₦airaland Forum

Lubyna:
One thing I have realized from reading comments on this website is that a lot of men do not understand that some women have certain financial standards when it comes to dating, and nothing can make them lower those standards. So guys, when a lady says she can't date a broke guy, try to first ruminate on the information I want to pass across before deciding to label her with derogatory appellations.

When I say some ladies, this "some" constitutes a certain category of ladies. This category includes ladies who are ambitious, hardworking and goal oriented. They are aren't idle or ignorant. They are intelligent, well informed and most times are financially bouyant. These are the kind of women I am categorically referring to. If this kind of woman says she can't date a broke guy, then she is justified in making such statement, and any guy who insults her for making such statement or tries to refute her statement with the kind of pathetic comments I read here, is indeed pathetic.

How does anyone expect a woman who is working towards being financially successful and expending time and energy towards this goal, to settle for some guy who earns WAY less than she does? How can a financially ambitious woman lower her standards and spend years waiting for some guy "who has potential" to make it? Let me unpack this last statement because it's a bit radioactive. There are different gradations of potential and that's why I used quotation marks. There are men who have an education that confers a high competitive advantage in the job market, or skills that can catapult them to high rungs on the financial ladder. If a financially ambitious woman meets this kind of guy and he is working hard everyday to become financially stable and secure, then she can lower her standards a bit and grind with him, but only for a while. If after few months or years and this guy isn't making any progress and she decides to go, no one should blame her. Maybe the guy isn't smart enough or isn't just lucky enough. She has the right to leave him and find someone who is financially compatible with her. Yes.
But this only applies to men who have real potential, not some guy who just has a degree or skills and isn't taking diligent steps to improve his finances.

What most guys don't realize is that being broke or just having enough money to subsist, are indicative of certain traits women in general aren't attracted to. Traits like laziness, unintelligence, lack of ambition, bad luck, and a lack of good education. It's not the fault of a financially ambitious woman who is financially bouyant herself if she doesn't want to mingle with broke people, let alone date them.

Instead of dating a guy that has good qualities, the kind of women I am referring to would rather find financially bouyant and ambitious men like themselves, and then proceed to look for these good qualities. And YES they are justified in doing that. Abi is it only broke guys that have good qualities?

Lastly, if any guy is asking out women who don't fall into the category of women I am referring to, then such guy has low standards and deserves the rejection he is receiving from his fellow broke girl.

am so amazed by your high level of rationality i must say I commend this piece and simply wish most guys learn to come to terms with reality rather than dwell in the figment of their imagination

you fight yourselves over religious matters. so how do you intend to govern yourselves if eventually granted the freedom your all clamouring for smh

what are the terms in accessing the loan. plus what is the interest rate

Burnaboy is a cultist see pictures with his cultist (cult) member
op op op I think you should learn to mind your Biz and learn simply composition

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and you won't find them here to learn if it was a pre weeding pix they will come running it

slaydemons

preccy69:
its nt like i came here to impress any guy

I can't send PMS send me if u can tnx

preccy69:
its nt like i came here to impress any guy

I can't send PMS send me if u can tnx

[quote author=preccy69 post=57419092][/quote]sorry I can't send pms. send me one if u can tnx

preccy69:
d thread had absofuckinglutely ntin to do with a guy,plus dat was my opinion

no Volga pls didn't mean no disrespect. I just sent you a pm hope its cool

preccy69:
don't do guys

not meant to scare a nigga though

I was forced to check you out. so why border to comment in the first place if you don't do guys

preccy69:
its nt like a came here to impress any guy

lol a bit smart

the likes of Dora Akunyele in a tiny voice your man must be lucky. hope u engage him in debates

preccy69:
something better than just looks

like

preccy69:
yea,wen I see girls dressed half naked wot comes to my mind is "its all she's got"

and you've got

Youdondeymad:
May you live long,I'm asking the same question,I'm still pondering about marriage.





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meah our ladies have become so shameless with little or no respect whatsoever

I just don't gerit why are the ladies attacking the guy and ignoring the lady? like what she did was right ? like its normal for married women to cheat ? smh

LisaAnne:
Its not everything you post on here

as in ehhh

HouseOfWine:
IMO, stamina trainning is the best form of lasting long in sex

Jogging, running, treadmill activities .... Any activity that increases the oxygen capicity of your lungs is fundamental to building up endurance in activities that burn calories fast


Also learning different positions and the best that suits your comfortability should be highly encouraged especially for the males...

well said

TimmyPapa:
Lasting long is the time taking to cum.. it's mental not physical ok so knw that

I have to disagree with you on this and tern to agree with the op. my reasons been that few years ago I had iss. with pre-cum I had to book a session with a doctor for check up cos I thought I had iss. like UTI or stuffs but I was rather told I was okey after series of test

my doctor advised I start exercising regularly to increase my heart beat and air flow in my system.


at first I was reluctant but when I eventually started out hmmmmmmm

#smile

the rest is history

CreamyMoltenLar:
Interesting topic. I think guys should also be concerned about the caliber of lady they'll like to end up with. These days its better to spend the rest of your life with somebody that can significantly complement you financially. Personally I've always said I'd never consider a lady that can't at least meet me 40% of the way, because I have so many projects lined up and our contributions will be 60-40. So the question isn't really what type of guy you 'prefer' its what kind of guy you meet up to. There's nothing wrong with being unemployed or earning peanuts and praying for a rich man to give you a life sha. You can either beat your chest with pride and say you want a man you can complement significantly or you humbly beg for a made man to rescue you from poverty. Your own worth should determine your taste in men. Though TBH I personally don't respect girls that think because they're fine they should get a made man, I only respect women that work hard to make an honest living, instead of leeching off their daddies and sugar daddies/yahoo boyfriends.

I read through the comments on FP and noticed no one quote you then I stated to think. non the less I think your response is epic and unmeasurable great mentality brother

including standard organisation of Nigeria?

in Chris browns voice " when a rich nigga wants you n your nigga can do nothing for ya" .................ain't loyal

wacky

her inner shirt though

subtlemee:
What is it with this Orlando? They should beef up securities na,its so sad for such occurrence to happen twice in a row

really so what then will you say about Nigeria and the north east they should ..............

naturefellow:
http://www.latimes.com/world/global-development/la-fg-global-nigeria-superhighway-snap-20161128-story.html

An alternative route for the highway has been provided which promises to minimize the environmental damage. But the question remains, does cross river state really need such a jumbo race course?

In case you do not know, cross river state is a biodiversity hotspot in the world (with unique species of birds, butterflies and mammals - drills, gorillas, etc., which are being conserved by WCS), attracting tourists and ecotourists to sites as Obudu Cattle Ranch, Cross river National Park @ Ikom, Afi Mountains, and especially those regions bordering with Cameroun.
Imagine this! Almost a decade ago, a Danish lepidopterist, Toben Larsen, single -handedly discovered hundreds of new butterflies in one afternoon after visiting a nature reserve in Bauchi. Also visited Ibadan-IITA and C/R and made pioneering discoveries.
Being an active member on a naturalist forum called iNaturalist.org, curators recommended that I visit C/R soon, especially, C/R National Park, Afi mountains, and other regions bordering Cameroun, just to obtain records of wildlife. As a matter of fact, i recently returned from Obudu plateau for a similar mission.
Nigeria is blessed in a myriad ways that only a few can duly appreciate.

nice argument my brother but the fact still remains that the economic benefit of this single project can not be over emphasised ..

that we have natural reserve does not mean we should trow away development . economically with all due respect what has the said natural reserved added to the purse or has it attracted extra income to the state coffers ?
or has it bridge the unemployment gap in the state?
how has it improved the living standard of the people of the host community ?

this and many more questions come to mind

but the supper highway project I guess you already know is linked to the calabar sea port which is under serious dredging right now and of course the important of a sea port in a state can not be over emphasised . and as we all know the governor is only trying to avoid what is happening in Lagos tinlan port from happening to her young port. talking about the bad state of road et all so as an economist I share in the philosophy of destroy to construct ..

naturefellow:
not at all. Only a concerned environmentalist from the West.

oh great so what's your concern and where is the bad news emanating from. teach me

Themandator:
You have many decades to wait ....That short man is a scam.... He is doing nothing in the state ....Btw , I saw in the article that the conference centre inuagurated or opened , ,et it be known that Imoke opened it before leaving office

oh my dear wailer its such a shame his out this time to set the record straight

naturefellow:
you surely have no idea how much bad this news is to a certain group of people right now.

indeed my brother the cross river wing of the APC et all. you sound like a cross riverine are you one?

best news to start the month with

I once head someone talk about Nysc granting loans to serving corps members how true is that n if it is what are the criteria to obtain such loans thanks

is that all it got. bring it up am so following