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Biglittlelois:
This is the pure undiluted truth, what she said about yoruba men is 100%.

Time is 11:28pm and you just ruined my sleep. You agree to a opinion that we are more narcissistic than taking care of our women?, and by extension, that I am more narcissistic than I would take care of you?
That's some hell of a wierd thoughts popping outta your head. It couldn't have been more distasteful.

Ishilove:
This is Africa. Dick Double standards is the oil that runs the machinery of our societywomen

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Biglittlelois:
Lol, i'm good thanks

Dozed off. Gudnite dearie.

Biglittlelois:
Not really, how are you?

Could be better with a warm hug...Lol
And you?

Biglittlelois:
How do you know that?

Do I need to be more clairvoyant to know what you are? you're hiding behind those smiles.

Mizwisdom:
Need men's acknowledgment for what exactly? Whether you think we are equal or not doesn't stop females from achieving things albeit through any means possible. History has shown severally, that if you want to ruin a man, send a woman to him. You better be careful with your superiority message, even greater men have been destroyed by the so called female cowards. Men are not superior to women, it's a fact, it doesn't matter what you or your kind thinks. Bye!

The pride of a woman; how much of a woman she is, determines how much she can destroy. We aren't wrong after all.
Best of luck in your quest.
Bye Felicia.

Biglittlelois:
Lol

Your smiles is rather cold, not charming.

Biglittlelois:
That's why i said he's delusional, he talks without thinking.

ok. he doesn't tag along your sentiments.

Mizwisdom:
Yes, it's a natural configuration for sexists and chauvinists to use such words when describing the female gender. I don't think any sane woman will accept the use of cowardice to describe her quality, if you think rebuffing such statements means she needs male validation then your thinking is highly flawed

it'd rather be flawed to have an imaginary picture where none exists. No sexist or chauvinist created the natural order of existing gender configuration, "they" simply exploit it to assert their superiority/ego. For this to have a sniff of a change, y'all still need men's acknowledgement, no matter how high your status. The difference seems to be the same, even though women giving their best shot at changing the general narratives.

Mizwisdom:
If Fayose had posted it on this forum, I would have told him off. Being physically weaker doesn't make us cowards, he was trying to make reference to a coward and he chose to use ladies instead, it shows how dull he is, you don't have to be like him.

I'm less convinced by this rhetoric. I imagine he didn't pull it off the thin air, it must have been a natural configuration.. but the more women try to rebuff, the more they're convinced they need a man's validation..

Mizwisdom:
In what circumstances do ladies chicken out? senseless sexist statement

Far less sexist than Fayose's comparing weakness to ladies. Women often generally agree to being the weaker sex and you couldn't help it.

Biglittlelois:
Fayose is delusional

"We kept the party together and strong when most men became ladies".. Isn't this statement a prejudice against women(sexism)?. Do women by general concept, truly represent weakness

Biglittlelois:
Nothing really!!! nothing to spill, i get you now.

Lol.. hurry up & come over

Biglittlelois:
Really? okay

Lol.. Lois don't make me laff. You can't seem to wrap something around your head, spill it out, Lol.

kilofe kin se fun e?

Biglittlelois:
Lol okay

what was the emergency about?

Hmm..hmm.. "Per so nal" . When did you start prying? Lol.. I noticed my device fell off to the floor and that was the last I could remember.

Biglittlelois:
I guess checking out stuffs took most of your time, later.

I had a personal emergency, I was unable to get back to you. It wasn't intentional.

Pls ignore jobless nosy parkers.

Biglittlelois:
She's reading?? weird, are you not in lagos?

Lol @ weird.. Lagos ain't immune to cold, innit?
Checking out a couple of stuffs, causing a little delay. Are you early to bed?.. that bed!

Biglittlelois:
Hmmm, no wonder, say hi to her too

she's reading you too.. it's quiet cold down here but I'm dealing.

Biglittlelois:
Twas good, how was yours?

Could be better.. A female friend says hi.

Biglittlelois:
I'm ready to hear you out

LoL!.. How sweet. how was ur day?

Biglittlelois:
You!!! and you conveniently avoided answering my question abi? ok ooo.

Aww!. It's behind time, the right moment was gone.. your mind is far away.

Biglittlelois:
You bailing again? what you did last night, can we call a truce? this is not getting anywhere.

I need to sleep now, had a long day. If you need me you know how to find me.

Biglittlelois:
Basics how? honestly, i was still fuming from last night, the way you were like "i'm off to bed" when i wasnt done little things get to me.

If I have to be as fuming as you are, I should not be engaging you tonite. Maybe I need to retire to bed.

Biglittlelois:
Okay, first, why were you unavailable for a long time?

I was expecting this since morning but you wouldn't, not until I mentioned you 2nite.. You don't seem to understand basics.. too bad, babe.

Perez won't pay a pensioner this much but only the Old lady would.

Biglittlelois:
About you? seems like i was nagging last night, decided to let it go.

I'm a grown ass man, remember?.. talk some more sense into me, will you?

Biglittlelois:
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Can see you've made up your mind..

Biglittlelois:
Only care about myself? Picture this; we chat, you stopped for 2 months, then you chat up, said you had a situation, (how do expect me to ask for an explanation, just like that? be sincere, would you have told me?), then you went off for 3 months, if you really care, you would tell me at that time that you wont be available, i would understand, shows you dont care.

If you asked, I would have told you. so much for your reluctance.
I need to catch some sleep, wake me up tomorrow, we ain't done.

Biglittlelois:
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Going mute mode is your best option right?

omooba969:
You've gone overboard sir, try and treat her with care & respect.

Wetin concern me sef...abeg no vex oga.

cc Biglittlelois

No sir, I simply can't sleep on it without being cleared. She has my respect but I'm in doubt about hers.

Biglittlelois:
Oh so it's now a competition smh!!! when u did not respond, i chatted you up, no reply, while you've been online couple of times after, i felt bad and i had thoughts then i locked up, months later you chat me up all nice n all, it's not done that way, not cool of you, not cool at all

Must have forgotten I told you there was a situation demanding my attention. You didn't bother asking, I didn't bother explaining either.
Before you come out hitting me straight in the face the next time, make sure you do not only care about yourself.

Biglittlelois:
A little strange? Didnt see my outbursts coming? you want to continue from where we stopped? just like that? are you trying to be funny? you demand? DEMAND? wow, i do not want to have the impression you are like a ..... kind of guy but you're making it hard, very hard for me, there will be no further talks with you, you switched off just like that after knowing who i am, you cant just switch back on at your own convenience, nahhhh,

Who does this?.. you've had the wrong impression of a genuine situation. Was there ever a switching off?.. Help clear my head, Lois.
If my switching back on gives you so much worries, what is your own convenience at switching back on?

"Is this what you meant by disappear?"
I hope not, that'd be so wrong of you.