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@empiree

You are really trying! Even though it's my dream to go and live abroad, I can't be away for a very long time like you did! 20years!! Wow!

Here in the North Mallams do preach in community mosque at any given time and Fridays is entirely meant for Leactures!

The reason I don't like All this Maulid celebration is the way Men and Women, Married women will be out there jumping and shouting The Prophets (S.A.W) name like they are in a political campaign or Party! Loud Speakers and even DJ's and with the little knowledge I have Islamic songs are not haram but mixing it with different sounds is what makes it haram! I use to listen to some Islamic songs on AFRICA TV3 Channel, no beats no DJ's just 100% voice.

And Also this Wazifa of a thingere people will sit round a white piece of cloth! Yoruba mosques do it aot here

chigoizie7:
1st cousins?

lol. the funny thing is i am replying you in the presence of my gf and we are cousins. her mother and my mother share same father and mother. Islamically it's not prohibited and my culture also. besides one of the advantages of such relationships is that your gf or wife is also your sister so you will treat her as your sister and she will respect you and protect you the way she will protect and respect her brother. you see its a win
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CanadaOrBust:
I can tell u r in your teens, latest early 20’s when u r all about girls. Grown men don’t go around making juju to get women. Money, maybe

Hmmm Pharmacology my foot! bros you never enter where big men dey, your eyes for don clear! forget all these white men bullshit na dem da to jazz pass!

midnighter:
Good! And you'll wake up to pray Fajr and then abuse more people! Well done!

This is the time when Allah answers prayers and I'm already on it! you can also try and be praying especially by 3am every day. Besides I didn't insult her. I told her the pure unadulterated truth!

midnighter:
You who prays 5 times a day and talks like a rabid hyena are no better than OP that doesnt pray.

You cant even advise somebody who is going through a crisis. What kind of Islam are you practising?

Lol crisis my foot! besides I didn't said I'm in anyway better than her! It's 3am dear i'm done here!

midnighter:
Is it why you abused and insulted her? Couldnt you tell her that without all those bad words?

So for your mind you think Allah has rewarded you for abusing somebody? Dont you think you have rubbished your night prayer with that thing you wrote?

You are just driving people further away from Islam with your behaviour. How can insulting somebody for their age make them pray?

Is that what the Qur'an told you to do?

Lol I rubbished nothing. and i didn't said Allah has rewarded me for my comments. Look I'm not driving anybody away from Islam. the only difference between a Muslim and Ahlil Kitab is prayers. As far as I am concerned she is not a Muslim. Her last post said it all! At @35 nothing can change her mindset except if she is ready to change.

baby124:
Lol. Ok o. But you should ask for forgiveness from the OP for insulting her with such vile words when you claim you are a devout Muslim.

I feel like slapping sense into her head! if she is tired of the religion she can convert and be free! she is not even remorseful smh! besides I did nothing wrong I just told her the bitter truth. had been she's ready to change I will gladly help her with prayers that will change her life for Good.

baby124:
See devout muslim. Hahahaha. I am sure you pray 5times daily and think you are better than the OP! . When your mouth is this vile!

Yes I pray 5 times daily. and I told her nothing but the truth! I used to have same problem with the OP. but I made up my mind to establish regular prayers in no time I got used to it. Islam is not all about emotions or doing what pleases you. Islam is all about Quran Sharia and the Sunna of Prophet (S.A.W)

arinpe16:
Thank you everyone. I've gone through the thread and I must say that I really appreciate the criticisms, judgements, insults, abuse and all. For those that asked, he drops money for feeding alone ( sorry I didn't mention that) so, I had to cook for him. I also work and contribute to the home (to all those saying I'm dependent on a man's money at my age. Lol)

Reading through the comments has just proven to me that we have a problem in this country. How can you openly disregard another person's religion just because you weren't born in it. I'm a sociologist and I was made to understand that everything we are today is as a result of our culture.

Can we just stop fighting because of religion? It's very annoying. If you were born a Muslim, you'll practice Islamic religion and if you were born a Christian, you'll go to church. Although, you can decide to change when you grow up.

To our brothers and sisters in Islam, we're sometimes our enemy. We often believe we're perfect because we observe the 5 daily prayers but this is far from the truth. Once you do not use hijab or follow a doctrine, you become a devil.

To my Christian brothers and sisters, you see your wife as a devil once she doesn't pray from morning till night. We have a very big problem in this country and religion is one of it. We claim to be Christians and Muslims yet, we do not love ourselves.

I know praying 5 times daily is compulsory in Islam and I'll adjust and take it one step at a time (nobody can force me. I'm an adult). Then again, what if I pray and my intentions are devilish? People don't care about intentions, all they know how to do best is "eye-service"
Awon pretenders oshi!!!

Praying is very necessary but you can't force it on anyone. It has to come from the heart and the person has to be ready for it.

As for my husband, he's reading this thread too because I had to show him. We're still reading through and laughing together here. I believe we're fine and religion can not tear us apart.

I saw some PMs, I'm sorry I won't reply. I'll have to deactivate now because I'm a regular user of this forum.

Some people on this forum are bitter (according to my husband) and they're happy destroying homes. We'll work it together. Thanks for the advices.

Useless Evening newspaper you are lying your husband is reading and laughing at nothing. clearly you are not a Muslim but a pretender. And yes as a Muslim you will be forced to pray if u won't then convert!! simple as ABC and besides we Muslims are not each others enemies you are your own worst enemy!

arinpe16:
@baby124, He prays regularly and we have kids.
@pharmagba Did you read the post at all? He's the one telling me that I'm not marketable again. As per obedience and humility, don't judge please. You do not know me.
He doesn't set good example for me. He will pray, eat my food, have sex with me and still keep malice with me? Is that what the Qur'an says about religion? We've been together for 5 years and he didn't see it as a big deal. Why is it now that everything good is coming his way, he suddenly start seeing me as being a devil, not marketable and what not.
So, I'll have to pray for him to love me and do his right? Just imagine. He can't even correct me without threatening me with divorce. Is being divorced a disease?

As long as I never wish him bad and I'm trying, he should know I'll get there, but it takes time. So, i ask again, is divorce the answer?

You are very stupid and a useless Woman. Are you sure you are a Muslim or Just pretending to be one?? I can see People advising you to pretend while at the same time practicing their own religion. Let me tell you the bitter truth with this attitude of yours you will never be happy in this world. Better turn to Allah and enjoy the favours that comes with it. Shaitan is playing ping pong with your life. @35 you don't pray regularly and you are not ashamed about it says a lot about your upbringing. besides @35 no one will ever come your way especially if he find out that you are a pretender. Hmmm Firaun will be Chilling in hell compared to you. Repent Madam and start praying. That's my only advice for you.

haa! listen! i know you will be viewing this thread with another moniker or as a guest, each an everyone one of us is liable for what he or she post here. i just talk my mind o and you don vex deactivate account. this is serious, what i posted is just my opinion but you took it personal. Anyway i will let you be.

Mustsucceed:
I forget say I get family here. Even though they might not know its me...before I will receive summons and be placed in the middle, that I went to announce family issues to the public

I perfectly understand you. As for me I don't like talking about such issues especially online. besides I don't even like talking all the times.

Mustsucceed:
May Allah assist us

Ameen Ameen. I read the post before you modified it.

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Done.you bill is 1,111 Quran recitation on my behalf. Thank you

lol kuku kee me now.

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Honestly prayer dey...its only a lazy person that will jumping about for solutions .I know what I have Gained from these forum by just reading comments ,advise,suggestions.Alhamdulillah

A lot of people are lazy my brother. I remembered what Empire said Spirituality is not all about mosque attendance. lol

Empiree:
you continue to the next mubeen.



]quote]Q2. I want to know whether one should recite Suratul Fatiha when performing the Suratul Ikhlas Nafil prayer. before reciting the 50 Ikhlas are we going to recite Fatiha or one can just go ahead and read 50 Suratul Ikhlas after making Niyah. And please can one end it with Salatul Ibrahimiyya or must be Salatul Fatih?sura fathia is a must in any salat whether obligatory or nawafil. Salat is invalid without it. Any salat you know whether Ibrahimyyah, fatih, or simple ones like

Allahumo Salli ala sayyidina muhammadin was ala Ally muhammadin was salim.

Hope this answer your question

Thank you very much! may Allah Reward mercy find you wherever you are.

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Empiree:
Bakar1 is very understanding on tasawwuf to some extent and movado19 . I cited una

Aslam Alaikum. Please I have some questions I want to ask you regarding what you posted earlier.

Q1. You said one should read Suratul Yaseen and stop at every mubeen, then recite 100x Q54:45, Ya Qahhar and Ya Jabbar. my question here is are we going to start from the first ayah after reaching the first mubeen or we can continue after reciting the 100x prayers??

Q2. I want to know whether one should recite Suratul Fatiha when performing the Suratul Ikhlas Nafil prayer. before reciting the 50 Ikhlas are we going to recite Fatiha or one can just go ahead and read 50 Suratul Ikhlas after making Niyah. And please can one end it with Salatul Ibrahimiyya or must be Salatul Fatih?

tessyy1701 i will delete the post soon. Razram

haba you guys should stop quoting me with your mails. many ghost readers will start posting their emails here pls.

Mustsucceed:
Toh go and sleep mana...you are not like me fa .I chat from my dreams don't follow me toh

me wey wan baff and work. na my office time be this

Mustsucceed:
How many days are we to do this ? You didn't tell us.jazakallah khair.iam really grateful

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No iam chatting you from my dreams same way as u are responding from your dreams also

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