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esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum.
So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.

To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks

As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.

There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling.
Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have normal sex like any other lady out there?

I just detest having sex with a guy and it's as a result of this that I've lost most of my relationships. This stuff is making me sick cuz I want to enjoy sex with a man like any other lady.

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex

And the ladies are not even helping matters cuz they also yearn for me every now and then.,
,
I've tried hanging out with some cool guyz even to the extent of doing stuff with them YET! Nothing positive came out.

Presently,am dating a banker and believe me every other thing is perfectly in order EXCEPT the issue of sex.

Am worried cuz I know exactly what it means for someone you love so dearly to deny you of something.

I've prayed
I've also cried my eyes out
I've even gone for counselling @least to ameloriate this kind of lifestyle YET! Things are still the same.
Someone should pls tell me what else to do...

Lalasticlala

MISSCONGENIALITY:
what sense again. Was expecting u to invite her practical Bedmatics and u are here giving her sense

Toks2008:
I read that they no longer do that.

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum.
So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.

To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks

As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.

There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling.
Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have a normal sex like any other lady out there?

NoLoveLost:
I met Precious (not real name) and we started dating around early april 2015, which was a semester ago in my school. We are both from average backgrounds. All through out the previous semester, she was always at my rented appartment off campus (like couples life ) although she has her own apartment which she shares with her sister. We do everything together; walking to school, eating. Playing, enjoying etc.

As the guy, i was catering for both of us from my stipend allowances and money i earn from jobs i do for my clients online so i was rarely broke. We didn't have much, but we had enough. Throughout a whole semester, i never could prove that my gf had a bank account, she never talked about visiting d bank or atm, neither did i ever saw a bank sms of any sort on her phone (I just got to observe, i wasn't checking her phone due to suspision). At a point i had to ask her if she wasn't a ghost, cos she had no financial record that i could pick upon. But all these while, she uses money to do some stuffs, which i didn't give to her which made me know that she receives money.

There was no problem at all until this semester, when i stopped doing online works due to my academics, and then due to the fact that she stays with me, my allowances no longer have impact on "our" expenses. Now its always like whenever am broke, then she's broke. There aint no remedy of no sort. The allowance for one person is been spent by two, the foodstuff for one person is been consumed by two and now its like we are living from hand to mouth. Although at countable times, she had brought some bit of foodstuffs from her house for us, we always remained broke until i get money. Now whenever she receives money, she plans it and pays all manner of church dues, association due, department and faculty due, dues for church vest etc. Whereas when i receive money, i get foodstuffs and other necessary things we would need, thereby neglecting my own bills and "dues". She even always indulge me on what to do with the money cos she's always aware when i get money but i do not always know about hers.

Recently i tried confronting her on the issue, and she was kinda "lackadaisika", telling me that am the guy and its my responsibility and all that. Truth be told, i love this girl, but she's wrecking me financially (at least for now), what can i do about it? Is she a wife material? Say i become fortunate in future, can i still pick on her? Am i been irresponsible?

Please relate your opinions in the most sensible manner, no insults allowed. Thanks

Cc lalasticlala

ideyhere:
As I no go fit dey water soap enter my eye, I go for none. Besides OP, everybody daydreams once in a while...but do you have to carry your own daydreams to NL

Kayoski:
Sorry bro,this isn't an issue so I have no take...

Kayoski:
This thread has no future

toyese01:
Yes my bro, nothing like 1,1X 12,2 2X nooo, it must be †̥ђε one with the highest odd 2/1

Double winning

raayah:
Number 1 With a collection of dildoos

Harbosede02:
None

pongwa:
I go for none, woman finish ni?



this topic is not worthy of FP walahi try harder OP

LaDivva:
I don't see any issue in dating or getting married to an undergraduate, it's all about choice though. I'm in 400level and will be getting married in few weeks time, have been dating my hubby for more than two years now and have never cheated on him for once. We have real love for each other and have never regretted being with each other for even a minute.

wordbank:
U just don't have a clue of whatever u r saying
Maybe it's ur level

wordbank:
Are u a learner?
Iwu umu aka?
Working class anyday anytime

IHate9ja1:
Either lower or pass,you would get to that position God has destined for you,by strength shall no man prevail,do your best and leave the rest. Most importantly right here in Ph getting a job(majority I have seen) got their jobs(he got pass in biochem,he worked as a contract staff in spie and few other offshore jobs I think he has d swimming cert and h.se cert,he recently did instrumentation course though he his out of job for now) via an inside man;getting your cv in the right hands who are part of the decision makers who can vouch for you .I don't need to work in an oil and gas firm to make it in life neither do I need an american visa as majority thinks!
Diff strokes for diff folks,some wld get to the top by their own step and sweat,many others would get to that same top with the help of Gods divine connection to influential persons. Finally in all we do let's pray to God for direction . Very soon I look forward to testify to the name of God who has never failed me despite my shortcomings!

kingk:
Am listening live here in festac town. Long live biafra.

chesterlee:
The RBL/IPOB media Power house wish to
announce to the world that Finally Radio Biafra
have HIT Lagos AIRWAVES , We shall Hit ABUJA
AIRWAVES Next Week.
This Gospel of Biafra Redemption is now LIVE on
Radio BIafra in LAGOS on (CHK 89.1 FM) We are
formidable and Biafra restoration is our QUEST.
Share this message extensively and tell every
one.. i expect that each and every one of you
have this message shared on your respective
walls. we need to sensitize our Brothers and
sisters living in lagos.

Thank GOD for Mazi Nnamdi Kanu.

All Hail Biafra.

Busolami2015:
what happen?..

JudgementHammer:
Just came accross these pics. U can add urs if u gat

Busolami2015:
cc lalasticlala

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GentleNaaz:
when you finally find the rat