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agarawu23:
And you think they will gv u honest reply?

If their bf na scammer them go tell u

hehehehe

Decker:
You have already asked an open question, so I don't see the essence in quoting a particular set of people.
You threw the question out to every female Nairalander, so in quoting certain people, it gives the impression that your question is just directed at those set of people.

Not @all
Cc. could also mean such person is notified.

Oya Ladies come oooo....

there is a general saying that no humans are perfect and so this brings this question

What do u hate most about the personality of your Boyfriend, Guy, Fiance,Man or Bobo.

Some wud say nagging,lies,complain, sxx, etc....................


Ladies Over to U.


Cc. Lalasticlala,prettythicksome, missmary,.

rhutreez2:
How can i catch my cheating wife?

Op is confused u said Girlfriend right now we are seeing wife.

Mind u. a girl friend is different from a wife

The employment criteria isnt helping matters oooo. and so d wise has to adjust

Expect a counter thread...

bonetalk:
actually, i met one like that but she just left after 1 year and four months in relationship because she felt i didnt consult God before choosing her, she felt our relationship was not based on God's directive. Well i've accepted my fate but i'm deeply wounded because she is acting according to what a preacher and someone is telling her. I even told her that i will retrace my move and make it right but she said no, that she doesn't want to be friend with me because the preacher said she must not near me any longer.

My brother. Just thank God and move on cos u dont know d problems God mait av removed from ur life in advance.

Getting out of a relationship often leaves us bruised, emotionally. Doesn’t matter if it was a mutual or one-sided decision, it is hard and leaves back a thousand memories. The biggest mistake people getting out of a relationship make, is jumping in another relation. This ends up making a huge mess of your past, present and future. Don’t let your past interfere with your present, this is how you do it

6. CLOSURE FROM THE PAST RELATIONSHIP
It is extremely important that you have a final answer to the question ‘can we still make it work?’. This should be black or white, leave no grey areas. Grey areas mean doubts, false hope for getting back together and a load of guilt for being unfair to the person you are committed to, now. Don’t break up over a text or a message on some social networking site, it is an immature act. Be sure and be clear about the fact that it’s done and nothing will make you two come together, again. If you will not have proper closure before you get in another relationship, you will always subconsciously hope for them to be back or it will come to your mind every now and then.

5. SPEND SOME TIME ON YOUR OWN
Jumping into another relationship right after you have broken up just says that you don’t want to be lonely, which is completely normal! No one wants to be alone and miserable but it’s better that you act bravely and spend some time on your own.
It is like an injury, you need to heal yourself properly to be able to a find love again. Also, many a times, I have seen rebound cases going wrong. Why put yourself through another misery?
Save yourselves the guilt, be your own partner for some time.

4. STOP STALKING YOUR EX
Come on, we all have done this at some point. Every break up is followed by regular visits to their Whatsapp Display pictures and their Facebook, Twitter accounts. Mainly, to see if they miss us? If they have moved on? If they are seeing someone? Well, here is the answer to that question, THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO DO ALL OF THAT and SO ARE YOU!
Of course they miss you but there is a reason why you two are not together. I don’t mean that things can’t work out between two people after they have broken up, they surely can. But here, I mean the couple that is toxic for each other and they know they can’t be together.
If it is that clear, then you need to flush this constant want of knowing what’s going on in your ex’s life. Also, wanting that and then at the
same time looking to find someone great is just not right. Make space in your mind and heart so that someone new can come in to your life.
Come on, we all have done this at some point. Every break up is followed by regular visits to their Whatsapp Display pictures and their Facebook, Twitter accounts. Mainly, to see if they miss us? If they have moved on? If they are seeing someone? Well, here is the answer to that question, THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO DO ALL OF THAT and SO ARE YOU!
Of course they miss you but there is a reason why you two are not together. I don’t mean that things can’t work out between two people after they have broken up, they surely can. But here, I mean the couple that is toxic for each other and they know they can’t be together.
If it is that clear, then you need to flush this constant want of knowing what’s going on in your ex’s life. Also, wanting that and then at the same time looking to find someone great is just not right. Make space in your mind and heart so that someone new can come in to your life.

3. GIVE YOURSELF “THE TALK”
It is always the hardest thing to make yourself face the truth. No one can show you the mirror better than your own self. So get ready to give ‘the talk’ to yourself. You think you are over someone and you are ready to go out there again and meet someone new? Then it’s about time that you remind yourself of the mistakes you made in your past relationship. Tell yourself that you’ve learned from them, don’t make them again.
Ask yourself if you have let go of the good and the bad memories of your Ex. Are you at that point where you just don’t care if he/she is with someone or not? If the answer is yes, then you are good to go. Don’t let your past creep into your mind again.

2. DON’T DISCUSS TOO MUCH OF YOUR EX WITH YOUR CURRENT
A true partner is understanding and trusts you completely, but don’t test it too much. Discussing your exes too much is never going to do you any good. Even if you aren’t really praising them for anything, discussing them just means that you haven’t let go of their memories completely. Which, obviously, is never completely possible but you can at least keep things to yourself in this case. If you discuss your Ex too much, soon your partner will start mentioning them in fights and things will just start to get ugly once the comparisons start. So draw the line – no one mentions exes, that’s it!

1. FINALLY, LET GO OF ALL THE GIFTS AND CARDS ETC
Things that had built up your relationship, they need to go. No matter how precious they are, they just need to go. Their existence in your life are like those time capsules that you hide away and forget about. Sooner or later, you will open them and they will remind you of the good and the bad, both of which are not good for your current relationship. So burn, giveaway, throwaway, return or even donate! Do what you got to do to get rid of them. Remember, your exes are in the past because that’s where they belong, don’t drag them in the future.



cc.Lalasticlala..

prettythicksme:
Bro i am lonely

Master Jesus is ur Boyfriend

prettythicksme:
lmao!shebi dey already knw i gat hole down dere but dey no still come!pls help a sister

No worry your self Sister P. u av been consecrated to b a Revd Sister.

Laveda:
Serious toaster? Asin bread toaster?


Personally. I don't know, I just feel if a guy wants something, he's always serious about it, even if he doesn't want a serious relationship with the girl. . . .

For me no matter how serious you are, if I don't like you sorry. . .I can never say yes

And i quickly viewed ur D.P and Im like. wetin b dis

alexispaul:
I have this babe, and we have been for three years. Until when eventually I went for my service year. The distance was SO long that we saw just once n NOTHING HAPPENED and I met with another babe whom we started as friends but who stole my heart in process and I love so much. She too is in a distance relationship cos d guy is abroad n promising her marriage. We have similar stories cos we have met our partners families but the issue is the love is not like before and I doubt loving my initial GF the way I love the new one. We both back from service but haven't seen our initial partner cos of the above reasons. I don't want to go back outta pity. What do I do? Advice please

Infatuation soon d love that binds dis current one will soon die down wth time.

Meanwhile this is what u experience when u practise Long distance relationship...

Exponental:
.........and you expect them to eat the food?

dats my opinion. u talk ur own n waka comot instead of answering our question wth questions.

What will u do if on coming from work one day you find your spouse on Bed wth anoda person bleeping each other..

for me i shall prepare deliciius meal mixed wth otapiapia for them to eat.

matured comments please....

For the Ladies

You caught your guy having Sxx with another Lady.

and for the Man

You Caught your Lady having Sxx with another Man

How will u handle both situation.


For me its gonna be "An eye for an Eye thinggy"

Just Joking...

Mature comments please..
Cc. Lalasticlala,

Its best u end it sharperly cos u av lied from d onset and it mait not really help u in any way.

Na u go ask God to interprete d meaning of d dream to U.

prinsex:
How do i know am being infatuated by luv.....advise pls
i have a boyfriend.....we ve being dating for sum time nw bt i tink am loving him more dan anytin nw cos i call him more dan he does....i always wanna be with him
guys do u tink am being infatuated
cos even when my friends tells me tins dat are not pleasing about him or even wen he does tins unpleasing....my luv for him still grows....just as if i cant live without him


what can i do to control myself.....

Mayb d guy has d code to ur mumu button.
However i think relationship involves mutual commitment. like someone said i think u shud try stop calling and see his reaction.
meanwhile if he fails to call back im available 4 u.lol

Your M.D means well for you meanwhile it culd b a trap..

kashamyanat:
Its not possible. In fact from experience this little misunderstandings have strengthen our luv. It has a way of spiecing the marriage. Just make sure it is well managed i.e no one must knw(especially ur children), it must not last 24hrs(find a way of talking it out), you both must do your usaul daily devotion together(morning N night). Note that in most cases I accept to play the fool and let him be the King just for the sake of peace. Guess what? When ever I go this way he becomes very guilty especially when he is at fault and the next thing is that he will start finding a way of saying sorry either directly or indirectly.

Wow.

Cute babe ..

I think raising a child nor b by power or physical effort. I think its by God's Grace..

I applied as a safety Officer but i have not gotten any mail as at the time of typing this message.

I dont think its advisable leaving for anoda coy on contract basis because of 5K difference. Even with ur present job u can still save an achieve wat u want to achieve rather than moving to an insurance coy which is not even relevant to ur field of study
#My taKE THOUGH

U see ehn.......

As Long as d window has been opened there is no story of Virgin or partial virgin. and im sorry she is no longer..

Hmmm...

I do hear some people say they have neva had any misunderstanding and i wonder if they are all lies or wateva.

More comments please....

To the married and those in a relationship or courtship


How possible is it to have a relationship or Marriage where there would have never been any misunderstanding/quarrel/troubles?

Practically is there anything called a perfect combination?

For those who have experienced this please share to this is possible...

mine is 014044021444444044444

trapQ:
lmao... Cohector

Cutehector:
This op sef be spelling our monikers wrongly
Good advice tho

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