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Market no dey sell for here....I will like to relocate.

And u wey dey talk sey u no go fit date me cos I short, I'm never gonna look ur side when I come turn ur last hope o...... ...the earlier the better!

"QPRBINTU" no dey help matter!

Egba girl: LOL!!! That's all you have to say to the guy? lol

Are you interested?

[quote author=Raggedy_Ann]Physique (tall, athletic, good posture), voice (deep, smooth baritone), articulation (clear and concise, no fake accents), wit, hands (big, sure, non girly, manicured), dentition[/quote]Na wa o...why u no kuku say u want angel kwanu!

chelseabmw: Godstime is the best

You no well!

Everybody dey talk about height now...where una wan put this short ayobase now ehn.....

Yes, he is short with brians!
Yes, he gat money!
Yes, he has sweet and nice feet!
Yes, he has sweet fingers!
Yes, he has "short" smoking hot legs!
Yes, he has a nice body shape.
Yes, he has moderately big head, but full of brians.
Yes, he is DAMN good in bed.
Yes, he is dark in complexion.
Yes, he has kinda vampire, but sexy teeth setting!
Yes, he has small mouth, but with sexy lips.
Yes, he is a graduate and doing.
Yes, he is born again and God fearing.
Yes, he is above all a romantic and WOW guy!

Anybody interested for God's sake!

Idowuogbo: Complexion(u gats to b dark skin), brains and shoe size.

What about Sexkillz?

Someone is trying to educate, and yet we are trying to crucify with flimsy reasons.

Most of us know what is right, but its pathetic we are still being hypocritical.

What's wrong with "OP, u are so correct, but wetin man go do?"

Billyonaire, are u serious about what u said, that one's wife is gonna leave one if one continues listening to Eric Donaldson. The wife must have been picked up from the club. And before u crucify me, not all girls that come to the club are indecent....met many of them...just wanna come chill out, but there are the REAL club girls!

Still in this generation, We have Asa, Lagbaja, Beutiful Nubia, Lindsey Brown, Funmi, 9ice,TY Bello, Sola Allyson, some Fuji and Juju musicians, P-Square and Wizkid sef dey try sha with those nice tracks...some of the hip-hop artists dey try sha.

I have been a DJ for like 8yrs now....I know that some songs aint just right, but u just have to flow through.....COMPROMISING!

Our kids are the ones suffering from this musical menace most.....most videos are terribly terrible even when the songs are okay....vidoes never sell if yansh and bobby never dey...hmmmmm!

Pls, let's not always justify what is totally wrong for the health of our society...its like trying to justify fornication, adultery, smoking, stealing and the likes!

lalaosky: Yeah, thanks to obatala

Lol....

For this theory to be established, let's patiently wait for the only virgin on NL, Onila to marry and give us feedbacks!

Unless she is not gonna marry a man!

lalaosky: Seun when did un*dress become bad sotey you turn am to uncloth?. Smh

LOL...that's olori ebi for u.

U still be female?

trisurface: Why do married women see or offer sex as the evidence that a quarrel with the husband is finished?
If I just had an argument with my wife, the last thing I want is U rubbing me up.

I'm wrong, U're wrong, we say sorry, a little space PLEASE.
No way I'm going past hugs immediately after an argument.
My Take.

Try it, sex after argument is always sweet.....u have been missing bro....u better restrategise o!

It partially means u are still mad at her if u can't give IT to her!

Its actually been long I saw u around on here.....it must have been due to the imprisonments!

Afin na oga o...u will need to tread carefully!

I'm "following" u of course!


Biko o, make NL no suffer for ur hands!

But, its obvious they don't want you here again.......I'm still "following" you on the matter....

slimyem: Its stupid to wind this around gender. My gender has nothing to do with how I handle unrepentant and inconsiderate debtors.
Please skip!

You simply had no idea of what I was talking about!

And besides, who sabi sin eyan lowo?....man or woman?....women are characterised by some certain traits....even gossip, but that doesn't mean that some men don't share!
This aint about gender 'anything' pls!

I can now skip!

Shuooo, this place don turn battle field (thread)

One thing I can pick up categorically is that wifves are meant to managa the home in every area.

Its obvious that men are weak in terms of managing (of course he could be the best manager of the year in his working place, but managing the home is far different), to this effect a woman comes in to manage the "supposed-to-be-wasted" money.

So far so good, we are all correct, but there are times we just have to let go....ONE MIGHT DEVELOP HYPERTENSION IF ONE IS GONNA BE WORRIED OVER EVERY MATTER!

GIVE UR MIND PEACE BIKO!

@slimyem: u are just being a woman....and its normal!

biolabee: ayobase i love ur comments

Thanks brother!
Gud-am!

greatgod2012: Thanks to everyone who has taken out time to advise me, i really appreciate every posts/posters here, may God bless you all.



I think i need to clarify some issues on this matter.
Firstly, the money given to him wasnt hubby's money alone, it was our money, when hubby couldnt get all the amount the man requested for, he asked me to add more to make up to what the man requested for, afterall, we thought the money will be refunded after 3 days.
We were together when hubby handed the money to him.
That man claimed that ATMmachine swallwoed his card, so we thought he would actually refund the money after sorting it out with his bank on the said monday. Imagine the gravity of lie he told us in order to pity and assist him.
@vikin, he never forget about the money, hes only trying to be smart and ungrateful, so said his wife, even, the wife claims we aint the only people he has done that to, he is even doing it to his wife sef, so said the wife. She even said the same thing her hubby did at where they were living before.


Now, what im furious about is not really the non-repayment of the money, but the way he behaves/relates with us as if all is fine is what im angry about. He greets, plays and even ask for some things from us as if nothing is between us. For example, we just bought a car recently, and the man instited that we must "wash" the car for him separately, i was just wondering the kind of shameless man he is.
The most annoying thing, according to the wife is that, she doesnt even know what her hubby is using all the borrowed money for, as shes the one who carry bulk of the family's financial responsibilities.
I tire o.

Once again, thank you all for your responses.

I perfectly understood your pains!

It reminds me of partial stranger I helped paid his school fees via a close friend (like an uncle), plus the fact that we did attend the same church. Gave him the money and took his gen as collateral. After like 4 months, I decided to buy the gen off from him cos he was finanacially down. He bought the gen at the rate of 35K, but I decided to just buy at 30K. And not that I can't get a better and new gen at that same rate, but to help.
LOL, he eventually said he can't sell at that rate, so he decided to go sell the gen and to come give me my balance after being sold. He sold the gen as confessed, and at the same amount I wanted buying, but I never hear Bros how far up to this time I dey type this!

People could be funny Sister, we should just always pray for God's blessing....you suppose make your husband see reasons why to let go EVEN if he wanna get back the money by force.....that u can't confront doent mean u can't persuade.

Na only 3K entered my account since I left my DJ inst with someone I trusted.....if na to do the arithmetic, I should have gone there to pack my insts. But I'm a man of principle.....I go give u long rope until u "te". By then you wouldn't be able to blame or be angry at me for any step I would be taking!

slimyem: ...... The last person I lent money wanted to try it with me. It was long overdue and I so frustrated his life with asking for it and made him feel I couldn't care less where he gets the money from as long as I get paid. It strained our relationship but my money showed up which is the most important thing
......

It strained your relationship of course, and you prefer it that way.....yoruba proverb I always try to eschew "Owo lo n ba oju ore je"

I have taken it upon myself to making sure I avoid FINANCIAL crisis with family and friend....I rather let it go......IT GIVES ONE RESPECT!

Doing and achieving this, I don't give out money I can't forget about.....and you should know that there are some people you shouldn't even lend money, rather give them to avoid clash!

E kuke better make u say u no get than later being at loggerheads!

bettymafy: I totally disagree! There is a difference between "please borrow me some money" and "please dash me some money". If one borrows, the person should endeavour to pay, period! That my cup runneth over doesn't mean u should not repay the money u borrowed.

However, if u borrow but can't repay at the said time, u should be civil and considerate enough to tell that person why u haven't been able to pay and when u can pay. Not to treat one like he/she is a fool and thinking u can get away with such act.

Some human beings are just so dubious and heartless. They become angels when they want something from u and turn to monsters when its time to pay back.

That was how I borrowed a friend a reasonable sum after she begged and begged like her life depended on it. Promised to pay back immediately she recieves her salary. Its been 3months now and I haven't heard from her. She neither picks my calls nor replies any of my SMSs. But I've promised myself and God that I MUST get my money back. I didn't sweat for someone to come cone me off a large sum.

, if I were u, I would beg hubby to allow me confront the man. I'm not saying u should be rude, but just remind his dubious ass that he has some debt to pay and ask him when he's gonna pay.

Heartless and annoying debtors. . .

The money is hers also, there is nothing wrong if she asks........we should just try learn to live beyond some USUAL and NORMAL measures and protocols!

Maybe I gave mine piece as far as Ayobase is concerned.....believe me, you are gonna live longer when you stop disturbing yourself over money matters!

When someone owes you, and he/she wouldn't talk about it, then take it as seed sowing or SADAKA!

If the person comes next time, give if you have....it doesn't make you a fool.....just that he/she aint seeing as u are!

ITS NOT WEAKNESS OR CARELESSNESS!

Its still not an issue when you BLATANTLY ask for your hard earned money though!

The clause, "he thinks he is smart" is the cause of most unforgiveness and revenge!

debrief08: What silly blessing should they fold their arms and wait for?
So letting a criminal get away with fraud now attracts blessings, God have mercy and give me strength

Wretched mindset.....criminal....fraud....strength....I still wonder how somepeople think about MONEY o!

What about if u die 2moro......or what about if u don't have to EVEN give out!

Some people are praying for God's financial blessing so that they can give out, and here you are STILL!

VANITY UPON VANITY, ALL IS VANITY!

debrief08: Nigerians can pet and accept bad behavior.
That's why we have leaders who will continue to rap3 us because we will say "leave them to God".
Confront him, don't only confront him ask for your money back.
Next time even if its your sister get it in writing before releasing even 1kobo on loan.
We don't like paper work and it always gets us in trouble.
Why won't people be acting like idiots when we will "leave them to God", confront him so he will know that even if he can get away with it because others are too docile you are not.
We wonder why we have bad leaders and a horrible society when you can not even stand and take the time to fight for money you have earned.
Sad society.

Na wa o.....on top N5 kwanu.....even we dey owe God and he dey forget!

FYU, its a matter of MATURITY, and not WEAKNESS!

Who blessed you with that money gan sef....u think sey na ur sweat? ERROR!

"....God anoints my head with oil, and my cup runneth over"

The running over is for your neighbours...Give them.....besides,he that can give out is he that might have had enough....before Bado ask if I be Pastor again!

Stop being alaroro....let it go!

Acidosis: Igbawo lo di Philosopher?

LOL....make una allow me concentrate for this match na!

Idowuogbo: Igbawo lo di pastor?

Just a piece from a clean heart!

Let it slide as ur husband suggested.
And try also to inculcate that habit, and don't always give out what its way too much to lose.

Its what I do always, if u don't talk about it, I also wouldn't talk about it. Its a matter of next time. And there is always a blessing attached.

What we should always pray for is God's blessing!

Guys are watching match now....pieces of advice are gonna be flowing in later in the night!

This question get as e be...I have been solving questions related to this, but this is......

Let me know if u have answer to it.

I stopped here for now.....very busy to rack my brain!

My sense of humour, my time, surprises, coupled with sex!

Lesson from the story.......let he who is without sin cast the first stone!

Beaten to COMA cos condoms fell off from his Bible.....

Its not that they defrauded people like you and I......they were simply making some heavy transactions without a proper license.

Besides, money laundering is dangerous for the financial health of a society.

Its not really a case as such.....they even got PROBATION.

Don't panic, our monies are intact!

Sniperinadiaper!

Adaobi, what were u thinking.....that no one aint seeing u?

I was by the corner that day!