I think there is a sense of “finished” feeling you get when you turn 30. It’s like your life have stopped moving and you’re just at a slow pace with everything. All your friends have moved on from you as well as you have from them, your parents are either old or dead already. You’re stuck between getting married or living miserable as a old single person. You’re not too obsessed with acquiring wealth as much as you did some years before because you’re at a stable place in life where you’re living a routine life either In your work place or in your self employed Space, so money to you now is just a tool to sort out all your never ending bills. It’s no longer about balling, because you don’t feel the need to impress anyone anymore. You are starting to feel weak even tho your body is still agile, mentally you’re just weak and bored most of the times. This is all me, please add yours if you can relate

One thing i know be say wahala no dey finish, i refuse to be bothered.

You're problem is depression nothing again, stop overthinking and live your life. Is not all bout age it depends on how you see yourself

Na even at that 30 the sweet life start..lol
That time u don get mind, get a lot of friends and a lot experience in reality. Nothing fit shock u again. Lot of small beautiful girls for u to choose from.
Omo, I sure say na at 30+ go sweet pass 20s.

Op is speaking for himself not me, I'm 30+ I don't see myself worrying over what he's listed above... (Maybe because I'm moving well). God didn't create anyone to be miserable, it's our actions, reactions and failures on our part to utilize the God given opportunity that makes one experience hardship/suffering in his 30's. I realized earlier that time waits for no one, use your time well when you're young,,,And before you quote me, remember there's no excuse for failures.....

Badboibipo:
I think there is a sense of “finished” feeling you get when you turn 30. It’s like your life have stopped moving and you’re just at a slow pace with everything. All your friends have moved on from you as well as you have from them, your parents are either old or dead already. You’re stuck between getting married or living miserable as a old single person. You’re not too obsessed with acquiring wealth as much as you did some years before because you’re at a stable place in life where you’re living a routine life either In your work place or in your self employed Space, so money to you now is just a tool to sort out all your never ending bills. It’s no longer about balling, because you don’t feel the need to impress anyone anymore. You are starting to feel weak even tho your body is still agile, mentally you’re just weak and bored most of the times. This is all me, please add yours if you can relate

Hey bro. I followed you yesterday. It’s like you are another me.

I could relate to all of your topics and some brought tears to my eyes. I have same experiences as you including age, experiences with women and other areas including being good looking and successful.

Please always post whatever comes to your head, i identify with them 100%.

Regarding the mid life crisis, im almost going insane and i just stumbled on some youtube instrumentals that have been bringing me some peace.

We will make it out of this unscathed i pray

Sending you a frim hand shake

Holly Gram My Gee! no too REASON d matterz..


although I UNDERSTAND wer u are coming from..


As u see me so, I no SEND and I no send anybody PAPA!


SMOKE WEED, NACK ASHAWOO and am okay..


So far as say I see FOOD CHOP no WAHALA..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

What you explained isn't mid life crisis. Boredom isn't even in mid life crisis.

I have gone through it and its not what you think.

Jeromejnr:
What you explained isn't mid life crisis. Boredom isn't even in mid life crisis.

I have gone through it and its not what you think.

Spot on!

Badboibipo:
I think there is a sense of “finished” feeling you get when you turn 30. It’s like your life have stopped moving and you’re just at a slow pace with everything. All your friends have moved on from you as well as you have from them, your parents are either old or dead already. You’re stuck between getting married or living miserable as a old single person. You’re not too obsessed with acquiring wealth as much as you did some years before because you’re at a stable place in life where you’re living a routine life either In your work place or in your self employed Space, so money to you now is just a tool to sort out all your never ending bills. It’s no longer about balling, because you don’t feel the need to impress anyone anymore. You are starting to feel weak even tho your body is still agile, mentally you’re just weak and bored most of the times. This is all me, please add yours if you can relate

Damn!

These are the symptoms of covid-19

Lol. Check now and OP never clock 27 talk less of 30.

Badboibipo:
I think there is a sense of “finished” feeling you get when you turn 30. It’s like your life have stopped moving and you’re just at a slow pace with everything. All your friends have moved on from you as well as you have from them, your parents are either old or dead already. You’re stuck between getting married or living miserable as a old single person. You’re not too obsessed with acquiring wealth as much as you did some years before because you’re at a stable place in life where you’re living a routine life either In your work place or in your self employed Space, so money to you now is just a tool to sort out all your never ending bills. It’s no longer about balling, because you don’t feel the need to impress anyone anymore. You are starting to feel weak even tho your body is still agile, mentally you’re just weak and bored most of the times. This is all me, please add yours if you can relate

So you're in your thirties and you're still posting Nigerian girls this, Nigerian girls that....


You're even calling yourself "badboi"

Jeromejnr:
What you explained isn't mid life crisis. Boredom isn't even in mid life crisis.

I have gone through it and its not what you think.

So what is it?

I'm approaching my thirties.

siofra:


So what is it?

I'm approaching my thirties.

A deep feeling and sense that now that you are in the mid point of your life, life is passing you by and you haven't achieved anything worthwhile and it's getting late for you. You didn't make use of your 20's as you should. While your mates seem to be making it in life, you feel confused, directionless and don't even know how to make a change. You feel stuck.

As a result, you get "depressed", overeat or under eat. Neglect hygiene. Become messy, things that used to excite you no longer do. You isolate yourself e.t.c.

You can do more research.

What the OP put up there is when you already have
stable life and boredom when you have already achieved things and you have options/choices you can easily make even though you don't know the consequences. This happens to many people especially millionaires who have achieved or done everything.

Awinneralways:


Hey bro. I followed you yesterday. It’s like you are another me.

I could relate to all of your topics and some brought tears to my eyes. I have same experiences as you including age, experiences with women and other areas including being good looking and successful.

Please always post whatever comes to your head, i identify with them 100%.

Regarding the mid life crisis, im almost going insane and i just stumbled on some youtube instrumentals that have been bringing me some peace.

We will make it out of this unscathed i pray

Sending you a frim hand shake

Love you bro. God is with us

suffering:
Lol. Check now and OP never clock 27 talk less of 30.

I’m over 30

siofra:


So you're in your thirties and you're still posting Nigerian girls this, Nigerian girls that....


You're even calling yourself "badboi"

Lol so I’m supposed to call myself “ancient of days”

Jeromejnr:


A deep feeling and sense that now that you are in the mid point of your life, life is passing you by and you haven't achieved anything worthwhile and it's getting late for you. You didn't make use of your 20's as you should. While your mates seem to be making it in life, you feel confused, directionless and don't even know how to make a change. You feel stuck.

As a result, you get "depressed", overeat or under eat. Neglect hygiene. Become messy, things that used to excite you no longer do. You isolate yourself e.t.c.

You can do more research.

What the OP put up there is when you already have
stable life and boredom when you have already achieved things and you have options/choices you can easily make even though you don't know the consequences. This happens to many people especially millionaires who have achieved or done everything.

Everything you explained up there is my reality. I haven’t washed my clothes since February. I literally just walked out of my house now going nowhere and came back inside. Only today I made over 50k but I don’t even care about money I’m extremely empty

Badboibipo:


Love you bro. God is with us

Were you born in May?

Mid life crisis is real.....

Drowning in debt, biz not going as planned

#adulthood is overrated

Sure. I've not been myself since I lost total of 15m within 2years.i have a car,a house,a pet parrot and still I'm not happy.i want my 15m back.

Badboibipo:


I’m over 30

…and I’m over 80.

F00lish thread.

I'll be 30 March next year, then I'll come back and comment,,,nna ehh,I don deh oldooooh

Yh

Ok

Badboibipo:


Everything you explained up there is my reality. I haven’t washed my clothes since February. I literally just walked out of my house now going nowhere and came back inside. Only today I made over 50k but I don’t even care about money I’m extremely empty

Boss please send me 5k, I'm begging you
I'm hungry and I need some money to eat