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Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 2:27pm On Jul 22, 2021*

@ pansophist : theundercover : caveadullum .
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you are just too loaded!
may God bless you all.
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you aren't just a mentor to me but a father.
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i just feel privileged to rob mind with great 'intellectuals' like you
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and i promise that the words you've type will never go without coming to pass, for i will observe the instructions you've given, and i will bind them to my mind and tie them to my neck. for they are like precious jewels to me.

and to other contributors, i can't thank you less.

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Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 9:45am On Jul 21, 2021

Tohsynetita1:
brb

you're wlcm boss

Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 9:39am On Jul 21, 2021

Ishilove:
Very good. Now it is time to carry this razor mouth offline instead of coming online to write epistles. Go and practice with your mates instead of answering your juniors 'sir'. If you can run your gutter mouth like this when you logout, we will be spared the poorly written long story you are subjecting us to.

It is on Nairaland that agama lizards transform to crocodiles. Shior.

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God bless you my pastor.
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well you can insult me till next decade, but i promise not to ever stoop too low to reply you back with insult.
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pls for christ's sake, don't reply me again!
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i accord my respect to you now pls reciprocate it back.
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God bless!

Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 2:40am On Jul 21, 2021

@ theundercover . thanks for your contribuuion sir. . i went to that HARDDON thread, it's was expository! . thank you much!

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Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 2:35am On Jul 21, 2021*

Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 2:28am On Jul 21, 2021

Ishilove:
Pussy cat, don't flatter yourself
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You will grow up... Eventually

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sorry o mr pastor. you came up the other time justifying the sack of a pastor, yet you come here to call a man in God's image a "pussy cat". well you only have issue with the creator.
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and so true were the words of christ when he said that they are "wolf in sheep clothing".
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pls respect yourself, if you can't advice, don't derail my thread.
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and by the way this thread is not meant for the religious fanatics.
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kindly go to the religious section and go and be proving "holy holy"
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peace unto you!

Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 2:19am On Jul 21, 2021

Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 2:06am On Jul 21, 2021

Ishilove:
Op no get wetin hin dey tink

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as in?
don't engage words with me pls.
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what shall it profit me if i "get wetin i dey think" and loose my emotional and relationship intelligence?

Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 1:02am On Jul 21, 2021

pansophist:
Chai, this is loaded. I'll be back. Make I rush cook egusi soup

But you could have sent me an email. It's on my profile. Either way, it's all good.

Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 1:02am On Jul 21, 2021

pansophist:
Chai, this is loaded. I'll be back. Make I rush cook egusi soup

But you could have sent me an email. It's on my profile. Either way, it's all good.

pls, we are still expecting your contribution.

Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 8:07pm On Jul 20, 2021

pansophist:
Chai, this is loaded. I'll be back. Make I rush cook egusi soup

you're welcome boss.
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i will love to have a taste of your soup(lol)

Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 6:32pm On Jul 20, 2021*

pls, for the moniker i will honourably mention, i'll need your contribution too.
i'm sorry for the long post, though, i don't intend it to be so that long.bt bear with me.
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your response won't be for i only, bt for d thousands of shorts guys, lowself esteem guy out there in the world. thank u for ur upcoming contributions.
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u can give ans to any segment since i have 8 segments here.
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Theundercover ; pansophist ; Dpsychologist ; caveAdullam ; GLYCOLYSISS;
chalantmike

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lalasticlacla ; seun

Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 4:57pm On Jul 20, 2021*

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most time, i would have use 'ma' while addressing a girl younger than me, until ppl tell their real age.
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if i feel inferior to guys, how dare do i feel inferior to girls too? it's absurd, i need to reprogramme myself!
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though, talking about dressing. i dress simple as for now. wear neat simple dress, not compared to what most guys are wearing as trending fashion. i have my hair in low cut. no real trendy dress as for now.
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THOUGH I'M NOT PHYSICALLY ABUSED COS I'M STRONG AND WIRY. so people rarely engage in fight with me.
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but that apart, what can i do? i believe d problem is in my "mind".
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n.b: i'm not the egoistic type, pls no 'moniker' should ask me dat "do i want to eat greetings or respect"? as the manner of some.

Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 4:56pm On Jul 20, 2021*

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pls note: when i refer to "tall guys", i mean strangers. not actually my close friends.
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and finally i can't interact with girls of my age i.e 24yrs.
i often see them as older and mature than me(if i actually don't knw their age yet) , and i am always afraid to have a convo with them.
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well, this all boils down to culture again, as a yoruba guy talking with a lady you perceive older than you have to be done reverentially, as in u talk to her in respect(same applies to guys too).
so this make i difficult to make a friendly conversation with a girl which i perceive is older even though i may be older than her.(note: am also refering to stranger here)
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to explain better, i only feel comfortable to interract with girls 5/6 yrs YOUNGER than me cos i perceive them as my age mate.
not my fault though. and am never a pedophile.
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ladies(stranger) disregard/disrespect on me is the worst. as in, they can snub!
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though, i've been in relationship, though not serious/succesful.
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Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 4:56pm On Jul 20, 2021*

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now my problem is that i don't have the cognitive ability to recongnise those younger than me. in asmuch as u have beared. i will just assume dat u are older, and then i will feel obliged to respect you.
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in common senerios, if am on a seat, say in our house or a public place, and i see a tall guy passing near me. i will feel obliged to greet him. even if he's my junior junior. if i don't do so, i won't have a rest of mind!
even if d case is reversed and a tall guy is on a seat, and am passing by, i wil greet first to free my mind!
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and the funniest thing is that d tall guys hardly pay respect to me. they just walk and pass buy like am a persona non-grata. eventhough am way older than them.
i felt pained whenever i observe this. i don't know why.
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even in d worst case, i fear to talk to them without using 'sir' or ("eeh" as a yoruba boy).
u knw as a yoruba, there are words use to talk to elder. as in u cnt talk to elder just like u talk to ur mate.

Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 4:55pm On Jul 20, 2021*

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i often see guys taller than me and having beard as being older than me. even if i am way older than them. thereby having the compulsion to respect them and greet them first.(u will understand me better).
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i have this form of inferiority complex and envy when ever am with a tall guy.
i have the fear to talk to them as my mate. even if they are my junior.
i often feel cheated by nature(lol). why must i be so inferior to talk to my mate or junior cos they are tall.
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but i find it easier to form rapport with ppl of my size or shorter.
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though i blame this due to my lateness to enroll in higher institution. though due to reasons. bt thank God.
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though what ppl rever about me is my academic brilliancy. it's a top notch!(not proud'ing' though).

Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 4:53pm On Jul 20, 2021*

4. But here are few instances that i'm facing which are beyond my control and didn't make my personal development smooter.
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but at first, lemme give you some hints.
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*i'm currenty 24yr
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*well, i could say i'm partially a late maturer.
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*i just started growing beards this year, though i have a very thick voice and mature facial look. though i have moustache since my teenage.
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*i'm bit below average height, though not so that short.
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*i'm neither thin or fat(just like the body shape of wizkid)
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*i'm naturally fit. even without gyming, i still maintain muscular arm and chest.
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*i just have a good posture, except for the so called "relative" shortness.
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*a mech engineering fresher in a fed uni.
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now my problem is this...(below)

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Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 4:53pm On Jul 20, 2021*

3. so, i started to man-up myself. i become bolder. as in, better than before.
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as for now i'm more extrovert than i was years back.
though the growth is a continous journey, i believe i will get there.
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as in formerly, i wasn't sociable most esp among strangers and girls. but now i'm quite better.
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lol, it wasn't funny that i didn't have a girlfriend not even a female friend till i left sec school, all due to religious dogmas.
but this very act damage my relationship and interaction with female at large then. as in, i can't stand/sit admist female not to talk of conversing with them. too bad indeed. but i wouldn't have my self to blame neither would i blame anyone. the past is gone!
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from experience and what i've read, i observe(predict) that if i don't develop myself. i will have alot to suffer in future. as in, it's gonna hinder me succeeding cos i was so weak!

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Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 4:53pm On Jul 20, 2021*

2. now, i will love to bring you closer to my personal life.
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i am such a product of bad environment that breeds me up to become a beta-male, a simp, an introvert and an extremely shy guy with a low self-esteem. this is nt a product of 'gene' as my parents are extrovert.
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the most influncial of these enviromental factor is religion(born and raised in DEEPERLIFE precisely). it took very long to realise that i've been indoctrinated to be a simp and not a 'HOLY BRO' as it's called in the religious sphere.
(i was sort of this 'holiness' bro with baggy dress and innocent look. a nice guy indeed)
though, stammering when i was a child contributed to my introvertness too(i no more stammer).
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so, immediately i left sec school nd my parent environment. i change church and i began self development. though it's slow, bt experience sigificance changes.
i learned d hardways, but it keeps developing my experience.
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thank God 4 your redpill thread, i ws indeed a simp and amateur in relationship. i've learned

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Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 4:52pm On Jul 20, 2021*

1. firstly, ur posts reveal that u are a product of 'vast' reading.
i also wish i understand life better like you are. i wish i'm wise and intelligent as you.
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pls, can you recommend to me the self-help books that you normally read. though i've read some works of robert greene and some other authors, but i still don't feel they cover much aspect like you did.
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what i observed in these books is that they don't cover every facets of life. some may talk about business while others will talk abt relationship, some finance, and some spirituality, and d genres goes endless. so i feel uncomfortable getting hold of d right ones. as in they are not all rounder.
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pls reveal to me the "all rounders". as in books dat explicitly explain some major facets of life.
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note: i'm an avid reader and i can read any book dat u recommend to me.

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Romance › Re: My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 4:51pm On Jul 20, 2021*

reading through your posts is an eye opener. you are all an embodiment of wisdom. you're indeed a rare gem.

how i wish everyone could get access to all your posts in this forum. it is loaded. as in, you are highly cerebral!
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pls, i will need some advice from you all which i will write in the subsequent posts below.

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Romance › My life/relationship: questioning the nairaland's philosophers by atom080(op): 4:50pm On Jul 20, 2021*

@ pansophist ; Dpsychologist ; CaveAdullam ; Theundercover ; GLYCOLYSISS ; chalantmike
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i honourably mention you here sir's.
pls bear with my cheer voluminous questions.
i wanted it to be more personal, but it will be more advantageous this way.
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thank you for your upcoming contributions.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by atom080: 4:45pm On Jul 20, 2021

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Education › Re: Meet Alimi Ibrahim Adedeji, UNILAG Overall Best Graduating Student For 2018/2019 by atom080: 9:14pm On Jul 07, 2021

Auntiebookie:
By the way where is the guy that had 5.0 cgpa from unilag then

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he is in the united states studying at stranford university for his phd!
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never underrate the best!

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Education › Re: Courses That Should Be Avoided By Nigerians From Poor Families. by atom080: 2:19pm On Jun 30, 2021

Nozino:
You are just a silly nuisance. Everything cost money especially traveling aboard. In a country where several first class graduate

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bro calm down. i know that you are pained.
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now, you no more attack the engineers but the first class.
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to be born poor is not the problem, bt to develop poverty mentality is the issue. pele...
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i can never stoop so low to reply ur insult.
i'm of a higher intelligence.
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you got too angry cos you are too emotional.
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pls try and study some psychology to get ur mind renewed.
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pls and pls, calm down.

Education › Re: Courses That Should Be Avoided By Nigerians From Poor Families. by atom080: 2:03pm On Jun 30, 2021

Nozino:
Lol. So these bodies can shoulder all the cost for everyone? Interesting!

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Ok, man calm down.
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i said sth, to easily japa in engr, get good grade!
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if you have good grade, you will definitely knw the next step. am tired of repeating myself!
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once again, go learn the perato 80/20 rule and understand the dynamics of life.
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don't expect success to be distributed to the 100% mass. work ur way up to d top 20%. that's how it works.
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infact i've studied you. you are jst only on d fence. i dnt even knw ur stance in dis course of arguement. u only attack everyone.
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by d way wat course do u study?

Education › Re: Courses That Should Be Avoided By Nigerians From Poor Families. by atom080: 1:40pm On Jun 30, 2021

Nozino:
You are very silly and not as smart as you think. You also write terribly. Keep letting your lecturers sweet talk.

About the guy who went to the US on a fully funded Ph.D program, understand that anyone who studied any course can achieve that. Most Ph.D programs in the US are fully funded. But have you wonder why most people don’t go that route? Money!

GRE cost $226
Toelf cost around $196
WES cost more than N120k
Collecting transcripts cost money
Application cost money
Sending transcripts cost money
Paying sevis cost money
Visa application cost money
Even with a fully funded Ph.D program,

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Thank God u call me silly but, you are.
if this all you know about scholarship, then u r of whole men most disillusioned.
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all the cost you estimated can be paid for by bodies like educationusa or ischolarinitiative or michael taiwo scholaship.
google search dem pls.
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am tired of typing.
pls make google ur friend.
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pls again, what course do you study?

Education › Re: Courses That Should Be Avoided By Nigerians From Poor Families. by atom080: 1:27pm On Jun 30, 2021

Passage:
Mechatronics is a joke. You think anyone can combine EEE, MEE and CSC together in 5 years? At the end, you're a master of none and employers begin to question where exactly you fit.

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you talk like a simp!

Medicine combines biochemistry+microbiology+physiology+pharmacology+anatomy+etc, and yet, it's the master of all.
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stop acting like you are smarter than those who create the system!

Education › Re: Courses That Should Be Avoided By Nigerians From Poor Families. by atom080: 12:44pm On Jun 30, 2021

Yomit71:
as a fresher, you ought to keep quiet and learn from the elders. is it not this same Nigeria? if you like study pharmacomedical. the chance of getting a job is still very slim

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hey!
this is faceless forum.
i play it hide and seek.
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by the way, what makes you think i "were" a fresher?
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infact, i'm in jss1.
case closed!

Education › Re: Courses That Should Be Avoided By Nigerians From Poor Families. by atom080: 12:39pm On Jun 30, 2021

VTJN:
someone who studied Geography and planning with GPA of 4.2/5.. what advice will you give such a person? Thanks!

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okay,
there is a nairalander who is currently studying in germany.
he graduated with 2.1 in geophysic at unn.
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he has made answer to your question in is thread.
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he has a moniker @ basalt on nairaland.
search for this thread he created on nairaland.
"don't listen to anyone who discourages you from travelling abroad"

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Education › Re: Courses That Should Be Avoided By Nigerians From Poor Families. by atom080: 11:28am On Jun 30, 2021

Billyonaire666:
Quite impressive if you internalize the objective and actually have a focused goal that you intend to achieve with the knowledge received. Best to not study courses with 'employment' in mind, but look at the courses you study as a tool to achieve a specific goal subjectively.

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wow, this is mind blowing!
thank you!

Education › Re: Courses That Should Be Avoided By Nigerians From Poor Families. by atom080: 11:15am On Jun 30, 2021

Franklyspeakin:
You that wanted an affirmation with a pat at your back that your course is great, why are you now feeling hurt cos he did otherwise? Let me tell you, Nigeria will shock you soon. Just try your best and be the very best in your course of study so that you give yourself a better fighting chance. Shay he gave you an assignment, go to LinkedIn create a profile and check for opportunities for your course home and abroad.

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good and fine, you are good at savage right.
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pls what cgpa do you graduate with and what course do you study?
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if you can't answer me, pls don't border advising me.
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i understand ur type
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thankiu!

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