₦airaland Forum

Ekomatrix1:
I have this girl I have been dating for 4 years and we are planning to get married to this year. But I notice she does not like to sacrifice. I mean, she is kind of selfish.

she is studying and i send her money aside the one the parent gives to her but if i request for a video call, she would ask me to send her data, if she comes to my house and i don't give her TP not minding that i gave her money some weeks/days back she would be angry.

Yesterday i booked a ticket for her to come to lagos from anambra, after booking she asked me to also send her some feeding money for the journey. I refused and asked her to take from the 20k I sent to her last 2 weeks, she then said " WHO PAYS FOR TP AND NOT GIVES FEEDING MONEY?  

Long story short, I had to cancel the ticket. I have constantly complained about her selfishness  but no improvement .

what should i do?

I'm more concerned about this part! She didn't bother to visit you again! This girl no send you at all. In fact, you're in love with yourself.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]You cannot be comfortable with everything in your partner. I might be wrong, but I got this data from married friends and relatives.

There's no guarantee that he would meet a selfless person if he breaks up.

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But it is better to try another person. We shouldn't let the fear of unknown control our lives and decisions

KimberlyWest:
All these meaningless stories I read here everyday, painting women black.

I used to think whining was primarily women's job, until I met Nairaland boys. Romance section, specifically.

The society should have taken y'all into account before saying women talk/gossip a lot. Maybe, just maybe, that theory wouldn't have seen the light of the day.

Op, read your story again. Does it sound feasible?

I doubt if any girl in her right senses will say yes to you today, and bill you the next day. 60k? Of all money fah. Op biko, lekwa ọweghi anya, iyiri onye gi 60k?

You can't make such demands doesn't mean that no girl will demand such. Nigeria ladies are tax collectors.

englishmart:
Just a coincidence.
Death is unpredictable

Not a coincidence at all, there are some cancers that even with money, it is total hopelessness. Not even a belief in miracle could come to the rescue.

Death is predictable in some illnesses.

lordally:
Sorry for your loss bro! And congrats on your growth!! Bigger you I pray!! And as for the MONITORING keep monitoring them ooo cos if you blink dem go comot the "MONI" for the MONITORING begin dey give you STORY( TORING )

That's my job for now. Thanks.

SweetiliciousD:
If all politicians from Eastern extraction are speaking and acting up like the duo...... Fill in the gap.

Let me do that for you:
They're what they are, hypocrites. They can't be trusted. Why would anyone even believe that they are ready to risk what they are benefitting from the zoo, millions of naira every month! Biafra can't afford to give them a fraction of that!

Eriokanmi:
Its not about party guy. I see both the pdp and apc collapse ahead of 2023. At least, a new part would most likely emerge. Watch out !

A Southern party or something? Lol

Babatope, just know that PDP your party can't risk giving its presidential ticket to a southerner in 2023! That amounts to suicide, don't know what gladden your heart.

Asgard73:
Let Apc gag Okorocha and see how he will blow their trumpet

All those fear fear governors decamping will regret it.. fact!
The decamped with nobody... empty decamping ...
no wonder Femi was wailing over a dead party

There will be no Buhari on ballot box..

Okezie Ikpeazu can still join them..

PDP ship has sailed ...

As for hallucinating zombies ... e go clear by 2024..

PDP! There used to be a party, the largest party in Africa! What a shame!

Taiwojon:
No you are not christian neither are you born again yet!

You need JESUS to be a save and he has done that for you
Just Repent and be save

"Those that are not with us are against us" words of Jesus

He condemned gambling and you're preaching Jesus to him, saying that he's neither a Christian nor born again! What am I missing?

famousroland:
But why 3 blacks go lose penalty consecutively, no be racial abuse dem Dey find so

E tire person o!

YoungLionken:
Tinubu, seriously? What a backward nation, filled with greedy thieves and gullible followers

I would rather vote for Buhari than vote for another thief! After all,what difference does it make ??

Nigerians will never learn!! You will soon see how they will come out enmasse to drum support for the known thief!!!

Who is not a known thief in Nigeria, you or Sowore? Lol.

lordally:
So any time I see comments about Transport business on hire purchase I just Smile and tell myself " Shebi na here we dey!!! Them go still carry the matter come Nairaland make we settle"

Walahi, you're funny! In Osun state in recent times, na butchering those cultists dey butchering bikes riders before collecting the bikes from them. Only people with strong hearts are still doing the business. The stress and risks are just too much. Within 24 hours to two weeks, your bike don go and the rider don dey mortuary or hospital with his family looking for surgery money.

EKONGKING:
In your...... ,if you protest ,you will be killed like a chicken .No body ,other than your family would know it.

Nigeria protests are usually end up in vandalism, more like a rampage.

tonididdy:
You are not thinking as an economist so I give up.

Please do.

lordally:
What area of interest did you change to?

I have modified my earlier post, check it again

lordally:
Guy don't even think of it!! If you know what's good for you!!! Cos the guy you are quoting Doesn't know what he is talking about!! The 3 bikes wey my guy buy!!! The people in give thief all of them!!! He just recovered one of recent!!! He who has ear let him hear!!

Lol. My last bike was sold off by the rider! That was 2016. But I'm still in transport business, just changed the area of interest. And it looks promising.

lordally:
Ahhh thank God!! Say na joke! My mind don calm down! What bike men remit is 10k per week some remit 15k per week! Then after 2 months they begin tell stories. Some go even thief the Bike!! See anything transport if you no dey drive am by yourself ABORT! ABORT! I repeat for the last time ABORT!!! cos the Wahala wey dey there is not worth it! I just don't want to go into full details.

I almost quit too. But then, I changed from bikes (installments) to mini buses (daily deliver). I put them in my brother's care. Ten months into the arrangement, my brother stopped being alive. I had no option than to take charge and face my worst nightmare, drivers!
Thank God, thank dedication and monitoring, the investment is growing and the number is increasing.

lordally:
Guy don't even think of it!! If you know what's good for you!!! Cos the guy you are quoting Doesn't know what he is talking about!! The 3 bikes wey my guy buy!!! The people in give thief all of them!!! He just recovered one of recent!!! He who has ear let him hear!!

Lol. My last bike was sold off by the rider! That was 2016. But I'm still in transport business, just changed the area of interest.

smeag0l:
The 6th poster on this thread already gave you the best advice. Don't invest in anything that'll make you earn profits in naira. Inflation and uncertainties in the business environment will erode your gains

So, all Nigerians should be investing in something that will make us earn profits in dollars and pounds sterling? How about we change our currency in Nigeria to dollar first?

RichAbujaGuy:
Maybe my reading comprehension is slow today but these two sentences sound like a gross contradiction.

First S.R. said they obtained copies which they didn't produce or screenshot, then they couldn't ascertain the amounts the victims paid.

"SaharaReporters obtained copies of the illegal tenancy agreements that Hajia Amina made for the new tenants and the payment slip of monies to her account.

One of the victims paid N300,000 into her account, while the amounts the other victims paid could not be ascertained as of the time of this report."

Sharp high IQ readers, please me understand this grammar/language.

Like multiple tenants paid to her because she sublet to them but SR could only see payment slip of just one tenant

socialmediaman:
She makes profit by renting a house then subletting at a higher amount, without the consent of the landlord? Many tenancy agreements forbid renters from subletting without landlord’s consent, and falsifying documents to pretend to be the landlord makes it worse, possibly a criminal offense, if allegations are true

300k is not higher than 3.5m.

safesurfer:
is anybody stopping him? In the article, he said there's so much envy and the senior pastors don't want the junior pastors to grow. The question is: how is this statement true?
[s] The churches being led by these men have a free entry and exit policy. If you are fed up of being a member, you can leave at any time. [/s] So how are they stopping you from growing? The man is just suffering from inferiority complex.

Just look at yourself! Firstly you asked how true is the statement? Then, the next line you proffered solution that whoever feel cheated should head for the exit door. Is that how you build a just society or organisation?

Not gonna happen! The allowances that keep increasing every budget year. Even the judges will be blackmailed not to attempt such things because the judges and judiciary too are never satisfied with their own salaries and allowances. The executive, the legislative and the judiciary are all one big mother fvcking greedy ba$tard

tonididdy:
In a lame man's view it means more money for vulcanisers but economically it is a disaster.

Go online and search of the current shortage of UK truck drivers.... The few truck drivers left are threatening to quit if the situations remains (in your view, they are meant to be happy because it's more money, well..... ).

Experts are even suggesting the British military will tak3 over the truck driver jobs otherwise their will be no food in shelves by December.


It's simple economics.

The job becomes lucrative again, more people move into it again. Simple. It's what we see everyday.

[quote author=zombieHUNTER post=103586874][/quote]Your pictures made me laugh. No let Abokis see these pictures o, so that they don't strike again and finish us off with hunger and starvation. U know shey dey are the ones feeding us, right?

Maxymilliano:
Before reacting like a chemical and pointing accusing fingers, was Freeze part of the mammoth crowd that besieged the Synagogue Church to pay last respect to the departed Man of God ?

Daveambition:
Hypocrite...
What's his own excuse for not being present at the funeral.?

Stooopid..

Na so the message is lost to both of you. So much in a hurry to attack daddy freeze, wow!

obembet:
Why Most Nigerians guys hate to see thier friends going out with thier younger sister? This cause big issue for my friend yesterday when his elder brother was warning her about his friend. According to my friend, she told me that the guy was so nice and caring but her brother has been a great obstacle to thier relationship.

I think guys need to allow thier younger sisters to make thier choice. Afterall you won't marry your Younger sister.

I used to think I knew why but after what I witnessed, I really don't know.

There are these two friends I knew. One has a younger sister and his friend was interested in making the sister his wife, wife! The guy wasn't into womanising and the things like that. He doesn't take alcohol, doesn't smoke, doesn't gamble. More than enough income from multiple investments and business, not stingy as he was helping cousins, nephews, nieces and families. But his friend made sure that he stood between them.
Mind you, I knew both guys like the back of my hands. Till today, I'm still asking why? Now, the girl eventually married some who wasn't around most of the time. Where is the happiness in that?

Kondomatic:
You can't do something that huge for Buhari and remain the same again.

Dude has one leg and half now.

Buhari must take from you, it's in his blood.

The guy is probably financially better than you today.

Shetemi12:
Probably there ain't blood brothers

Of course, they are. Read!

The court had heard that the pair are brothers but grew up after after they were adopted by different families when they were young.

GODFATHER88:
Bros try get sense,
I have said this before and I gladly Say it again

The problem of one Igbo man is another Igbo man

Meanwhile all South East politicians are all asssss lickers except for Abaribee and Peter obi

The same Abaribe collecting millions from the Zoo government every month! No be Obi that wan become VP of Zoo? And you think these ones are exception? I'm laughing at your ignorance

NwaAmaikpe:

What's with MNK that people do not want to get on his bad books?
First it was Reno, now Ikpeazu.
You won't openly support his cause yet you're careful not to be seen as openly denouncing his quest.

It's just clear they do not want posterity to record them as clogs in the wheel of MNK's liberation mandate.

They're simply afraid of night visit by UGM, simple as ABC!

crossfm:
Hehehe.

Protesting mother's who were paid to protest.

[s] Mother's who never said anything when their children were been slaughtered by our senior citizens (herdsmen )and their senior brothers in uniforms. [/s]

They should continue to play politics with their lives and the lives of their children.

Of course they said something but people like who were supposed to amplify their voices were busy licking the Albino's urine off the floor as seen below thereby drowning their voices.

Now that ESN, IPOB aka UGM are going into extinction, and the fugitive captured and caged, the mothers' voices now being heard loud and clear because people like you have realised that your course is a lost one.

Let the mothers take their fate in their own hands.

sarrki:
Even on sick bed. Respect to our Gallant military
discipline at its peak Get well soon officer!

More pics to show you that funds meant for military are actually going to the military unlike in the past.