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Olaronke2478:
I know that the Romance Section is the appropriate section for my post but I feel I will get mature pieces of advice here.

Here goes my gist;
I am a lady in my mid-twenties and in my final year at one of the Universities in Nigeria. It happens that I have never been in any relationship because I've been fleeing from premarital sex and chasing a path of sexual purity. My decision to flee has never been propelled or fueled by religion but morals, safety from STDs, and peace of mind.

I have met many guys who wanted to be in a relationship with me but I turned them down because I know none of them would want to be in a "sexless relationship".
However, I met one recently and he seems to be really interested in me, and vice versa. He wants a relationship with me, and I do too but I am not ready to engage in premarital sex.

Sex seems to be the bane of romantic relationships these days and I'm afraid no one wants to be in a " sexless" relationship.
Am I being too rigid or uptight concerning the issue of not having sex in a relationship? I feel tempted to lower my guard on this aspect.

I need mature advice, please

Rayban26:
Congratulations to you OP

MegaBozz:
You have been searching for a job for long but nothing came up. Then you decided to travel to Canada for a master's degree and then Japa all the way to hustle in Canada.

You were granted a visa and the day you are suppose to travel you get a call from an oil company you had dropped your CV to inform you that you have been given a job with a salary of N350k per month, an official car, private accommodation for 5 years and free medical care as a staff of the company.

Will you accept this job offer and turn down your travel to Canada or will you still travel and turn down the job offer.

Hideaki:
Why??

Hideaki:
Okada is expensive here . The only reasonable place one can go to is a church and restaurant

I was a loner in school, not much people around me

3. Mental rehabilitation is expensive , it's for only rich folks and I can't afford it


I just want a girl that'll cuddle me that's all

Hideaki:
I'm always in room all day busy with programming, I have no friends, I'm just a skinny dude, currently 22yr in my finals ( computer engineering)
I spent most of my life as a shut in, but now I don't really want to anymore, virgin and never had a girlfriend, socially and emotionally stunted
what do I do, I don't like to interact with people and I lack motivation to move around.

MikeofKd:
I honestly need the help of you guys here. Times without number I have always felt a strange connection with large body waters, both in my dreams and real life , I cant really explain it.

Ive had dreams where I saw myself walk on water , run extremly fast in water and do all sort of mighty things with water in my dreams. I cant really swim in real life ,im kinda scared of water but it quite the opposite In my dreams.

Also I get some memory flashbacks like a trans or vision which tells me im reincarnated, sometimes I get dejavu too, sometimes I see things happen before they literally happen. I can also sense when theres an evil spirit around and also when theres an good spirit around. All these things happen to me, and at first I thought I was just being naive but with time it like everything started connecting.

Im like a god in water areas in my dreams but I cant even swim in real life ,plus I eat fishes too ,which actually just makes it more complicated cause I read somewhere that people that have a connection with water spirit rarely eat fishes, but apart from the fact that I eat fishes ,I have a very strange connection with water. Last time I was at a beach in lagos at night ,it felt like the waves of the ocean was saying something to me , it was in a language I couldnt just understand .

This all I can really explain for now but if anyone perhaps knows truly about the water spirit pls do well to educate me extensively , I would greatly appreciate it, thanks.

I dont want to act on ignorance anymore , I feel theres something I need to know that I dont.

Sirmwill:
Just wish me money

Imagine that this person that typed this thing got a loooot of money

Thanks in advance 🙏

Godoverevery:
I didn't retrieve anything bro.......

This one just want to use the phone to show off in her office and make useless TikTok videos.

She said some people are oppressing her at work with good phone.

victooman:
Since l was born, since l got to know my father it has been one complain to the other..
There was never anytime he have money or have the financial strength to Carry out any family responsibility .
After struggling to finish University with no any job l started Pos business were l am managing myself,, the constant demand is killing my business ..
Today my mother called me that my sister is about to be enrolled into secondary school and the total amount for registration is 25k, l called my dad and told him that l will try raising 15k and they should complete the remaining 10k, he started complaining on how he doesn't have money and haven't eaten since yesterday,, in fact l am tired dear Nairalanders,

Abeyjide:
I went to their office. Mine,wife and baby

Abeyjide:
Na Waoooo. People are so wicked. I applied in Kwara and got my passport in a month.

advocatejare:
Yes. They helped and still helping mine too. Every Christian should read them!

advocatejare:
Please try and Read these books By Rebecca Brown: He came to set the captives free, Prepare for War, Becoming a vessel of Honor and Unbroken Curses!

They will answer your question

Kasdat5:
Lock yourself with him in the room
Hide the keys
Tell him to say any unpleasant word(s)
Comot shirt
Bleed his mouth
Give him black eye
but if he beats you instead , just give up..

Gospel2Day:
Have you gotten tired of the position you take when walking?
Do you plan to change it?
Have you gotten tired of the position you take while pooing?
Since you were born you have been pooing and peeing in the same position.
Are you not tired of it?
When are you as a thinking human being that you're going to think out a new and better position(s) for doing this everyday tiring activities?
We ought to spice things up, you know.

Gospel2Day:
Quiz a thousand persons who never saw porn before in their lives, and ask them to tell you how they had sex the first time.
Who was on top and in what position?
It is when the demons of porn have possessed and perverted people's mibds that they descend low to animal level and start to imitate dogs and other brute beasts in how to have sex.

Gospel2Day:
Where in the Bible did God say he approves of doggy style and ora.l se.x and ana.l se.x?

Gospel2Day:
All those styles, positions and tricks will send you and your spouse to everlasting Hell Fire.
The ONLY style and position God approves is the Man On Top Missionary Position.
Anything else, Hell Fire 🔥 straight.
Be warned.

OmidheBlessing:
Will a pregnant woman show the same productivity as a man would show?/

Blackhacker:
If me and my girlfriend both agree to do an abortion and she died during the abortion process what will happens to me