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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Nobody: 5:00pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
Disrespect encompasses all! If u respect me, u won't do any of those. Disrespect me n watch me walk away. |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Wallade(m): 5:02pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
So, if I will not tolerate any of these and it eventually happens, what do I do? Quit the marriage! Do you think anyone has absolute control over these factors in marriage? Your advice is sick. 1 Like |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by abbey621(m): 5:03pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
I see a lot of topics on nairaland with good intentions but bad delivery. This is one of them, I don't know why people still believe that relationships/marital problems can be solved using a one shoe fits all approach. What works for peter might not work for paul. 95% of all relationships are flawed with one or more of the items listed and yet when you ask the couples, they would not trade their relationship for anything in the world. With my little understanding of this phenomenon called love, I have come to realize that it is unpredictable. If your heart is not capable of understanding, forgiveness and tolerance then you will remain bitter, alone and miserable in life. Many of the Whites would have us believe that love is a fairy tale but in reality love is what you make of it, can you withstand the rainy days? Can you work through the difficulties in order to enjoy the promise of a better tomorrow? If you leave your partner due to a mistake, who is to say the next object of your affection won't make the same mistakes? 3 Likes |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by prophetfire: 5:05pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
geborenzie:"I can already seeing it".pls your english is just too bad.and my comment was not on your miserable life but on the op.why did you jump into a conversation dt does not concern you?you should have waited for the op that understands english to reply.once again,your english is pathetic-has a very terrible odour. 1 Like |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by geborenzie: 5:11pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
prophetfire:my English was not correct yet you could understand and comment on it weird very weird any way you too will have a miserable life 2 Likes |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by siegfried99(m): 5:48pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
Hmmm.. am I the only thinking this advice is one sided? The Op keeps mentioning..."He/ Him".... instead of him/her 1 Like |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by DollyParton1(f): 5:57pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
uzobaby:shiiitt!!! Why do you have to tolerate someone for the rest of ur life? Dammmmmit... who is teaching our girls this nonsense? I believe the word u are looking for is compromise on both sides. |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by AfricanApple(f): 6:21pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
when u break up with someone becos he cheated on you, and u do dsame to the next person for the same reason, for how long will you keep moving 1 Like |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by mastertunji(m): 6:21pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
No wonder many marriages break up today. A writer said when he visited a court, he was surprised to see that those filing for divorce were far more than those applying for marriage certifictate. If our fore fathers didn't learn tolerance, most of us would have been affected with d trauma of a broken home. They learnt how 2 keep their homes together despite lies and cheats 4rm their spouses. Mind u, if u marry & divorce 100 times, u will still find one fault or d other 4rm ur last spouse. So, shine ur eye & look b4 u leap. Or if u can't tolerate wahala, u better be celibate 2 Likes |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Babe2sure(f): 6:26pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
Keeping you away from family and friends. Nagging. Acoholism. However,all these should be discussed and worked upon by both parties. Intolerance should not automatically lead to divorce. Except, it is detrimental to the health of the other partner. 1 Like |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by fullblast(m): 6:33pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
merits:how old is your marriage? |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by okirewaju(f): 6:36pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
Abeg add stingyness to the list OP |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Harmvirus(f): 6:42pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
nice. Op, thanks for sharing |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Ataime16(m): 7:05pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by fullblast(m): 7:13pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
abbey621:I really appreciate and respect your words of wisdom. |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Missmossy(f): 7:18pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
I completely agree, the first point is very crucial 2 Likes |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Dagah2: 8:25pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
nice tips |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Dagah2: 8:26pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
Missmossy:yea |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by mcdokwe(m): 8:30pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
I wonder y d op made it sound like the traits are exhibited by male partners only |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Nobody: 8:38pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
People who disagree with the post are trying to tell us they have one or two of the above faults. Some of them have such lifestyles and believe that as long it is who they are, whoever marries them must tolerate all these horrible vices. THEY HAVE FORGOTTEN THAT THESE ARE THE VICES THAT DESTROY MARRIAGES. This is the problem we have as Nigerians. Our orientation towards marriage is very bad. we dnt believe in change or making things right. everything has to be managed. No wonder the stories that touch surrounding relationships and marriages are too many. |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by prophetfire: 9:19pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
geborenzie:pls stop poking your nose into a matter that does not concern you.you seem to enjoy chating with me.go away cos I dnt enjoy you. |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by martin92(m): 10:11pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
oh really |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by exe0(m): 11:20pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
I RESIST TEMPTATION I WILL NOT COMMENT |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by exe0(m): 11:20pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
I RESIST TEMPTATION I WILL NOT COMMENT |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by exe0(m): 11:20pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
I RESIST TEMPTATION I WILL NOT COMMENT |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Motolank: 12:42am On Dec 15, 2014 |
prophetfire:You sounded hurt? What he wrote touched you?? Change pls, they are bad habits |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Nobody: 6:16am On Dec 15, 2014 |
AJOT99: You just said it! Little foxes that spoils the vine. |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by yemivictor: 8:46am On Dec 15, 2014 |
holatin: Yuck! |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by holatin(m): 8:50am On Dec 15, 2014 |
yemivictor:pls no vomit on my floor |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Callfubu(m): 9:23am On Dec 15, 2014 |
Why didn't the OP say the thread was for women only? Are you sure she isn't a feminist? Tho they are all true but the ways she suggested they be handled is mostly absurd. |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by prophetfire: 4:29pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Motolank:"sounded"? Change pls,thats bad english. |
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Motolank: 10:01pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
prophetfire:'thats' ?? |
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