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shokky24:True talk sister. |
evanscheck:Thanks sir.Am even thinking of putting the locks whenever am indoors |
ilobasama:Am taking measures already even though the deed has been done. |
sylvalord:Thanks alot for your reply.My grammar was bad but you got the message.That's the most important thing |
Johnnoah1st:Thanks.I suspect that also.She is telling me that what other guys are killing themselves to have,she is offering it free but am forming |
cocoberry:Abeg this one na matured and responsible lady oo.She came, did what brought her and left.She is just like a sister |
cocoberry:Thanks.not that I couldn't control my tool.Sometimes,I just become emotional and play to her tone.Which I regret afterwards |
ilobasama:You did not get me brother.Not that am sex starve.For the past four months,I decided to observe abstinence and all was going well until she came into the picture. |
evanscheck:Thanks brother.My coursemate came around today to copy some assignment and the lady got angry and went out of the compound |
Jollyjoy:for where? |
cocoberry:Thanks for the advice.Sister I removed my eyes on many occasions,just that she wont let me be at all |
chocolateme:Am sorry sister,I fall hands badly |
Am opening this thread with so much pain and regret in my mind.It all happened in less then two months.This lady came to live with her uncle in the compound I stay.It all started with normal greetings,then please help me open a facebook account and later graduated to coming into my room to watch movies. On this faithful day she asked if am manly alright,but I just laugh it off and demanded to know why she asked that question.Her reply was that since she came into the compound,no lady ever came visiting and she thinks its abnormal for a cute guy like me living all by himself.I just replied its all about self control,not that I dont have urge for sex. On this faithful day,I finally fell for her trap,as we were watching TV she was busy grinding her bumbum against my feet.I was carried away and codedly played along as her friend glued her face to the TV.It ended that way because she have to go to work(4-10pm).After her work,she came into my room and this time around it was just the two of us.The full romancing started until she ask me to stop and said she wanted to tell me something. "I love you and want us to date" was the words that came out of her mouth. I decline the offer and told her I dont want to be in any relationship for now.So we continued with what we were doing until she asked me to penetrate her.Without hesitation I went and picked a condom but she wants it raw,which I objected.After much drama she agried for the condom.I was so unlucky the condom got tear and released inside her.I was so disappointed with myself and promised it wont repeat itself again,Alas I was wrong.It happened again for a couple of times without condom even though I told her the first one was to prove her wrong. Within me I was not happy any longer as I use to,so I told her the adventure was over and no more sex.It did not go down well with her and told me that but we are dating.which I dismissed and told her we were just friends but she has a different opinion that since I slept with her she assumed we were dating already.From that day she became somehow unfriendly and I played the same.Some days later she told me she was suppose to see her period earlier on,but I wasn't disturbed at all by her news and she got more agrier and stop coming to my room to watch movies with her friend.Days later she called and told me that she has seen her period and I said that's good,but she hissed and said that "so you dont want me to carry your baby"My reply was everything has time.After that conversation,I promised my self that nothing will make me enter her city again. Last Tuesday after her work she came into my room.one thing led to the other we started touching ourselves until I removed her hand from my body.She started begging that she loves me,she cant do without me bla bla bla.In my own stupidity I now told her that this is the last round of sex she will ever get from me and she agreed.Took a condom but she will prefer it raw.I said forget it then, with that seriousness written all over me she agreed and we were in the business again until I released and noticed she won't allow me remove my tool from her city and was smilling.With the little energy left,I muscled her and removed my body.Behold nothing was inside the condom and she was smilling that we are going to have a baby.I got angry and ordered out of my room,but she went on her kneels and begged me not to get angry. Now my problem is not her getting pregnant,but getting me infected.Because her phone rings like a call center and am imagining this lady sleeping around with most of these men.She no longer respect me much as she use to do before.I walk her out of my room today but she refused leaving and threatened to shout if I try to force her out.Am tired of all this,she's distracting my studies.My sleeping time is when she choose to come in.All she tells me now is that I have charmed her and cant do without me.Am not feeling anything for her at all,what should I do please? |
Abdulasod:yap |
About submiting but it's showing something like eligibility for blind student.What can I do? Cc: factorial1 |
Hello house,I will really appreciate if someone can offer solution to my problem.My memory card is inactive in all other devices except phones.How can I go about this please? |
Please which one is SC? It never appeared during my biology class |
LadyBoss1:But some parents will not reason that at all.Once you go against their wish,you hear something like I will disown you |
yorubaboiy:She barely knows him.And also she has that principle of not marrying her tribe due to some reasons |
LadyBoss1:Yes.but you cant take away that african factor of respect to the later even if it hurts. |
LadyBoss1:That even the senior sis went through thesame condition.Was given out of her wish |
djeezy:Exactly brother.This should not be happening in this age and time |
LadyBoss1:I asked her to speak to her uncles,but she said they are all in support of the marriage which is against her wish |
Nowadays we see marriages crashing like aeroplanes piloted by depressed pilots.One begins to wonder the depth to which these marriages were founded or built.I am of the school of thought that when it comes to matters of the heart(marriage),parents should restrict or limit the level of their interference to that of advice but not compeling someone against his/her own wish.I was inspired to write this piece because a female friend of mine is in a dilemma.Her parents wants her to marry someone she barely know.As a tradition in her family,she does not have a say on the issue.She just have to accept.Now the big problem is that she is contemplating suicide,running away from home or agree to the marriage and then kill the man thereafter.As I type this,her phone is switched off and am afraid.What advice do you have for this lady? Am running out of ideas already |
Its natural when you still love your ex(mutual breakup).I and my ex have to cut any form of connections totally, because any time we come across each other,the feelings resurfaces again and I feel bad when we bid farewell to each other on all occasions |
