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PetsRe: Dog Saves Family From Cobra In Bayelsa ( Pics) by ayobami52(m): 12:34pm On Jul 15, 2016
I love dog, it's a lovely and much needed pet to have
PoliticsRe: Federal University Of Petroleum Resources, Effurun: Saraki Signs Bill by ayobami52(m): 12:13pm On Jul 15, 2016
Creation of jobs is what matter most
PoliticsRe: Interim Report Of Presidential Committee On The Audit Of Defence Equipment by ayobami52(m): 11:56am On Jul 15, 2016
We have money in this country, I just wish and hope everyone can be open minded and not covetious..Nigeria would have been a lovely country to live in
PoliticsRe: Aregbesola Holds Meeting With Farmers In The Bush by ayobami52(m): 11:45am On Jul 15, 2016
I can't be cajoled with this act of osun state government. Going to the farm just to talk doesn't mean anything without actual empowerment which I doubt he will ever do
PoliticsRe: Internally Generated Revenue: State Governors Target N1.1 Trillion IGR by ayobami52(m): 11:38am On Jul 15, 2016
I think its time Ekiti to wake up from their slumber and let us go back to farm and male sometime work. we have much land and let us be mechanized about it.

Hoping to see my beloved Ekiti IGR to improve!
CelebritiesRe: Leo Mezie Down With Kidney Failure (photos) by ayobami52(m): 11:10am On Jul 15, 2016
This is very pathetic and touching.. I pray he sees help he needed
CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye,AY And Osita Iheme In Instabul,Turkey For Eto's Charity Match(photos by ayobami52(m): 11:06am On Jul 15, 2016
Mopolchi:
AY, you are bigger than this na! How you go put head set (ear piece) for ear without connecting it to a phone, radio or stereo? shocked
It might be Bluetooth enabled, so you might be wrong.
PoliticsRe: I Don't Have A Filling Station At Akute - Fayose by ayobami52(m): 11:02am On Jul 15, 2016
LuckyLadolce:
Freedom of speech is always in abundance.. But dont forget freedom after speech is a scarce commodity.
This got me thinking!
PoliticsRe: Fayose: Bullion Van Driver Confesses As Zenith Denies Sponsoring Campaign by ayobami52(m): 10:54am On Jul 15, 2016
watching as the events unfold in HD
PhonesRe: Six Things I Love On The Tecno W4 by ayobami52(m): 11:05am On Jul 14, 2016
I love the display and it's graphics!
PhonesRe: Glo 3GB For N500 by ayobami52(m): 11:01am On Jul 14, 2016
How true is this and its mode?
PhonesRe: Mention One App That Has Changed Your Life by ayobami52(m): 10:59am On Jul 14, 2016
Camscanner
RomanceRe: Dating Dilemmas: Who Should Make The First Move?(see) by ayobami52(op): 7:39am On Jul 13, 2016
Jay542:
Even my project wasn't this long grin
lol. Does it mean we no longer read again?
RomanceDating Dilemmas: Who Should Make The First Move?(see) by ayobami52(op): 10:46pm On Jul 12, 2016
Since the 1960s, our roles in the dating world have shifted dramatically. These changes have been great, but they’ve also left many of us unsure about common dating etiquette and practices. The dating world isn’t so clear cut anymore.

Our eH+ clients often ask us who should be the pursuer in a relationship. There are all kinds of ideas out there about both men’s and women’s roles when it comes to finding love.

Some experts advocate for complex rules that dictate who can be proactive in initiating communication with the opposite sex. They believe that men should be pursuing women, and men should be doing the asking out and initiating interactions that move the relationship further.

The problem with rules like this is that they no longer work. They are leaving both men and women unfulfilled when it comes to love. They also no longer fit into the flow of how the world operates. Outside of dating, men and women are being proactive in their lives when it comes to careers, social groups, finances, parenting, family relationships, etc. It is totally unnatural to do something completely different when it comes to your love life.

The short answer is that any person, man or woman, who is interested in another individual should feel comfortable making a move, or even the first few moves. Being proactive is a success skill and mindset that will serve you in any area of life.

In all of this, both people should be initiating contact and responding to the other person’s communication. The secret is to be proactive in initiating contact mixed with taking a step back to give the other person a chance to make the effort of pursuing you as well.

If you are the ONLY person in pursuit, the other person is likely not interested.

Warning signs that you are the only one being proactive:

You are constantly reaching out via text or phone and they are only responding on a limited or infrequent basis.

The relationship is not progressing through the natural stages. You are not meeting the important people in their life.

They want to spend less and less time with you.

They keep blaming their busy schedule as the reason why you two can’t get together.

You only get together on their terms.

If someone is showing these warning signs of not being interested in you, they are likely not your most compatible partner. You deserve to be with someone who wants to spend time with you and get to know you. You want a partner who is genuinely interested in giving a relationship with you a chance.

Here are some signs that someone is interested in you:

They make a connection with you often — either via phone, text, or in person. It is these small things that show you someone wants to get to know you on a deeper level and is thinking about you.

If you reach out to them, they respond within a reasonable amount of time. It can be hard to determine what a “reasonable amount of time” actually is in this day and age. It is important to take into context the daily life of your potential partner. If you know that they have a career that requires them to refrain from using their cell all day, don’t be concerned if you text them in the morning and don’t hear back until after work hours. It is most worrisome if days go by and you only hear crickets.

The relationship is progressing. The first date may be a quick happy hour meet and greet. The next, a movie. With each consecutive date, you are spending longer periods of time together and talking to one another on a deeper level. Suddenly you notice you are invited to a work function, to meet friends, or maybe even to meet parents. Things continue to progress from here into exclusivity and a committed relationship.

The bottom line is that both men and women should be proactive when it comes to finding love. Regardless of your gender, you should be reaching out, flirting, and communicating with potential matches. You want to balance being proactive in getting to know people while also giving them the space to make the effort to connect with you.

If you are struggling to find the love of your life, don’t give up hope. The right person is out there for you. We can help. At eHarmony, you will only receive matches who are deeply compatible with you in the foundational ways that lead to long-term relationship success. curled from palmdating

Cc lalalatisaca, obinoscopy

Romanceclosed by ayobami52(op):
Closed
Business To BusinessRe: Global Runs International (Logistics & Purchasing) by ayobami52(m): 6:53pm On Jul 11, 2016
That's so good ozoigbondu 1, have always wanted to ship goods from aliexpress, now I have a reliable source and my fund secured..

Will contact you soonest!!!
RomanceRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by ayobami52(m): 9:11am On Jul 09, 2016
obinoral1179:
Morning all. Please remember that it is a sin not to support and vote ICHOMMY for MR NL 2016.
Am with you in regards of this...He is truly the ONE!
RomanceRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by ayobami52(m): 9:02am On Jul 09, 2016
Just got back after awhile sabbatical leave and I heard something is happening....Its MR Nairaland..let's vote for ichommy, cos he is capable and able

I will be back for more reasons..make I eat first
PhonesRe: A Nairalander's Review Of Tecno Camon C9 by ayobami52(m): 5:37pm On Jul 08, 2016
Finally an unbiased review on Tecno products. For me I don't like the iris scanner stuff, it's waste of time. Nice review Sha
LiteratureRe: Why People Are Poor by ayobami52(op): 12:37pm On Jul 08, 2016
Ay04z:
Neva knew Di's guy was speaking in parables....
My brother it's the hard truth we don't want to hear
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LiteratureWhy People Are Poor by ayobami52(op): 7:31pm On Jul 07, 2016
We have read lots of articles on how to make wealth but this on tells us why people are poor

*1. _Never wake up early._* Keep stretching and turning in bed until you get too hungry to continue dozing. If there are no bed bugs, why hurry to get up?

*2. _Never plan how to spend your money._* Whenever you get money, start spending it right away and when it's finished, you try to count and recall how you spent it.

*3. _Don't think of saving until you have real big money._* How can you save when you earn so little? Those telling you to save are not sympathetic to your burning needs.

*4. _Don't engage in activities usually reserved for the "uneducated"._* How can you, a graduate, engage in petty trade, network marketing or home-based production? That's for people who never went to school!

*5. _Don't think of starting a business until an angel comes from heaven and gives you capital._* How do they expect you to invest before you get millions? Even though more than half the businesses in your town were started with little capital, you as a smart person can only start with millions.

*6. _Complain about everything except your own attitude and laziness._* Blame the system, the government and the banks that refused to lend you money. They are all bad and do not want you to get rich.

*7. _Spend more than you earn._* To achieve this, buy consumer products on credit and keep borrowing from friends and employers.

*8. _Compete in dressing._* Make sure you're wearing the latest clothes. Intimidate everyone with your trendy fashions everytime. Whenever your neighbour buys a new phone, you get one that is more expensive.

*9. _Get yourself a nice second hand car_* that costs more than three times your yearly salary.

*10. _Give your children everything they ask for since you're such a loving parent._* They should not struggle for anything because you do not want them to suffer that way, they will grow up lazy and hence poor enough to ensure they can't help you at old age. Curled from palmchat trending
RomanceRe: Palmchat Romance With Users by ayobami52(op): 3:00pm On Jul 02, 2016
Appointedtime14:
Just downloaded it.

What's your ID let me add you
what is take on the app
PoliticsRe: Is Fani kayode now a born again Christian or Agent of division? by ayobami52(op): 10:11pm On Jul 01, 2016
vikyno:
Buhari is a devil, what has FFK bible got to do with his incarceration that made the officer to disturb him?

We are aware that Buhari's anti corruption campaign is one sided. He keeps probing PDP campaign fund without telling us where he got the money for his campaign as a poor man he claimed to be.
Devil? lol
PoliticsRe: Is Fani kayode now a born again Christian or Agent of division? by ayobami52(op): 7:06pm On Jul 01, 2016
shyling:
All the states that were denied ambassadorial positions saying none of their citizens are qualified are Christian predominant States. When the president's basic requirement is waec certificate which even the president hasn't been able to provide.
Ondo Plateau Bayelsa...
but some Christian states got more than one
PoliticsRe: Is Fani kayode now a born again Christian or Agent of division? by ayobami52(op): 6:19pm On Jul 01, 2016
Almajiri1:
lai Mohammed the gate keeper of amnesty deals. Buhari has shown he has some unholy agenda to execute and by the time the sleeping masses awakes and connects the dots,the deed has already been achieved by tyrant Buhari.
I don't believe he's a tyrant
FamilyRe: Family Vs Office by ayobami52(op): 2:53pm On Jul 01, 2016
tinu16:
Waooo, nice write up, thanks Op!
Thanks
Foreign AffairsRe: Nigel Farage : The Donald Trump Of United Kingdom by ayobami52(op): 8:02am On Jul 01, 2016
PhilemonObende:
Islam the terrorist is going to be dealt heavy blows. Anti-muslims are taking over the most powerful countries, they'll have access to nukes.

To nuke away the pissful religion of blood and hate. Buhari the blood spilling muslim terrorist should be scared.
But where did the Muslim get it wrong with the terrorists associated the religion. I still believe these people terrorizing the world are agents of devil. They ain't Muslim
Foreign AffairsNigel Farage : The Donald Trump Of United Kingdom by ayobami52(op): 9:40pm On Jun 30, 2016
Donald John Trump (born June 14, 1946) is an American businessman, television personality, author, and politician. He is chairman of The Trump Organization , which is the principal holding company for his real estate ventures and other business interests.

when Trump graduated from College he said he was worth $200,000 then. During his career, Trump has built hotels, casinos, golf courses, the Manhattan neighborhood Riverside South and numerous other developments, many of which bear his name , including Trump Entertainment Resorts (now owned by Carl Icahn ).

He is Listed by Forbes among the wealthiest 400 of The World's Billionaires , Trump and his businesses, as well as his three marriages, have for decades received prominent media exposure. He hosted The Apprentice , a popular reality television show on NBC , from 2004 to 2015. His net worth is over $4.5billions. He is in the race for the United States president and has promised to shut United State's door to immigrants from terrorist ridden countries if voted into power

On the other hand ,Nigel Farage is a Member of the European parliament,MEP, the position he has held for over 17 years now. He is the leader of the United Kingdom Independence party. And he is the strongest proponent of a referendum for Britain exit from the EU (Brexit).


He is known for his oratory prowess and was named in 2014 as the Briton of the year. On the 23rd of June, the people of the United Kingdom overwhelmingly voted in support of the referendum (Brexit)

Many international observers have described him as the Donald Trump of the united Kingdom, and he has openly expressed his support for Donald Trump as the next president of the United States.

If Nigel Farage could be victorious in his vehement clamour for British exit from the EU, then it's likely that his friend Donald Trump could be the next president of the United States
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Cc. Lalatiscala

PoliticsRe: Is Fani kayode now a born again Christian or Agent of division? by ayobami52(op): 7:42am On Jun 30, 2016
jhydosky:
Isn't someone playing the religious card here? Was FFK arrested because of his faith, religious beliefs or because of ONSA funds traced and verified to have been given to him? He is been prosecuted for security funds distributed by his party, the PDP, for election campaigns. It is unfair if not UNGODLY to even try to cite a religious bias here. Thank God right now that Dasuki isn't a christian.

Now that you know the source of your campaign fund to be blood money the least you could do is to refund the ones in your custody like True Christians would do. Christianity is a way of life with Christ as the standard. To FFK and his ilk seeking rule of law to explore the weaknesses of our judiciary to escape judgement, if the government of this world does not catch you remember God's wheel of justice grinds slowly but it grinds completely. After all, we dig our graves with our teeth...
well said
PoliticsRe: Is Fani kayode now a born again Christian or Agent of division? by ayobami52(op): 7:40am On Jun 30, 2016
lovedatruth:
Bros FFK No hide under christianity to seek sympathy for ur self inflicted woes. Wen u dey eat our money u call anybody? U weren't arrested base on religion, u left d basis for ur arrest n u are seeking sympathy tru relligion. Bros face the music jare.
it got me thinking brother , he is definitely seeking public sympathy and is suicidal by dragging religion into this
PhonesRe: Gionee M3mini Discussion Thread [HOT] by ayobami52(m): 9:10pm On Jun 29, 2016
myungidbaloxy:
25k too much nah, mah pay 18k , besides distance far
I want to sell mine.. 18k.. location is Ekiti
PoliticsRe: Is Fani kayode now a born again Christian or Agent of division? by ayobami52(op): 2:17pm On Jun 29, 2016
keyremotes:
WELL SAID SIR.
LOOK AT THE MESSAGE AND NOT THE MESSENGER.
He sounds like a repented soul but I don't think he is

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