₦airaland Forum

Porksupplyib:
Note, I am not saying Doctors shouldn't be allowed to leave, but they should serve the country and the people for some years.
Tax payers money paid part of that training.

press9jatv:
but it’s very Rare for a man to state here that a woman raped him. Very rare in this generation

press9jatv:
hmm 🤔 very deep

press9jatv:
Hmm 🤔

I was raped by my colleague, actor Lala alleges


Popular Nigerian actor and media personality, Olatunde Olabowale-David, also known as Lala 1, has alleged that a colleague once raped him.

The actor shared his traumatic experience of being raped by a female colleague in the broadcasting industry on his podcast “I go yearn my own”, which was posted on YouTube on Friday.

According to Lala 1, he was raped by a colleague, which has left him traumatised and experiencing momentary panic whenever he sees her.

Lala 1 stated that naming the rapist now will bring him criticism for not speaking out earlier but doing so now that the said person is an established figure in the industry.

He noted that men often respond to sexual assault with denial, anger and depression , before acceptance, highlighting the complexities of trauma and recovery.

He said, “I hardly ever say this, and I am not even ready to tell the full story. The stories of sexual assault. When I discussed it with my son yesterday, he held my hand and said, ‘Daddy, you’ve gone through so much.’ And I said I had.

“I remember how many of those things I have to relive. I have been raped only once in my life, and I was raped by a colleague. I see her every other day. Do you know how traumatized I am? When I see her, I just get into this momentary panic


“But if a man of my calibre named her, she’s an established person in the broadcast industry, won’t people say, ‘How come I didn’t speak about it for all these six years until now that she’s taking a prominent TV position?’

“When sexual assault happens to men, the first thing to happen is denial. The next thing is anger and self-blaming.”


Original article:
https://punchng.com/i-was-raped-by-my-colleague-actress-lolo-1-alleges/?amp

Babatindan:
Trying to use sexual harassment to bring men down is what we should collectively go against. That's witchcraft

*An emir was kiidnaped and N1 billion ransom in cash was demanded.*

Demand was not met and the emir was killed.

Son asked for the corpse of the murdered Emir.

Kidnappers demands N60 million and 6 motorbikes as ransom for the ded bodi of the killed emir

In all these going on, we have SSS, DSS, FIB, CID, EFCC, ICPC,

Army, Navy, Air force and other paramilitaries

The kidnappers were discussing on phone with the family of the kiidnaped emir just as they've been doing all over the country

We have ministers of communication, telecommunications, information and others that have access to service providers

In fact we have minister Bosun Tijani that they hyped and over hyped as computer guru.

So if we can't track calls made by kidnappers and know their location in this modern era, what's the use of communication, telecommunications, information and other nonsense ministries?

*Rest in peace Emir of Gobir*