Was he invited or chooses to visit anyone that comes to his mind??

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Hahaha good night irresponsible boy from the gutter .. say hello to your asawo mama for me. Next time don't poke nose... Anuofia!

My friend I'm sorry for all I wrote, i withdraw all of them.. was actually joking but I think I took it a little too far, forgive me please..

Illiteracy + Religion Fanatism = Disaster

After 7 Years.. SMH.. Never Again.. Amen.

PETER OBI will fix Nigerian's Economy, There is so much in this country, yet people are suffering.. Can we just keep sentiments aside and pity the children unborn even if we do not pity ourselves..

The Bullion Van Himself

Jonathan should know he is the most globally respected African politician of our time and Many People are not happy about that especially the cattle rearers. So he should never let them ruin that reputation of his with that evil offer. The Best He can do right now is to give his support to Peter Obi and remain in PDP, or better still, coordinate the youth to start a new political movement and give them His support.

Mooh247:




APC only has 3 aspirants.... Tinubu, Osinbajo and Ameachi the rest barely donated campaign funds

After the turbaning, delegates present would be cornered and their loyalty negotiated



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Tinubu and Amaechi also donated campaign funds, you can go to the bank with my statement

If Only the Youths of this great nation can come together and decisively flush out all old cargoes that are slowing/frustrating the progress of this great nation, and Elect one of us who will work under our collective supervision, Then Nigeria will become great again and recover its lost reputation and glory.

It Hurt me when people sound like it is Buhari that will determine the next president, can we just concentrate on getting our PVCs and prepare our minds to go out and vote, when will we come out of this political godfatherism?? It sucks..

That is one problem with occupying a position, you can not speak freely as many people will always want to make issues out of your statements BUT meanwhile, He is a Nigerian and has a right to choose his own candidate, other well known people also mentioned their preferred candidate openly including MURIC and no one shouted (MURIC and Cattle rearers have been declaring for their Muslim candidate, nobody shouted, when a Muslim body wants to talk, they open their mouth and talk without apology, now a pastor has spoken, they want to crucify Him.

inoki247:
freedom don tire diz one dere Village people wan send dem to prison nd throw the key away....

Bros if you ask me oh, I go say na "Japa" strategy, them dey pull asylum staunt so Them go give them Visa, the hustle is real bro

He should also pray for himself so he will not be used by the devil come 2023..

I left home at 18 immediately After secondary school, dad lost his job and took ill shortly, mum was a petty trader and I had 3 older siblings in higher institutions, they had to manage what's left in dad's savings account in school which was not enough, So I had to go sort myself out. Got a job at 18, was working and schooling and even giving financial support to my parents and sibling in school, graduated and got a better job, and furthered my education. It was not easy but I'm grateful to God His Grace my hardwork paid off..
Let this be an encouragement to anyone without an academic sponsor, you can do it yourself, never remain uneducated because there was no one to see you through school, get a job, start a part time programme, be humble and focus and you shall become better than those whose father sent to private universities

No, Yahaya Bello is the most generous candidate, He has so much to throw around, remember he is the first to purchase the 100Million form, So the guy is loaded But this time, they will know Money can fail..

A Sellout/Traitor will always act thesame way..

HomoSapiien:
Chukwu Okike Abimba will lead you there.

Igbos, Yoruba and Hausa love you so much.

YORUBA: Asiwaju. Okunrin meta. Eyan kan Soso bi eyan 1 million.

HAUSA: Allah saa ka Shugaban Kasa

IGBO: ka chineke mee gi onye isi ala

I Claim this your prayers To you Personally, All Alone.. As you have wished and prayed, it shall be unto you alone, This type of leader will lead you in all aspect of your life, Amen.

Please if you know any case where a poor person got justice in court, please share with us, I have not seen any..

Baba that has plan to take 50 Million Nigerian youths into the Army and feed them with Cassava, Corn and rice.. what a plan.. Give eggs to primary school children.. so the only problem he can see we have is food, nothing else.. Never, Never, Never Again.. Affliction Shall not arise a second time..

Bro, please do not let that affect your career in anyway, still put in your best in your job BUT get a very busy partner as well. Maybe you date someone in your field so the busy lifestyle will be mutual. That is the only remedy I can think of.. If you become jobless and broke, the lady will still take a walk, so look for the one that matches your lifestyle. Some lady may not complain but might likely cheat on your while you are away, so get a very busy lady as well.

The main Ethic of Easter is "Selflessness", Jesus Left His throne in heaven and came to die for a Sin he did not commit, though He resurrected. That is the Ethic of easter, Now Baba Jagaban, you Need to imbibe that Ethic too by giving up your so called Ambition and be selfless. It must not be you, please give support to the man you know can deliver so you can rest well. Nigeria is under serious pressure so we need who will have the time for work and strength to fix the madness we are currently in.
Thank you Sir.

To be quickly rich without any labor, this is the dream of all sinners. That is the foundation of gambling.
Gambling – definition: To play a game for money or property; to bet, to take a chance, to risk on an uncertain outcome; to expose yourself to danger and to proceed in the face of it.
The attraction of gambling is entertainment and the love of money. Both are very addictive strongholds of satan. The victims are people who are lazy, covetous, foolish and ambitious in the same time. That combination is deadly. Gambling is a scheme to escape labor, but in reality, gambling is an evil spirit that kills and destroys.
In the U S gambling is an industry of billions of dollars. The lottery is the favorite legal gambling. Gambling is the fastest growing addiction in the world. 1/7 teenagers and 1/10 adults that gamble will end up as addicted to it. Gambling wrecks homes and marriages. The business is wicked and it attracts all type of men but especially the poor who believe in the get rich quick schemes. The poor neighborhoods have the highest number of location for gambling and lottery. These are sold in poor grocery stores to attract the people who buy food. Many times a poor man has gone home to his family without food and just with a lottery slip and the promise of millions. ‘The American Dream’ is intimately connected with the evil spirit of gambling.
The casinos machines are built in such a way that 80-90% of the winning numbers go to the patron. The chance to win there is minimal but the attraction to make money without work is very high. Even the few that win, statistics say that they will lose all their money in maximum two years and they are back to gamble again, ready to sell even their soul to satan.
If you study the Word of God and His ways you can deduce that gambling is a sin and it is to be rejected as a practice to make money. Gambling violates God’s law because of the following:
1-The foundation and the attraction of it is the love of money, which is evil.
‘Whoever loves money never has money enough; whoever loves wealth is never satisfied with his income’ (Ecc 5:10)
2-Gambilng encourages laziness and covetousness in the same time. The Bible says that we should work and be good stewards of the income we make. We are to tithe to God, then use the remaining to take care of the family. Any surplus we are to invest it as seed in the work of God or to save for emergencies in the future.
‘Lazy hands make a man poor but diligent hands bring wealth’ (PV 10:4)
‘You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife…’ (Ex 20:17)
3-Gambling may be entertaining but it is addictive. All addictions are sins because they master the person who becomes a slave
‘A man is a slave to whatever has mastered him’ (2Pet 2:19)
4-Gambling gives false hope to people and builds false imaginations. God is to be our only hope. Our future is joyful because God, in Christ will change our sorrow into glory. Any other hope of riches and fame outside Christ is false and criminal.
‘The hopes of the wicked come to nothing…when a wicked man dies, his hope perishes; all he expected from his power come to nothing’ (PV 10:28; 11:7)
‘May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit (Rom 15:13)
5-Gambling does not give glory to God but to the ‘luck or fortune’ of men. There are things in this world that may not be bad in themselves, but they are not beneficial to the kingdom of God and to our testimony as believers.
‘Everything is permissible for me but not everything is beneficial…but I will not be mastered by anything…but not everything is constructive…’ (1Cor 6:12; 10:23)
That means that gambling does no good to me or to others. Its hope of success is a deception that will only destroy my life and my family. It is the entertainment of the devil and it is to be rejected, in Jesus name!
6-Man was created in the image of God. But gambling makes a man to be a fool
‘Like a partridge that hatches eggs it did not lay is the man who gains riches by unjust means. When his life is gone, they will desert him and in the end he proves to be a fool’ (Jer 17:11)
God is angry with them that believe in the idol of fortune or gambling. This is because it makes the people deaf to God’s voice and stubborn to His leading. Gambling is the backslider’s god and the fantasy of the rebellious (Is 65:11,12)
‘Dear Lord Jesus, I pray that you expose this wicked, seducing, evil spirit of gambling so that we can hate it enough to separate from it totally. We ask for forgiveness for any desire to be lazy, to cheat or to covet, and desire wealth in the same time. Let Your light shine on our understanding!
In Jesus name we pray,
Amen!’

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I have so much to write but I will try to be as brief as as possible because of those who aren't good at reading plenty stuff.

Now, when you talk about an Abusive Marriage, the natural thing that comes to the mind is its the Man that is Abusing the wife (obviously because the man is the head and physically stronger except in few occasions) Its only in rare occasion when a man is humble enough to speak out that He is being abused by his wife that we get to know. I will not be dwelling on the case of wives abusing husbands because he is physically weak, sick or broke because the percentage and life threat is low compared to A man abusing the woman which is of high percentage and life threatening. Although I will write about Wives abusing husbands some other day.

As written above, this write up is about Men abusing women in Marriage or relationship But I will be dwelling on a few root causes that other people are ignoring and I will be addressing it from the male and female angle so maybe, this can help few people avert future disasters.

1. Background/Upbringing
What a young boy or girl sees growing up make up their perception and ideology in life, If a child comes from a home where the father beats his mother at the slightest provocation, his brothers beats his sisters and he even beats his own sister(s), there is a very high tendency that he will be abusive in his relationship or marriage because overtime, he saw that as the right way to act to show manliness.
Also, if a girl come from a home where the mother is disrespectful, insults the father, slaps the father or other men, she will likely become abusive in marriage or Will "Push" a gentle man/husband to the wall until he becomes abusive then she starts crying the victim.
So to save yourself a lot of trouble in the future, look into the background of the man/lady you wanna marry, talk alot and know what happened while growing up, do not just laugh at the gist, pick lessons from there, lookout for red flags, and when you see the signs, please leave that partner, do not believe anyone will change or you will change the person, some may pretend for sometime to marry you and the real personality will start playing out, it's better to wait and marry late than marry wrong.

2. Disrespectfulness
This goes especially to married women, I know we are all equal before God But that same God made your Husband the head, you can never change that narrative. A man is wired to receive respect and a woman is wired to receive love. Please respect your husband. More reason why background is very important, somethings a wife never sees as being disrespectful considering her background may be seen to be disrespectful by her husband considering his own background, please look into this and adjust where necessary. This is main reason why a well educated and successful man will prefer his uneducated househelp to his polished wife, The househelps kneels to greet him, honours him and then cook his meals, gradually, He starts getting attached to her, some men bottles this up while some may not be able to and start having an affair with the househelp. The issue there is respect, it's good to be your husbands best friend but never let that affect the respect you should give him, do not talk back at him, never insult him, do not challenge his authority, it will bring out the beast in him. Meanwhile, do not think you have seen the best of your husband, If you wanna see him at his optimum, just intentionally respect Him, if you are african, do it the African way and watch him ask you to make any demand which he is ready to fulfil. Come here and thank me when it works.

3. Involving a Third party
It Is not totally a bad idea to involve a third party when it seem you and your partner can not resolve the matter at hand, getting the wrong person may further provoke your partner, make sure it is someone that partner really really respect and you should also be sure of the personality and proven records of that third party. Some men/ladies will insult you for tolerating your partner but they take far worse treatment from their own partners. Mind who you discuss your relationship with, make the person is not a sentimental/partial person, a person who is known for standing for the truth, not who will support you and try to justify your wrong doing, they will only make matter worse. Get a neutral person who you are 100% not interested in you or your partner and also see a marriage counsellor if need be.

4. Know when to keep shut or walk away
If both partners can master this, physical abuse will be properly managed. There is always a perfect time to keep shut and w7alk away when the tension is high before it gets physical. You can apologise even if you are wrong just to calm the pressure and then talk about it much later when anger is absent. This is what I wish ladies can learn, but many ladies rains insults on the man and if he is not the type that has mastered to walk away, it can get physical/abusive.

5. Prayerfully and carefully choose a partner.
Do not let greed, sentiment, laziness becloud your reasoning when choosing a partner.

6. Laziness
I mentioned laziness because most ladies sees a man as their only source of provision and never do anything that can give them money, so it's very difficult for them to leave the man if he becomes abusive because he pays all her Bill's, the world has gone digital, even if your husband does not want you to work or do business, but you can learn an online skills you can do from home so you do not become handicapped. Do not fall for crocodile tears with the usual statement of "Please, I will change" majority will never change, I will not advise you to risk even when you see red flags, Life is Precious. Same goes to some men too that remain in toxic relationships because the woman is paying your Bill's, get something to do so you will be able to take a walk when it becomes unbearable.

Know all these and have peace.

Nonexisting:
She must be ready to submit to a bully husband and should be willing to die in an abusive marriage.

Hence the need for her to be prayerful and seek God's direction to the right man that will not bully her in marriage. Some of them sees the signs but greed for money or wanting to marry quick quick blinds them and they choose to manage Him until She can not manage anymore.. Let Men that bully die single, they do not deserve a wife and Women should not also push their husband to the wall and make him a beast that he was not at first. It is well.

You wan marry Chinese babe and you no wan chop Frog or Toad.. lol

Atiku should just sacrifice that Ambition for the sake of this Country and give support to the man that will sweet south and north with their support.. So this Country can be revived .. Please for the sake of the common Nigerian Man..

Being physically Fit is also a requirement for a national leader, Maybe we should take the contestants to the stadium to run from Post to Post, the ones that can not should not bother contesting �