CaveAdullam:


Women's pride lies in the number of attention they receive from men.

1. I have observed that women these days will not hesitate to give out their numbers to guys because they see these guys as potential recruits into their hordes of chasers. The only way to sit on top of their list is if from the beginning you already titillated her hypergamy, acted as some interesting movie about to happen, and show intentions of spoiling her with fun and excitement. On a general note, these women just feel like veterans of war because men do chase them.

2. The good side to these chasers is that they are not after defending or protecting her but to fvck her like other men and move on. But the downside is that these guys end up throwing their time, energy, attention, and resources down the drain to please her; some end up being friend-zoned, some manipulated and others jettisoned along the way.

3. If we should observe this photo clearly, there is a higher probability that the man feeding her with his cum/seeds is not on that list, the guys on that list are just chasers wanting their fill. Let's go a little bit deeper:

A. All women have that one specific man they love with all their heart, with all their might, with all their mind, and with all their life. The funniest thing is that this man can either be rich or poor, but take it that every woman has that particular man she wants to spend her life with.

B. Despite the aforementioned, she may still cheat on that man she claimed she loves so dearly. However, whomever she cheats with is her golden calf and not her god (take the Israelites of the Bible as an example).

That's why a woman will still stay congealed to her broke boyfriend while leeching on a 7+ figure earning dude. Alright, it is hypergamy.

However, a man should know that if her woman behaves like this, it is not love but a lustful passion - Job's wife. Because like Job in the Holy Bible, true love endures pains, agony, wilderness, stress, darkness, and despondency and in the end comes out refined. True love is Sarah, following Abraham through thick and thin. True love is Job staying faithful to his God. Or, the disciples of Christ staying faithful to the gospel even unto martyrdom.

4. This myriad of attention from men makes them feel a sense of worth, howbeit, one is based on nothing and no achievement save beauty and physique. Their ego and entitlement mentality increases along this line because they feel that if they truly have nothing to offer why are men queuing up in their numbers just to have them? This is what I call the attention deceit: thinking you are important because of the circle of attraction towards you which is way similar to the Dunning-Kruger effect.

5. It is this attention deceit that has kept women where they are and not any patriarchal oppression. Being associated with a king doesn't make you king, queens are not kings. These women think they are like men or even better than men because men chase them 24/7 unrelenting - testosterone doing nature's work to the detriment of men who can't simply place their hands on their libido.

6. There is no possible way this rabbit hole can't lead us to CHOSEN VS COLD APPROACH. We are here again. If she chose you she won't list you among the numbers of tasty men who want a drip of her pvssy juice. She will want to protect you and her interest. Notwithstanding, with a good game, cold approaching can segregate you from the hordes.

7. Summarily, any woman that act this way, telling the world of the number of men that chase her (it may even be that some of these men just want to help her/friendship) is truly deluded, and has a low sense of worth, and should not be taken seriously. She's but for sexual gratification.

On the other hand, guys should calm down and look out for girls that show genuine interest in them, even if it is just 1 girl in a year or two...forget beauty and class, I know you will be judged by the kind of woman you are with especially when it comes to beauty and class, but women are lurking around to have you. Use these women as samples to experiment and understand women and up your game/life from there. She may even up her game because she wants to secure you.

The time you will use in chasing women around should be saved in doing something more productive. It is only through genuine interest a man can understand her far a woman can go when she's crazy in love. Dealing with the wrong women or chasing women all-around has its potential lessons, however, it comes with painful stings and is not enjoyable.

Without further ado: DAY 164, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Genuine desire.

Cc. AIhabaze, food is ready. Yummy!

Badboibipo:
Only one month of trying to be a playboy I have seen heaven on hell. The amount of insult I have received and the amount of false “I am coming “ that never comes as well. These girls are game players and they love the chase and drama and it has made me have headache. I never used to notice any woman because I was chasing my bag, and they made me miserable for it. All the girls in my area gossiped me to my face and said I was too proud and snubbing. I felt I needed to change my ways but the games I have had to deal with is something that I don’t have the energy for. You guys who chase women how do you deal with all these nonsense drama?
When I just paid oloshos to suck my deek I was much happier and saner, God forbid chasing women..I no do again.

Badboibipo:
I seem to be losing control of myself these days, any and every female I see I just want to say hello to. I had friends like this back then and I always thought it was so weird and desperate but what I didn’t know was that their age was part of the reason they where like that. I never felt this way when I was younger so that’s how I know my age hormones are part of it. Anyway so what age is too young for me to chase? 17 because I don’t care how young they are as long as they are legal. And if a man is 30 what age group of women is appropriate for him to chase?

Badboibipo:


Love you bro. God is with us

Badboibipo:
I think there is a sense of “finished” feeling you get when you turn 30. It’s like your life have stopped moving and you’re just at a slow pace with everything. All your friends have moved on from you as well as you have from them, your parents are either old or dead already. You’re stuck between getting married or living miserable as a old single person. You’re not too obsessed with acquiring wealth as much as you did some years before because you’re at a stable place in life where you’re living a routine life either In your work place or in your self employed Space, so money to you now is just a tool to sort out all your never ending bills. It’s no longer about balling, because you don’t feel the need to impress anyone anymore. You are starting to feel weak even tho your body is still agile, mentally you’re just weak and bored most of the times. This is all me, please add yours if you can relate

ubunja:
this does bring back a lot of memories. i sometimes read the things I used to type, very cringy stuff. Thanks for reminding me. Please don't screenshot those posts where I used lots of emojis. They're the worst in cringe.

ubunja:
its an interesting dynamic over here,, homosexuality being legal means there's a real thriving gay subculture; but is it big enough to inconvenience women? Maybe Yes maybe No. Because gays are by far one of the most successful groups of men I think it's more a case of women being drawn to certain upwardly mobile gents only to realize they're gay. The men they like usually turn out to be homo. I think that's what's happening.

But then there's other factors that are more directly eating away at the prospective male market like the fact that a lot of men are in jail, some hooked on drugs, others chasing alcohol and many just flat out losing interest in dating for whatever reason.

it should be noted that when women complain of a shortage of men , in any country on any continent, they're only complaining of the Beta Bucks shortage. cause women will never run out of men who wanna smash. it's the shortage of men willing to commit which troubles women cause it means many things: eg it means there's no one women can use to correct their mistakes (no step fathers for those alpha's kids), and it means women may have to work till they die since there's no "retirement package" men that will wife them up and support them later on in life.
and in SA it's no different, sex before marriage is a huge norm here with cohabitation exactly like in the US where a girl as young as 20 can just pack her bag and go live with her BF and no one at home bats an eye. so the sex is always plentiful, it's the commitment that's going down the drain, given that SA men have always been commitment-phobic (cause most are raised by single mothers so they never learnt what it is for a man to love a woman since they never had a father figure), its now even worse cause social media and the slow but steady awakening of men to the real nature of women, are all making men see women as short term pleasures but long term headaches. if these men hated commitment before, the hate it MORE now. which is a real dilemma for SA women who find themselves good enough for sex but not good enough for marriage.
there's a complaint that SA women love Money, but let me tell you SA women don't even know what gold digging is. they are one of the cheapest groups of women in Africa. I belong to an exclusive gold diggers group of SA women on Instagram and I'm always laughing at the things they demand and their stories. these are working class women cute as hell but they're literally chasing peanuts. and they just love that dick they'll even turn around and let you golddig them if you're good at sex. lol.

given that commitment is hard to come by, it's a buyer's market out here, you can have the cutest chick for the lowest bride price. bride prices are notoriously low here. which is rather strange cause these girls are hot. but then again most of them drink and like to party.
I could go on..... hope I answered you.

ubunja:
that's why women are the masters of the game. they play it to perfection. they'll never settle while they're at their best . its only us men cause we're dumb and also cause we tend to enter our peak very late in life.

Kaymicheal852:


If you're from poor household that you have to work hard as young as a teenager to eat then this will mean nothing, it happens so much in the ghetto and trenches that it's normal,

Phillyboi:
why you laughing man?
I'm just somewhat confused .. but I've been cleared already

JESHAL:




Forget her and move on
Simple as ABC
Na you dey feel say she like you, baba dumb that bitch and move how that girl go dey toil with your feelings, you sure say you be man, you sure say you get sense, you sure say you get balls,you sure say you get testerones, how you go be emotional tampon for a bitch that's not fully invested in you, is it konji( lust) that's doing you or you are in love, I don't get how woman go make you her side bitchh, what the fffuck is wrong with you, don't you have respect and honor for yourself, you dey share woman which kind scarcity be dat and you dey comfortable

Mtchewwww

Ronnnie:
I have been away from nairaland for a while,but came back recently to see the latest news and updates...and sometimes I check on this thread and I can say the movement is growing...But everything that has its advantages must surely have disadvantages...
The disadvantage now goes to the people who read messages of Redpill being passed across but are never ready to apply it...even some that do apply it ,do so for the Wrong reasons...
I have gone through some threads, and all I see is "As a REDPILLER,how can I handle the situation"...like Redpill is some form of club, organisation or a cult group that someone belongs to...They think with the little knowledge of Redpill they have,that women will chase them or pussy will always be available for them....
Some even go as far as applying the Redpill for wrong reasons....for example, Redpill states Ignoring women and they will chase you....yes it's true but it's not all women as some won't even care and that just it...You ignore women not because you want them to chase you but because you have goals and hobbies you place above them and they are just distractions to achieving something in your life...it's not a manipulative technique to get women...that's why when some rules do not work for some girl they like,they create fake accounts to complain here looking for advice....
I recently also commented on a thread when the OP stated he was a REDPILLER but needs advice on how to attract a girl that he just collected her number....indirectly he is looking for a manipulative technique just to bed her...by doing so he has placed her on a pedestal as bedding her becomes his Goal therefore he is ready to alter his behaviour just to get her chasing him....now tell me if that is not the Simping we have been preaching against since page 1 of this thread....
Sometimes I don't blame the Females here calling us " Alpha online,SIMP offline" or something like that...
Don't just listen to the message of Redpill,Apply it correctly

JESHAL:




She's an alpha widow
The way her ex defiled her and took her soul you can't even begin to fathom in your tiny imagination
How old are you gan
At that age you should just be casually spinning plates and hooking up with girls
You have strong one-titis for her
You used friendszone game and took advantage of her at her weakness
CaveAdullam abeg slap this boy back to reality with some doses

Phillyboi:
yeah bro ..
Should i call her and end things completely or just let her be? seeing as we're not really talking now.

JESHAL:
As long as you have other networks of men you communicate and work with, you can never be lonely don't fall for the scam of the without wife, children you are going to die a lonely old man, many men are miserable and bleeped in their marriages

Tranquility2345:


These ogas you mention may make 500k in cash but if you add their allowances, e go pass 2m. House (fully furnished with gen and free diesel supply, car, driver, maids, cook, travel per diem, business class travel, some even get kitchen and wardrobe allowance plus children school fees paid for. Don’t compare an Oga at the top to one small boy cos you hear 500k

Tranquility2345:


Guy, don’t you ever get tired of trolling on Nairaland? Na so your depression bad reach? Better go and seek help before you cause harm to yourself and people around you. This is not banter. I really mean it!!!

Tranquility2345:


Guys this is Labadi69 don’t answer him pls

Tranquility2345:


My papa na shayo bastard

Uglybwoi:
Mr perkins. I hope you're alright

Tranquility2345:


Guy, don’t you ever get tired of trolling on Nairaland? Na so your depression bad reach? Better go and seek help before you cause harm to yourself and people around you. This is not banter. I really mean it!!!

Tranquility2345:


I’m not saying you should leave your hustle and go and be chasing women but do your research. All them Elon, Bill Gates, Bezos, Steve Jobs, etc always had girlfriends and/or wives. The ones that do not have are chronic escort patrons or gay lords hiding their sex lives from the world. Even Alhaji Dangote had to suffer embarrassment when woman snap him bare yansh. There’s no rule that stops a man from having a balanced love/romance/sex life because he has to hustle. Just be wise about it and shine ya eyes well…

Miracood2:


Very annoying.

Did u watch incredibles 2?

ubunja:
To anyone who's still struggling to understand what a SHÏT TEST is,,,, it's basically not taking shiit from your GF or wife and holding her as accountable as you would anyone else, this will anger your woman at that moment but as the days go by when she processes the event over and over in her mind her confidence and trust in you will increase because her mind then tells her "if this dude can be tough on me, the woman she loves, then everybody else will see flames if they try to cross him!".

She predicts how you'll handle OTHER PEOPLE by how you handle HER. The more uncompromising you're with her the more she knows you'll be uncompromising with other people. And this fosters trust and security on her side because she knows she can rely on you to keep her safe.

So you risk angering your woman in the short term and reap the rewards in the long term. While most guys do the opposite. Most guys don't dare stand up to their woman and will do anything to keep the peace but then get frustrated when, in the long term, the quality of their relationship deteriorates as the woman thinks the issues over and loses respect for them.

Tranquility2345:


This is the fact I have been trying to get these slow pokes to understand. Marrying a virgin doesn’t guarantee that your wife will not turn to a bigger hoe than the hoes you are trying to avoid. I know one woman wey the husband marry from village as virgin. After the man go work go hustle, this woman was sleeping with security man and driver and houseboy sef. I swear down. I even suspect one of the kids she put for the man house is not for the man. Sadly, the man died and that bastard son wey she most likely carry come from nacking security man is enjoying the dead man’s money. Just imagine

Omshausgdhdjsgs:
I had to create this thread for security reasons,I will go straight to the point…Is there anyone here on Nairaland that was able to disassociate himself from his fellow cult group…
Note:I won’t be specific with anything

Sometime ago I was deceive(I tot I was heading for business talk with some friends,yes I am fully aware they are cultist but I tot we all respected our boundaries)and force to join a particular cult group…I did not have to resist because it dawn on me the only way it alive is to flow and bear all pain….So they v been doing their follow up with me for years or maybe month or days…My point is I need person to tell me from experience how they survive similar experience…Plz this thread needs to start talking about stuff like this too…So people that fall in my category would know what to do