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signor11:
I sure did
Have seen 6 movies already on the 7th
And hope you did too

Whao! You must be a movie addict.
I watched only one and I did not even concentrate on it before I went out.
I sure did.

zyzxx:
wonderful indeed
i won card just nw @ d dairy section award tread

Whao! That's nice.
Double celebration things.

Missmossy:
Same to you hun


Hope you kept our promise?


Tell me

Amen!
You are welcome
Hahhaha! Did I promise anything? *still thinking* the conversation cleared off when I changed my battery.

zyzxx:
nasooo
i must take jedi tommorow oo

Abi o.
Pls do. It is neccessary.

zyzxx:
hope you don't eat much?

I did o! Hehehehe
Abi na.
Wetin man pikin go do?
And I told Missmossy too, to remember to take agbo jedi.

zyzxx:
same to you

Amen.
Thanks buddy.

signor11:
Thanks same to you too

You are welcome.
Hope you had fun?

Already, rules are permitted to be broken today.


*Merry christmas to you all.
@Zyzxx, I sight you o, how you dey?*

Merry christmas everyone!

SegunMike:
Everything is fair in Love and War

*Watching you lovebirds in 7D *

War of attrition.

*zyzxx, gud pm to you too*

Tommywa2:
words are not enough to express how I feel about you
*zoomman broke the rules. You were supposed to start with Best not The Best

You can say that again!

*@ShahzadNonso: Nah.... I meant in the non-literal sense, which means, I will support you*

judedwriter:
Looks like d guy is introverted; either a phlegmatic or melancholy. Obviously he has already made up his mind on what to do and is waiting for d right day to execute it. If I were u, I would seek d support of friends and family to console him before the egg hatches

Exactly! It is only an introvert that will keep quiet like that (still water runs deep).
An extrovert would have gone ballistic on her before it get cold.

Hahahaha! Very funny!

zyzxx:
hell no, we will all enjoy it..

* same to u lovely bro *

It is a known fact that he lives a jet-set lifestyle.

*@SegunMike- same to you.
@shahzadNonso- Don't worry, just visit them from time to time. They are family.
Dey go, I dey your back. *

ShahzadNonso:
City of hurried and glittering tides! City whose gleeful tides continually rush or recede, whirling in and out, with eddies and foam!
City of wharves and stores! city of tall façades of marble and iron! Proud and passionate city! mettlesome, mad, extravagant city!
Spring up, O city! not for peace alone, but be indeed yourself, warlike!

Warlike or no warlike, ShahzadNonso, you are needed at the poetry section.

I had always wanted to be an accountant. And that is what I studied. I am so happy about that!

My father actually influenced my career choice. It was his secret wishes and one of his deepest desire to have me study accountancy. He likes the profession so much and he normally hold accountants in high esteem. When I was very young he was always giving me sermon on how lucrative the profession is.....blah blah blah. All these spark my lifelong interest in the profession.

I remember when I wanted to enter SS1. And I came home to tell him I was recommended to go to science class. Come and see the look on his face, he said,'you are not serious, go and change it to commercial class jor'. And I was like if not that I had already liked accountancy profession, is this how my papi is going to force me?

I would choose that career path over and over again!

zoomman:
Family is the foremost part of our lives

Lives are sacred.

The first time you hit headline (for good thing)

What is in a name? Everything is in a name.
Yes, it does. Our names have great influence on our destiny.
It is a trend I have noticed in some people's lives. I have discussed this same topic with someone before, the person also has some names that he said, he can/can't give to his children,because of it's positivity/negativity in some people lives.

It is no wonder Romans says:[nomen est omen] it means: Name is destiny. Because they have noticed it too.
Some parents gave their children names that they don't know the meaning of, simply because they like the sound of such names. There is power in the tongue,if you call a person a particular name, it sometimes have effect on such peoples life. So we have to be mindful of names we give people.

Medunah:
Wooow, they all look beautiful but doesnt he have a son too?

He has a son and four daughters.

Really? *scratches head* That is a new one on me!

dre11:
See a well crafted scope by a woman
I will never fall for that trap.. ..... I have become wiser

As per the gifts.. ..... U can come to my crib and collect it
Just make sure you don't bring another along

Haba! Scope ke? Why don't you just believe me for once?

Erm.....erm..... It will be more romantic, if you just package it with flowers and engraved love card and send it through courier.
Whalai, courier delivery is the best method.

mystiqueDZ:
Me don't understand you...

You should never accept failure. No matter how many times it visits you. Never say die. Never say never!

dre11:
U just define what I wanted to hear before........

Don't worry, I wanted to test you with that mention of the word beetle

But, you fail.. .... Let me unpack all the gift I have brought and was trying to send.. ...

I knew you wanted to test me nah. That was why I said that.
Dre Dre, mah lovely darling!
My chocomilo, my creamberry, my sweetie
How are you? Have you eaten? Hope you are ok? Sebi you know I cares.

Since you know I was only joking, don't unpack o.
So when should I be expecting the gifts.

plaetton:
Nonsense.
This is the problem with women nowadays.
Anyone who understands the natural bonds between mothers and male children would not fret and feel threatened by the dynamics of this bond.

It always puzzles me when wives see their mother inlaws as the other women, and then subconsciously compete with them for the man's love and attention. It is ignorant and insecurity.

Why do women tend to feel insecure when a son who regularly eats his mother's food?

Mom's food is always the best and most nourishing to everyman. It is psychological, in the same way that every son and daughter rate their moms as the best in world.

Get over it, women.

A woman should not complain, if her husband go to his mother's house to eat once in a while. But the problem is, if he goes there always. If it has become an habitual thing (That is the question the OP is asking).

To start with, why would a married man always go to his mama house to eat? Doesn't that sound weird to you? Doesn't that portend trouble in such marriage?
For the man to start eating at his mother's place always can mean:
1)The woman does not know how to cook.
2)He is punishing the wife due to misunderstanding between them.
3) He is not happy at home.

The family that eats together stays together. Eating together also bonds couple.
I expect a good mother to raise eyebrow, if your son is always coming to your place to eat. It's one of those things that crumbles marriage. You should ask questions,because it could be a sign of the factors i listed above and try to settle whatever the problem is for them. It is not a good sign at all. And married men who does that are MUMMY's BOY. One of the signs a single lady should look out for before marrying.
If you are in a gathering of your friends and everyone is talking about the exceptional roles their wives are playing in their lives(including being a good cook) you will be talking about your mother's cooking) abi? Mind you the wife also has a good cook as a mother, she left her to have her own family and you that she sacrificed for prefer to always go to your mother's house to eat. How do you want her to feel?

Think hard!!!

If a married man always go to his mother's house for food. Then, that is the beginning of the end of such marriage.

Keeping you away from family and friends.
Nagging.
Acoholism.

However,all these should be discussed and worked upon by both parties.
Intolerance should not automatically lead to divorce. Except, it is detrimental to the health of the other partner.

I vote DaveP and Trypa
CC: Jbluv55

Rubbish! Utter rubbish!
Benefit ko, detriment ni.











I know, its men that will read and digest the five benefits. The benefits is for them. Na their stock in trade.
Won ti gbe nkan ti e mon je de.

hazel01:
I love him to the extent that I don't have any male friends or encourage other guys into thinking I would date them,this same guy forgot my birthday, and went to camp and start crushing on a girl, he collected her number and told me he would start working on her if I eff up, by the way this is not the first time he would blame me for his mistakes and not accept his fault after giving me silent treatment I would end up begging him,I guess he got used to that

He treated you like this and you think he is still in love with you? This relationship is so one-sided. He doesn't respect you and he is taking you for granted. Coupled with the silent treatment stuff, if you should marry him,he will make your life so miserable.
You did not make a rash decision and don't go to him first,or else you will only reduce your self-worth, since he has made it an habit.
If he comes back to you, you need to go into serious discussions with him about his behaviour. There are some things you should not digest.

teewai3:
friendship is a relationship between friends...

Friends can be chosen, but you can't choose your family.

dre11:
Me and you know Wetin you do


Welcome to a new Friday
Are we going out this weekend

••••••••so, I can go and get mah beetle from the mechanic workshop•••••••

Awww! Just seeing your message.

Yes, We can still go out tomorrow.

But the condition is: if it is not porsche, don't bother yourself.
Don't bring beetle near me o.



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