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Carpet muncher? That's a new one.

Oh. Okay.

Thank-you. We all know that when the little buggers start popping out,things will definitely change

Well,face painting seems childish,i almost always whup her ass at vid games but in the spirit of generosity i let her win sometimes. Hide and seek. . Hmmn. We can cook together,just as long as she slices the onions

Oh nd she likes me in a white dress shirt,or a plain white cotton t-shirt

I'm 15+,i'l be 16 may next year.

Well no,that you're innocent doesnt mean you should be inexperienced,but you also said you like him naked. Was that just hypothetical or is it part of your experience?

Err. . I hate clothes that are too sexual,i hate those clothes that turn a woman into a walking sexual innuendo,so no tops with plunging necklines that show half of your boobs and none of those trousers that are so tight it takes two people to wear it,y'know,those ones you girls fight with,the constant war to stuff your behinds into a trouser thats two sizes too small

Please try and read and understand a topic before you start posting replies.

What on earth makes you think i cant afford kids?

Age is never a problem in a r/ship unless one or both of the partners think it is. If you love her,then her age shouldnt be an issue. If you're a 100% sure it's not an issue now and it wont be an issue in the future,then you've gotta get through to her and provide assurance because that's what she needs now.

Some people start having kids 9months to 1year after they're married. I'm totally against that,i mean i want to enjoy my wife,y'know,enjoy being married for like 2 to 3 years before we start having kids. What do you think?

Ok crayon,happy D&S. @topic,too many.

@biola,lool! It's a terrible thing,really.

@gabry,please correct me if i'm wrong,but didnt i see you somewhere on nl saying u were a virgin? Just wondering what you're doing with a shirtless guy?

why is errybody referring to the op as a guy? The op's female.

i like to think of my woman as innocent(not virginal innocence,i dont dig that,but innocence sha). Her dating 30 guys in the past kinda ruins the fantasy.

@outstrip,sure! As long as you'll move with me.
@godmother,i dont watch her show because she's gay so i wouldnt know whether it's the bomb or not.

@ezinne, loool! It'll be our little secret. By the way,what's been goin on in tinsel?

I just read a thread about a guy who said he loved his girl but he was unfaithful. I was really surprised when the guys on the thread seemed to think it was ok,in fact,the general view was like 'men cheat,there's no way around it'. I was just really disturbed by this,i mean,staying faithful's hard enough,but if you go into a r/ship with that mental attitude,then your r/ship'll be doomed from the start. Some people were like it's the way men are made,and i couldnt disagree more. God created us and he gave the command for the marriage bed to be without defilement. He wouldnt have given us such a command if He knew we couldnt do it. If we're talking psychologically,then yeah,the male psyche has been engineered towards infidelity. The environment in which we are has made it seem acceptable and that's the view of a lot of men. I just feel that saying that cheating is not only okay but inevitable is an insult to the millions of us guys who are staying faithful. I am in a r/ship,i've been in it for close to two years,we love each other,we're getting married;i have never cheated on her and by the grace of God,i never will. It's not like i'm some kind of superman. It's not like all other women are like cocoa sacks to me,it's not like every other woman doesnt hold any appeal to me,because if i said that i'd be lying to myself. I'm an intensely sexual man,i love women,they love me,so it's extremely hard. It's a struggle. Everyday i fight. I refuse to be controlled by my desires. I refuse to hurt her like that. I refuse to put my r/ship with the woman i love in jeopardy. So to all the impressionable young men who might read this,it's not impossible to remain faithful. Sure it's hard as hell,but when you meet and love someone,when you see your future in her eyes,when you want to start a family with her,when you wanna spend the rest of your life living up to the trust she had in you,when you wanna make her happy,when you love her like that,it wont be that much of a sacrifice.

Nope. It means that different things are beautiful to different people at different times. It's kinda like saying one man's meat is another man's poison;what's beautiful to you might not be beautiful to someone else and vice-versa.

God punish you! Have you no respect for the sanctity of marriage? If i were her husband and i caught you,after giving you a good beating,i'd tie you up,cut off your balls,roast 'em and shove 'em down your throat.

God forbid bad thing! 30 men! Ke?

Lol.

It's not me,thank God! My woman would never do that. If my gf cheated on me,bye bye,if it's my fiancee,the wedding's off,if she's my wife,i'll give her quit notice,even if we have kids she'll still bounce,and she'd better hope and pray that i dont cut her out of my children's lives for good,because that would be what she deserved. Infidelity is unforgivable.

He should have married her. Afterall,that was the initial plan. Even the bible says that if you cant hold yourself you should marry.

@exquisite,she had no plausible excusd tn do that. If you're having problems with your guy,you work it out. You dont go cheating on the guy!

She accepts ur proposal without telling you the truth. When you find out(as you inevitably will)would you forgive her?