₦airaland Forum

observanc1:
when asked if he had a wife and children, he said yes, an American. Down the line started talking about his 'Nigerian' wife. He was married here with 2 children, abandoned them and moved to UK. Rather than inviting them to UK, he moved to US and married americana. And that one has abandoned him.

Karma came for him. His irresponsible lifestyle caught up with him. Nobody jazzed him.

Nawa for this man o. You left your wife and children in Nigeria to suffer. You then went ahead to marry again abroad. instead of bringing your wife and kids to join you. Now I see where the problems came from

The phone uses mediatek dimensity 6080. This is huge!!! Where are the itel haters?

jumokeadele:
dj splash, i followed the guy's story , nairamarley used that guy . The guy lost all his senses after he left the record label and everything was fetish. If this is a sane country naira marlay should be in jail.

Instead of Nigerians to support Iyabo Ojo who happened to be the only one that has stood up for dj splash case , see the comment above . I'm sorry for this country , its obviously not the politicians , its the masses that have problem.

You're correct 💯. Nigerians are the problems of Nigeria. I used to blast the politicians before but I later discovered that most Nigerian citizens don't have sense. They'd rather support evil because it's from their tribe or religion than to support something good from elsewhere. Don't pity Nigerians. They hardly pity themselves. When you do good, they'll call you mumu but when you do bad, they'll call you a sharp guy or sharp girl. Most Nigerians are mentally unstable and myopic in their thinking. A society that openly glorifies internet fraud cannot progress.

L1TTLE:
She brazenly told me "I have a 5yr old son", before she did I was crushing hard, then she told me she has a son today, I was taken aback for a while but much to my shock, I find her more attractive now? Instead of getting repulsed by the new information I want her more now, is it weird? Lol, I'm even thinking she can bring her son and live with me like we're family.

Please advise me.

Hmm i hope it's not sex or her curvy body that is making you think this way? Time would tell. Na battle you dey enter so o if her baby daddy is still alive. I won't discourage you if you feel this is what you want. Just be vigilant and don't rush to marry her. I know say konji dey disturb but with time, you would decide

Queendiamond398:
My husband prefers been busy on his phone with his numerous exes, divorcee and single ladies than gisting with me if we are together, i have always want him to have peace of mind but it seems he doesnt think of that about me

Am begining to find peace gisting with his friend anytime he comes to visit, some persons may say i saw the handwriting on the wall before i married him,Hell NO! .He succeded in making me chase all my friend both male and female away but now have numerous to chat with and laugh and please himself.

He thinks his smart but i pity him, is just my home training that is limiting me to do some kind of evil things ,we will go for party or club he will leave me and go and be sitting in midst of other ladies, while some men will come and sit with me and making advances at me and he doesnt know. Some of his friends that are as useless as him and come with their wives or Fiance doesnt know young and energetic men do have quickie with their wives at the rest room

My religion and the way i value my body can't make me to stooop so low to do all those things but why will a man choose to neglect the wive to be dieing of boredom .

Because of lack of attention my Male Colleagues always try to take advantage of that and be chatting with me till midnight without him even seeing it.

We lived in a separate room that this his attitude can make someone to be cheating without him knowing but i dont want to do that Please someone should help me out
Please am dieing slowly i have confronted him so many times but he will tell me i dont have the right to tell him what to do

Sit him down and let him know how you feel. If he doesn't retrace his steps, let him be and go enjoy yourself. You can even divorce him. Marriage is not a do or die affair. Let him have a taste of his own medicine. He is an irresponsible man. If you don't have kids for him yet, you better Japa. Make friends and from there you'll get someone who would appreciate you. You sef, next time look for a responsible man. Avoid all these active clubbers. Most of them are overgrown babies

temitope23:
Stellas app has this function where you can make a transfer and the receiver won't find any details about you. I've used it many times.

Wow this is nice. I need this. In this ghost mode, can I put another name while sending?

Wizkid wants to engage in politics

My fear is that when the 33Billion gets to the villagers, Bandits would come for them. If they love themselves, after getting the money, they should leave that village for good.

mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only

She's definitely cheating on you but the way I see it ehn, they're friends with benefits. It would be difficult to separate both of them. She'll still be claiming they're just friends. Sadly it seems they've had s*x. You need to sit her down and have a long heart to heart talk cos the truth is there is a crack in your home and it needs patching. If she evades the discussion, involve her family and let them know that if you still see her with that guy, you may be forced to let her go. A married woman is supposed to set boundaries with other men. Be careful sha. Don't start telling people around. Some men would even use it as an opportunity to tap current. It's really sad. If your wife truly loves you, she would listen. If you don't have kids yet, it's never too late to leave and start over. You might have lost your wife. She is there physically but her mind may be far

There's nothing wrong. You just want her to be looking serious all the time. You wanna kill her? I watch animation a lot too. Those japanese anime especially Attack on Titan ❤️ and death note. Her kids would be so close to her and that makes parenting easier. You're lucky bro. She is not a grumpy wife

Ewooo no be person liver be that? Jeez

Kudos to United. They played proper attacking football tonight and it paid off. They held on to the ball better but the midfield was so porous. McTominay is a striker! Anthony was fantastic, I just love reguilion. The guy is very good on the ball. Garnacho tormented Chelsea's defence. Luke shaw is a speedster with so much technique but he needs to be careful in big games.

Chelsea might break the jinx tonight. United are not usually sharp on the ball and they would get punished if they play what they played against Newcastle. If they lose this game, Ten hag would be sacked. They need to wake up and play football. Hold on to the ball better, create chances and finish them. Sancho should be recalled. United need all the legs they can use right now. Martial is not a footballer, Rashford is off, Hojlund is not seeing enough time on the ball due to lack of creativity. Sancho can create for him

He said well

VeryWickedGoat:
The neighbours just peeping through their windows in disgust at the Black Monkey family acting bush.

Stop it! Even white people over there play with snow. It's a normal thing

Cloggym:
I haven’t caught her yet. I just have photos of chats and I haven’t confronted her yet cos i know she will deny and lie. I’d just lay low, remove all emotions attachments and suspend sexual activities or use protection if I must .
Thanks for your input . I appreciate

You're welcome. Use protection if you must 👍

Cloggym:
We started a relationship at the end of August. She was the who wanted a relationship, and I liked her too so I accepted since I’m single.
We live just 1hr apart in 2 different cities in the east. So I wouldn’t completely say it’s a long distance relationship.

She visited, and I happen to check her WhatsApp while she was asleep. I found out she’s sleeping with a few other men, not a relationship cos I didn’t see endearing names or any romantic chats just stuffs like “ where are you? I’m at your house “
Are we seeing today?”

Should I confront her or use her for sex only , with protection of course

I would strongly advise that you don't confront her yet. She would surely have excuses to counter you. She would even start attacking you cos she knows you haven't caught her. She would then start deleting chats and change her phone passkey. Just lay low and continue investigation till you get proper evidence. Don't mind those guys advising you to keep banging her. If you value your health, suspend it. Once you catch any STI, these same guys would be laughing at you and making jest. My brother went through the same thing. He lay low and continued investigation until he came across a chat where they were talking about their recent s*x in a hotel. When he showed her, she was dumbfounded. She kept begging but his mind was made up. Proper evidence is important in a case like this.

D4gmail1:
The last time I bought this some about two years ago it was 4000 Naira.

Y'all should better choose a healthy life style and stop having sex with random people.

Bacterial infections don't only come through se*ual intercourse. There are several routes.

Hardworking people and they make nice footwears

She should have arrested the man sef. That's stealing. I hate Stoopid men. Dem plenty for Nigeria delta area. They don't want to work but want to chop money.

securitywatch50:
Guys help me with your advice I want my son to join maduka university for his law degree but he refused and that he prefers public university to private, his reason being that he graduated from private secondary school.

What's your advice please.

Your son is looking for freedom to do whatever he wants outside the school. He knows that in private university, he'll be monitored. Well... Let him sit for the public school exams and then if he is given admission, fine. If he's not, private university straight. Left to me, If I am wealthy enough my children would not school in public universities. There's too much nonsense going on there. Public schools were the standard then but now, everything is upside down

Nigerian women would be fighting against polygamy even when they secretly crave it. Ladies actually love married men but come out to condemn polygamy. What an irony . These men sef, why are they busy wasting millions on top heaven's gate na? They are the ones who make women drive the notion that men enjoy sex more. Something that is false!

codedgalaxy:
It's not normal cream.
The cream looks very dried,
Comes out like particules.
Its not me o, just asking for a friend.

See the perfect description. Which friend? Abi you dey bang your friend babe?

Jostoman:
Lets tell ourself the truth in nigeria,

Give them president you people say no.

Allow them to go you people said no

Igbo people are not allowed to vote a candidate of their choice in lagos, the whole world saw what some igbo people face during and after election in lagos.

A candidate from southeast contested presidential election and won but what happen they took his mandate and gave it to another person.

I voted for Peter obi but let's face the truth. He came third. Northern votes didn't favour him.

general111:
Hello good people of Nairaland.
My fiancée to me today that her ex is requesting to meet her,and she was asking for my permission to go.
Should I grant her this request or should I be worried?

Your fiancee is a wicked person. She is still communicating so much with her ex so she wanna go finish the work there. Ask her if she wants to go. If she says yes, let her go but quickly get a replacement for your own good.

seunjungle1:
It is very good for a lady to born whatever she wants to born earlier...ask Genny, Omotola, Iyabo Ojo and others that born early...though it might be tough initially but turned to good later.
By the time the girl is 30years, the child will be turn 13/14years.

Come on get out! Are you a paedophile?

This girl has actually implicated her boyfriend. I hope the guy is not above 18 sha

Azeez fashola

Wahala no dey finish

I thought as much. Those attacks then we're mostly not from Fulani herdsmen. Gangsters disguise as herdsmen and attack their victims. The picture is clearer now. Many Benue youths no get sense. The guys want to be fighting gang wars while the ladies wanna be hoeing around. Looks like the worst state in Nigeria right now

prinsam30:
thank God CR7 is gone, telles gone, greenwood gone, Fred gone, DDG gone, mata gone, Elanga gone cavani gone, now Sancho is gradually towing that same path and pray he also gone too, all of these players left under this stupid baldhead man, with that his coconut head that look like pep own so

Looks like Ten hag might get his sack letter tomorrow.