back to Lagos State. Find way to provide clean water and provide jobs- Tasks that are possible with the revenue Lagos generates
Those who are running Lagos do not know how to run State well. Marwa was better

and they will come back to Lagos

So many have died in unfortunate event. , if you cannot swim , avoid jet ski, speed boat , swimming pools that are deep. It is not by force to flex on a speedboat especially if you cannot swim.

At least wear a lifejacket If you have to be in those speed boat. Just because it look cool on the photos, does not mean one should put their live in danger.

Even chilling in the swimming pool is dangerous, suppose one got high or drunk and pass out in the pool and drown. There is no lifeguard around to safe one. and even if there is one, one can drown real quick.

If you are not conceived yet, at least learn how to swim or float.

Since I was born, I know say people dey beg and bill. It was not that bad during Abacha time or IBB time or even Obasanjo times, now with Tinubu it is very bad. People are begging to survive or billing to survive. You cannot enjoy your money in peace, the billing now is at all time high. Now you see grown men asking small boy for money, people wey you never imagine - come dey beg. It is very bad and I blame the Government for horrible economic turnout.
There is suffering in the country, I hate Nigeria for the way it is turning out to be. Imagine old man begging for money from a small yahoo boy. Too many eye service for the wrong people because people are hungry so they can soak garri to bellyful.

Carcholce:


If they toast her and She agrees for them, that makes me a simpleton.


A kind man is a simp. You cannot be kind and not simp in the act of kindness.

it does not, Kindness only make you a good man with principles and boundaries. Boundaries such as I will not take back a cheating girlfriend because I am not desperate and, principle is i respect myself and not stupid enough to take a cheater back . Kindness is a good virtue, it is when you take her back that make you a simp. A simp is a man who does not respect himself, do not have principle or boundaries and will take a cheating girlfriend back. A cheating girlfriend now knows his mumu button and will capitalize his weakness for her advantage so she will always cheat because she knows that He will always cry and take her back.

Carcholce:


A man that comes online trying to make us understand the difference between a simp and being kind is a Simp. You my friend, and the OP are simpletons.

na you be a simp, a kind man is not a simp and not a violent man. Cheating girlfriend does not make a man a simp, a man who take back a cheating girlfriend back is a simp. if Messi or Mbappé start toasting your babe, i wonder if your girl will not cheat on you.

Threedoorsdown:
How is the first guy. Simp?

Because he wasn't violent? He caught her cheating and broke up immediately. No need for fight or long talks. How is he a simp?

Olodo full this forum, some folks fail to understand the basic principle that anyone can cheat. Some claim a girfriend cheating is a trait of a simp, if their girlfriends cheat on them like a Davido or Mbappé , are they simp?

Threedoorsdown:
So only simps get cheated on? Lol

Oya nau

So what if your babe who are dating for while come across someone like Davido or Wizkid or celebrity liKe Messi and decided to cheated on you no matter how bad boy you are or redpill you are. Are you simp because she is cheating on you? Definately not, stuff happens. You are simp if you decide to take her back. Olodos full this forum

MrCork:



Did women chop yor moiney sir? (no oofencse)

no woman chop my money happily

Carcholce:
Stop disguising. You are simp.

A simp is an awkwardly kind person.

na u be the simp lol- olodo

There seems to be a great confusion between being kind and being a simp. Please know the differences and know why some men are called a simp.
A man saw his girlfriend cheating on him. He quietly ended the relationship sharply in the most respectful way -That is being kind.
A man saw his girlfriend cheating on him, instead of leaving her he forgive her because she promise him that She will change. He went ahead to marry her and she still cheat and he is crying hoping that she will change- That is being a simp
Please know the differences

1. Avoid spending money on strippers, oloshos and easy girls. They do not care about you, all they care is your money
2. it is okay to drink but some boys just drink alcohol like there is no tomorrow. Your health is important, drink water, exercise and drink in moderation. You are not going to be young for ever.
3. Financial illiteracy- It is good to have money but spending money recklessly will make a billionaire a poor person in the nearest future. Instead of making good use of money , they spend it easily. No one is against a man enjoying the fruit of their labor but spend wisely. Money do finish and when it is finish- it is the worse feeling on earth. One of my family members blew N1 million in 3 days with no steady job or hustle, now he is begging everyone for money.
4. Chasing women to the point of no return, spending money on them like a SIMP ignores his brain just to get laid. Think and see if she is even interesting in you
5. Weed and other hard drugs-

They be shouting death to Israel since the beginning of time. Yet Israel still standing, too much talk , little actions. say na drone them dey use to fight war. Drones wey be like toy planes, Send your battalion, bring in your warships, Bring in your tanks, your fighter jets and stop using paramilitary's Hezebollah or HAMAS to fight your war. Israel has almost finish Gaza, yet Iran not fit send warship to support Gaza or even a battalion. They talk too much , and do little or nothing- Too much bark, little bite. They draw with Late Saddam Hussein, say na Israel they wan wipe out. Even the Taliban is more respectable
.

amnesty7:
Some folks had your logics and still they died and left Islam stronger.
As for No. 3, you can enjoy your wig-wearing women as you wish.

I already have- thank God- Nigeria is not Afghanistan where women are not allowed to go to school

1. The praying and reading in Arabic in Islam is just a way to reinforce Arab language supremacy above all other languages. Have you heard a Chinese man recite the Quran in Arabic? They are some Chinese who can recite the Quran in Arabic well. . God understand you when you pray in any language. He is God because He is all knowing and understand language .When the Devil tempt you. He does not speak only Arabic to you but the language that you understand. If that was the case, everyone should be speaking Arabic as their native tongues.

2. To say Jesus Christ is just a prophet only when Judaism clearly reject him as the Messiah. Is either Jesus Christ is an imposter, a false god or a false prophet. Why will Judaism reject Jesus Christ as the Messiah, Christianity accept Jesus Christ as the Messiah and Islam accept Jesus as one of the prophets a prophet only?

3. The women rights and so forth. First for a woman to cover herself and dress accordingly is honorable, but to go extreme to where some women are covered from head to toe. They are made jest of as Ninja. If a woman wants to cover hair, she should be able to because She wants to honor her God, not because it is the law like Afghanistan. Some girls are not even allowed to go to school

You are only considered to have homosexual tendencies if you have sexual attraction to a man if you are a man or to a woman if you are a woman. Some people are born with such tendencies but if they never acted it out so they make sure they suppress such behaviors and live a heterosexual(not gay) life. They get married to the opposite sex or have sex with the opposite sex and live their life as a heterosexual only. They have suppress or even denial the attraction through prayers and delivered by God, religion, mediation.
If you have sex or deep intimate activities purposefully with same sex as you are, you are officially an homosexual.
Bisexual is someone who is sleep with both man and women, they are considered bi- meaning two. They have sexual attraction in both male and female. They have homosexual tendencies and decided to have sex with the same sex despite having sex or intimate relations with the opposite sex.
Transgender is a person born a man or woman transitioning into the opposite sex through surgery or taking hormones. Bob risky is an example. Cross dresser is a simply a man dressing as woman or a woman dressing as a man. Since women often wear men clothes , women are not considered as cross dresser as men.

a man is raped by another man is not considered homosexual. e.g in prison male inmates get raped against male inmates, such men are not consider homosexual because it was against their will. The gray line is a man/woman who was drunk and so intoxicated with drugs and had sex with the same sex or a man deceived into have sex by another man pretending to be a woman or vice versa.

In prison, an inmate is raped by another male inmate is not considered gay because He was raped against his will. Rape in prison happen in the United States. Some inmates go into depression after being raped and get sucidal

You are only considered to have homosexual tendencies if you have sexual attraction to a man if you are a man or to a woman if you are a woman. Some people are born with such tendencies but if they never acted it out so they make sure they suppress such behaviors and live a heterosexual(not gay) life. They get married to the opposite sex or have sex with the opposite sex and live their life as a heterosexual. If you have sex or deep intimate activities purposefully with same sex as you are, you are officially an homosexual. I
Bisexual is someone who is sleep with both man and women, they are considered bi- meaning two. They have sexual attraction in both male and female. They have homosexual tendencies and decided to have sex with the same sex.
Transgender is a person born a man or woman transitioning into the opposite sex. Bob risky is an example. Cross dresser is a simply a man dressing as woman or a woman dressing as a man. Since women often wear men clothes , women are not considered as cross dresser.

a man is raped by another man is not considered homosexual. e.g. in prison male inmates get raped against male inmates, such men are not consider homosexual because it was against their will. The gray line is a man/woman who was drunk and so intoxicated with drugs and had sex with the same sex or a man deceived into have sex by another man pretending to be a woman or vice versa.

In prison, an inmate is raped by another male inmate is not considered gay because He was raped against his will. Rape in prison happen in the United States. Some inmates go into depression after being raped and get suicidal.

NeoWanZaeed:


Well, with the language... You are expected to worship HIM in the language He instructed His prophet to worship HIM.


Abi you think Jesus na Englishman? Abi his real name is jesus or bible was written in English?
If you have seen the original texts and can read it .. you'll know bible in English is way off course




Religious intolerance? If you do read your bible, you'll know no other religion was tolerated during Moses and Jesus and all others prophet in the bible.


Problem is.. 90% of Christian knows absolutely 0.1% about Christianity

You can pray to Jesus in any languages- even in Arabic. All languages are welcome. The same apply to the Quran, even in Arabic, there are have been translation of the Holy Quran

kingxsamz:
Your number 2 is supposed to be your number 1. In fact, your number 2 should be your only reason. That religion called IsIam is backwards and barbaric. No matter how well behaved one might be as a Muslim, it doesn't change the fact that they're practicing rubbish. Yes, IsIam is rubbish.

3. The women covering their head all the time and in some of core Islamic country , women were not allowed to drive. In Saudi Arabia, i hear say a woman need a guardian to go out e.g to shop.

I have many friends and families who are Muslim and I respect them a lot. They are kind, respectful and have very good manners to emulate. The way they carry themselves is honorable. But over the years, i just cannot.
1.Praying specifically in Arabic is a no no for me. if I must pray in a foreign language to worship a God, then I am not interested. God who created many languages should be able to hear me when I cry out in prayer in whatever language I pray to

2. The religious intolerance from many Muslims - i will not go further, I value my safety

Anyone who can help I will appreciate, I have eaten but I am hungry as usual. I like to eat at nice restaurant. I am not broke but do not want to spend.

Bwilliam:
When we go to America and make little progress, we
start to look down on Black Americans and call them lazy, but we can never understand the psychological and physical onslaught, the Black Americans have endured, and are still enduring up to this day.

They have been dehumanized and marginalized for close to 450 years, it has changed their psyche makeup.
Their environment is so toxic, that it's mostly the most hardened and violent people that have survived, and consequently passed down those traits that allowed them survive to their offsprings.

We don't even have to go that far back to find examples of this invisible war that the European American have been waging on them:
- The racial profiling and execution by cops,unjustifiably killing hundreds of Black Americans every year.

- The 80's/90's crack epidemic, when the U.S government flooded the black community in a calculated bid to destroy their culture.

- The 1921 Tulsa killings wherein the whites attacked Black residents, homes, and businesses, as well as cultural and public institutions in the Greenwood District of Tulsa, OK, an oil boom city. Greenwood was also know as "Black Wall Street," one of the wealthiest Black communities in the United States. As a result of this attack, thirty-five blocks were systematically looted and burned, destroying businesses and living Black Americans homeless.

They have been systematically pushed to the project by making them financial handicapped, through restricting them from accessing loans and learning opportunities.

When J. Cole said in his song "Immortal" :

"They tellin' niggas, "sell dope, rap or go to NBA"
In that order, it's that sort of thinkin'
That been keepin' niggas chained at the bottom and hanged
The strangest fruit that you ever seen, ripe with pain"

I felt that.

Do not mind them jare. They live with the agbero versions of black Americans and they conclude all of the them are like that. They do not know how deep racism is because they have not experience the worst of racism.

otipoju:
It's obvious you have not lived in America.

Even the ones ones wey dey go Church every Sunday are still violently predictaby lunpredictable .

At least they do not do terrorism like Nigerian boko haram

There is no perfect group of people. When you visit or live in a foreign country that is different from your own. You are going to see the best and the worst of everybody living in that country. Black Americans are not exception, yes there are some loud and crude black Americans who dey misbehave or act in a wayward manner, but the same thing can apply to Nigerians living in Nigeria. And they are some very hardworking black Americans who do not make noise. not all of them have the entitlement mindset.
The problem is that the media and social media highlights the negative images of black America just as some people abroad see Nigerians as scammers only. In fact , UAE put a ban on Nigerians, are we better behaved than them?
The things this people have seen in after slavery ended is not for the faint hearted, some are still going through racism today.

On behalf of simps , please forgive her and take her back. Every cheaters deserve numerous chances. After she has begged you

SIMPonPatrol:


Simps rule the world

Yes o
The simps overseas are leading by example, women with 3 baby daddies are expecting a single man to make a lot of money to date them.
Paying for $1000+ on a first date, only for her to tell the guy - you are such a nice man and later telling him- he is not her type. At least she is nice enough to tell him.
A famous baller dating a instagram model, only for the model to get pregnant by him and dump him. The man paying child support of $10000 monthly. At least he hit, there are several stories

For me, I cannot o, I am a jealous type of person who will get angry and dump her. I do not like to share my woman at all. I know some guys/ladies do not care as long as they get paid cash . Suppose your woman/man makes a lot of money from onlyfans or is a very successful IndecentStar? will you date her/him?

your babe continues to cheat yet you are hoping she changes
Your babe continues to collect money from men, you are hoping that she will leave change for you

Namaster:
Married women who cheat are a special breed of bitches that should be bleeped as BRUTALLY as possible.

Insist on things you know she'll NEVER allow her husband to do. Golden shower, anal with no lube, rimming, etc...

You have ZERO responsibility to help a bitch maintain her marriage.

Pray one should not meet an angry husband who has nothing to lose.

You are a fine boy and that aunty or married madam is liking you. Do not encourage it at all, instead run away like Joseph , avoid being alone with her . Avoid her like you avoid mad people for street, Prick does not have sense , you cannot control the urge no matter how born again you are. if you like do 40 days of fasting and praying, you cannot control the urge- prick does not have discipline, if she is having problems with her marriage, she should talk to a woman who can advise her on what to do. You are not her marriage counselor.

Afrobasic:


I disagree.

Simps are the main reason for the hoeflation we are witnessing in the dating market today.

They over inflate the egos of these 304s to the point of delusion. Have a look at social media and see how bad these women behave, because they know that irrespective of their bad character, there's always some simp somewhere willing to wait and fund her life.

A good example is the recent marriage of that BBN 304, Queen, who was sleeping around, got pregnant by another guy and still found a simp that waited through all these to marry her. Now tell me why she would change? When she had no consequence for her actions.

Because a simp is saving the last for the best, a simp knows the value of patience.

A single man with no kids marrying a single mother with multiple kids with different men is very good, courageous and honorable.

Go ahead and give that huge monthly allowance to your girlfriend- You are supporting her dreams, her passions and her needs. Forget your mum and give her little, instead give it to your girlfriend- A generous boyfriend who gives without bounds is every woman's dream.

A guy married his fiancé despite she was caught red-handed by his brother with another guy. Despite all the evidence, the man went ahead and married her. His girlfriend is not rich or connected at all