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Wonderful. That means she'll give him the money to pay her brideprice,buy her own damn wedding ring,pay for the wedding,then after the marriage,feed and clothe him,and if they have a kid,she'll also do the same for their child. How can any self-respecting man take that. Op,love has nothing to do with this. He's a liability,and you simply dont have the time to wait for him to make something out of his life.

This is why i'm totally against long relationships. Why on earth will you date one person for 5 good years? You dont need anyone to tell you that women dont have time. When you hit 30,your chances drastically reduce. Why did you break up? If it didnt work out when you dated him for 5 years,why should it work out now? And doesnt it strike you as suspicious that he decided to hook up with you now that you're financially buoyant? Think with your head,and not with your heart,because,quite frankly,you cant afford to do otherwise. If getting married and having a family is important to you at this point in your life(as it should be)then think long and hard before you make this choice.

I dont

Why is everybody saying cohabitation is bad? Granted,i might not agree with it,but it's a personal choice,so i dont really get why posters are making it seem like some terrible sin.

Lol@oyb.

That's too heavy naw!

Real pounded yam,not that useless chemically altered white flour,egusi soup nd fried snailmeat. Oh nd stockfish.

@secretz,thanks for ur suggestion. I can make it work,only i have to clean my oven. Oh well,it's for a good cause,lol.

She inspires me. She's sweet,caring,gorgeous,one of the most unselfish persons i know,self-confident,funny,stubborn,crazy(but in a good way),hardworking,tolerant,smart,in short,she's a wonderful human being.

Adultery-sexual relations outside the marriage. I'm not married,but if i slept with a married woman it'd be adultery. If i were married and i slept with another married woman,it would still be adultery.

Yes i would. She'd be my live-in LOVER,remember?

Both of them are bad,shikena. But if push comes to shove,i'd rather have a live-in lover tham commit adultery.

Fried rice is too complicated. Slicing and dicing all the veggies will waste time. Besides,i never could cook fried rice very well;it's either the sizes of the carrots/other stuff are too big/small or one thing or the other.

Different things are appealing to diff people,so what appeals to and works for us might not work for the op. For example,if i suggest taking a boat out for a weekend,what if the op/his girl hate water? Or if i say go explore somewhere,if you're in benin try the moat,what if she's not into adventure? Try strip cards,that should be easy;everybody knows how to play cards,and strip cards is pretty much the same,it just follows the same principles of strip poker. But some girls might be insulted if you suggest something like that. I might say,share novels,but some people dont like to read. My point is,it depends on the individuals involved,so op,ask her what she thinks will make your relationship more fun and LISTEN to her!

All women are not opportunistic bit.ches,period.

Aaargh! What's with all the male bashing? When a guy stalks you,he doesnt see it as such;he simply feels he's being persistent and that you're just playing hard to get(a belief you women create by saying one thing and meaning another). That aside,you're not the only ones who get stalked. Imagine a girl showing up at your house uninvited and unannounced saying she wants to cook for me or wash my stuff or some other pile of crap.

Oh come on man,dont be an idiot. Stop making such stupid generalizations. All nigerian women are opportunistic bit.ches,abi? How many of them have you dated? 10,20? A million,maybe? That's still a far cry from all.

when we're together we dont always try be to be the sexiest couple alive;we'd burn each other out. Face painting seems childish. There are other ways to have fun in a r/ship.

Paw paw's ok. I dont like agbalumo's;the only thing i can eat in it's the seeds.

I want to cook something for my woman,like a candle-lit dinner or something,but i want it to be nigerian and creative. Pounded yam(my specialty)is too heavy,it'd prolly give her gas,rice is so damn boring,i want something creative nd original.

Lol.

Osanobua!

They are everywhere. All you've gotta do is find them

I was about to say no,when a woman cheats its bye-bye,but i saw something that's made me change my mind. The op said his woman said force was involved. After 6 years you should be able to tell when she's lying and when she's not. If she's lying and she just had an affair,then by all means,break it off. But if you believe she's being honest about force being involved,then that's a diff ball game.

Chai. ASUU don suffer

But generally people take it to mean the same thing so you shouldnt really worry about it. When ur bf starts saying he loves you but he isnt in love with you,then you should worry.

I love you-agape love;i love my brother,my sisters,my mother,my friends etc,so we're talking the kinda love btw family members nd friends. I'm in love with you-romantic love;i'm in love with an amazing woman and i'm gonna marry her. Geddit?