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Proserpina:
Original follow come clowns who want to eat their cake and have it.

pansophist:
I like the softening nature of women.

You go see a hard man wey stingy like tortoise, greedy to the core and hardly smile, but one girl go just hold his button like remote, and he will melt like butter in her presence.

See Ned, as he big reach, na one small Regina dey handle am. If I beg am for 2k, he fit jam me with his motorcade, but Regina? he go carry her go Paris.

If women do not exist in men's life, Men's live will be mechanical, lacking flavour, fun and colour. Take the military as an example, where it is too structured and machinistic, just because its a male domain.

Women also have an andrenaline factor on men. Women makes lots of men work very hard financially and in the gym, either to take care of her, to woo her, and be the favour of her eyes.

Achor1111:
Quick recovery disgruntled fellow!

Achor1111:
The attitude of NL mods is becoming worrisome.

dustmalik:
And you are coming here to tell us? I don't blame you, I blame the mod that pushed this nonsense to FP.

Some of you will never learn anything, no matter what. upon all the problems Nigeria has today, it's your useless girlfriend issue you're bringing here.

BigDawsNet:
I have never beg a lady to stay in a relationship but I actually broke that record when I met a lady from SS... Beautiful, mature and awesome....

I don't wanna lose her so I had to beg

I remember she called me a name... It's was a language I don't understand but the meaning is "Bf Begging for love" when translated...
then I knew I din't deserve the mess .

She even told me...as I am begging it's making her feel superior and been worshiped... I asked why?

She said when she was still young and shinning in her teens... She remember begging guys not to break her heart and she took lots of shiit for granted just to stay in relationships...so right now it's payback time...

And I was like so you wanna payback time on innocent me?... Is it a crime to love you?...

Omo na so I just logout

Henry2405:
Were you there ? 😂

Bostin:
Some years ago I posted a story of how my baby mama left me because I was broke ... Since then she had blocked me from reaching her or the child ..This year she unblocked me on Whatsapp which I didn't know her motives .

But for the sake of peace and maturity I decided to play along . This lady actually thought I'm still very broke and never progress which is her wish for me according to this chat . But to God be the glory , I am progressing.

Please read and learn especially you that want to settle for single mothers .

Nonexisting1:
Brother. It was a phase in my life that whenever I remember it now, I feel like condemning myself to a firing squad. It's why I don't entirely condemn younger simps. They need to pass through that phase. The simps that annoy me are the ones above 26yrs.

Nonexisting1:
Funny thing is that only men they cheat with fucck them silly like this. The good boyfriend first spends heavily on dinner dates, spends on buying flowers to spray on bed, then fuccks her slowly while asking, are you hurt? If she says yes, he quickly removes his dick and starts petting her. Simps don't deserve to share this earth with us.

Rizzputin:
Congrats. Your comment just made it into my list of most ignorant, shallow comments on this thread.

And this is part of the reason why red pill tends to be detrimental to men. It makes you put women into one sided boxes.

Btw, this is not a case of where we can have different opinions. What you said is completely stùpid. And shows you have little experience with how women think.

Now let me break down for you...

First, only gold diggers see men as provider or non provider. Unless you're a clown, why would you pick a gold digger as a wife?
There are many things men bring to a relationship that women appreciate men for. You sound clueless when you say women see men as provider or not. Those are for gold diggers


Second, women CARE about how you respond to adversity or challenges. Because safety is important to her and how you respond is a show of your strength. So it is important to women


Third, by confidence... I mean you continue how you were behaving before you were unable to provide.

You make the decisions like you used to. If you really have game, she'll even send part of her salary money to your account. In fact, you'll dictate how her money is spent.

I've seen this happen on different occasions. A woman spending and taking care of her man for two years till he bounced back. All that matters is how you conduct and lead that relationship



Fourth ... "if you're lucky" is the cry of a man without skill... luck plays some role but nothing compared or significant to how you conduct yourself

The problem with most men is they place their self worth on providing. Once they're unable to... they become a shadow of themselves. They start acting in ways that even shocks the woman

A once confident, vibrant man is now a shadow of himself because he doesn't have money: That is the reason why she starts thinking of leaving

Even if she's the one footing the bills.... You can't sit there and do nothing or act depressed. That's how you invite see finish

If you actually have game, she will even give you money to start things up

And lastly, everything depends on the frame. If you start and base a relationship on money or providing then that is your problem and your fault

There are way more effective ways to frame a relationship besides money.

Stop placing your self worth on money alone. Later you guys complain why women bill you when you're implying that is money what makes you

As the saying goes "who use money buy love no dey pay finish"

alberto2k:
Bae, am not being Bias... They bottom line of my opinion is >
Its bro over hoes

Tayorshd87:
God bless u bro 😹

Only the matured once will understand your last bolded statement

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Zonefree:


What's the percentage of Nigerian girls that want to work and earn after marriage?

Na condition make few of them dey hustle after marriage.

Nigerian women as girls, have always envisioned the life of "Odogwu's wife". This has always been their dream right from foetus stage . They did not come this life to suffer, that's their mantra.

About 99.8943% of Nairaland girls wish to be in Regina Daniel's position. Fly PJs, flaunt designer bags, wear expensive wigs on a block head, just for answering "Odogwu's wife".


No girl wants to work and suffer in the name of chasing her dream. What nonsense dream?

Women chase their dream for survival while men chase their dream for passion.

When a woman luckily survive poverty by getting married to a wealthy man, her dream becomes inconsequential.

Karlifate:
Dear [young] men,

There's no point of having a girlfriend or a fleet of women if you have no direction in life & still confused about your identity.

Women are to enhance your life, not define your life.

👌💯


In summary: Purpose over pussy.

KingEarnest:
If she no f#ck oh
If she no suck
Who go pay for her wig and handbag

Lagusta:
Oh that's nice

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ubunja:
whether one wants to be a husband or player he needs to understand all of the Red Pill. And he needs to understand Game. Being a husband does not mean you must shut down your intellectual self. You still need to understand female nature to keep from being played even by your own wife. That's something husbands always overlook. Whether atheist or Christian the Red Pill and all its subsets must be vigorously studied.

Why do you think Pastors are slaying all the Pussy of their female members? Because Christian men tell themselves its enough that they're Christian and don't need to study women and game them. Even your wife needs to be gamed to stay by your side.

Lagusta:
Unilorin

Lol, you quoted my 10yr old post 😅

siofra:
So, after dating Muslim guys and Christian guys I've finally come to a conclusion on which is better.


Pros of dating a Muslim guy
1. They're providers through and through. They take providing very seriously (at least the ones I've met) You can comfortably be a housewife if you marry a Muslim. Unlike Christian men that will make you contribute to the upkeep of the household while still doing other domestic activities like cooking, washing, taking of the kids singlehandedly. With a Muslim man you can hire maids and still be a housewife.

2. They will never touch you inappropriately. This is what irks me when it comes to these so-called Christian men. They will say they are Christians but see nothing wrong with fornication. If you don't have sex with them, they break up with you. Very disgusting!! Muslim men will hardly touch you if they're not married to you much less have sex with you. They will have the desire, you will see it in their eyes but they will not act on it. They have better self-control than Christian men.

3. They don't joke with marriage. What I mean is a Muslim guy can get married to you within 3 months of meeting you. He won't engage you for 10 years like many Christian guys do.



Cons
1. Many of them are very misogynistic (not all though). They believe women belong in the kitchen (literally). They still believe you should be seen not heard.

2. He might beat you up and justify it with the Qur'an and unlike Christianity that frowns on domestic violence, Islam doesn't really frown on it.

3. They commit adultery too much. They are not into fornication but adultery? O mai Gawd!!!

4. He's likely to marry more wives in addition to you. Many women do not like this. I don't mind as long as he's a billionaire.

5. They're very jealous and possessive. Omo! This one tire me. You'll have to account for every male friend you have. It will reach a point he won't even want another guy to greet you. You go explain tire. He'll start to behave as if he owns you.

I'll never marry a Muslim though unless he's a billionaire and won't make me change my religion.

Lagusta:
i dont watch porn, i just finished medical school, so i know what i am saying....

Imagine ooo, i neva become doctor ooo, what if i am now inducted, na matron go follow baa

Magnoliaa:
So all men are the same? And are relatively ass.hol.es?



Because if you believe there are good, 'nice' guys, what is always informing y'all fantasies of women meeting a 'badder' man? Anytime a lady breaks up, you people start obsessing over her meeting a bad man.

But anytime a lady is in a relationship with a bad man, you start haranguing her to break up with him and come for good guys like you.

What gives? Like, make it make sense, please.


Or you will agree with me that if a lady breaks up, then sometimes it is for the good, and she meets a better man.

youngsahito:
Both of una no well at all.

Prettygirl200:
You guys should ashamed of yourself oo, I dey always talk this thing no be to carry prick for front make person man. Most of u here think nd behave children while others behave like women. Always disturbing their peace. It's just too much weder na hardship make una dey pour una frustration for here I no even understand.

Prettygirl200:
Feeling guilty for what? Are u guys not ashamed of yourself? Why carry a woman's problem on your head like governments work. U all are not called men for nothing make una dey behave like one. To dey carry prick for front no be him be the issue. Haaaa God na wa ooo