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joebeckz:
hahahaha, soon you will see them on FTP in their kind of thread, NL mods can send annoying threads to FP sha. so them de follow the trend but i wonder whether them get work?

seun and them nose o

Nairaland moderators are predictable than anything in this world, we don know your kind.

joebeckz:
you will not find Lady F and introvert being first to comment on such thread, only on Flavour do this, chidimma did that, ladies are this, guys are that.
not bashing ooo, just an observation

na soo o.. But thank God for the moderators for this one, interesting and some of those posts that made nairaland what it is and not that kind post for lady f and and co

Happiness87:
the lady is accused of arranging her kidnapping, which her husband attested to

issokey

Wike why now?

davien:
Everything isn't as black and white as the op believes,in a relationship,sex doesn't necessarily end it...and it isn't just men that request for sex first in a relationship(i sure didn't)...neither does it make a man something less for requesting for it because he can only proceed if you consent to it.

Most times sex could be a factor to consider before marrying someone before it then becomes a factor after marriage that'll lead to insecurities and promiscuity.

if you didn't many do and you know it. The post is referring to the majority and not the minority

Congrats

niyi20:
Waiting dey happen Nairaland just dull today the mods are not putting interesting topics on FP

na so i see am too, make the moderators sha no destroy mr seun's business

Mr seun keep watch on your moderators... We will be shouting nigerian bloggers are not unique, yet the root is from Nairaland. Well, when this is the kinda post that will enter frontpage why wunt bloggers copy and search around for trash since they know it is this kinda post your moderators like.. I pray nairaland will not lose its credibility very soon..

Happybday to him sha.

IsiCaterpillar:
Stale... i weep for Nairaland @seun what is happening to your mods?

this days they don't put relevant topics on frontpage but trash, archaic and sometimes copied post by their own friends... Everything in nigeria don turn to man-know-man not excluding nairaland frontpage

SaiBuharii:
I wonder when Nigerian press will start being unique. This picture was online few years back, stating the girl went for an impromptu job test on her wedding day.

maybe adsense ad don dey for newspapers too, following most Nigerian blog style...

adadadon:
People no dey post for this kain post ??
well wriiten

because the moderators of frontpage post on nairaland dey over feed us on this kinda post.. They don't even help unique bloggers.

We hear

missKiffy:
I didn't say all nah

haba! U generalize am na

ahamonyeka:
what kind of comment is that?

some people are just heartless, don't blame him, just ignore.

nosiebaba:
We share your plight but this is not only about mtn call center agents this as about contract staffing generally, MODERN DAY SLAVERY in Nigeria, an Indian or lebanese that doesn't knw any better will be employed as an expatriate earning jumbo pay and unreasonably huge allowances. We have a voice and it's sad to know that blogs that we have given the power to make our voice reach a louder audience would rather post about useless rumors of how a girl that died is a runs girl when Kylie jenner wears a swimsuit or if Kim kardashan if going to divorce kanye west such useless things that cannot add value to our lives just to have traffic on their blogs, please nl and other blogs we need to let Nigerians know that after being subjected to a lifetime of schooling home and abroad we are subjected to this inhumane issue of contract staffing like we don't deserve anything good in our lives, if we do this, the message will go viral and get to the appropriate authorities.
Thanks

all to get adsense pay. But the fact is that Nigerians find it hard to read things that are not of the nature of those you mentioned. They studied the market and so far they know that is what will fetch them the money why wunt they join the crowd.

On the other hand, those bloggers you mentioned didn't allow ppl to notice blogs that doesn't copy and paste because the idea is that almost all nigerian blogs have the same content meanwhile, there are other blogs with strictly original contents and the owners don't really care abt adsense or what have you but because of the passion they have for blogging.

I am not promoting my blog in anyway, but if i have the permission by the OP i can post it on my blog, if not my own original post then a post on permission is strictly what i do even with events on my blog...

missKiffy:
That's true, if she can send a mail to Linda ikeji and fortunately for her Linda bolgs about it, other blogs will carry the story cos dey do copy stories from her. Hopefully it will get to the right channel

you are wrong not all Nigerian bloggers copy and paste.

http://bamisepeters.com/2015/08/helpful-tips-on-how-to-have-great.html

It is everyone's dream to have a great and fantastic relationship, but it takes a lot of sacrifices, determination, commitment for it to be actualized.

Any relationship that will be successful must be ready to climb thorns.

The below are some of the things to do to have a great relationship...

1. God first will make it stronger and last

2. Incessant communication

3. Shorn gossips

4. Undoubting trust

5. Appreciate each other

6. Ready for times of difficulty

7. Be ready to say i am sorry and to forgive

8. Shorn jealousy

9. Give no excuse when he/she needs you

10. Be proud of him/her

11. Making him/her happy anyway you can

12. Ready to support your partner

13. Work hard to get the resources to sustain the relationship

The above are the points, you can read the full article by clicking the source.

Please feel free to add yours to the list and your comments/criticism will be of help.

http://bamisepeters.com/2015/08/helpful-tips-on-how-to-have-great.html

Abisoyeodebunmi:
And i no won call lalasticlala and Ishilove plus farano and Rocktation before o

i don accept my fate as lalasticlala and the rest no like my handwritings, mayb they will giv me frontpage when i write on how to become a blogger sha... (lol)

It is a long one, please bare with me..

Through conceptual clarification i could deduce that "relationship is the way in which two or more people, groups, countries, etc., talk to, behave toward, and deal with each other.
It is also a romantic or sexual friendship between two people: the way in which two or more people or things are connected".

Sex on the other hand is the "physical activities in which people touch each other's bodies, kiss each other, etc. :physical activities that is related to and often and often includes sexual intercourse".

Many youths of today have likened relationship to be sex which shouldn't be so.

Relationship and sex might work hand-in-hand but it shouldn't be incorporated at the wrong time.

The opportunity for courtship is being abused on a daily basis just because we try to make relationship work through sex.

So many young girls have involved themselves in premarital sex which has led to unwanted pregnancy which some will abort while some will be forced to give birth at a tender age.

Everything in life is by stage. Yes, it is not possible you wake up one day and conclude that you want to get married without having someone you are dating that you have known for some months.

But the fact is that relationship and sex are two different things that should only be linked at the appropriate time.

So many men made their lady believe that if the lady did not have sex with them then she doesn't love them.

See, if you want to love, nobody will stop you from loving anybody, but don't pretend to love when your ultimate goal is to get under her.

Don't make her believe that sex makes relationship stronger.

Premarital sex doesn't make any relationship stronger, it kills the relationship especially when the intention is not for marriage.

Even at a stage, couples that didn't involve in premarital sex get tired of having sex with each other, then if that is the case, are you not making it a bit faster to lose thirst for sex?

I think ladies of this generation should have become wiser enough to decide about their life earlier than 18years.

Some men will only have sex with a lady ones and that's all. You should be able to keep your precious self away from the beast in men.

Many men out their are no more interested in staying with a woman for so long, they will tell you they don't like eating a particular food twice but love to eat different kinds of food.

They will come to you and give you all the sweet words and you will gladly accept them and even release your body to them like sheep without Shepherd.

You are the only one that can destroy yourself. You only go into wrong hands if you did not say yes to the right person.

During courtship you are free to decide if you can cope with each other or not, and you can choose to continue or discontinue your relationship.

But now a days, ladies find it difficult to leave the beast they are into relationship with simply because they have engaged in sex which has made her emotionally attached with the man.

That way, it will not be easy for her to say no when she should have said it.

Some men change immediately they have sex with their lady. The sex will automatically be an eye opener for them, they will want to explore more, thereby exposing them to any other things in skirt.

I am not saying it is not good to introduce sex in your relationship, but it is necessary to introduce it at the appropriate time to avoid the series of disadvantages associated with it.

It makes relationship stronger but this is for the couple and perhaps serious minded couple-to-be. Biblically it is not for those who are not married, in fact, it is a sin.

Some men are only interested in getting under a lady, but how will you decipher the true man from the fake? You can be safe if you keep your precious part till the right time.

Those that are even married can get divorced anytime let alone those that are not.

Though, some ladies are the cause of their own fall. They cannot do without sex, and so many reasons got them so attracted to that which we might not blame them for some, while some are due to covetousness and love of money.

Sex in courtship can mar your marital life more than it can make it.
Be wise and never give yourself room to regret your impatient.


Please your comments, criticism, likes and share will only encourage me, i will be so glad to see them coming...

http://bamisepeters.com/2015/08/sex-will-make-your-relationship.html

http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/sadness-is-part-of-life-but-you-can.html

Life is not bed of roses that you will expect to be happy always. 

Even the richest people on earth are sad at a moment or the other even with their riches.

Weather you like it or not sadness is one of those things that makes life what it is because you cannot be happy always no matter how hard you try to be. 

Wealth doesn't guarantee 100% happiness. Mood at times might make your day miserable. 

Your parent can also be the source of your sadness. You don't have any choice when it comes to that, you just have to overcome the sadness.

At times it might be your friends, loved ones or anything, you just have to be ready for it though we don't pray for it but it is inevitable.

Whenever you are sad it is necessary you keep away from some things so as not to aggravate the situation. And you can also change the mood with some things faster than you can imagine with some other things. 

Some of the things to/not do to and to switch mood are as follows:

1. Look for a quiet place to relax and possibly think about solutions to the sadness. 

2. Try to do some of the things you love doing.

3. Listen to your best choice of music, it cools your mind off any worries or issues related to that sadness. 

4. Get your confidant and express your feelings as related to the sadness. 

5. Try not to think about what made you sad, but think about those things that are responsible for your happiness. 

6. Take a nap.

7. Go out, visit a friend or to any other relaxation center.

One or more of the above tips will be very helpful to ease you of any sadness, try it today.

PLEASE ADD YOURS...

http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/sadness-is-part-of-life-but-you-can.html

It's women this time. Please sorry its a long one... http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/eliminate-your-fears-and-doubts-about.html

The essence of woman in the society cannot be over emphasized starting from their description by God as the "helper" (Gen 2:.

Though we might say woman caused the downfall of the first man (Adam), but that is not enough reason why you must be doubtful or fearful of women.

All men are not the same so also, all women are not the same.

The powers that lies within women are more than what we can imagine. 

Women can give birth to someone that looks like them after 9 months tommy swollen and other depressing symptoms that comes along with it.

Though there are several kinds of women. We have those who have sworn with devil to be tool of devil.

We have the other kind that will never share anything in common with the devil, those are the real women.

When you have a woman it will definitely show to the world you have a woman.

The future of a child be it boy or girl depends on the effort the woman can put into training the child.

Little wonder they say in my part of the world that "if a child is good he/she is that of the father. But if a child isn't good, he/she is that of the mother", this is because of the enormous duty given to the woman to be the molder of a child's life.

You just need to eliminate your fears and doubts about woman because  they can be the source of any man's power.

The power am talking about here isn't that of the spiritual powers, it is that of wealth, fame and what have you.

So many men have become successful courtesy of their woman. The influence of woman in any man's career shouldn't be undermined even though it is little.

Though women can be troublesome at times, but when you have a good woman you will understand and know how to tolerate her in her troubled time.

Yes, they can make or mar any man, this is the more reason why they must not be looked down on.

A man who doesn't have the mind of cheating on her woman should doubt or fear any woman. No woman loves rivalry not even those that are being thought on daily basis that their man can have several wives.

The only way to see the other side of any woman is through cheating. The rule is cheat and don't be caught, once you are caught it is advisable that you don't eat at home cause she might just poison you.

Don't be surprised if those women who have turned bad was as a result of an unfaithful man despite all her efforts towards making him great.

Some even swear to be devil's tool just for their husband to be great in life and be the best among their peers.

If you are not ready to cheat you will enjoy your woman if she isn't the one that have sworn for the devil to be tool.

Behind every successful husband is a brilliant and ever supporting woman.

Education doesn't guarantee a good woman, so don't think if a woman is educated then she will be a good woman while those that are not will be lesser and inferior.

In fact, those that are not educated are one of the best set of woman especially when they have an educated husband. 

They tend to aspire for more. They are economical and less materialistic which makes their man to be greater financially.

I am not saying it is good that a woman isn't educated. Education is good and self dependent is better. I think when a woman don't depend on a man it makes the man to be happy always and the relationship will last.

You have heard a lot of negatives of woman, you shouldn't conclude that they are all the same.

Life is full of negative and positive, haven't you heard about the positive influence of women around the globe? 

Read my post on the power of women here. Why not share the thought of having the positive kind of woman who will shape your future.

What ever you believe in will make or mar you, be positive and eliminate fears and doubt about women because their powers when you have one in your home cannot be over emphasized.

http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/eliminate-your-fears-and-doubts-about.html

http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/ways-to-cherish-those-who-loves-you.html?m=1

Do you think it is easy for you to be loved?

If you are lucky to be truly loved then you must respect those that loves you and cherish every moment of their show of affections to you and do all you can to keep them.

There are several ways to cherish the one that loves you unconditionally. These includes;

1. Giving them the opportunity to have a say in your decisions.

2. Giving them surprise pack as often as you can

3. Not comparing them with another

4. Being proud of them no matter their condition or flaws

5. Loving everything around them

6. Protecting them


The list is incomplete? Feel free to Add yours


Check to read full write-up here... http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/ways-to-cherish-those-who-loves-you.html

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Thank you

I think human beings should start learning to respect others' choice.

The obvious is that we cannot view things the same way. The rate at which we love or hate something differs.

God created everything in the universe. Man, animals, plants etc.

Among human beings two cannot be the same. We have cases of identical twins and some situations whereby they will say human look alike.

Of all this cases, there will definitely be something that will make one to be different from the other.

Even some parts of human body God created are not equal. Animals too that are twins or even quadruplets don't look completely alike.

Here are list of choices we view differently :

1. Choice of profession

2. Choice of course of study in higher institutions

3.Choice of religion

4. Choice of spouse

5. Choice of material things

Difference in choice of some that is highlighted here are the source of crisis in some countries. Let's learn to respect other's choice for peace.

Please feel free to add

Read full article from the source: http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/don-blame-my-choice-respect-my-decision.html?m=1

Cc: lalasticlala

Life is full of ups and downs, you can only survive when you don't allow the downs of it to weigh you down.

There are some mistakes we make which we can avoid in order to reduce the downs we ought to experience in life. 

Some of them are:

1. When you don't put God first

2. When you expect humans not to fail

3. Lack of planning

4. Running away from risk

5. In hurry to start making money


Please you are free to add yours...

You can click on the link to see full article.... http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/some-avoidable-mistakes-that-makes-us.html

firstEVA:
that would not be enough.

lol, ok make una negotiate am then

firstEVA:
i use blackberry. i hardly download. apart from Nairaland, facebook, lindaikeji, google and my emails, then once in a while some random things, i hardly use the internet.

if that is the case pls beg ur network provider to b giving u 300meg instead of 2g [

Sorry if you feel its long--- http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/ways-to-get-rid-of-wrong-beliefs-that.html?m=1


Human beings have turned slaves to their beliefs, thereby making them derail from what they actually are or ought to be. 

Our belief is so powerful more than we can envisage, and if we are not careful we will remain in a particular level when others are moving forward. 

Some set of people will say that because in their family then don't go to higher institutions therefore, his/her own possibility of gaining admission into University is so unimaginable. 

Some will also say that in their own family they don't get good jobs, because of that he/she need not border him/herself looking for one. 

Some will say, they are barren in their family, so, they need not get their own man let alone having their dream children. 

Have you forgotten that there is something called "first"?

In everything there is a first, because those you are comparing yourself with didn't get it right doesn't mean you will not also get it right. 

Circumstances and what you put in differs. The level at which they stopped might be the beginning of your own strength. 

Don't let yourself be tied down by wrong beliefs, remember, you are not them and neither were you destined equally. 

You have to act at times as if you are different from some set of people you are comparing yourself with. 

This issue is like someone in the university going out with those that doesn't take their education seriously. They do all sorts when they suppose to be preparing hard for distinction or at least credit, tell me, is such person not preparing to fail? 

Though he might have plan B towards attaining good grades, but the possibility of such person's failure is more than the success rate.

We have seen some other people who still go out with those very brilliant in school, yet, they failed, it happens. You need to ask such people what they did wrong apart from what they do when they have their friends around. 

You need to be positive in your beliefs.

You need to aim high and work harder towards achieving your aim(s)

Don't be positive minded like your predecessors, and don't get tired or discouraged easily which might be where someone else got it all wrong.

Don't hold yourself down with bad belief because you are destined for greatness. 

Conclusively, you must not do anything without acknowledging your creator(God) be it Christian or Islam. He might be the only factor others didn't put into consideration that is causing failure. 

When you have tried every available links and you still didn't get it right, just try your God the author and finisher of faith. 

http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/ways-to-get-rid-of-wrong-beliefs-that.html?m=1

dearpreye:
Considering where I'm coming from, it's cool for ME!

issokey ngbayen