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RomanceRe: Dont Be Carried Away By Her Words by Badfinga(op): 9:14pm On Sep 27, 2015
shokky24:
Op don enter one chance
True talk sister.
RomanceRe: Dont Be Carried Away By Her Words by Badfinga(op): 9:04pm On Sep 27, 2015
evanscheck:
Dats how to do it, just never be alone with her and u wud be fine
Thanks sir.Am even thinking of putting the locks whenever am indoors
RomanceRe: Dont Be Carried Away By Her Words by Badfinga(op): 9:01pm On Sep 27, 2015
ilobasama:
alright. Apologies then. You know whats best for you. Find your way out of there
Am taking measures already even though the deed has been done.
RomanceRe: Dont Be Carried Away By Her Words by Badfinga(op): 8:58pm On Sep 27, 2015
sylvalord:
[color=grey]You definitely have a problem but your problem is not getting infected, it is your poor grammar and your stupidity. You are also an effing liar. Get a life and a brighter grammar punk! Lastly, fvck you for putting me through all that stress[/color]
Thanks alot for your reply.My grammar was bad but you got the message.That's the most important thing
RomanceRe: Dont Be Carried Away By Her Words by Badfinga(op): 7:19pm On Sep 27, 2015
Johnnoah1st:
dat girl was sent on a mission to u, watch out!
Thanks.I suspect that also.She is telling me that what other guys are killing themselves to have,she is offering it free but am forming
RomanceRe: Dont Be Carried Away By Her Words by Badfinga(op): 7:09pm On Sep 27, 2015
cocoberry:
U sha dey look Uche face. Face ur studies!!! No mind her.
Abeg this one na matured and responsible lady oo.She came, did what brought her and left.She is just like a sister
RomanceRe: Dont Be Carried Away By Her Words by Badfinga(op): 7:06pm On Sep 27, 2015
cocoberry:
Keep removing ur eye....... it will help + control ur John Thomas too
Thanks.not that I couldn't control my tool.Sometimes,I just become emotional and play to her tone.Which I regret afterwards
RomanceRe: Dont Be Carried Away By Her Words by Badfinga(op): 7:01pm On Sep 27, 2015
ilobasama:
Her phone rings like call centre, you imagine her sleeping around but you also wanna have a taste right.

You deserve anything you get .
You did not get me brother.Not that am sex starve.For the past four months,I decided to observe abstinence and all was going well until she came into the picture.
RomanceRe: Dont Be Carried Away By Her Words by Badfinga(op): 6:52pm On Sep 27, 2015
evanscheck:
No body actually understands ur story from the comments u are recieving... am sure he means dat he is a nice guy dat wud nt want to hurt d feelings of a lady but wud like to do ur things quietly,now dis is wat u wud do... get a female friend dat wud knock of this fellow from disturbing u, maybe ur relation to avoid bleeping her too... gradually u whd regain courage to resist that idiot
Thanks brother.My coursemate came around today to copy some assignment and the lady got angry and went out of the compound
RomanceRe: Dont Be Carried Away By Her Words by Badfinga(op): 6:48pm On Sep 27, 2015
Jollyjoy:
Sue her.
for where?
RomanceRe: Dont Be Carried Away By Her Words by Badfinga(op): 6:47pm On Sep 27, 2015
cocoberry:
Kai which kind talk be dis? U can't u see pu..ssy and remove ur eyes? U sound naive! Better stop entertaining her at ur place, no more Facebooking n movies pls
Thanks for the advice.Sister I removed my eyes on many occasions,just that she wont let me be at all
RomanceRe: Dont Be Carried Away By Her Words by Badfinga(op): 6:08pm On Sep 27, 2015
chocolateme:
Are you under a charm called "touch and follow?" How many times will something happen to you before you learn from it?
What is so sweet about her infection infested CITY that you can't relocate to another city?
I am not happy with you at and u are lucky that we are not literally close now ehh, the kind slap I for tear you now would have set your brain to factory default. Can you imagine?? Playing with live wire..
Am sorry sister,I fall hands badly
RomanceDont Be Carried Away By Her Words by Badfinga(op): 12:02am On Sep 27, 2015
Am opening this thread with so much pain and regret in my mind.It all happened in less then two months.This lady came to live with her uncle in the compound I stay.It all started with normal greetings,then please help me open a facebook account and later graduated to coming into my room to watch movies.
On this faithful day she asked if am manly alright,but I just laugh it off and demanded to know why she asked that question.Her reply was that since she came into the compound,no lady ever came visiting and she thinks its abnormal for a cute guy like me living all by himself.I just replied its all about self control,not that I dont have urge for sex.
On this faithful day,I finally fell for her trap,as we were watching TV she was busy grinding her bumbum against my feet.I was carried away and codedly played along as her friend glued her face to the TV.It ended that way because she have to go to work(4-10pm).After her work,she came into my room and this time around it was just the two of us.The full romancing started until she ask me to stop and said she wanted to tell me something. "I love you and want us to date" was the words that came out of her mouth.
I decline the offer and told her I dont want to be in any relationship for now.So we continued with what we were doing until she asked me to penetrate her.Without hesitation I went and picked a condom but she wants it raw,which I objected.After much drama she agried for the condom.I was so unlucky the condom got tear and released inside her.I was so disappointed with myself and promised it wont repeat itself again,Alas I was wrong.It happened again for a couple of times without condom even though I told her the first one was to prove her wrong.
Within me I was not happy any longer as I use to,so I told her the adventure was over and no more sex.It did not go down well with her and told me that but we are dating.which I dismissed and told her we were just friends but she has a different opinion that since I slept with her she assumed we were dating already.From that day she became somehow unfriendly and I played the same.Some days later she told me she was suppose to see her period earlier on,but I wasn't disturbed at all by her news and she got more agrier and stop coming to my room to watch movies with her friend.Days later she called and told me that she has seen her period and I said that's good,but she hissed and said that "so you dont want me to carry your baby"My reply was everything has time.After that conversation,I promised my self that nothing will make me enter her city again.
Last Tuesday after her work she came into my room.one thing led to the other we started touching ourselves until I removed her hand from my body.She started begging that she loves me,she cant do without me bla bla bla.In my own stupidity I now told her that this is the last round of sex she will ever get from me and she agreed.Took a condom but she will prefer it raw.I said forget it then, with that seriousness written all over me she agreed and we were in the business again until I released and noticed she won't allow me remove my tool from her city and was smilling.With the little energy left,I muscled her and removed my body.Behold nothing was inside the condom and she was smilling that we are going to have a baby.I got angry and ordered out of my room,but she went on her kneels and begged me not to get angry.
Now my problem is not her getting pregnant,but getting me infected.Because her phone rings like a call center and am imagining this lady sleeping around with most of these men.She no longer respect me much as she use to do before.I walk her out of my room today but she refused leaving and threatened to shout if I try to force her out.Am tired of all this,she's distracting my studies.My sleeping time is when she choose to come in.All she tells me now is that I have charmed her and cant do without me.Am not feeling anything for her at all,what should I do please?
EducationRe: Mtn Foundation Scholarship 2015/2016 by Badfinga: 4:17pm On Aug 29, 2015
Abdulasod:
hello bro.... Were you able to enter your olevel mathematics?
yap
EducationRe: Mtn Foundation Scholarship 2015/2016 by Badfinga: 2:43pm On Aug 29, 2015
About submiting but it's showing something like eligibility for blind student.What can I do?
Cc: factorial1
Science/TechnologyProblem With Memory Card by Badfinga(op): 10:44am On Aug 05, 2015
Hello house,I will really appreciate if someone can offer solution to my problem.My memory card is inactive in all other devices except phones.How can I go about this please?
HealthRe: Is it Possible for a AA genotype to give birth to SC.. Are They My Parents? by Badfinga: 4:38pm On Jun 26, 2015
Please which one is SC? It never appeared during my biology class
RomanceRe: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Badfinga(op): 11:01am On Jun 13, 2015
LadyBoss1:
Nah. ,,, trust me
Is it her uncle or her parents that will be in that marriage.. Anyway its not by force .. Isit men we should fear or God ..
But some parents will not reason that at all.Once you go against their wish,you hear something like I will disown you
RomanceRe: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Badfinga(op): 10:52am On Jun 13, 2015
yorubaboiy:
if d guy loves her she should learn to love him back.......
She barely knows him.And also she has that principle of not marrying her tribe due to some reasons
RomanceRe: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Badfinga(op): 10:49am On Jun 13, 2015
LadyBoss1:
Nah wah in this modern day and age .. But nigerians are not known for arrange marriages tho ... Anyway its cuz they let them
Yes.but you cant take away that african factor of respect to the later even if it hurts.
RomanceRe: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Badfinga(op): 10:41am On Jun 13, 2015
LadyBoss1:
Then she should tell them if they are so passionate about the guy .. They can marry him undecided
That even the senior sis went through thesame condition.Was given out of her wish
RomanceRe: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Badfinga(op): 10:37am On Jun 13, 2015
djeezy:
Dude this is 21st century and people should be allowed to exercise their liberty free from constraints as long as it posses no threat to another. Marriage is very delicate and as such requires the exercise of our own will and volition. Furthermore getting married is not compulsory.
Exactly brother.This should not be happening in this age and time
RomanceRe: Some Parents And Forced Marriage by Badfinga(op): 10:32am On Jun 13, 2015
LadyBoss1:
Well if she doesn't love the guy then she shouldn't marry him
Its that simple

Her parents would cant chain her down or force her .. Shebi she will say i dont .. Finish .
Y would she kill her self when its not like she 16, she needs to put her foot down n stop acting like a child .. ... My opinion oh lol
I asked her to speak to her uncles,but she said they are all in support of the marriage which is against her wish
RomanceSome Parents And Forced Marriage by Badfinga(op): 9:19am On Jun 13, 2015
Nowadays we see marriages crashing like aeroplanes piloted by depressed pilots.One begins to wonder the depth to which these marriages were founded or built.I am of the school of thought that when it comes to matters of the heart(marriage),parents should restrict or limit the level of their interference to that of advice but not compeling someone against his/her own wish.I was inspired to write this piece because a female friend of mine is in a dilemma.Her parents wants her to marry someone she barely know.As a tradition in her family,she does not have a say on the issue.She just have to accept.Now the big problem is that she is contemplating suicide,running away from home or agree to the marriage and then kill the man thereafter.As I type this,her phone is switched off and am afraid.What advice do you have for this lady? Am running out of ideas already
RomanceRe: When You See An Ex by Badfinga: 8:31am On Jun 13, 2015
Its natural when you still love your ex(mutual breakup).I and my ex have to cut any form of connections totally, because any time we come across each other,the feelings resurfaces again and I feel bad when we bid farewell to each other on all occasions

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