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Not sure if the OP will get to read this, but I'll be blunt with the truth:

A man who drinks to overcome his family problems will eventually ruin that family. The wife and kids will also suffer and it will affect their future.

Life happens to everyone and I don't blame him at all for the financial challenges... However, he has 100% blame for a decision to start drinking to forget his problems.. it's a selfish and a lazy solution.
If he's truly depressed he should confide in you and take antidepressant drugs and counselling.... then start making attempt to bounce bounce while you stylishly cover his unclothedness financially without letting third parties, including the children, your friends or family know (This is where most women don't do well)

Most domestic violence and abuse are almost always linked to alcohol use. Almost always.
Apart from you being traumatized, your innocent children are already being condemned to grow up with serious psychological trauma, that may eventually affect their personalities, future relationships, self esteem and so on...

I'm not exonerating you too, especially if you are a nagging woman (I hope you are not, if so, stop it) which pushes most men, especially those with low self esteem to alcohol use which they now use to come and confront their wives and cause all sorts of domestic violence and abuse, usually in the presence of the children...

So.. my very blunt advice is for you to leave the marriage.
Let me repeat again. Leave the marriage very early.
Even if he makes it back again, he'll use it to punish you.

It's not because I like single parents or divorce.. but because leaving him now is a lesser evil. The foundation is already faulty.


I am a man, but for the sake of your young children, your sanity and if you want to enjoy your old age, start strategizing now on how to leave.. and leave once your plans are solid.

As for the man, don't hate him.. he's a victim of life plus his inborn personality.. stay in touch with him, send money to him when you can. And let your children have frequent and quality fatherly relationship with him to help their growth

Do the right thing, Mr. Tinubu.

If you don't invade Niger, it may put our democracy at risk.

Joseph the dreamer.

Curse777:
Haaa!!! Make Asari no go do mistake oo, Niger na Desert no creek oo,

The guy and Tompolo just dey chop government money.

Curse777:
Pipeline defense contract loading...

Most likely.

He wants to go and fight Niger soldiers too

Alhaji Asari Mujahid Dokubo was live on Facebook many hours ago to clarify the reports which had always claimed that he has a private military army.


The Kalabari kingdom's chief said, "people need to know that private military companies exist everywhere. I don't know how many times I will repeat this. We have blackwater, Wagner and the likes. As for me, I don't have a private army anywhere; what I have is a private military company that provides security."

Speaking further, Alhaji Asari Mujahid Dokubo said, "in the world today, south Africa has the highest number of private military companies. In mine, we provide security not just for states but for individuals also. I am actually the Chief Executive Officer of mine."

Lastly, Alhaji Asari Mujahid Dokubo said, "if President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu commissions me and my men to go to Niger Republic, we will go there and return victorious because we are not their match."

What are your thoughts about this?

Tinubu is going down the path of Buhari.
The Aso villa demons are at work

I hope it won't be a wasted 4 years that will impoverish Nigerians more

medical Doctor working in the employ of the federal government at University of calabar, was said to have been kidnapped from her clinic while attending to patients.

Details surrounding this incident are still sketchy for now.

Please let's pray for her, her family and her release on time.

Cheap Propaganda!
If you know you know.

So it's only one vessel that Tantita security services have destroyed since all these days?

How many vessels load stolen crude oil per day, not to talk of a week, month or year.

I am typing this with tears in my eyes.
Nigeria is gone.
I supported Tinubu but the analysis I am hearing recently is very sad.

Subsidy was started to put money in the hands of the big men of those days, subsidy is also being removed now to put more money in the hands of the rich and big men of Nigeria of today.

Such a sad situation for my nation and the masses who are so gullible.

Watch closely and you will see clearly the game called Nigeria.


It's sad.

These are bandits in the North. Not the whole Nigeria.

Nigeria is safe... even more than the USA with gun violence killings everywhere.

I trust CNN and Aljazeera and BBC tomorrow, with their hypocrisy, thy will report this news as if Nigeria is burning.

PS: I sympathise with the families of the abducted.. it's nothing pleasant. May they be rescued and released safely soon by God's grace

The Banditry game was paused during the elections. Elections is over and game don resume back.

I hope Jagaban will be able to fix this insecurity issues too, with the help of God.

1. Check into a private psychiatric hospital that is affordable for you.
Ask around, you'll find one.

2. Know that your will is what will save you. The psychiatrist will only help you with counselling and some drugs..but you have the final power to quit.

3. Carry your religious leader and trusted family members along. You'll need their physical and final support. You can't do it alone.

4. Give yourself a target of 1 year. You will relapse, recover, relapse and so on until you will finally recover... Don't ever give up.

Ps: sudden cardiac arrest during one of your normal injections can happen. It's what kills most that we know here

PRINCE TOPE MAGGI!!!. . . . May the universe work in your favour and may you find the success and fortune that you desire... whether from this attempt or other endeavours in your future.

Peace and love for all.

#Positivity #LawOfAttraction #OnlyPositivePosts

Tinubu has hit the ground running.
Interesting days ahead.
NLC strike loading....
Minimum wage still 30k
Fuel now between 500 and 1000 naira

Now we understand their Tinubu statement that..... "I will hit the ground running", day 2- keep running, day 3 - don't rest.

Nigerians should fasten their seat belts because we go run tire for this Tinubu tenure Ooo.....

"Take me to Mama" was my favourite of your movies.
Good people don't last.
RIP legend.

For Gen Z who may not know him, he's the guy on this VCD (b4 Netflix)

Peter Obi really messed up big time. He wants to "Yes daddy" his way into power.
I regret supporting him right now.
With that his upper Iweka accent, there's nothing presidential about the religious and tribal bigot sef.

I am a Yoruba Christian, I voted for Peter Obi but I now fully support the constitutionally elected President and his Vice, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu and Kashim Shettima.

My only prayer for Asiwaju Tinubu now is for God to grant him good health. Trust me, he'll perform beyond most people's expectations.

If it makes you happy, keep it secret!

Bad

Bad

Sorry Rudeboy, I am a big fan...

But I thought by now you would have corrected your brothers and sisters who have been shouting that Lagos is a NO MAN’S LAND

That's bad.

[As seen on another page]


You guys shouldn’t have said that Lagos is a no man’s land.


Lagos is NOT a “NO MAN’S LAND …. and will never be!

Anambra is not a “NO MAN’S LAND

Kano is not a “NO MAN’S LAND

Bayelsa is not a “NO MAN’S LAND

London is not a “NO MAN’S LAND

New York is not a “NO MAN’S LAND

Durban, South Africa is not a “NO MAN’S LAND

Malaysia is not a “NO MAN’S LAND


The same attitude that you guys are using to cause problems and give Nigeria a bad name in South Africa, Malaysia and so on is what you are now repeating in Lagos.

You guys need to do an introspection and examine yourselves, especially your foolish toxic - tribalistic dominance mentality.

Look at the first military coup in Nigerian and the role you guys played? That was the beginning of Nigeria’s mess that we are still trying to get out from..

Also look at the civil war when you guys wanted to leave Nigeria and betray the federation just because CRUDE OIL had just been discovered from your region (NB: The first oil well, Olobiri oil well was in old eastern region)

You guys are PERPETRATORS of problems in Nigeria and NOT VICTIMS.

At least after today’s election, that your foolish sense of over-importance will reduce.

You have lost the presidential election, you’ll lose Lagos too today.

You have awoken the ethnic and tribal consciousness in most of us, including our highly intelligent youths who don’t normally bother about things like this before.

Bad

Bad

Spiritual advice:

■Best age for girls to marry (I.e. their peak of beauty and maturity) = 22 years to 28 years

■Best age for boys to marry (i. e. their peak of success, wisdom, physicality and maturity) = 32 years to 38 years.


■If you were a girl, then I would have advised you to marry, but as a boy, you still need at least 8 years (minimum) to get to your peak.

■Don't let that your account balance deceive you, you haven't reached the peak of your potential yet and if you marry now, it will slow you down because your babe will be at her peak by now and rule (/and ruin) your kingdom for you.

We the Obidients have been drinking alcohol for the past 5 days, please check on us?


Nice Jam tho. Libianca baby.❤

1Sharon:
When I said you, I meant men In general not you specifically.

A man cannot just call himself an "entrepreneur". Its too vague, they need to be specific.

Instead say "I'm the ceo of so and so", or " I'm into so and so"

Men that just say they're entrepreneurs are trying to pull the wool over peoples eyes, it's all smokes and mirrors, the more you look the less you see.

But do you agree with his last point?
A real entrepreneur today can become poor tomorrow.
A "poor" doorman today can become a wealthy man today.

The point is that " current occupation" should be the least attribute to lookout for in a potential partner.

Look deeper at their focus, motivation, psychology, how self driven they are, dreams, goals, passion, maturity.

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Will you change your life and how you live now, if you realise that there's no heaven or hell after this your life.

You die and it ends.

Yes and No

It's not the cowries of red clothes charms or human blood rituals that work... it's your believe in them, the divine charges these materials carry and how they affect your believe and mind.

The real juju is your mind.

The mind is the greatest superpower.. it's a mirror of God in man.

Every juju rituals aim, including blood money, is to affect your mind.

The level of your believe in a charm will have effect on it's potency.
The same way the level of your believe on your prayers will have effect on it's potency.

So the answer is Yes and No.

Looking at the comments here, Alex reports go dey cry.

If you are to vote today, who will you vote for?



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