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Robi65:
I see broke guys coming to Nairaland to rant about girlfriends or wives leaving them for another dick or even secretly doing it while still with them
Let me make it clear today , a lady who grows up with poor parents and family is not looking for love, she is looking for a better life , not for herself but for her coming generation
You as a man wants to cuddle and thrust, no! She is not looking for that, she probably suffers trauma from how her father being shamed for not paying up on time for a paint bucket of Garri, or how her mother is ridiculed in neighborhoods for wearing rag
Such lady or girl would be stupid if she grows up and start looking for love … she needs money
So guys , stop being selfish, if you do not have money, girls are not meant for you , they are for those with something to offer

Kantebets:
u don’t have sense
You have nothing to offer aside your overused wide kpekus

purehustle101:
Being broke is the only thing you should have sleepless night for., there's nothing like break up.

Rozross:
Ok I get you now and it’s also true. Good character is the first stage of attraction not cars and clean house .

Worriedguy6699:
What is wrong with women? Continuation from last thread. https://www.nairaland.com/7337097/just-broke-up-girlfriend-middle

After breaking up with her, we argued for a while, and she became aggressive cause it was middle of the night and I can't kick her out. She laid on top my body begging for mercy. All I could think of was how her weight was crushing my lungs and compressing my stomach to the point that I was releasing gas while she was talking. Thank lord for my exoskeleton.

I knew it was manipulation tactics, so I didn't budge. I maintained frame. She then got up and stayed silent for like 10 minutes without moving.

I was worried if she was dead, but when I got close, she was crying silently, her face was covered in tears. I felt bad, but I told her there's not much I can give her, because despite what I've done, she's still spreading her "wings". She swore they're just chats and I'm misunderstanding them.

My girl is extremely present when I call on her. She leaves everything to attend to me. She has other good parts too.

Anyways, she went and curled up by the edge of the wall. I didn't know what she was doing there. I left her for 30 minutes. I felt uncomfortable so I went to check on her. Her whole body was soaked with tears, she's been crying silently again.

I was filled with pity. I made her understand that I want her to be free to be with other guys. I didn't want to lock her up because of relationship. I told her taht her heart/pussy wants to experience freedom, but she wasn't having any of that.

Then she said, "What is life without you." I tried to convince her life would get better after a while. She went back to sobbing quietly. I gave up. I was terrified. She said she's not leaving that place. Omo, I needed to sleep.

I don't want to wake up to a dead girl in my room. So I asked her to promise me that she will never do it again. She did. I just had to say anything to make her okay. She eventually came to bed held me tight and slept off.

I will break up with her when she's out of my house.

Rozross:
Be very alert because some desperate man will tell you he’s a virgin just so he can trap you. A certain nairalander almost deceived me with that line till I figured him out as a liar and a deceit. Virgin men are very hard to come by.

Xhurskid:
Bola Tinubu