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Romance / Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 5:53pm On Mar 24 |
Thank you all for your well thought-out advice. Some feel what I did is right with regards to her not keeping up with her agreement some feel otherwise. But majority agrees that it is not the right thing to send her out at that time of the night. For some saying I wanted sex, I swear down that I wasn't in any mood to have sex with my frustrating situation. I simply needed comfort or whatever name I could call it. Most importantly my anger is so bad that I can be heartless unnecessarily. I regret doing that and I am begining to get over the whole thing since she is alive and nothing happened to her. I have learnt my lessons. I sent her WhatsApp messages apologizing since she refused to pick my calls but she replied with insults. After that, I have deleted her number and our chats and hopefully her chapter is closed and life goes on. Thanks once again guys ✌️ 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 8:37pm On Mar 23 |
GodHimself: She wouldn't pick my calls. She only replies my chats. I have apologised to her, but she keeps replying with insults. I have deleted all our chats and deleted her number as well. It's all bygones now. |
Romance / Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 5:39pm On Mar 23 |
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Romance / Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 5:04pm On Mar 23 |
AndrewTate: But she came to my place for that reason Bro. Pls get that part. She came to my house for that reason. I get what you are saying to be true. But how could she do something like to me when she knew she was coming for a cuddle. If you tell me I did wrong sending her out, I will agree without any doubt. But you see the issue of "she didn't want to do" is just infuriating cos to me I felt like I was been played. I felt she just came for the comfort of it and just being unnecessarily selfish. 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 5:03pm On Mar 23 |
hopeforcharles: Thank you very much.. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 4:50pm On Mar 23 |
AndrewTate: Thanks for your honest opinion. But Bro, you're forgetting she told me she is coming to my place for something like that. Why not see from that perspective too. I really bleeped up sending her out at that time of the night. But I felt that was the only way to teach her a lesson. 😔 4 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 4:48pm On Mar 23 |
NoahHadNoArk:Thanks, I wish I can like this comment a million times. 31 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 4:46pm On Mar 23 |
hopeforcharles: Wow. This is how I saw it to be honest. It wasn't a difficult thing I asked. In that moment I only needed someone to comfort me. A cuddle was the only thing I could think of. How could she not see it that way? And my anger was so bad I acted foolishly. 😔 4 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 4:41pm On Mar 23 |
hopeforcharles: Great you understand me. I'm talking about $1500, that's about #2.1million. Yes I was mad and frustrated but why should I send her out that time of the night. This is my regret. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 4:39pm On Mar 23 |
funkemary: You are right. I was just frustrated that I felt it wasn't much to ask for. I felt she was just so selfish to even care for me. She knew I wasn't happy and I all I need was just a little comfort. I lost about $1,500. I was very sad the whole of that day. I wish you may understand me. The part I sent her out is the part I just don't get why I did it. I really regret it. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 4:36pm On Mar 23 |
AndrewTate: You are right. I only felt it was not too much to ask for. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 4:22pm On Mar 23 |
nifemi25: Thank you very much. This is why I like Nairaland. Honest opinions is what you get here. I must admit I felt very foolish after doing that. Now I see it that I've lost her for life. And that she will have the impression that I don't value her life or her for sending her outside at that time. Damn. I have done many bad things out of anger. I really regret this. 18 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 4:18pm On Mar 23 |
AndrewTate: Thank you but pls tell me how pls. And also consider that I did this out of frustration from a trade loss and anger. Share me your perspective,I'll really appreciate. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 4:16pm On Mar 23 |
brain54: Please tell me. I need to see this from a different perspective. Pls. I regret it and I wouldn't like this to happen another time. Perhaps my mindset. Pls tell me. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 4:13pm On Mar 23 |
eddynaira125: Leave this NOSIMP of a thing. I didn't do it based on whether I'm forming Red pill or not. Anger and frustration is a bad thing. Bleep Futures trading and Crypto. Damn. All this wouldn't have happened. 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 3:58pm On Mar 23 |
So this girl has been coming to my place, eat the best food and all that. I've asked her if she has a boyfriend and she said no. I do give her money without asking her for anything on return because I could see she is not the lazy type and she is really hardworking. I am very much ok with finances and I see no issues with some of her demands. Yesterday I called her and told her that I'm not happy and that I need cuddle only and not sex(I lost so much Dollars from futures trading that night). She later called and said she will come to my place for that reason. In my mind I was thinking this will go down as sex and all, but I don't really want sex. All I just needed is someone to cuddle and get distracted with that's all. This is the only time I am demanding something from her. So she came during the evening time, and later that night we went to supermarket and I got her something's to eat at home for the night. We got back home and everything was going well. We were both on the bed when I reminded her why she came. This is someone I've been doing quite a lot for without even thinking twice out of pity. She wouldn't give in and wouldn't let me know why she can't just allow me to cuddle her. Mehn, from the loss I had earlier and all that, I got infuriated and called another girl telling to pls come over for the night. Then I told this girl to leave my house since she can be that selfish. I sent her out of my house around 10pm. She was telling me she doesn't have money to go home, I didn't care and I shut my door against her. Though I was scared letting her out on that road and that time of the night but my anger got the better part of me. It was later after getting over the whole thing I confirmed nothing happened to her from someone else. Pls is there anything wrong with what I did? Modified: Anger is a bad thing. I am wrong sending her away at that time of the night. This is probably the judgement I'll get 😔 20 Likes 4 Shares
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Health / Re: Please How Do I Treat A Bleeding Gum? by AyobamiOluwole: 8:41am On Feb 03, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: Ok. Thank you very much! |
Health / Re: Please How Do I Treat A Bleeding Gum? by AyobamiOluwole: 3:16am On Feb 03, 2023 |
advanceDNA: This is it right? 1 Like
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Health / Re: Please How Do I Treat A Bleeding Gum? by AyobamiOluwole: 3:13am On Feb 03, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: Sorry is this the veryyyy MILD listerine??
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Health / Re: Please How Do I Treat A Bleeding Gum? by AyobamiOluwole: 3:09am On Feb 03, 2023 |
advanceDNA: I made my research too. But then, I don't know which product to get. This is the more reason I brought it up for anyone with experience to guide me. Pls what product of Hydrogen peroxide will work fine? |
Health / Re: Please How Do I Treat A Bleeding Gum? by AyobamiOluwole: 3:08am On Feb 03, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: Wow. I really appreciate your response. Thanks |
Health / Re: Please How Do I Treat A Bleeding Gum? by AyobamiOluwole: 2:10am On Feb 03, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: Wow. Thank you. But please what do you mean by TCP? |
Health / Re: Please How Do I Treat A Bleeding Gum? by AyobamiOluwole: 1:49am On Feb 03, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: Also should the salt water be warm or normal? 1 Like |
Health / Re: Please How Do I Treat A Bleeding Gum? by AyobamiOluwole: 1:48am On Feb 03, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: Wow. Thanks. Pls which Mouth wash do you recommend? |
Health / Please How Do I Treat A Bleeding Gum? by AyobamiOluwole: 1:36am On Feb 03, 2023 |
I noticed that when I suck at my Molar tooth, it releases blood. This has been going on for about 2 to 3 months now. Out of curiosity I checked my teeth and found out that part of the Molar tooth in question has turned dark. It all started when a little hole built up in between the said molar tooth and the one close to it. How it came to be, I habe no idea. Please who has experienced this before and how did you treat it? |
Romance / Re: See What Jelqing Has Caused Me (A Terrible Experience) by AyobamiOluwole: 6:50pm On Oct 25, 2022 |
Honestly, I don't think it has anything to do with jelqing. Like you said, it's a mental thing. Perhaps you couldn't believe it that you have grown so much. And sex on its own is a mental thing to start with. Just look up for condoms for big sizes. |
Romance / Re: What Category Do You Place 5.5inches Girth? by AyobamiOluwole: 10:21am On Oct 01, 2022 |
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Health / Re: Beautiful Lady Drops Suicide Note On Facebook (Photos) by AyobamiOluwole: 8:32am On Aug 17, 2022 |
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Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 7 by AyobamiOluwole: 7:28pm On May 20, 2022 |
homesinabuja: Thank you for the advice. |
Romance / Re: Please Advise On Data Science For My Masters by AyobamiOluwole: 8:06am On May 03, 2022 |
yanabasee: Thanks a lot. I appreciate your good wish. I wish you all the very best as well. |
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