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daboy18:
I heard rumours that she is dating a yahoo boys at only 16 years she has a Iphone 12 pro max and expensive clothes and hair my mum doesn't care

Your mum is not helping matters at all. She is supposed to stand with your dad in disciplining and conversing with your sister on the demerit and consequences of associating with yahoo boys. Or does she get something from her daughter reason why she is covering for her?
I'd suggest you:
- Ask your mum why she's covering for your sister.
- Discuss with your sister and make her see the dangers of following all these bad boys .

Anon4509:
I opened this anonymous account because I really need to know how to proceed with this. Before I continue I want to state that every single thing typed here is true and is currently my life story. Please, this is a long read and names have been changed to protect my identity.

I am not from a poor home and the reason why I think it’s necessary to say this is so people can give me a balanced advise without thinking money played a role in my decisions, my parents are middle class and doing well, I’ve never in my life struggled financially and I grew up with the best my parents could provide.

Few years ago I started meeting white foreign men online, I would talk to them, send pictures, chat and just spent time together. This slowly developed into these men sending me some money to take care of myself, this wasn’t a case of yahoo or leading these men on but they just simply provided when I complained about something, I took the money because why not. I would like to note at this point that I wasn’t dating any of those men and we were just friends I was also dating in Nigeria so for me it was just a friendly engagement with these strangers whom I’ll never meet, things also evaporated after a while and when the heat turned cold with these online men we would stop texting.

This was how I met Tom, he is a white man who is a shy guy who was new to dating or meeting women, he is a nerd. I’ve met and dated nerds before so I was used to the personality, to be more specific my type of men are nerds, Tom fell instantly in love with me, he slowly became obsessed with me and thought since I’m African then I have to be poor and struggling, I didn’t correct this assumption but instead fed into it as I considered it funny at the time.

We started talking everyday and few weeks later (I think a month) Tom asked me to be his girlfriend and we started dating, before we started dating Tom sent me money once or twice, nothing major just about 300 dollars or so.

Immediately we started dating, Tom started sending me money, I was in in uni and Tom began sending me about 1k dollars(sometimes more) every month because he got the idea I needed the money to take care of myself, after uni he rented an apartment for me, bought me a car because he said I’m too pretty to walk under the sun, paid for the furnishing etc I could tell he was in love but with his love came obsession, he wanted to always talk to me and I would give excuses, etc but I still provided balance because the money was quite sweet and I didn’t want to lose it, I do not love Tom in any way, and I believe I was giving him companionship in exchange for money so if he wanted to believe we were dating that was the little I could do.

I met Jerry a few months after uni, he is the sweetest most thoughtful man I’ve met, I instantly fell in love with him and he was the first man I had sex with, I spent a lot of time with him and we were so in love. I was still dating Tom at this point because I mean the extra money I was getting from Tom meant I could live extremely well, at this point I had stopped asking my parents for money and was dependent on Tom and the money I was getting from my job, I was earning about 200k.

I told Tom I was jobless so he wouldn’t stop taking care of me and I managed Tom, Jerry and my job well to ensure everyone was happy. I am also very big on my career, I just love money and living well too much, I like to buy expensive thing and I’ll rather not use my money for it.

Jerry was also taking care of my needs, He was earning extremely well, is a young millionaire so he sends me money monthly and bought anything I needed.

We are boyfriend and girlfriend and have plans to get married in a few years, Jerry has met my parents and knows knows about Tom but doesn’t care because he loves me and the relationship with Tom has been entirely virtual so he doesn’t think there’s anything there (to be fair Jerry doesn’t know the extent of my relationship with Tom or that Tom sends me money regularly) however Tom doesn’t know about Jerry.

I’ve been dating Tom for almost 3 years virtually, we have never seen each other but Tom wants us to see in a year’s time, he sponsored my relocation, paid for every single thing, I only paid for my visa processing myself from money I saved up, Tom also paid for my rent, and still sends me upkeep monthly. He says he loves me and wants to support me I don’t trust anyone so I save all the money he sends me for a rainy day.

I am still dating Jerry who sends me money monthly and we are planning our future, I want to end things with Tom but I do not know how to do it, I am scared he will track me down and kill me because of everything he has sacrificed for me, he’s also obsessed with me and has tried knowing my address multiple times but I’ve been wise enough to never release it.

I’ve thought about disappearing (deactivating the app we communicate on) but he knows my social media accounts and I really don’t want to have to deactivate my accounts as I struggled to build it and currently have a lot of followers. I also think disappearing won’t work.

Please, how can I successfully break up with Tom without losing my life ? I also don’t want Jerry to be aware of the complexities of my relationship with Tom, he might get very angry because Jerry loves me too much and gets jealous easily, He hates other men he perceives have feelings for me being around me.

Paying Tom back the money he has spent which runs into thousands and thousands of dollars IS NOT an option because he willingly gave me every thing and I will not put myself in a negative financial situation because of him, Tom also has my nude pictures and although he’s a sweet person I know will never do anything like leak it I really don’t want to take that risk.

I’ve slowly began fighting with Tom so I can use that as an excuse to end things but so far it’s not working. I also do not want to get arrested, even though I believe I didn’t commit any crime I’ll rather not be arrested and have my parents reputation ruined because they’re fairly popular.

I feel no guilt for this nor do I have any remorse because I did nothing wrong and I provided companionship in exchange for money which isn’t a crime but more of feeling greedy.

Please, I need tips and practical solutions not judgement. I’m not a saint and will never be which is fine.

Wow!!! This gender never ceases to amaze me. Do you even have conscience??

Teenwolf:
Fifa has arranged this match for messi since the beginning, how come ea game's predicted that argentina will win the cup and will either face brazil,france or portugal in the final..Arangee

It's called analysis. And they predicted France would win 2018 world cup and it was so

TheHulk616:
most of the players in France are Barcelona and Messi fans. They sold this game to Messi

Rigged world cup

una go sha see something talk

Ugmama:
Site to watch this game na asap please

go to facebook

fineboynl:
Moroco in the semi final was just a shell luck.

Seriously! I'm not impressed by what they've been playing so far. This game is supposed to be tight

smile11s:
For each goal France scores, I will pick any random person who quotes me and send that person an urgent 5k.

Good luck

France is coming with another goal

Dybala and Di Maria didn't start. I hope this Argentina coach knows what he is doing sha

Ruggedniggaone:
100k per week is too small it should be raised to 500k per week and 100k per day for individual but emefiele and buhari are too wicked to care about the masses that will suffer the consequences of their useless policy

Exactly! And their main target for doing this may not even be affected at all

Oabayomi24:
Please can I have your WhatsApp number, I have a question I would like to ask you sir? Thanks �.

If what you'd like to ask is pertaining to visa questions, I will not be able to help as I just knew the answer to give to because I frequent this thread a lot.

Oabayomi24:
Hello everyone,

Please I need an advice.

It seems I don’t really know how to handle this US interview.
I went for the interview last week.

Degree: master
Total expenses: 39908 dollars.
Sponsor: cousin

My script was as follows:
VO: Why are you going to Georgia southern to study?
Me: (a little confused with the question) I am going there to study for my master degree in information technology.
VO: who is sponsoring you?
Me: My cousin.
She handed me over the blue paper.

Now, I have received the out-of-tuition waiver. I will be paying 15000 dollars. And I also I will be using my cousin as my sponsor.

Pls how do I handle, and pass this interview, and what chance do I have to get the visa?

Pls everyone I need your genuine answer. I want to reapply for the visa now.

Thanks.

You were not prepared for the interview if not you wouldn't have given that kind of answer to the first question you were asked. Make adequate preparations and re-apply. Also go through the visa transcripts on this thread as it'll help you on how to structure your answer

Bintabisiriyu:
There's this Young girl in my Area in bariga about 16 yrs still in secondary school i really like this girl and i have toast her but she refused,
i have even brought her gala and minerals but she no gree.
What scattered my head most is i saw her with one small boy like that in my Area and i suspected that they are dating and that's what had made her turn me down,

so now I'm angry and i want to chop her her house is just 2 houses from mine and she always go night messages for her mom,
Pls what should i do?

We do not give that kind of advice here. Go and do something meaningful with your life than you going about chasing minors

MALIGNANTGuest:
Have you ever seen a BLACK PLAYER in any Argentina team?

Did I mention anything like a black player?? I said a finisher

Argentina needs a finisher like mbappe

HanisahZuwy:
I'm about to snack on these right now, though not at once. Which of these options do you think I would start with if I want to start now? If you're able to get it correctly, I'll credit your phone with any airtime network of your choice. Just name the option you think it is, then if it's correct, I'll let you know, and then you'll tell me your network. Who's in?

pure bliss

Greenscientist:
Why is dybala never playing?

He's not fully fit to play

ASAPFERG1:
make we bet money.. drop any escort app/site here if igbo girls nor dominate am, I go give you 50k

I no dey do

ASAPFERG1:
this is funny

This is madness bro

JasonScoolari:
Ghana never Cedis coming.

Dude

Letmehelpyou:
the final is between Brazil and Portugal

Impossible

I want Argentina and Portugal to jam

Argentina players are not calm at all. They have what it takes to win this match but the fear of the unknown is making them to play anyhow.

XshegzzyeeiX:
She's 18, old enough to give consent to having sex.

You'll soon find what you're looking for

Na draw this match go end

kingmeme:
Goal !!!!!!!!!!

Oshimen have scored

Portugal 1-0 Ghana

Nice one

Make Uruguay score na

If this is true, I pray you get help.

Waterlilly:
see as person fine....


currently am learning python my head is on fire.....

marksburg:
Greetings my people,

I am sure some of us have encountered this issue with some neighbours. Unfortunately I doubt if Nigeria has any law against this or maybe am not aware.

This particular neighbour changes generator set at least 2x yearly(no be JuJu be that?) with nothing other than watching movies and putting on his ACs. We no dey fit hear word for compound again expecially my family being the immediate next door neighbor.

Recently their generator is faulty and it seems they don't have money yet for replacement and they have hastily gone to rent a very deafening old gen. The type we hire to pump water. They have been using that for straight 3 days now. It's very difficult to sleep with that noise. If I vex question the man now, they will say it's because we don't have money to constantly fuel our own. What can we do?

Just tell the Landlord or the person in charge of the house what you're facing. They are the best person to know how to properly handle the situation.

AwesomeDuru:
If you have the knowledge like you claim, you can start by DMing some of the bosses there.

Tell them you can help them outbound.

Collect 25-30% commissions on any sales made.

Re-invest till you get your footing.

Doing that would also help you learn more.

I bet if you were given the capital now, you'd just waste it on worthless names.

It takes some time to get there.

I hope you take my advice.

I wish you luck.

Thank you! I'll ponder on this.

OfficialDJ:
I'd do a million naira giveaway here on the 1st of December...
10 business ideas will get 100k each....


I'd rather empower men with that amount than hoe around with it ...

Watch this space.

Ya'll are doing a bad job ignoring that rabid dog below....

I'd be really glad if I get to be a beneficiary of this.
There's this domaining business which I've got an immense amount of knowledge about but lack of sufficient funds has been preventing me from venturing into it. Investing in this business with 100k will get me quality domain names which I would easily sell between the price of 130-200k within the space of a month or two. It has a thread here on nairaland with over 3000 pages. The below is the link to the thread sir. Thank you.

https://www.nairaland.com/3430037/what-make-money-online/3030

FalseProphet1:
As a prophet I shall tell you the truth.

You need a stronger spirit to chase away your spirit husband. Therefore I'll recommend that you spend 2 weeks in my house so that we'll have sex, and since my spirit is very strong it would banish your evil spirit husband and you would be free.

Please don't delay cos Spirit husbands are very wicked they can make you run mad or even kill you. The earlier you come the Better.

This I have seen.

You made no sense