Ramadan Kareem brothers and sisters 🙏🏽

This thread has immensely inspired me on my steadfastness with my love for Allah and the noble prophet (s.a.w). May Allah reward everyone of you in many folds.

I have a short story to tell about myself and I would appreciate your input and opinions.

I did my Walimot Quran at a very young age and I so much love Islam to the point where myself and some other kids would start mimicking Islam lectures into a small tape recorder.

Not long after I finished secondary school, I suddenly found myself drinking and smoking. Looking back now, I honestly cannot pin point an exact reason why I was doing what I was drinking and smoking back then.

Life has been so uneasy with jobs, education and all. I experienced a lot of regress but Alhamdulilah.

I read a post by @movado19 about Auric field being damaged by alcohol and creating a gap for attacks.

During the times I was drinking, I have been intoxicated on different occasions but the last one that happened left a bitter mark in my life.

I woke up on my bed after a night of heavy drinking with a very sharp pain in my lower left back and a very weird general body fatigue.

I struggled with it for a while and noticed that this pain only increases anytime I drink alcohol or sleep on the bed. The fatigue had already left by this time.

I stopped drinking alcohol and visited the hospital where they did an X-ray scan for my back. This is the report the doctor made after the scan result : “ There is loss of lumbar lordosis with straightening of the lumbar spine. The lumbar vertebrae are normal in outline , height and density. The intervertebral disc spaces are within normal limits. CONCLUSION: Loss of Lumbar lordosis ?Cause : R/O Muscle Spasm”

The doctor said the pain maybe due to bad posture, I was advised to start sleeping on the floor and I was given a body pain med, Diclomol gel and some muscle meds.

Ever since then, the pain has refused to leave me alone completely. It keeps coming and going and I thought to myself that the pain may have some spiritual hand in it.

So, I made some spiritual consultations around and they gave me this soap/balm to rub my back with and truly the pain disappeared but it keeps coming back after few days.

I have resorted to living with it and praying to Allah that one day it will finally go away.

My question is this, is it possible that the damage to my auric field by consistently drinking alcohol could have brought about this pain in a spiritual way ?

Honestly, if not for the pain, I wouldn’t have stopped alcohol completely. So sometimes I see the pain as a blessing in disguise from Allah.

I’m so confused. Please help. Jazakumllah Khairan 🙏🏽

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doctokwus:

Though it looks long,from 2020 to now,but what some Nigerians don't understand is that there are some ailments that relapse and would not totally resolve.
These ailments are common with back issues because of the natural wear and tear the back bones,ligaments and muscles undergo.
Some are age related,naturally and for these one may just need to be managing the condition with pain reliefs and other supportive care.
Abroad,some people are on daily drugs for these conditions for donkey years if they don't want to undergo surgical intervention,which itself sometimes does not guarantee full success.
You may need to take something stronger for the pain for a long period.
The other option is to see an orthopaedic surgeon to see if there is a surgical option,if the condition persists.

Thank you very much. I’m grateful

sajibola543:
abeg shey you be upload your ND result abi na transcripts you send boss, me self been dey apply for same department De also

Hello @sajibola543, I apologize for the late response.

I hope you’ve started your program now. Please send me an email let’s connect

Hi all, i just got admitted to study Maths/Computer science via Direct Entry. I have a few questions and I would appreciate your responses.

1. I have heard about the need for DE students to register 100 level GST courses…please how true is this ?

2. I’d like to connect with fellow students in the Maths/Computer science department…if appreciate being added to a group or something

Thank you.

LudaChriz:

Sorry I was later told it wasn't lumbar lordosis

Oh, thank you for responding. I’m glad that you are better now.

Could you please share with me what the problem was, maybe I can get a new treatment direction for mine too.

Someone has also told me there may be nothing wrong with my lumbar.

Thank you @LudaChriz

LudaChriz:
Ok

Hello @LudaChriz

Compliments of the season to you.

I read one of your comments on a topic; “Lumbar Lordosis” where you mentioned that you’ve been able to get solution to yours.

I’ve been suffering with this lower left back pain since 2020 and my X-ray results typically has the same explanation as yours. I was given some pain meds, injections and Diclomol gel. I’ve been using them since then but I relapse a lot and i don’t seem to be getting better.

I would be very grateful to connect with you or if you could please put me through what worked for you. Thank you & God bless.

LudaChriz:

Have you any story of an "unreliable" host?

Hello @LudaChriz

Please I have been trying to get your attention on the health post that you made 🙏

LudaChriz:

That's the result up there. I can't post picture here

Hello @LudaChriz

Compliments of the season to you.

I read one of your comments on a topic; “Lumbar Lordosis” where you mentioned that you’ve been able to get solution to yours.

I’ve been suffering with this lower left back pain since 2020 and my X-ray results typically has the same explanation as yours. I was given some pain meds, injections and Diclomol gel. I’ve been using them since then but I relapse a lot and i don’t seem to be getting better.

I would be very grateful to connect with you or if you could please put me through what worked for you. Thank you & God bless.

Hello @LudaChriz

Compliments of the season to you.

I read one of your comments on a topic; “Lumbar Lordosis” where you mentioned that you’ve been able to get solution to yours.

I’ve been suffering with this lower left back pain since 2020 and my X-ray results typically has the same explanation as yours. I was given some pain meds, injections and Diclomol gel. I’ve been using them since then but I relapse a lot and i don’t seem to be getting better.

I would be very grateful to connect with you or if you could please put me through what worked for you. Thank you & God bless.

U1:
@babashifawu wey never marry (wey Shifawu sef?)

I actually came across your post via a quick search on Google like two days ago. Just left the page open in my browser so I don't forget to check later. The decision to carry out that search was because of something similar to this.

A white-garment man (pastor?) told me something similar while at a place I was visiting last week. I would normally not give much thought to something of this sort. But I remembered a dream my younger brother had about 20 years ago along this line and the advice that followed from pa.

Guess what church my brother and pa attended, a white-garment church! Is all this a coincidence? 🤔

@U1

U1:
@babashifawu wey never marry (wey Shifawu sef?)

I actually came across your post via a quick search on Google like two days ago. Just left the page open in my browser so I don't forget to check later. The decision to carry out that search was because of something similar to this.

A white-garment man (pastor?) told me something similar while at a place I was visiting last week. I would normally not give much thought to something of this sort. But I remembered a dream my younger brother had about 20 years ago along this line and the advice that followed from pa.

Guess what church my brother and pa attended, a white-garment church! Is all this a coincidence? 🤔

Shifawu still dey with baba God. She never come down 😂

Can you share more about your experience so we can all learn ? Did they tell you not to get intimate with fair girls too ?

youngfocus:

Good evening boss,life really take a different turn that I don't really use nairaland that much, anyway I have tried as much as possible not to date fair girl I don't even ask them out.life have been good the one I tried to dated Sapa hit me I we broke up, anyway God first b4 any other thing

Thank you very much for shedding more light, @youngfocus . May God continue to direct and bless us all. Amin.

Blue86:
Since you can attest to the fact that your life showed no improvement with them fair skinned ones, why don't you heed the counsel and avoid anything intimate with them?
Shun sexual immorality, and be serious with a black skinned gal.
A dark skinned gal with pink lips or a dark skinned gal with dark lips.

Thank you @Blue86 🙏

LogicBomb8:
What if you get married to a black lady and she later bleach her skin?

Hmn, another angle. Anyways, I don’t think people still do such; Black skin bleaching completely to light skin.

bercarray:
I hope say no be say u wan do like my friend Dami, after f*cking one yellow girl she dey carry that time baba say him prophet tell am make she no marry yellow girl, na so baba take leave the girl.

Haha! Not all. That’s not the case.

Toneypen247:
Hmm.
I will call this a coincidence although, I will not doubt the efficacy and primacy of the metaphysical over humans. However, in your context, skin colour has nothing to do with your downfall or progress. You claimed that you have dated fair girls in the past, what happened during those while? Are you not still alive and possibly doing well in your current state?

Success comes with hard work, dedication, and smartness. Irrespective of the skin pigment, you go suffer if you date the wrong woman. 💯

Shalom👐

Thank you for your contribution @Toneypen247. Honestly, things have been somehow o. I have actually been dating fair ladies all these years 0 and things are looking more like a journey of 1 month is now taking 1 year to achieve. That’s part of the reason i even went for prayers sef.

yrhuhfy113:


Hmmm, all these prophetic churches shaaa


anyway, I HAVE obeyed and also DISOBEYED because I use my head many times.

see, if you like fair ladies, find the one that is genuine.... that is submissive while she has her own money... else OBEY and marry a brown skin lady who has good character and is not jobless or cashless.

MARRIAGE IS NOT BY SKIN COLOR.

I suspect these prophetesses may even be fair in complexion


IF YOU PERCEIVE they are not genuine prophetesses.... pls MARRY FAIR PRETTY LADY WHO GIVES YOU PEACE.

Last last, its still your choice

Thank you for your contributions @yrhuhfy113. In all fairness, the second prophetess did explain to me that if eventually I meet a responsible fair lady that I’m sure of, we will need to make some prayers so as to make things work out well between us.

One thing she kept saying is that i should try to avoid sleeping with fair ladies generally.

Hello Nairalanders.

So, a very long time ago, I followed my mother to her church for general prayers. I was a very young boy then and the prophetess gave me a message to not marry a fair lady anytime I’m ready to get married. She didn’t really explain much.

Years went by and i have been with several fair girls ever since then. I had completely forgotten the whole thing. Even my mom didn’t remember.

Recently, i went for general prayers in another church. I’m in my mid 30’s now. The prophetess in this church mentioned this “don’t marry a fair lady” message again. I had already forgotten and suddenly remembered the first message. This second prophetess now further explained that I should not even have fair ladies as girlfriends not to talk of getting intimate with them. I asked her why and what could be done. She told me it is what my destiny/head says and that marrying a fair lady will make life journey hard for me. Like things will not work out well generally if I keep dating fair ladies or marry them.

I’d like to ask if anyone has been in this same condition before and how did you go about it. Suggestions and opinions are also appreciated. Thanks.

youngfocus:
pls dont mind my grammatical construction,feel free to say anytin u like.
This as been my heart Borden,never disobey ur parent,yea I love my mum nd she loves me too because she give me life to leave,which I knw I will continue to lover her,never disobey ur parent the bible said it is the only law that is attached with,PROMISE.I could remember vividly than that am strong me nd my mum went to is pastor because we attend different church on my kneeling down for the pastor to pray for me the first things that came out of is mouth is that I should not marry a fair girl even I should not even take them as my gf,though than am small,am JST like wat is this man saying.he jst pray for me nd I come back home days went into month,month into years and me to am growing older also.bt I JST began to notice sumtin
After some many year that the pastor av said is own which am very sure my mum will have forgoten the vision,it was just one Monday mornen,who u epp,who u serve,it my phone ringing for me to check the caller.it my mom,as I pick it,it was a surprise to me because my mum never call me as early as that time,as I pick d call.Num= oko Mi good morning hope it not to early I had a dream,BT I will not tell u bt the point there pls nd pls dnt marry a fair girl oooo,my memory immediately wnt back to what the pastor told me than,I Jst said ok,this is were the problem lye nw there is this girl now very fair that we became friend when she come to my shop nd I help her to repair her phone,I like her though, bt she loves me die oooo,even though dis last Sunday she said she is missing me alot and also is phone is faulty cos am an engineer that she is coming to my house which I gave her the address which she came we are both inside my room,I jst make sure I keep my distance to avoid contact the funniest part of it is that there is noting wrong with is phone she JST use it as excuse to come my house guests to d fact dat I dnt go shop on sunday, after so many gisting nd laughing all of a suddenly we jst stop looking at each other eye though I dnt make any move to me is like Satan plan work.she av b calling me now coming to my working place,nd so many green light which she is showing, pls what is ur advise for me base on what i was been told,not that I don't like her but due to what I av heard,and also what is ur view in dating fair girl,when 70% of pastor will say guy should not date a fair girl y are they still bleaching?

Hello, @youngfocus. I am in this same situation. Please can you share how you are able to avoid fair ladies, or has the issue being prayed upon and resolved or are you married now ? I have tried to contact you as well. Thank you 🙏