₦airaland Forum

maryam8080: Answer these questions:
1. If you are a Muslim probably because you are born into a Muslim family right?
2. Do you consider the fact that you never gave ALLAh the option to create you and place you in a particular family. Therefore you are born into a Muslim family is a privilege not a right.
3. Do you now condemn others who are not "privileged or fortunate" like you?
4. In that case you came to meet the religion you now belong not the reverse?
5. Have you ever thought about the faith/fate of others who are not born Muslims
6. Do you believe that if people like you can live out what the Holy Koran teaches these other people can become Muslims with easy?
7. For the fact that they didn't create themselves do you now blame them and what is your work towards them... Is it to portray yourself better than them and make them look like lesser mortals?
My dear, you have to think and not just think straight but in a broaden manner.

maryam8080: The smartest indeed! Yes of course in 419, Credit cards, forgery, Drug paddling, Ritual killings,cultism both in schools and outside, slavery, human right abuse, religious "bigot-ism", repression of the lowly and poor citizens. A smart country led by PHd and a former lecturer and the university union is on strike, it takes ten years to graduate from any Nigerian university, what a shame? Smart people without electricity, having an economy that is being powered by "I better pass my neighbour" and you are smart people. They have sold NEPA or Your PHCN and there is no light virtually all over the country. Everyday your PHD president will come out to promise 5000mgwatts for a country that needs at least 3-600,000mg watts. Smart people! Oil theft has become a routine, kerosene is now 150.00naira per/lit in a country that produces and export crude, smart people your Refineries refused to work since 12yrs ago, up till now the turn around maintenance never come to an end. 10 - 15 years back to travel along the highways was delightful, as a driver you can close your eyes and drive. A journey from Benin to Lagos will not take more than 4hrs on a well regulated speed but these days the story is different. I visited home and I traveled to Abuja, I met a city built with corrupt money, pollution was/is everywhere, homosexualism and lesbianism on the rise. I saw rottenness in the form of the so called progress or prosperity. I began to wander what the future holds for the coming generation. All the ministries that I visited I met corruption right from the gate man or security agent at the gate, you must drop for him/her to do his job, bribery is a way of life. Smartest people, and you have recycle leadership, Papa chop remain for pikin and the pikin go chop remain for his pikin on the detriment of the whole 167million people, what a country? Please when next you mention Nigeria dont put the word smart cos they are not in the real sense of it. As for the MUMU it is your fellow Nigerian man that established the word..... ask Lagbaja he will explain better! Please I want to watch my friend Adeola on Sahara TV, cut your pen chikena!

maryam8080: Dont rove from the questions answer them sincerely and faithfully.

Kcfun: i have work in different company in which i pray @ every salat time.

maryam8080: Answer these questions:
1. If you are a Muslim probably because you are born into a Muslim family right?
2. Do you consider the fact that you never gave ALLAh the option to create you and place you in a particular family. Therefore you are born into a Muslim family is a privilege not a right.
3. Do you now condemn others who are not "privileged or fortunate" like you?
4. In that case you came to meet the religion you now belong not the reverse?
5. Have you ever thought about the faith/fate of others who are not born Muslims
6. Do you believe that if people like you can live out what the Holy Koran teaches these other people can become Muslims with easy?
7. For the fact that they didn't create themselves do you now blame them and what is your work towards them... Is it to portray yourself better than them and make them look like lesser mortals?
My dear, you have to think and not just think straight but in a broaden manner.

maryam8080: And equally you shouldn't use the majority attitude to judge the minority because sometimes there are foolish majority, that is why I never advocate for democracy! That is why in your country Nigeria you have the masses who I consider MUMU Multitude following few elites who are just organised skimmers. The are found in the government and in the religious settings. Nobody can confuse me gone are days... now I have decided to work with good people and not bad people you can't confuse me enough... not even with religion, tribal sentiments, gender sentiments and all worth trashes people are using to confuse the lesser minds.

maryam8080: And equally you shouldn't use the majority attitude to judge the minority because sometimes there are foolish majority, that is why I never advocate for democracy! That is why in your country Nigeria you have the masses who I consider MUMU Multitude following few elites who are just organised skimmers. The are found in the government and in the religious settings. Nobody can confuse me gone are days... now I have decided to work with good people and not bad people you can't confuse me enough... not even with religion, tribal sentiments, gender sentiments and all worth trashes people are using to confuse the lesser minds.

maryam8080: And equally you shouldn't use the majority attitude to judge the minority because sometimes there are foolish majority, that is why I never advocate for democracy! That is why in your country Nigeria you have the masses who I consider MUMU Multitude following few elites who are just organised skimmers. The are found in the government and in the religious settings. Nobody can confuse me gone are days... now I have decided to work with good people and not bad people you can't confuse me enough... not even with religion, tribal sentiments, gender sentiments and all worth trashes people are using to confuse the lesser minds.

maryam8080: And equally you shouldn't use the majority attitude to judge the minority because sometimes there are foolish majority, that is why I never advocate for democracy! That is why in your country Nigeria you have the masses who I consider MUMU Multitude following few elites who are just organised skimmers. The are found in the government and in the religious settings. Nobody can confuse me gone are days... now I have decided to work with good people and not bad people you can't confuse me enough... not even with religion, tribal sentiments, gender sentiments and all worth trashes people are using to confuse the lesser minds.

maryam8080: Well if your Goodluck is an evil person I will not work with him and one more thing I have not applauded the current administration in Nigeria! However, my stand still remains i will work with good people not the bad ones. People are hiding under religion and disguising themselves as pure whereas evil is hibernated in them. My word to you is that you should try and be human in all your approach to issues in this life.

maryam8080: There are things I want to point out here which you are not getting right:
1. Address the points that you picked from statement very well and dont beggar any of them
2. If you term my statements as secular, well , to me it looks myopic and you should broaden you mind, unless you want me to pick arms before I will be considered a true Muslim.
3. Talking about secularism I have been fortunate and unfortunate to have lived with people from the Arab world and work in their house and ate with them stay with their children and wives. In a way I dont think that I am more secular then them. Inside their houses anything goes which does not reflect the life they live outside. Sometimes, I wander who is deceiving who and who is cheating who?
4. Please, I dont want to go further to talk about my experiences but I will leave you with this word in everything try as much as you can to be human no matter who is involve.(In this life I have received help where I never thought it will come from and I have been denied help where I thought I should be harboured/nurtured.
5. I have chosen to work with good people and shun bad people regardless of their religion chikena!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

busar: It's part of it

maryam8080: There is something that I have observed in life, and that is there are two people in this world, the good people and the bad people, irrespective of your religious inclination. Come to think of it, don't you think if the whole Muslims in Nigeria are really good Muslims Nigeria wouldn't be the way it is today. I think you should think less of religion and be more human in your approach to issues in life. Check out the ranks of people that have ruled Nigeria you will find more Muslims than any other religion, so why didn't they reflect Islam in what they were doing in the government? So what if another person from another religion occupies that position and perform better? Which means that person is the better person and the former is a bad person. Now I am not discussing religion but the individual at the center. Should I now support the person who is bad because he/she is a Muslim? Then I am not a true Muslim.
So my stand remains strong:
1. Religion is a private thing
2. Theology cannot/and will not motivate any invention rather necessity.
3. If theology motivates inventions, then the Muslims should not use anything invented by anyone who is not a Muslim because such invention is corrupt and not holy, the way a Muslim is not allowed to marry a Hindu and other religion affiliated to idols.
4. That there are two kinds or people in this world the bad and the good people (They can be found across all religious bodies)
5. That life is about what people can make out of the life you are living( your meaningful contributions to the world) if the reverse is the case then there is trouble (cheating and killing is unavoidable)

maryam8080: There is something that I have observed in life, and that is there are two people in this world, the good people and the bad people, irrespective of your religious inclination. Come to think of it, don't you think if the whole Muslims in Nigeria are really good Muslims Nigeria wouldn't be the way it is today. I think you should think less of religion and be more human in your approach to issues in life. Check out the ranks of people that have ruled Nigeria you will find more Muslims than any other religion, so why didn't they reflect Islam in what they were doing in the government? So what if another person from another religion occupies that position and perform better? Which means that person is the better person and the former is a bad person. Now I am not discussing religion but the individual at the center. Should I now support the person who is bad because he/she is a Muslim? Then I am not a true Muslim.
So my stand remains strong:
1. Religion is a private thing
2. Theology cannot/and will not motivate any invention rather necessity.
3. If theology motivates inventions, then the Muslims should not use anything invented by anyone who is not a Muslim because such invention is corrupt and not holy, the way a Muslim is not allowed to marry a Hindu and other religion affiliated to idols.
4. That there are two kinds or people in this world the bad and the good people (They can be found across all religious bodies)
5. That life is about what people can make out of the life you are living( your meaningful contributions to the world) if the reverse is the case then there is trouble (cheating and killing is unavoidable)

tbaba1234: A stable marriage is not one where the husband or wife is incharge. A truly stable marriage is one where the husband and wife put ALLAH in charge. -

AbuHafsah AbdulMalik Clare

cloudstar: Na so now

maryam8080: So how come my name is a problem to you are we discussing my name or invention? All am saying is that we should remove religion from inventions. Invention is a product of necessity chikena!!

Sissie: Does having a bad attitude have anything to do with beauty? People have bad attitude irrespective of how they look, I have heard many people talk about beauty and attitude and make it seem beautiful people have bad attitude. (this is a genuine question) I have met people who automatically assume I have an attitude.

Some of the meanest/nastiest people I have met are average to not too good looking people.

onegig: Yes , People change I agree.

The truth is that when people(i.e each individual in a relationship) take the success of their marriage as their personal responsibilities i guess they would want to improve on personal inadequacies to help make their relationship a success but when people believe otherwise what you get is all these marriages of convenience. No love, no communication. Just two partners who are strangers of each other. You could sense the distance between them from miles.

That's when you realise Love alone is not enough.

Esji80: Assalamu alaikum...

Beauty doesn't relate to attitude...A lady can be beautiful and have good attitude.She can be of good attitude but not d@ beautiful...Similarly,she can be beautiful but have no good attitude...They said beauty lays in...


Reported by Abu Hurairah
(RA): The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "A woman is married for four things: for her wealth,for her lineage, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious, may
you be blessed!".
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

tbaba1234: My mum was very beautiful in her youth, I think she turned out good. It is stereotypical to suggest that beautiful women have a bad attitude. Beauty can make one arrogant, but it does not always work out that way.

The only problem is when one is carried away by beauty and ignores important pointers .

jmoore: Go to your study centre and ask your director.

maryam8080: Their civilization then had nothing to with Islam, because Islam has not arrived in their country at the time you are quoting.